Home: Ask a Love Psychic: Answers From July, 2010

James

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From an early age James has been aware of the energy and feelings of others, the first aspect of being an intuitive. The powers were so strong it prompted him to be of service to others. Through 33 years of practice and professional study he has the ability to guide people through the paths of their lives, the ups and downs, the realistic issues, surrounding relationships and love, career, money and spirituality. His techniques include clairvoyance, tarot, astrology and Native American totems and animal guides. He looks forward to speaking to you soon so that you may begin your path to insight.

Love Questions: Posted June 28th, 2010.

I had a special relationship/friendship with D. We did so much together. We laughed, cried, danced and most of all we were always there for each other. He is now in a relationship with someone else, which I think is toxic and is only there because he feels sorry for her. Will this last and will I finally get my friend back? I miss him so much. Thanks.

-Grace

Grace, you will always have a special relationship with D., and I know he has had the same positive experiences with you. D. is already starting to see what is happening to his relationships with his support systems (Friends, family, you, etc.) He will make the changes he needs to make soon (By the end of summer.) I do feel that you will have a chance to rekindle your friendship with D. However, right now it's important that he decides on his own and on his own time. Have patience, Grace. It's already starting to happen.

-James


Dear James,

I have been in an on again off again relationship with M. for about a year. We broke up in March and I haven't talked to him or heard from him since then. I'm just wondering if he will come back around or will I hear from him in a text message? Please help!

-LaDonna

LaDonna,

I feel that you and M. keep going from romance to reality, over and over (a lot of couples go through this). You have a great influence on this man; you make him feel good and impressive; however he does not feel very impressive right now. He will contact you soon and explain what is happening in his life that is creating distance. I feel that he does not want to burden you with this now (by the way its not about you). Right now you and he are doing the same thing, looking at the relationship you had in detail. I can see you both miss each other.

-James

Hi James,

I have been in a relationship for about six months now. I want to know if he's the one I'm going to marry or should I just move on? Thank you for your time!

-Shelby

Greetings Shelby,

I feel that right now you and this man do not see the future without each other being there, however you don't see it in the same way. You will know very soon (within a month) if you are starting to see things in a similar manner, but if either one of you confronts the other with this question (Is there commitment in our future?) I feel you may scare each other away. I advise you to let things evolve in a slow relaxed pace. Part of the fun of dating is that you have time to prepare and enjoy, which is the pattern of growth.

-James


Love Questions: Posted June 1st, 2010.

Dear James,

I have been in a relationship with Matthew for more than a year now. It has been mostly a long-distance relationship though we have spent some time together. It seems like he is warm one week and then he's cold. Do you see any future with him, and if so, when? He is just so different from me, and I am not sure if things would work out.

-Marianne

Hi Marianne,

My advice is to give the relationship a bit more time. I sense that Mathew is feeling pretty much the same, but also that you are about to make a choice, to continue the relationship or let it fade. So I feel he is being confusing, to create a confusion within you. In other words, buying time. Long distance relationships can work, and can make you closer. Each one of you is sensing that your situation has entered reality, and takes a bit more effort: but can be worth-it. Let it grow naturally Marianne, at a steady pace.

-James

Hi James,

I have been recently dating a guy name Bo and I am a bit confused as to where I stand with him. When we are together I feel very close to him but his communication is not very good. I would like to know where we are going with the relationship. I don't want to invest a lot of time with him if he isn't feeling the same way. What are your thoughts Do you see things moving forward and us getting closer?

-Kathy

One thing we all have in common is that nobody wants to waste there time. I feel you are both looking for each other to define the relationship, please don't fall into this trap. Most couples usually fall apart at this stage. My advice to you would be to, create what you and Bo want. There has to be substance for communication (something to talk about) Topics: I suggest a PowWow, a carnival or a horse race, anything active (Bo is attracted to activity) By the way Kathy, this is one of the reasons he is attracted to you. You will get closer being more in touch with each other when you start having some fun and at this point, alone, only with each other. He may seem outgoing, but Bo is also a bit shy. Enjoy.

-James

Hello James,

I am not with the man I love and haven't had any contact with him since Jan. I want to know if he will he realize his mistake and come back to me soon? Will he change?

-Misha

Misha,

I don't feel he thinks he made a mistake. His goal is to make the heart fonder. He feels you will most likely see things more in his way. It is not a good thing to make anyone worry about you, when they know you care. I feel your destiny is to give your heart and love, only to the person who can give it back in the same way. Observe the next two Months, and then you will be able to Know for sure. Also, People do not get closer to each other by asking someone to change. This is only true in the movies.

Thanks, James.


Love Questions: Posted May 24th, 2010.

I would like to know about my current love relationship. Will we last and does he really love me?

-Asuzena

I feel he is being honest with you. However, he will define the relationship by the successes in his life. He views your current relationship as growing and positive, if he feels good, feels secure and does well in his chosen career. By the way Asuzena, he feels you define the relationship also in this way. Yes, this relationship can last and evolve quickly.

-James

I just found out that the person that I cared so much for was seeing someone else. How do I make him regret ever doing that and is there romance in my future even if its not with him?

-Erika

There is no need to do anything to make him regret his actions; I feel he already does. Erika on TV and at the movies we always see couples getting closer to one another, by asking the other to give something up. In real life this does not really happen. I don't feel that you did anything to cause this. You both need to step back a little and figure out if you want the same thing out of your relationship. I feel you can regain the trust but it will take time. The relationship has been taken to a higher level, even if it just means friendship.

-James

I recently met a woman named Karina and I really like her. Do you see a future for us?

-Eddie

Eddie, I feel the attraction is there and also the potential for Love. However, I feel the defining factor is commonality. It would be in my opinion, essential to have a common interest. For example: If both of you liked yoga, gardening or playing guitar. Maybe even raising a puppy together. Then I feel the relationship will evolve. Progress will be seen by both of you in time.

-James

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