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James

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From an early age James has been aware of the energy and feelings of others, the first aspect of being an intuitive. The powers were so strong it prompted him to be of service to others. Through 33 years of practice and professional study he has the ability to guide people through the paths of their lives, the ups and downs, the realistic issues, surrounding relationships and love, career, money and spirituality. His techniques include clairvoyance, tarot, astrology and Native American totems and animal guides. He looks forward to speaking to you soon so that you may begin your path to insight. 

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Love Questions: Posted April 14th, 2014

I had held out hope for my ex and me, I thought we ALWAYS had something special and that time could stand the test of many things! I’m trying to let go. Right now I think he is with someone who he has been back and forth with for a few years. In those few years he was back and forth with me until recently. We were intimate several times before him saying he enjoyed the sex but there was no love behind it. He didn't say he was in love with the other woman but he is intimate with her! His feelings for her go back and forth and as early as July and he was with few other women! He is also bipolar and medicated but not sure if he is having some break through manic episodes. A few coincidences from before have come out. I guess my question is are we soul mates? He met he fell in live once and gave his heart away along time ago. Are these feelings still there? Is there any chance down the road? Is this woman his soulmate? I'm still walking away as hard as it is so that I can have a chance to live and love myself. I guess I just want to know these answers. -Michelle
It would be very wise to take him at his word. He certainly has feelings for you, but as he has told you there is no love, only physical gratification. You cannot expect this man to feel as you do for several reasons; first and primary is his attempt to deal with his disorder (I feel this is what must be understood). People going through a bipolar disorder (there are a lot of different levels) first must follow doctors orders; prescription, social conditions, and emotional stress. All relationships are stressful, and I feel strongly that the stress and emotional ups and downs are what he is trying to avoid. Remember that it is impossible for a man to fake physical interest. As adults it is very important to define your relationship; what you want and what he wants, either it works or not. If your friendship is only based on sex it will get very boring after a while. I would suggest seeing if you can become friends and find things in common. Be supportive, but if you feel it is only about sex, only you can end it. I also advise you to read up on bipolar disorder so you can better understand his moods and personality better.

I am seeing this guy named Tony. I would like to know if he really likes me and what does the future have in store for us? Do you think he maybe playing with my feelings? Should find someone else or I should be patiently waiting for him? Thanks so much for your advice and may God bless you and me. -Aidinha
I feel that his feeling are real he is falling in love with you. I do also feel strongly that the playing with feelings should not be an issue. At this mans age he is not playing games he really does like you. The time for games is over, there is no motivation or desire to be deceptive with you. At this point in your lives, you are both very defined in your ways and actions and I advise you and he to have fun and establish happy memories with each other and you most certainly will. You will be sure about him in a very short time. If there are no barriers to the time you spend with each other (no other relationships) you will evolve with each other, however do not look into the future too far, not now, you will scare each other away.

I've been involved with a man for almost 3 years. For the past year he's been talking marriage. Can I expect a ring anytime soon or is it just talk? -Melissa
This is a man who likes surprises and he very much enjoys seeing you smile and laugh. He also knows you are contemplating this question. To him you have made him very happy and this has lasted and continues. He only wants you to be happy and he does see you as a happy individual; in other words he feels the time is right and will formally propose around spring. You and he have found love with each other and I feel very strongly that it will last and evolve. The process of being with each other is very enjoyable to each of you and I do see a happy future with each other.

 

Love Questions: Posted April 7th, 2014

I am 26 and never been in a real relationship. My parents are currently going through a divorce and I feel like this makes it even harder for me to open up and trust other people. When will I meet the guy that is meant for me? Have I already met him? -NH
You have been in a position to observe and feel the changes through a timeline; being directly involved (as a part of the family) in a divorce effects all, as you know. This is really not fair to you. Relationships are serious, they effect all parts of life. I feel strongly that you have been very aware and very conscious about the dynamics of a relationship. I also feel strongly that the study, if not already, will become a part of your professional life. Before a true relationship can begin, people must first become friends and the compatibility either works or it does not. By this time next year you will be involved with an individual who feels the same as you; if you and he take pleasure in everyday and being with each other you can evolve with each other. You must be sure there are no barriers to avoid uncomfortable issues. I do see your destiny as being in a committed and happy relationship, however allow things to evolve naturally.

I have a long distance relationship going on with a US Marine deployed to Afghanistan. I would like to know if he is 100% for real or just been playing me. If he is for real, where will our relationship go? If not, is he planning on breaking it off with me tomorrow or when? I want a real true love instead of being alone. He says we're soul mates; but I wonder. I am so confused and don't know what to do. I would give anything to be prepared for the worst, so if and when it happens I will know how to handle it and know exactly what to say so that I will be the one walking away with my head up with pride and him regretting it. -Nanette
In your position and his also you both have a lot of time to think about each other and your personal situation in life. It would be advisable for you to see the situation as a mirror; what I mean is that you and also he are working with the same memories, conversations and plans. Remember that you need to meet up with each other to get to know each other better. My feeling is that you will find even more compatibilities with each other and like each other very much however, do not make the mistake of looking into the future to far or quickly.

Is my boyfriend of 6 years talking or seeing another woman? -Angela
I do not feel he is actually cheating on you, however, I do feel that he wants you to think that or see if jealousy is still there. I sense that your relationship has progressed to point of reality. What I mean is that you have both reached a point where you are going to continue as a couple or fade away from each other. Maintaining a suspicion or jealousy will keep a relationship from entering reality and some people like things that way. If this has been a part of a long term relationship something is very wrong. If a new relationship is the issue it simply means he has no idea what to say. Just remember jealousy or creation of jealousy is an action of a very insecure individual. If the jealousy is not resolved it could get some one in a lot of trouble. If it can not be resolved it is time to say goodbye.


 

 

Love Questions: Posted March 31st, 2014

My ex and I have been divorced for nearly 2 years but we communicate a few times a week. He remarried an old high school girlfriend who never was and still is not a good match. She believes in alcohol and party time. This is the third marriage she has broken up. Do you see them staying together for eternity? Do you see him "waking up" and seeing that she was all about the party and the money she could coerce him to get? He cashed in his IRA and Roth to have a good time. He could never look me in the eye and talk to me and just left. He carries much guilt and I do believe remorse. How long do you think this relationship between them can last? Is there any hope for us to get back together and work this out? We were happily married, or so I thought, for 32 years. I hope you can answer this for me as I can't seem to get this out of my mind. -Deb
You are very much in love with this man and you do not see the actual situation; it is not her fault that he has wondered. He understands this woman and has very much in common with her. I do not see a committed situation in their future but they both are satisfied with each other. From the way he communicates with you and his assurance of your feelings for him, he will definitely make an attempt to reunite with you. The only way it will work is if you and he get back to the point of wanting to retake your vows, but you will find the same issues, these issues must be dealt with and put into the past or they will return. I really do not feel that he desires a marriage at this time and right now he does not have a desire to part with this other woman. He does love you and you and he will always be connected and he is very much holding on to you. If you think about it, he would not tell you about this other woman and their situation if he did not want you to hold on to him also.

I have been single for 7+ years and devoting my life to my children. I am tired of being alone. When will I find someone to spend the rest of my life with that will be a wonderful male role model for my children? -J.
Within the next four months you will find that you do not feel exactly the way you do now. However, I suggest that you look back into a subject that you had great interest in and aspirations about being a success at; you can reestablish your incentive in this interest and this time take your time to accomplish what you want. You are going to find that you make a lot of friends that share your interest, men and woman. Through a female friend you are going to meet an individual who shares your interest and your situation in life. I feel this man is single and available but not really used to the dating scene. He has spent the last few years as you, raising children (a single father). You and this man will have a lot in common, age, children, and your common interest, this friendship I feel has great potential for success; just remember to take things slowly. Around the same time you reestablish you interest and become actively involved you will also meet an individual through one of your children, he will also be a single father with grown children who are out of the home. You will know this man by his voice and his love of baseball. I feel strongly that you will be very happy by how the year progresses.

I had a relationship with a guy and we have been together for 6 years. It has never been a good solid relationship and we both know that we are wanting to move on, so for the last year we have been more off then on. We live in our own homes, but we live right beside each other. We both own our homes and this makes it very difficult to move on. I left the relationship emotionally a long time ago and I am wondering if you see us going our own way in the near future because I am really ready to find a new love and was wondering if you see a new love in my near future and if so will this be the right guy for me? -Kelly
The location of your friends home and your home will not be an issue as long as you are blunt about your feelings or lack of romantic feelings, once this matter is taken care of you will feel a lot better in your outlook towards the future. I can feel that you are a very nice and magnetic woman, you will never have a problem in this area. You will meet another person who will be a good friend to you and he will want to develop a closer relationship. However, if your ex boyfriend is still under the impression that there is something going on with you and he, the new friend will vanish. Three months will be enough time to get back on track.


Love Questions: Posted March 24th, 2014

I have been single for close to 7 years. Do you see this changing anytime soon? My son is growing up and I feel he needs a man in his life, as does my daughter. I am ready for a relationship and have been in contact with an old crush for over a year and there are feelings there, but he lives over 2 hours away. Is this guy just wishful thinking? – Jennifer
Two hours in distance is not much, as to be an issue since your feelings are there. This man feels the same way you do however, he feels he can not express emotions as well as you can. You and he very much enjoy the time you spend with each other and are building up positive memories of each other. The issue of long term plans or marriage will only scare each other away right now. Once a common image of the future is established with each other (naturally) the relationship will evolve to the point where you and he can not see the future with out each other being there. I suggest activity that you share and enjoy, it is activity that will create the relationship you want, the expressive and quit time with each will come naturally; according to the laws of nature. Within a year you and he will be in a structured relationship that will continue to grow (if nurtured). It's OK to feel good and be happy.

The man I love and know to be my soul mate ended our relationship of two years 3 months ago. Some have told me to let go and focus on new love, but I feel in my spirit this is the man destined for me. I believe there is new love interest. I still have faith and believe this is a test of our love. Will this man come back to me and is he serious with another woman? -Stephanie
This is not necessarily your issue, there is a strong attachment you feel and this is very real. It usually takes about thee months to establish any routine, or break a routine. What I mean is that you are certain you and he started or the subject of where or we going, what is in the future plan for us? Is there a plan? It is important to pace ones self in relationships and not look into the future too far; even though the other my feel love also. Looking too far into the future tends to overwhelm most in relationships (a common image should not be rushed, things need time to establish in a common way, naturally). There will be another chance for you two within the next two months (another relationship for him, is not happening but I am sure the implication is intentional; he is holding on to you, not in a malious way but in a way of buying time and holding on to your thoughts). He is only trying to figure out his next move, where your relationship is concerned. You need to get to know each other a lot better and this takes time.

I broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years, six weeks ago because he had become distant and I found out that he had been spending time with his ex-girlfriend. I knew they still talked. Now six weeks later I still hurt over this and am upset and depressed all the time. I know that if it wasn't for her, he and I would still be together. Will he ever get over her and if he does will we end up back together? -Jessica
Certain men have a very difficult time handling rejection; if he was at fault for their break up, he will try to change that or the situation that initiated the break up. It is not her fault, he is the one who is doing the pursuing, so try not to blame her or her influence on him. He also likes you very much and has had a lot of fun as you have however, this is close friendship. He is and has for a long time been involved in a serious and realistic relationship. He has not been entirely open to you; this man will continue to communicate with you within the next couple of weeks. He does not know exactly what to say, or where things in his own life are going so it may be difficult to plan ahead. In a few weeks you will be more aware of the situation, more informed and will began to see things differently and more clearly.


Love Questions: Posted March 17th, 2014

My friend and I have been talking for about two years now and I have really developed strong feelings for him. I love him and I am in love with him. I'm not exactly sure how or when to communicate my love and feelings to him because I'm scared of rejection and I'm not sure how he feels but I would love to pursue a relationship with him. Will he and I ever pursue the opportunity to be together in a relationship more than what we have going on now? –Nateasha
He does not want to end the friendship. When a man can express his inner feelings and open up to someone it is a rare thing and feels very good and honest. I feel he does want to establish something more with you but does not want to lose his friend; a lot of times friends can open up with each other more effectively then in a girlfriend/boyfriend situation. He is thinking in the same way that you are. If you create the correct situations to share with each other (movies, concerts, restaurants etc) the book of a relationships will be started. Put shared activities, happy activities in this book, it will grow. The opening up and talking will happen naturally and really does not have to be planned. This man cares about you more then you realize.

I feel I have met my soul mate, but, with that I am in turmoil. We connected on 6/8/13. I approached him. We are both going through a divorce. He is burning hot and cold and driving me nuts. His name is Oscar. Am I wasting my time? –P.
If you are depending on this man to change your life and be the knight in shining armor then you will be disappointed. He is really not in that position. I would advise you and he stop the affair before you get caught because it will complicate both divorces greatly. You can be a support system to each other but that is all. You and he are not in the position to get involved in each others problems at home; when his marriage is ended he will pay a heavy price and he will not be to happy about that and you do not want him to blame you. I do feel you will end up with each other eventually; but as I mentioned you must take care of your own situations as they are very different.

I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. I now truly know that it is over as we had been on and off the past few years and we also have a seven year old daughter together. I have a few questions: the pharmacist I had (or still have) a crush on, what kind of feelings he had for me and will I see him again (when, where?) Also, I just barely met someone I am interested in but it is only the very beginning. Will we become an item and if so when? Are these two people out of the question for a relationship, or is there someone out there I have not met yet? I would like to get married again, have a second child and live a "normal" life. Will this happen? –Marissa
As far as normal life, that is a matter of personal circumstance. Essentially you and your boyfriend of eight years being on and off as you say only means that you and he are in a romantic situation that has lasted for eight years. The child is real and also the love you and he have for the child. I feel you and he are going through the stress of being married without the benefits (legally, mentally, and of course the spiritually). It would be different if you both wanted this; however I feel you don’t. You are a very intelligent and magnetic woman, you will never have a problem with making friends. Committed relationships that work must be taken seriously or they will fail.


Love Questions: Posted March 10th, 2014

I have been happily married now for 5 years. This passed year my husband has been in another state. During this time he's been away I started talking to my ex with whom I was with for 5 years and I'm so confused now. Me and my ex were getting along well and it excited me and we even went as far as almost had sex. The worst is that the night I was with my ex was so powerful the connection when our lips touched was like no other and the strength I wasn't feeling those feelings alone I think. Now I'm confused because I can't stop thinking about him. I want to know why after all this time do I feel this way. I was satisfied until he kissed me and touched me. We haven't spoken since a little after that night. I want to know if he felt what I felt. Does he love me still? What's wrong with me for wanting to feel that passion again and finish what was started and will we get to? I want to feel that feeling again. It was heaven. -Melissa
A loving relationship is rare and when such a relationship fails it promotes disappointment. It is very difficult to except the reality that something that you were so sure about did not work. Most people will learn and become more defined as to what they want and how to get it. Once we as human beings retain our spiritual bondings in life; even if we are away for what ever reason. As adults we evolve to the point of restraining our selves (avoiding things that will harm us or someone we love) it is a part of maturity (for most people). You and this man will always have strong feelings for each other, but it is up to you which path you want to take. Right now you would be thinking of why you married; and the answer is to be unique to each other; and this has several benefits: mentally, spiritually and of course physically. I advise you to think even more. Would you like to be at blame for interrupting an acquired situation? Would you or people you care about be hurt in any way? You are not likely to do something for the moment that will effect your entire future. In your actions I feel you will restrain yourself. I feel strongly that you will realize this; and also the this other man will continue to pursue you (if you don’t do something about it) this does have the potential of harming the wrong people. In your contemplation you will realize that working on the marriage is what is needed.

I have been involved with a man for about a year now. Though at first we both looked at the relationship as something fun and casual, we fell on love with each other. Recently, he's been dealing with a lot of personal issues and I, although as supportive as can be, have been put on hold. Even more recently, an ex of his has reappeared and they have slept together. Though this pains me to my core, I cannot help but feel like him and I are meant to be together. Since he told me of the ex, I haven't contacted him, but I miss him dearly. Have I deluded myself into thinking he is the one for me or is this something that can grow? -Kiki
Relationships are supposed to be fun and enjoyable; however this leads to reality (do we have a chance, could it work, does he feel the same way?). I feel you and he are very compatible on a romantic level, but it is the future together that you and he may see differently. He is attempting to repair something from the past; and is caught up in the past, where you and he are concerned, it would be advisable to know each other better. He has not communicated with you because he does not know what to say. Not communicating with you is essentially holding on to you, and your interest. This man will make an attempt to get close to you, however if this attempt is not soon you will began to think differently.

I'm so unsure about what to do in my relationship right now. Should I move on or should I try to fix it with my ex? I keep talking to the wrong guys and I'm not sure if I will ever that 'one person' that will also be the last. Im not made for 'keep dating til you find the one' because I go in too deep. What should I do? -Jotishna
Your Destiny is to be in a committed long term relationship; when the time is right. I understand that you have a love for your ex, and he does for you, this will be the case for the foreseeable future. However, there must be a commonly established image of the future together, sometimes it happens quickly some times not at all; at times it will take a long time to be established. One thing that will disrupt this process is looking too far into the future too quickly or only from one side. I feel that you and your ex will have another chance, however, issues must dealt with or they will reemerge stronger then before. You will be increasingly interested in a subject that was not perused before; the man in your destiny will be a part of this interest and your enjoyment and knowledge will grow, as the common image of the future, which will be a natural process.


Love Questions: Posted March 3rd, 2014

I'm writing to ask when will me and my ex Jeffery get back together? Will it be soon? I need to know. When will he leave his new girlfriend? Thanks. -Ashley
He coincides himself to be in a relationship with her; you are his girlfriend (believe it or not some men like things that way). His relationship issues are occurring because of uncertainty about his own direction; he is becoming very aware that it is fairly impossible to maintain two different relationships. His hesitance to be defined in a relationship is why his intentions where you and he are concerned are extremely vague, he really does not know where things are going. This man will attempt to continue seeing you, however, at this time, he is into the hear and now and you will see more and more each day how unfair this is to you.

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year. I cannot even get him to speak to me. Will he ever speak to me and will we ever get back together? -Aleah
Most people when they are in love develop a sense of surrender towards the object of their affection as he has. A sense of trust must be established if your relationship is going to evolve. I feel very strongly that you and he are in the process of going from romantic love to realistic love (realistic love does not mean the romance is gone; it only means that a person gets to the point of not seeing the future, with out the other being there). In this phase feelings get hurt very easily and a small things seem gigantic. I feel he does miss you and sharing time together. If this issue has to do with jealousy, I do not feel it will work. He is holding on to you for a reason (this is what the non-communication is all about) he cannot say that he does not like you anymore, because he does; he only feels hurt and desires solitude. I also feel that you and he will communicate within two months and this conversation will be the key. One thing to remember is that this break up has taken your relationship to a higher level. He will attempt to contact you but not in a personal way; it will be regarding a project that you share interest in. You and he will have one more chance. He does miss you as much as you mis him; even though he is not communicating with you he does miss your voice.

I recently started thinking about an ex. We haven't spoken in over 6 months. I am trying to figure out why all of a sudden he's constantly on my mind. Clearly if he were thinking of me he would have called. Is there something I should know or are these thoughts signs to contact him? -Trice
Just like you he is disappointed that the relationship did not work. It is a very natural thing to think about the past (resent and distant) and see solutions instead of pure emotion. I feel he would see an attempt to contact him as path to friendship; on his mind you and he entered a romantic relationship not a friendship. I do also feel that he would take the desire to be only friends not too well. He feels the break up was the end of the world for you. Right now he would take this as an insult. I feel that contact would go a long way towards repairing your situation with each other, but not now, it is still too early. Allow the thoughts to remain. I guarantee he is thinking about you also; and I also suggest you allow him to make the attempt, and he will.


Love Questions: Posted February 24th, 2014

I am deeply, almost selflessly in love with my partner/soul mate- in a healthy way of course. We met 13 years ago when we were younger and had gone our own ways. It was an instant connection. From the moment I met him, I instantly knew. It's like I had known him my whole life, even before I was born. We saw each other for a bit and eventually harmoniously parted. We live in different parts of the state, which was never a problem for me. It's only an hour flight. This is the man I spiritually know to be my companion and life mate, no time or distance changes that. It's hard to explain. He came back into my life again earlier this year and we began seeing each other again. It's like time stood still and it was as if we never parted. We had an instant connection spiritually, emotionally, and physically. He pulled away, but is still in communication with me. I know with my whole heart that we are supposed to be together. I have loved him for many years. I know he cares deeply but maybe he's scared because of past experiences with other people. Will he express his true feelings for me soon and commit to a loving relationship/life with me? I've been hurt by love so many times before but I try not to let those experiences block me. I'm a bit scared of getting hurt and of being alone and without a family to love of my own. I know God has happiness for me. -Audrie
Most people do not keep romance in their relationship and remain in romantic love for as long as you and him. As far as his feelings for you; he does feel the same way about you. I feel very strongly that the aspect of a committed and structured relationship is what may holding him back from making that move in your relationship. All men want to be the knight in shining armor to the woman that they love, and he has maintained that image to you for a very long time, and that’s wonderful but impossible to maintain in a realistic relationship. I do feel that this man not only feels the same as you but also has contemplated this question for a long time. When someone only appears once and a while it is hard to accomplish a common image of the future. Within the next few weeks you will see him becoming more aware of a future together; he will open up a lot more about his feelings for you and where you and he are going. The barrier between you and he developing a future together will also still be there; and you are aware what that barrier is. The only reason it has not separated you two is that the joy you bring to him has helped him to get through it. You and this man need to become real in your relationship and overcome whatever is holding you and he back; it must be delt with and discussed if things are to move forward within a realistic relationship. You and he are also friends and understand each other very well. You will end up together, however if you are going to see the same future, reality must be established. Romance is very addictive and a lot of men wish to stay there. I feel your present situation is there because you both wish it to be however, the only constant in life is change.

I want to know if Eduardo loves me and if him and I are going to get back together. I believe in my heart that he wants to tell me he still loves me and wants to be with me but I've begged him and he says he doesn't want to give me another chance because I'm never going to change my attitude and my jealously. I told him I'm going to change but I want to be with him. I met him when he was very young (I'm 5 years older than him) and we've been through some strong stuff in our lives. We have lived together for 2 years with my 8 year old. Suddenly, one day he said he was tired of everything and he was tired of me and my daughter and he went back to live with his mom. I just want to know if we have another chance of getting back together. -Cynthia 12/21/87
Jealousy has destroyed many good relationships. Now, if you have a reason to be jealous you are in the wrong relationship. This man feels that you are grasping him and will accept anything (this is not right). He is basically worried about what is going to happen when things become real. He is a lot more impressed with you then you know. Remember there are thousands of men and women incarcerated for the reasons of jealousy (many for a very long time), it is not conducive to a successful relationship. If the jealousy continues or you and his relationship is that insecure it will not last or reestablish. Please look at the situation realistically and understand the hesitation. You will get back together, however if the jealousy continues it will not work if dealt with it can make your love with each other stronger and enjoyable the way it is supposed to. This man loves you very much, and you he; this love is very strong and can be beautiful if you and he work it out that way... I do see a marriage in the near future (four months), if you and he solve the jealousy first.

I am deeply in love with my ex-girlfriend and truly believe with all my heart that we are soul mates. Will we get back together? -Aurora
You and she will give a relationship a chance one more time but if the original issues are not resolved you will fail in your attempt. I would advise you both to look at things from the others perspective in attempt to understand each other even more then you do. This is not a matter of saying 'I love you' a million times, this aspect is known by all concerned. Once you understand her view of the near future, and that she understands your view of the same, then you can begin to communicate on a greater level. I feel very strongly that your feelings for her caused you to look too far into the future, being that she did not know how to respond, she has become distant. Reestablish your friendship and let nature take its course.



Love Questions: Posted February 17th, 2014

I have this friend whom I’ve known for over three years. We became close because of Facebook. He is entering priesthood but I sense he has special attention on me and always makes praises. I have grown to be fond of him and I wonder if what we have is mutual understanding or he is just being friendly. I want to know what his feelings for me really are. –Sonia
This man feels extremely connected with you and your friendship means the world to him. Things that you know about each other has created a bonding, and he would feel that it is very easy to open up to you and more importantly very easy for you to open up to him. As far as a physical attraction; yes however his path is discipline and spirituality and I feel strongly that he is committed to a spiritual life. You will remain friends through out your lives and beyond.

My girlfriend and I broke up. I know there is another guy involved and I know he really doesn't like her. Do you see us getting back together soon? And can you tell me why she is so upset with me? –Joseph
The reason she is upset is because she is very aware of your feelings for her and how sure you are that a mistake has been made; now you may be sure but it is she who needs to needs to come to this understanding. I advise you to give her the space she needs. If you are communicating with each other still; you are not giving her a chance to miss you. I do feel that after the beginning of the year, you will have another chance; if you do not respond to the current situation with jealousy or posessivness, if you demonstrate anger now it will end any possibility of reestablishing the type of relationship that you want and; that she wants.

My ex wife and I have been apart now for about a year. She is settled with another in a different town. I don’t truly believe she is happy and I wish to know if there is any signs or chance for her to return. Is she starting to believe that leaving me was a mistake and does she want to return and make our marriage work? –Rhys
I feel strongly that she also feels and wants for you to be happy in life however, the disappointment is also mutual. I do not feel anger or unresolved issues coming from her at this time, only a desire to have a happy life. Where you and she are concerned, I feel love towards each other and the bonding will last forever, being a part of your life and also hers, the joy, the love, and also the great disappointment that the marriage did not work out. Love is a real entity that evolves and creates pain and joy, if nurtured it will grow if not it will slowly die; and this is the basic process of life. You do love her very deeply and for that reason you must wish her the best and not interfere with a new marriage. Her happiness or unhappiness is a personal thing she needs to accomplish herself. This is not the time to resolve issues from the past, it is over and it can never erase issues that have past. Love is present but it has changed and evolved.


Love Questions: Posted February 10th, 2014

I've been divorced for 7 years and have devoted my time to taking care of my kids and my mom before she passed away. I am now at a point where I want to meet someone and move on with my life. I also am having major financial issues and feel like my life is a revolving door never to get better. Am I destined to be alone or will I meet someone who will love me and want to be with me? Is there an end to my financial plight? I just want to be happy again. –Diana
This has already started to occur, however try not to define yourself based on relationship or failed relationships, this is impossible to do and never works. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. You are very set in your ways and have established a pattern of behavior (you know what works for you in your available time) and I do feel you are bored but happy. When you find an activity, or reestablish your deep interest in a certain subject, I can see you making several friends of both sexes; however a particular interest will be naturally established between you and a certain man, and a deep friendship will be established first; this friendship will evolve to a more defined relationship. This will occur within the next three months and it will not take you away from your responsibilities and you will be positive on a lot of levels. I feel that during the course of the year you will see many positive things about yourself (not as a result of a relationship; that will be an added bonus). It is essentional to find ones self, before finding another and remember that you have already started.

I keep running into and ex lover and I keep thinking about him. Why do I keep thinking about someone that does not care about me? Last week I passed him in my car three times. He turned his head I guess thinking I would wave or something. I want to text him to grow up. Is he thinking about me or I'm I just crazy. It's been a year since we were together. I have run into him in my three times this week. I need help! –Katherine
This man feels that a committed relationship is what you may want in your life, and he does know how you feel. At the time of your relationship you and he were moving at different speeds, he was taking things day to day and I feel the implication of a planed, or committed relationship is the message he picked up from you. I feel strongly that looking too far towards the future is what caused an end to your communication with each other. At the time, he felt overwhelmed, he did know how to respond to the situation, he felt that he could not say "lets fly to Las Vegas and get married" and he could not say "I don’t like you anymore" so he said nothing. You will communicate with each other within two months, and if you and are into the hear and now, you will continue to communicate and he will be the one that will desire to reestablish a relationship and the one who will bring up the topic of where are we going.

I'm torn about a man I recently met. We are both in other relationships, but I feel a strong connection to him. I'm not sure how he feels about me and whether there is a future between us (a life together, kids, etc.). Can you see anything to help me?  –Skye
I feel that you feel a strong connection because you and he have created a reason to bond. You and he have created a privet and fantasy romance that is fun, supportive, and romantic. Reality means the bonding you both had in your other relationships, is gone; these other relationships will fail as a result. It is not a game anymore it is reality. Your relationship with him will continue, but the circumstances will not be enjoyable at first, there will be issues that you and he need to take care of on your own.


Love Questions: Posted February 3rd, 2014

I met a guy online 2 1/2  months ago and we dated for 2 months, we had a great connection but we broke up 2 weeks ago due to communication issues and "incompatibility" (that's what he claimed). I'm so confused and lost as I felt like he liked me for who I am but then trying to subtly 'change' me or thought that we're so different now. What is he thinking? Will he contact me again? If yes, when will that happen? Will we even have a future together at all? Should I just focus on my career and look for someone else instead? When will the right guy walk into my life? Or is he a non-committed type and he will keep distancing himself from me once in a while when we have "issues"? What kind of a person is he? I feel a deep connection with him, but disappointed at the same time. –Nikki
What has occurred between you and this man is what a relationship is all about; dealing with issues or walking away. I feel assured that you both are very defined individuals but inquiring or moving too quickly and scared each other away. You do like each other very much, and the attraction is also mutual however, you each have different plans in how to achieve what you want out of life. Your career is something that will remain with you throughout your life, most beginning relationships do not. You will be friends in life but that’s all.

I’m in love with my ex with whom I had a two year relationship that I ended last October due to not feeling appreciated for a finish. He has hectic schedule, works in family business and does college also. He returned few months back promising a future and change and told me how much he loved and missed me. He had family bereavement next day. He told me he didn’t want relationship few weeks later and that he was tied up for a few years with college and taking over family business. I reacted badly to this out of the pain of loosing him again. Will there be a happy reconciliation or are we done? –Amy
He is being honest with you about his commitments which are his life. A person will retain knowledge and sense of what will work and what will not. Relationships can create security or create uncomfortable issues that would prevent a person from being happy and he knows if he is going through uncomfortable feelings he will not be his best. This man is a good person and he will attempt to communicate with you, however as I stated he is being honest with you as best he can and he cares for you more then you realize.

I am currently in a long-term relationship but for a few years now I have had an intense connection with another man as friends. Recently it developed into more which is no surprise, but we are both in relationships and he has only recently got engaged, we have decided it is best to leave things alone. This however has left me in turmoil. The connection is so strong we do things like text each other at exactly the same time, say the same things at the same time and have had many signs that there is something more here. I have never experienced anything like it in my life. Many things have happened that can't just be coincidence. I think what I would like to know is. Is there going to be a future for us somewhere down the line even if it isn't the right time now? –Zoe
An intense connection with a friend who has become more then a friend, I feel you are talking about falling in love, and he feels the same. First of all the engagement and beginning relationship you are both in would be over; it is only a matter of time. The time and bonding between you two would take effort and also desire. I feel strongly that the common image of the future which is needed for a successful relationship, would be very, very difficult to accomplish with in your current relationships. You will create opportunity to see each other and the chance of attempting a relationship, however it will be very difficult if not impossible to establish trust, which is not only nice, but essential with in a long term relationship. There will be the tenancy to blame each other for a lot of things that will bother both of you. If you both wait and not interfere with each others relationships (let the relationship and engagement fade away naturally) and really get to know each other in reality, I feel you both will not feel the same way.



Love Questions: Posted January 27th, 2014

I’m so deeply in love with my child's father Michael. I do everything for him. We get together then he wants to break up then come back and so on. I have true faith in us and I’m not too sure he will ever commit to us. I do everything for him to trust me and know that I'm all the women he needs. I need to know if he loves me and if he will ever commit too us and what is stopping him because this is the man I want to marry. I need to know if it's real and if it's worth it in the end. –Chasity
I do feel that you are going through all the realistic feelings and experiences of a marriage, with none of the benefits. The primary reason he will not commit in the way you want is because he does not trust himself. From time when infidelity was initiated, the possibility of a happy and growing life together was doomed. It is impossible to create a common view of the future when another man or woman is involved; it is impossible. Under present circumstances I would not advise a committed relationship; it is not your fault so do not blame yourself. This man has to want to change and I really do not feel he wants to.

I've met my soul mate by the name of M. When we first met we talked for about 3 hours in the store. I think about him often and I was told that we are destined to be together. I miss him and we haven't been on our first date yet. I feel his energy. When he feels bad I can feel it. He's going through a divorce right now but he says it will be over soon. I think about him often. I was wondering is it mutual and will we date after his divorce? –Shonta
Most people who are in the process of divorce are not to happy about it and most of time things go smoothly, unless there are children involved and community property. If his soon to be ex wife finds out about you, the divorce will be very hard on him; the reason he can not go on dates with you is of course getting caught however, he has fallen in love with you, and you are helping him get through a uncomfortable situation at home. My advice to you is to not pressure him, things are occurring naturally but take time; if you want things to go smoothly for him and yes he will want to continue to see you.

I have been seeing someone for the last 15 months. I want to know how he feels about me and if he sees me as a partner for more of a commitment. If he is not that interested I would like to know. I feel he really likes me and has feelings for me but I worry. Is there something he doesn't like about me? What does he think and feel about me? –Robin
At this phase of your relationship you and also he would be focused on each others body language (you have been together long enough to do this), and both wondering about the next phase or where you are going. I feel that he is only defining his feelings. I do not feel that he dislikes anything about you, only thinking about the time and how naturally you and he have evolved. This is the time to create positive memories and subject matter for discussion, commonalities. The relationship is moving forward.


Love Questions: Posted January 20th, 2014

I have been in a spiritual marriage, not legal, for almost 6 years. We have been through hell together and I am not sure if we should continue on. We are very different but we do love each other though I do not know if we are truly in love or really helping one another. At times, I do not feel he truly loves me, or is in love with me. He is obsessed with his work and very eccentric and there is a lack of balance in the relationship. -Rosemary
In my opinion, it is the fact that you and he have went through hell together (as you say) that has rushed you into reality; in all senses of the word married except legally, the same anxiety which affect all couples to an extent. I feel that you must determine if the problems are between you and he, or if you are only sharing them together, because that would change the whole scenario. I do not see a break up, but it is very important to remember that generally men and women deal with issues a bit differently; women have a way of seeing the big picture, while men tend to see things on a day to day or progressive basis. I would not suggest marriage as a solution, not now it will not work however, I do feel that you will both work up to that point within a year. The most important thing I see is that you love each other. I feel strongly that you and he will get over this slump very soon and start enjoying your relationship (he will be the one to bring up marriage, not you).

My husband and I have been married for 26 years. We have been having a lot of problems. Will we stay married and live happily or will we breakup? –Denise
I feel that to an extent you and he have moved to separate interests and found the time for them. Once you and he pursue a common interest you will have fun and I feel re-kindling the romantic love which I feel you both miss. This is the right time. All conditions are favorable.

I am in love with a girl and feel like there is something there but cannot tell how she feels because it seems to change so drastically all the time. Is there actually something there? If not, when will I be lucky enough to meet someone? –Travis
Change is the only constant in life. Within two months you will have the opportunity to talk to the girl you are referring to however, you may not see her exactly the same. I feel it will become a deep friendship, during this friendship you will also happen across a place that captures your heart and your interest and this is the place where you and the girl in your dreams will meet each other. You are also entering a time when it will favorable to start or strengthen any new endeavor, and this is because your intuition is right on the dot; music will play a major role.


Love Questions: Posted January 13th, 2014

Me and my boyfriend of two and a half years have been on a roller coaster of a relationship. This year we broke up for three months but then got back together. I’m confused as to how he really feels about me. Sometimes I feel us getting back together was a mistake because when we were separated he was dealing with another female but I intervened and scared her off. I feel he's with me until he finds someone else. Am I exaggerating our relationship or should we just call it quits? Any insight would help because I'm to the point where if we are going to stay together we need to take the next step and get married or leave each other alone. We have our own place apart but I stay at his home daily. Please help with any advice because I am at a crossroad feel lost. –Shaniece
It is impossible to evolve within a relationship when there is a another person involved and I feel strongly that he wants things the way they are. Also, it is not you that must end his affair with the other woman, it should be him. I feel also by confronting her you only created a situation where he needs to be carful and sneaky. I also know that you know this, so the issue is your hopes and desires. To establish the kind of relationship that you want it is essential that you and he establish a common image of your life together and this cannot occur with another person lingering. It is obvious that you do not trust this man (for good reason) and I do not feel it will ever happen. Please do not look within yourself or your memories, your behavior etc. it will frustrate you a lot; that is because you cannot do this because the problem itself does not have anything to do with you (a marriage will only complicate the issue, so I feel it is out of the scenario) just remember that someone who is supposed to love you would not feel the inclination. It will not work; I see you as being happy in the future; and he is not in the picture.

I have been married for 24 years now. My husband has cheated on me in the past but I don't know if he knows I found out and I would like to know if he is cheating again. He goes out with his friends all of time and hardly spends any time with me or our daughter. He can be very sarcastic towards me. I don't feel much of a connection between us anymore. I have tried to discuss with him about going out with his friends so much and he gets mad at me to the point where he won't talk to me. Is this relationship headed for divorce? –Lisa
I do not feel that there is an active affair at this time, however, the possibility of a happy and growing marriage was ended the first time infidelity occurred, no matter what the reason. Either your friends or family members know what is going on (people will not interfere because you always believe hin and make others feel foolish). You have given this matter a lot of thought and I commend you. I would advise you to remember that it is the taking of vows and the maintaing of those vows that must be there to make things work in a happy way and keep the common image of the future working. However, it is the legal aspect of the marriage that is for you and your childrens protection in life. You are exceptionally intelligent.

I have always had such a tough time finding men; not only for romance but just dating period. It is so frustrating being alone, cause I have so much love to give to a man but I feel like it’s going to waste. I always get many people tell me that I haven’t found anyone cause I am a "special" girl and I just can't be with any man cause I wouldn't be happy. I guess that is true to some point but I feel that there are other underlying reasons as to why its so hard for me to find a guy. Is there anything you see that I am doing wrong? When will I ever meet that guy for me? –Kyandra
You are a very defined woman in all ways except in your desire to find the right person. As a defined person you will be attract to a defined man. I feel strongly that the coming months will bring you your hearts desire, but first; stop looking. You will find each other. I feel that this will occur as a result of not attending, but being actively involved with an issue that touches your heart. You will make many long term friends, one in particular will be come much more then a friend. Enjoy the entire process, because you can be assured that he will be enjoying the same thing. You will know him because of his distinctive laugh.

 

Love Questions: Posted January 6th, 2014

My ex boyfriend and I very recently started hanging out again. I love him with all my heart and I know he loves me but he has a huge fear of commitment. I am trying to be very understanding of the reasons why it is so hard for him to get close to people. By the time he was 18 his mom had passed away from cancer, his dad killed himself and his cousin (who's family took him in when his mom died) overdosed on drugs. More recently, he spent his lifesaving on a house for himself and the girl he was with at that time of 5 years only to have her cheat on him and move the other guy into their house when he moved out. I really do understand and I know how much it means to him that I do. I don't pressure him or need anything to happen fast. I can be patient as long as I believe there is a reason to be. Do you think he will ever commit? –Nicole
This man is afraid of loss and he has every reason not to want to that feel that way anymore. The feeling of loss effects all of us at times of our lives, when people as he, who have had traumatic experiences (over and over) scrounging losses they will be very conscious of the fact. To most people a break up or divorce effects them in the same way as a death. I feel strongly that he is a good man and is working things out at his own pace. Do not become his counselor, if so he will associate you with the uncomfortable issues he is dealing with, I am not saying not to be a support system and a trusted friend (this is what this man really needs) no matter how he appears he is grieving. I do feel a good relationship is possible if you are patient and reinforce positive behavior but also not ignore negative behavior; address it and solve it. He will fall in love very quickly.

In the year 2011-2012 I dated and reconnected with a man from my teenage years. We have had no contact for a year now. I am connected to him and I feel him when he thinks about me and sometimes I can hear what he is thinking. It is now 2013, I have seen his face in my head two times now once when I was working outside I had to stop and feel it go, and once when I was asleep dreaming. I see his face as clear as if I was standing in front of him. I can see his hair, eyes, color of his skin, he is telling me "I LOVE YOU" as he is looking into my face. What does this mean? Are we going to have contact again in the future? When? How? Will it be an accidental meeting? I have been invited to several things that he goes to but I do not go to those outings anymore knowing he will be there. -Martha
He feels as you, but is also uninformed, as you. I do also feel that he may be in an unhappy relationship or just out of one. I suggest that you and he talk or communicate in some way that you can be informed about what is possible or not possible. You and this man have a lot in common, not only the past but also in your taste in entertainment and almost the exact concept in spirituality. Within the next month you and he will have an opportunity to talk and catch up on life, there will be no problem with the physical attraction, it is very strong and mutual. Getting reacquainted with each other will be very enjoyable for both of you. If there are no barriers (other relationships) I feel things will progress; if barriers exist it will cause chaos.

I have been single for over 7 years and am a single mom of two. I have a busy schedule but really feel I am ready for a relationship. What can you tell me about my future concerning my love life and the man I am to spend the rest of my life with? –Jennifer
As a result of attending holiday celebrations of some sort is the atmosphere in which you will make not one, but two contacts or should I say two different celebrations where you will meet these two individuals. They both will be attracted to you, and you to each of them. One of these individuals will also have children and very little time to socialize because of career obligations; I do feel strongly he would also have the same image of the future that you do, now because of the difficulty in finding quality time with each other the time that you and he find (schedule) for each other, will possess a magical quality (you will very much, look forward to seeing each other again, your timing will only get better and better with each other. The season will bring memories that will last forever.


Love Questions: Posted December 30th, 2013

My ex boyfriend and I very recently started hanging out again. I love him with all my heart and I know he loves me but he has a huge fear of commitment. I am trying to be very understanding of the reasons why it is so hard for him to get close to people. By the time he was 18 his mom had passed away from cancer, his dad killed himself and his cousin (who's family took him in when his mom died) overdosed on drugs. More recently, he spent his lifesaving on a house for himself and the girl he was with at that time of 5 years only to have her cheat on him and move the other guy into their house when he moved out. I really do understand and I know how much it means to him that I do. I don't pressure him or need anything to happen fast. I can be patient as long as I believe there is a reason to be. Do you think he will ever commit? –Nicole
This man is afraid of loss and he has every reason not to want to that feel that way anymore. The feeling of loss effects all of us at times of our lives, when people as he, who have had traumatic experiences (over and over) scrounging losses they will be very conscious of the fact. To most people a break up or divorce effects them in the same way as a death. I feel strongly that he is a good man and is working things out at his own pace. Do not become his counselor, if so he will associate you with the uncomfortable issues he is dealing with, I am not saying not to be a support system and a trusted friend (this is what this man really needs) no matter how he appears he is grieving. I do feel a good relationship is possible if you are patient and reinforce positive behavior but also not ignore negative behavior; address it and solve it. He will fall in love very quickly.

In the year 2011-2012 I dated and reconnected with a man from my teenage years. We have had no contact for a year now. I am connected to him and I feel him when he thinks about me and sometimes I can hear what he is thinking. It is now 2013, I have seen his face in my head two times now once when I was working outside I had to stop and feel it go, and once when I was asleep dreaming. I see his face as clear as if I was standing in front of him. I can see his hair, eyes, color of his skin, he is telling me "I LOVE YOU" as he is looking into my face. What does this mean? Are we going to have contact again in the future? When? How? Will it be an accidental meeting? I have been invited to several things that he goes to but I do not go to those outings anymore knowing he will be there. -Martha
He feels as you, but is also uninformed, as you. I do also feel that he may be in an unhappy relationship or just out of one. I suggest that you and he talk or communicate in some way that you can be informed about what is possible or not possible. You and this man have a lot in common, not only the past but also in your taste in entertainment and almost the exact concept in spirituality. Within the next month you and he will have an opportunity to talk and catch up on life, there will be no problem with the physical attraction, it is very strong and mutual. Getting reacquainted with each other will be very enjoyable for both of you. If there are no barriers (other relationships) I feel things will progress; if barriers exist it will cause chaos.

I have been single for over 7 years and am a single mom of two. I have a busy schedule but really feel I am ready for a relationship. What can you tell me about my future concerning my love life and the man I am to spend the rest of my life with? –Jennifer
As a result of attending holiday celebrations of some sort is the atmosphere in which you will make not one, but two contacts or should I say two different celebrations where you will meet these two individuals. They both will be attracted to you, and you to each of them. One of these individuals will also have children and very little time to socialize because of career obligations; I do feel strongly he would also have the same image of the future that you do, now because of the difficulty in finding quality time with each other the time that you and he find (schedule) for each other, will possess a magical quality (you will very much, look forward to seeing each other again, your timing will only get better and better with each other. The season will bring memories that will last forever.


Love Questions: Posted December 23rd, 2013

I was with my ex wife for 17 years and we had a nasty divorce. She is now already remarried to her boyfriend. She had led to me many times telling me perhaps we could get back together and a few times she told me they were over. I wonder if I'll ever meet anyone new for me. I'm mostly surrounded by men and don't see any prospects. Am I doomed to be single for the rest of my life? I really miss the intimacy from a relationship. –Mike
I feel this situation was not given a realistic attempt at resolving any issues that created this divorce. I feel strongly that she was seeing this other person while trying to resolve the issues; this does not work. I know it's easier said than done but I would advise you to stop analyzing her or the divorce (this includes what led to it). It will continue to be more and more confusing for the simple reason that it is not your fault; if it was, you would be able to see the exact reason clearly. There will be three opportunities within the next three months; one will become your counselor, it will be very easy to open up to her and you will feel very close very quickly, however it will not last; when you no longer have issues about the divorce that perspective relationship will fade. Right before the holidays you will meet a nice young lady who is very positive and has little desire to dwell on the past; it will be a natural thing to her to take a committed relationship, or the beginning very slowly; I feel strongly this relationship will evolve. The last you will meet at a family wedding.

I have not been in a relationship for a long time now. It seems that every time that there might be something good happening it all suddenly falls apart. What am I doing to deserve all of this? Should I just give up because I have missed my chance to be happy? If there is anybody out there for me do I already know this person? –Travis
It is a life long process to truly know ones self, a never ending process. First of all, everyone has failed relationships, it is a part of life and one way we learn about ourselves and others. As people evolve in life we become more defined in the things we like and don’t like, things we want and don’t want; and if you anticipate failure you will bring it to yourself and manifest it in your life. Enjoy the freedom in your life, follow your heart, and do the things that you have always enjoyed doing. When you do not expect it you will meet someone who captures your heart and thoughts; remember you will only have one chance to make it work.

I recently reconnected with someone that I knew from 10 years ago. Right now we both are in relationships. Recently he told me not to call anymore. Does he still like me or should I let it go? –Teresa
My best advice to you is to let it go, it would be much wiser to try to save the relationship you are already in (that is if you want to). I have seen a lot of marriages and close relationships fail for this exact reason. I do feel strongly that he is in a loving and good relationship and has no desire or reason to leave the relationship. It feels very good to be romantic for a while, but it is only play that can hurt others and cause big problems. I do not feel there is a realistic chance or that he is even thinking in that way. To let things go now is to avoid problems in your life.


Love Questions: Posted December 16th, 2013

I was in a relationship with a guy, we had our ups and downs and last new years he decided to move out with everything in the house while I was at work. At the time I was five months pregnant. My question is, will we ever get back together or should I move on to someone else? –Jewel
Because of looking into the future too far I feel that he became overwhelmed. I feel that he is feeling very guilty for what happened. Also, he does not know exactly what to say, (all he can think of is saying 'I love you' but he feels that is something you do not want to hear right now). He does not know if you are mad or sad, maybe a bit of both. Time does have a way of healing problems and this is what I feel he is doing; buying time. You will attempt to give your relationship another try and this time if you take things slowly you will succeed.

Will my ex-boyfriend get back to me? We have been together for three years but now he says I feel numb towards everything. –Nidhi
He is only feeling the stress of every day life, a life which to him is filled with obligations and life situations he did not see himself three years ago. This man is not numb to your love, just your established life. Within two months he will have something to look forward to, a situation which has a lot of potential; as a result you will see a very positive change with in him. He will communicate a lot more and will want more activity. Right now he does not see life progressing in a forward direction and this will also change very quickly.

For the past 4 years I have had feelings and an interest for a guy who I went to college with. Two years ago, we graduated from college and I haven't seen him since then. I tried to open up to him about my feelings during the past two years through email. Since then, he has stopped communicating with me and returning my text messages. I want to know why he has stopped communicating with me and if he will ever talk to me again. Also, does he like me the same way I like him? -Arnulfo
He feels toward you as a very good friend and he knows how you feel. There is no doubt that he likes you very much but, he does not want to lead you on or create misunderstandings. It is not about another person. Right now he is thinking about how to respond the next time you communicate which will be very soon, within two weeks. After your conversation you will feel a lot better and posses an understanding by way of thinking. I do feel your friendship will continue.


Love Questions: Posted December 9th, 2013

My best friend/ex boyfriend told me today that he thinks we are better off as friends. When we were in a romantic relationship things were great between us. We had no relationship problems, it was mostly just financial problems. I really do want a second chance with him. If you could please help me. –April
First of all it would be very important that you and he do not communicate through friends, taken too far this leads to miscomunication and misunderstanding. Know it does not sound as if money and relationship go together but they do; it use to be infidelity that was the biggest reason for separations or divorces, it is now financial issues. One thing that is also common is that a man will always feel that his ability or definition is about what he has to offer; what this means is that men that are having financial issues will rarely pursue a serious relationship. He will be given the opportunity to get back on track within the next two months. He will start to see the future in a more optimistic way. You and he will have another chance, your relationship has gone into a higher level.

I'm with someone that has children and has yet to get a divorce from his wife. We've been together for a year and I wanted to know if you see a future for us or if I'm going to meet someone new. I love him with all of my heart and I feel like he's my soul mate but I’m just ready to be happy. I just want to know if there is a happy future for us or if I'm waiting in vain. –Diane
Marriages are spiritual, the legality of a marriage is specifically for the womans and childrens protection in life. A divorce means legal obligation and this is what I feel about his thinking in the matter, and he is right. I feel strongly that he loves you and your image of the future and happiness means everything to this man. If a divorce was a part of his or her plans, it would already be done. It can be very tough or impossible to change ones situation in life, it takes major effort however in your case it is entirely possible. Good things do happen to people who wait.

Are my ex-boyfriend and I meant to be? He has a girlfriend now and we broke up last year. We haven't been in contact until last month when he contacted me out of the blue and we even met up a few times and that spark was still there. What I want to know is, does he really want me back? What do you see in future for us? –Ilana
What was between you two can be a start of a new and more evolved relationship however, there cannot be anyone else involved such as girlfriends or boyfriends. Things have gone to a point where the only way to begin anew and reestablish the trustful love is to further your commitment to each other or get to that point. There is a time when he will feel like doing this but the pace of things is entirely up to you. I feel strongly that you do love each other so these things I speak of will be very easy and natural if your hearts are feeling the same.


Love Questions: Posted December 2nd, 2013

I went out with this guy for the first time in May of last year. We lost touch for a few months due to busy schedules but then reconnected around October of last year and saw each other a few times until February and then things happened beyond our control (legal matters and a serious car accident) and we haven't been able to see each other since. We are still talking and trying to work things out to meet up again but things just seem to get in the way. What do you see for this 'relationship'? Are things ever going to get better? Ever since I was young, I always thought he was 'the one' I was supposed to be with and still truly believe this to be true. Any insight would be great, and if he’s not 'the one' when will I meet him? –Jennifer
I strongly feel that you and he have gone through so much together that things have already started to fall into place. He also feels extremely close to you and shares the same anticipation and intenceity that you do. The only way things will get better is if you and he make things better. You have already stood by each other when things don’t go so well. He is looking forward to better times and a future of happiness with you. I also feel with patience and continued good feelings things will go very well for you two. Within four months the decision to evolve within the relationship will be a natural and mutual choice.

I wanted to know if me and my ex were ever getting back together? I feel like he is playing games and not being truthful about things. I need answers to why he is distant and if he is involved with another woman. -Antoinette
You and this man are already accustom to each others timing and this is the first thing people notice or miss. I do not feel it is another woman that caused the break up. I do feel that he is complimented by a little jealousy. The reason for the distance is that he considers his attention to you as unnecessary, and I feel this is to show you his disapproval of the break up. I strongly feel that you and he are more use to each other then you realize. There will be an opportunity to resolve your issues with each other and you and he will give a relationship another chance within the next two months.

Why has the person I love become more distant from me? I wonder if I did something wrong. Is she distant because we can't be together right now, or have I made her uncomfortable or upset her somehow? Does she love me? Is that why she's avoiding me? –Elizabeth
I do not feel that she has become so distant; it is just your life centering around her (this can be uncomfortable or smothering) she likes you for who you are. I would advise you to be yourself and when she finds the correct words she will let you know. I don’t really see that you made her uncomfortable in any way, however, some people do feel uncomfortable being the center of attention all the time or being responsible for someone elses happiness. The aspect of avoidance is used when an individual does not know how to respond to a question, and if the person continues not to know how to respond they will become distant. She does like you but everyone needs a time out for a while.


Love Questions: Posted November 25th, 2013

What do you see in the future for me and the guy I like? We have known each other a long time and would really like to see things work out but things keep getting in our way. Will he move closer soon? –Jennifer
At this phase of your relationship there should be an emphasis on shared experiences if the relationship is seeming stronger because of the distance and the solving of that barmier has become the main topic. Mutual experiences will create the comfort level, however, you and he both must solve your own issues and not get caught up in them. I strongly feel that you and he will become closer and a good relationship is possible. The things that are getting in your way is not the issue; it's how you resolve these things that really count. Follow your heart, and also your logic.

My husband is living with another woman but we are still married. He says he wants to be friends with benefits. I think we can reconcile our marriage and be as happy as we once were. Is he ever leaving this woman to whom he is living with and coming home to his wife and family? –Karen
First of all, your marriage is just not there, vows have been betrayed. The common image which was once there is not there anymore and that is the only way it can work. The legal aspect is also there, however, this is for your and your childrens protection in life. Contrary to what we see on TV, husbands do not usually want a divorce; they tend to want to work things out and get legally involved. I believe he is confusing you purposely; he does know you still want things to work. It takes desire from both people involved and I just do not feel that from him.

My husband and I are having martial issues. He had an affair and said it's over now. He says he loves only me. Is the affair over and will we overcome them and remain together? –Cynthia
Being that this man made the mistake of cheating, the marriage as you knew it is over. I have no doubt that he loves you but having an affair is very dangerous to all involved and causes a lot of major problems. A large percentage of men and women in prison doing hard time are there because of domestic problems. An individual needs to know when to walk away and allow others to do the same. I do not see him as repeating this mistake, however, the only way to reestablish the common image and start a new is to redo your vows in a spiritual way. I do feel this is a desire between both of you. I also see this happing around spring.


Love Questions: Posted November 18th, 2013

I met this guy online and he really wanted to date but at first I was unsure. Now I really like him but he has a girlfriend. The other night he told me I was his first choice the whole time and if he knew I wanted to date him, he wouldn't have dated the girl he's with now; he hasn't talked to me since then. Was he lying about me being his first choice? Should I just move on? –Emily
First of all, everybody has choices as far as relationships are concerned. I do feel that he is honest about his romantic feelings towards you, however, he is also very satisfied with having two girlfriends. I do see that this issue of choice will continue it's what is holding your situation together. I do not see him making any choices; he is a very nice person and he not only enjoys his current position in life, but he also has no desire to hurt anyones feelings. It is never a good idea to get involved with somebody that is already attached; even if the relationship is not going well. His girlfriend is the only one who is being deceived and that tells you a lot about him. It is all up to you. He will continue to pursue you, however, as I mentioned he will not make choices.

I have been alone for many years now. I am approaching 30 and I want to know when love will find me. I am tired of being lonely and I want to spend my life with someone special. –Brandy
It will occur when you are ready. I feel strongly that you, like a lot of others, have been occupied with the realities of life, work, family, finances, etc. I do also feel that someone special is thinking as you. I see your meeting each other as a result of some sort of sporting event, or a celebration associated with sports. You will like him very much and you will be able to tell that he likes you. Even though this meeting will be short, your interest in each other will continue. What I feel is good about this person is that he is a good man, and by choice and obligations he has been single for a very long time. I also see children, very happy children associated in some way.

I recently went through an abrupt breakup with no explanation. I want to know if this was the end. I felt such an intense connection with him unlike any other. I cannot get him off my mind. Do I hold on or do I move on? –Mari
You and he will see each other in passing, and I feel that you will be shocked by his non attention to the seeing of each other, you need to remember this behavior is international he intends to reenter your life when he is prepared; I feel that this was the reason for the abrupt break up. Your relationship has evolved to the next level and he is very aware of this. You and he do not see the future with out each other being there, but you do not see it in the same way. I do not feel this is an issue of love, but rather hurt feelings. Right now he is in the process of defining his feelings for you, just as you are. This man knows to keep things going he needs to provide a least the beginning of a plan or a common image of what the future holds to maintain your interest. I feel you and he will be back together very soon; within the next two months.


Love Questions: Posted November 11th, 2013

I've been together with my partner for almost 6 years. Are we ever going to marry and end up together? –Busisiwe
I feel strongly that this is very, very possible for one specific reason, your partner does love you. It has been a process for you to be together and will be a process to change the dynamics. I do not feel that the marriage aspect is really that important to your partner, however, you and your happiness are very important. If there are no barriers to deal with it's only the common image of the future that I do feel you have together; within three months you will be able to make plans.

Does my ex-boyfriend still love me? Will he and I reconcile and get back together? –Shanona
The affection that was once there has not gone anywhere, it is still there and always will be, however, the realities of life are constantly changing and evolving. We all tend to evolve at different speeds and in different ways and that is what I feel cased you and he to part. You will meet and talk in the future. However by that time you will feel differently, the chance to rekindle will be there and so will be the issues that caused you to part in the first place. Remember love has many levels and types to evolve takes two.

I have been talking to this girl for a short period of time but it feels like I've known her forever. We use to text each other everyday. Sometimes I would call but not that often. We even video chatted. Now we don't text at all and I really don't like talking on the phone cause I like texting better. This just started to happen. I don't know if she does not want to talk to me anymore. Is she waiting on me to make a better move? What should I do? –Kristie
Texting is fast and convenient, as is video chatting, however, they are not conducive to one-on-one relationships. There must be some sort of activity; a movie, concert, or going out to dinner together. These things will give you substance to create a good relationship (things to talk about) and also create a comfort level. If these things are not possible for some reason I do not feel things will continue. Try to remember that you have shared the same discussions and time, if you were the cause of her not communicating, you would know it. You will find that the reason has nothing to do with you; when you communicate again. This time pace yourself.


Love Questions: Posted November 4th, 2013

My ex's name is A and we broke up at the beginning of March because he wanted to be with another girl after being with me for almost 2 years. Since then we've hung out a few times and talked a few times over the phone and via text messaging. I'm confused about what he really wants from me. I don't know if he wants to try again or if he wants to be done for good. Do you see him coming back into my life and wanting to be with me or are he and I done for good? –Gena
Yes, I do see an attempt on his part to get close to you again, however, he is really not ready for a committed relationship. In his opinion he has tried it and could not achieve what he had envisioned. He views a relationship as difficult, so I really do not feel he is likely to want that in any relationship. Where you are concerned, you and he have gone way back to the beginning (the romantic phase) not being sure when the other will contact you or being able to get ready or prepare to see or talk to each other. The original issue will exist, evolving to the point of seeing the desired future in the same way. I do not feel that anything will go past the point of romance. My advice is to be enthusiastic about other things, at least for a while. You want to be able to see other opportunities that are passing you by because of this issue.

I've always been single and recently I have really focused my energies on opening my heart. I am ready to receive love. Last summer I had a reading and he told me that I would meet my man in some increment of 9; maybe 9 months but not 9 years, in a random encounter. It's been 9 months. I was wondering, do I need to be more proactive in my search? –Lanna
Being open and empathizing a desire to be in a successful and loving relationship is always a beginning. It is very important to see the final result when emphizing desire in prayer or deep thought and not the process of getting stronger or closer to your goal step by step. You must see yourself under a positive light; being happy, safe, and in a loving relationship. You will meet each other when neither of you are looking. You will both be very involved in the atmosphere, which will be the source of your meeting and also the source of the number 9 in some way; and this is how you will know.


Love Questions: Posted October 28th, 2013

I've been alone caring for my ill parents for over 10 years now. Dad died from cancer and mom is still quite ill. It feels like I may just be someone who is meant to be alone. Will I ever find that nice girl to marry and have a family together or should I get used to going through life by myself? –Sam
I personally know a lot of men and women in your position. For a relationship to work you need to be happy; where you are concerned if your mom is OK and safe you are happy. This part of you is a big compliment to your personality. You will meet several people in the next few months; one woman in particular will catch your eye and heart however it is her friend that you will be attracted to mind, body, and personality. A discussion of your common situation in life is the substance that will promote a closer situation. I suggest that you become involved in a community event or take a class that interests you. You are in a very positive cycle where new endeavors will work out for you. An opportunity for you to get exactly what you desire will come your way, now it is entirely up to you if you desire to proceed.

I'm writing to you because I'm in desperate need to hear from my ex boyfriend Mike it's been 9 months now and I miss him so much! I was wondering if you see anything that will bring us back together again. I appreciate any insight you may have. –Amanda
It has been difficult for he to stay away from you, but he feels that this is what you wanted. He does miss talking to you, and all the little things that made up you relationship. You and he shared all the same discussions, activities, and emotional situations, in other words you are working with the same memories. Around Halloween he will contact you and after a long talk you and he will give a relationship another try. You and he still have the same feelings for each other. You will also find that another perspective relationship will require a lot more clarity and effort.


Love Questions: Posted October 21st, 2013

After knowing him for 23 years, about 12 years ago we decided to change the dynamic of our childhood friendship. We have been dating on and off for 12 years but nothing stable. He is my best friend but we can't seem to get past a certain cycle in our lives. We can't seem to stay away from each other. We have been in other relationships when we were apart but we are drawn in a way that always brings us back. Will we ever change the dynamic to something more serious or stable? –Licette
You have with each other the type of situation that many people wish they had. You and this man have essentially been dating for a very, very long time; what I mean is that both of you have the opportunity to prepare when you do see each other; have enough money, look nice, be in a good mood etc. I feel you and he are in love with each other, you have been for a long time. I am referring to romantic love (friends with benefits) when everything is harts and flowers, kisses and hugs. When something has been working well for a long time is not the time to initiate a desired change. You both have established your own views of the future. You and he do not see the future with out each other being there, however, you do not see it in the same way. I do feel strongly that he is thinking about the same thing you are; you have shared a lot.

I know a co-worker of mine is playing me. I was told me and M were going to be more then friends someday. Is this true and when will it happen? –Savannah
That is entirely up to you and he. I feel that he is very interested in you and would like to get to know you better however; he may be a little shy. I would advise you and he to have coffee or lunch with each other. Within the next month if you and he communicate directly there is a very strong possibility you will become more then friends. However, if you and he communicate through co-workers things will backfire. One reason things will probably work is that he is available, if you are too, then a relationship can evolve.

The man I was with left me before the wedding. I feel that we were not soul mates but I am still hurt. Will I and when find love and have family? –Jelena
Even though this is very embarrassing and hurtful to you it is better that this occurred when it did and not after you were married. Being in a beneficial and loving marriage is your destiny. You are becoming more and more defined as a woman; within the next three months you will be involved in a friendship that keeps getting stronger. Within the next seven months you and he will be considering a more defined future together. I do also feel the man you were to marry will make an attempt to get close to you once again if you pay attention to him. My advice is for you to make yourself happy and do what you need to.


Love Questions: Posted October 14th, 2013

I've been single for a long time and am talking to a few guys. I need more romance in my life. I really just wanted to know when I would see my love life improving. These guys that I've been talking to have had been in really bad situations and don't want anything to do with their ex's and the ones I've been interested in are my past and nothing has really moved forward. So with no progress, I’ve basically ended communication with a lot of them. –Jennifer
You are a very defined woman and it is refreshing to see this. You do seem to be attracted to men who are already established themselves in one way or another. A growing relationship for you will depend on your desire to grow together, and of course a man who is available for the kind of relationship that you desire. By December you will meet someone who will capture your interest then your heart; you are going to find out that he feels the same. There will no conditions or obstacles in this perspective relationship, no preconceived notions, only the joy of being together. You will have a wonderful holiday season.

My ex and I have been off an on since we got out of high school. The longest we have been together was about 3 years. Every time we would get back together I would fall more in love with him. He is my best friend. We have known each other since third grade and he means the world to me. He has told me that he wanted to be with me and that I am all he thinks about but now he says he just loves me as a friend. Will he change and want me back and if not will I meet someone new? Also, I've tried other psychics they have told me that I will find a new love soon and that I will be making big decisions soon. I’m not sure what any of it means. I just really love him and he means the world to me we haven't seen each other in months. I just wonder if he misses me any or regrets anything. –Chelsea
He does miss you very much, however, he is trying to be honest with you. The word friendship can be very deceiving. You and he both know very well you are not just friends but using that word “friendship” really means, “Please do not ask me any questions because I don’t know what to say.” Friends do not have the right to pry into to personal questions such as where are we going as a couple, or what is the next phase. I have every confidence that you and he love each other, however you have not established a common view of the future. You need to be aware that romance and a common view of the future are different things; romance is easy and natural, reality is not as easy and takes effort to be accomplished. The only reason he left is he does not know how to continue, it is not because he lost his love for you, but he does not know where things are going. He will attempt to return to your life very shortly, within the next month.

I've been dating a man for two years and he was divorced about 10 years ago and was bitter and he says she was extremely manipulative. He left the marriage after two decades. He moved to the state where I reside because some of his immediate family is here. We met at a community function and he began to pursue me. He slowed the relationship down after a usual heavy three-month start and I just let him take his space without questions or pursuit. We have now been dating steadily but it is very slow. I only enjoy our time when he gives his time to share. I see him about once a month. I truly feel his love and he's told me of his love. Would it be possible to tell if he plans to stay in this relationship with me and if it will grow over time? Does he ever consider moving back to his home state where his children are? His daughter just graduated college and moved back there and one time when he was under stress he said that maybe he would move back to be with his children. I didn't say anything and just sort of rubbed his shoulder. I don't ask questions or seek answers because I don't ever want to pressure him. Everything with us has evolved naturally. We have the same life goals and interests. He respects me and I him. We have a great thing. It is only because he's not very present and doesn't talk about our long-term future that I am secretly hurting inside. I do desire to have the answers, but I do not want to ask. I can tell he's not the type of person to be questioned; I guess he had enough of it from his former wife. I understand it is okay to communicate gently and lovingly. He tells me I'm so strong and loving. So from your perception, is there anything you can tell me about the future? ?–Margaret
It would be wise to remember that the last person he felt in love with caused a lot of ups and downs in his life, and he did not feel that some one he was so in love with and sure about would cause him so many problems. I do not feel that he is dwelling on the last relationship or that he has any unresolved issues but it does explain his pace. He knows very well that a good and happy relationship can make a person feel wonderful in a lot of ways, however a complicated or stressful relationship can make you feel terrible and depressed. I feel strongly that you have found the new and improved version of this man. He does love you very much and he knows that you may be thinking about where things are going, so is he. I feel very sure that by Halloween he will give you a view of the future with each other. He has a strong desire to make you happy and develop a more structured and defined relationship. He is a very good man even though he may be a little cautious.


Love Questions: Posted October 7th, 2013

I have been going through a very rough time with romance and was wondering if you could tell me anything that might be happening in the next couple of months. I need some help to figure out my life. –Mark
Everything involved in your romantic situation revolves around opportunity; within the next four months you will have several opportunities to meet someone you like very much and that feels the same towards you. I feel that your natural pursuit of interest and joy will increase to the point of investigation and a lot of activity weather it is spirituality, engineering, or music. A very big head start in your desire is that you’re a nice person and people have a lot of fun when you’re around. The individual in your destiny is also looking for you. This person will have long flowing hair and be partial to silver jewelry. You have already entered a phase of activity and I always see this as a very good time to start anything new.

Me and my girlfriend been going out for a while and we are now expecting a baby. I just want to know will we be with each other still and will the baby be ok. –Anthony
To be very honest, these things should have been determined before a child entered the picture. This is a new experience for you both. You have now entered reality. I see the child as being very beautiful and happy (please consult your doctor about the progress) in a loving and established family. One reason I feel you and she will make a good life for your child is that you love each other and your child; as long as this is present you and she will be able to design life the way you see it. Remember that you have already started the process of being happy; you have been blessed.

My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years off and on. Are we soul mates or is there someone else for me? I’m so confused about our relationship. I feel he’s with me until he finds someone else especially after how our last breakup went. –Shaniece
A workable and growing relationship, or should I say common view of the future should have been established, or a least started by now. You really should not feel the way you do right now. There will be a lot of opportunities in your future to meet someone who sees life the way you do. In all reality, I do not feel that this particular relationship is going to work out for you and also for him. I feel strongly that you desire different things out of life.


Love Questions: Posted September 30th, 2013

I’ve known this guy for 7 years, and we have had a semi romantic relationship, since 4 years. We are very attached emotionally, (at least I am to him), and try and provide each other a lot of support. We had some issues to decide on regarding marriage, like where to live, family issues, etc., which ended up in a few arguments. Lately, another girl seems to have entered his life -someone his family found for him for an arranged marriage. I feel like he is going to be with her, because of his family's strong influence. But we still talk to each other every day and have a strong connection. Can you help me read more into this? What is the best I can do to salvage this relationship? –Laks
The plans you and he had together and, the point to which your relationship had evolved is very strong, romantic and, bonding. There is no question about your love for each other. I do feel that he will carry through with his families’ plans for him. More then any thing they want him to be happy and non-troubled in life. The people who are close to him can tell very easily if he is happy, angry, or sad. In many cultures parents do arrange or pressure their offspring to follow tradition (and it works, and most of the time needed to benefit the future of all concerned) The key to an effective marriage that succeeds is love. I feel strongly his love is with you and he is very confidant that you love him. He will attempt to continue seeing you, as he carries through with his family plan, however it will not be possible; I give the marriage only a few months, It is the spiritual aspect that must be present to hold things together and make them work effectively and I really do not feel that. You must remember it is the legal aspect of a marriage that is established for the protection of wife and children. I do feel also that the woman involved is extremely smart. My advice to you is to be the happy person that you are and try not to pressure this man or he will blame you. I do not really feel that this is an unexpected event to him; he was expecting this for a long while.

There is a man in my church who I've known for a few years. He's older than me and also married with two children. But I am very attracted to him. I have caught him looking at me, and in a group he'll make a joke with me or rather say something to me than his wife. Does he feel attracted to me in any way? Does he feel what I feel when we are close to each other? I just need to know. Will we get romantically involved in the future maybe, or soon? –Klara
There is a great compliment in your attraction to him, and believe it or not it has brought he and his wife closer. The aspect of a physical a encounter with him is not very likely. This man understands the investment of the marriage, and what makes it happy and growing is the love involved. In a very short time your attention will be focused on somebody who also feels the same way as you (one month). Please remember the best way to deal with a problem is to not put your self in that position in the first place. A lot of your feelings are based in the environment you are in and the joy that surrounds you interaction. The one in your destiny feels exactly the same way.

My ex, S, and I dated for 3 months, but broke up in April. It was a long distance relationship. He's in the navy and he just deployed today I think, I miss him terribly already and there is not a day that I don't think about him, so I wondered, will we ever get back together? –Gabriela
Yes, it is to be expected; but most importantly maintaining a pattern of contact, should be established. I feel this man is very grounded, gregarious, and noble. He does think about you always and looks forward to seeing you again. I feel strongly that he wants to be realistic in his current situation; and not looking into the future as defined or written he is focused on every day and changes as they apply to his situation in life. Where you are concerned, he holds you very dear in his hart and does intend to continue seeing you; if that is what you want. Within the next two months you will hear from him, and the communication will be very positive and joyful.


Love Questions: Posted September 23rd, 2013

Am I going to reunite with my ex Sarah? Is she waiting for me to make the first move or does she want space before she initiates contact? –Hiuyan
I feel strongly that she is thinking about you in the same way. The thing you have in common right now is the not knowing. I advise you to initiate contact through an invitation to dinner, a concert, or may be a funny movie. Try not to look into the future too far with her, let the common image of the future evolve naturally. The common image is established through activity; the quit and romantic times will come naturally. Keep trying she does like you very, very much, and you will find this out very soon through her actions more then her words.

I really like someone and I'm not sure if he likes me back. He said he wanted to come and ask for my hands and I accepted but he is being really confusing he would talk to me than disappears for a month without telling me anything. Even if I would message him he wouldn't reply and whenever I would ask him he would tell me that he is busy. I don't understand him sometimes. Will he and I be together in the future? -Zeinab
You are dealing with a very insecure individual and this type of behavior will continue for a while. He only desires you to think about him, possibly worry a little which is the first expression of love. If you are serious about him, it is important that you and he have an accurate communication with each other. I do not feel he is hiding anything or doing anything wrong. Right now I feel strongly that he likes you as much as you like him, however, his life may be a little more complex then you realize right now. You will gain a lot of knowledge about him and other things important to you with in the next four months; I know this knowledge will benefit you greatly and shape the rest of your life.

I’ve had a friends-with-benefits type of relationship with a guy who has a girlfriend. They have been together 4 years and we have been behind her back for 2. At first it started off as fun and games but I started to develop this strong connection with him, which was strange because it was nothing more than sex, although we always kept I'm contact. There’s times when I do think about him but there’s also times when it’s much more and the thoughts of him overwhelm me to the point where I KNOW I can't be the only one feeling that way. Does he have the same feelings for me? Is the relationship holding him back? Am I just undeniably obsessed? –Leah
He has made a big mistake, what I mean is that he has fallen in love with two different women at the same time. People often get together not intending to develop realistic feelings but it happens all the time. Sex is not anything basic, the feelings that are established in the process are very real and life changing to both people concerned. You are the other woman and he wished to keep things the way they are; this works out fine for him but offers you nothing but frustration. You have bonded with him and he with you and under regular circumstances this would be wonderful, however, I must be honest with you; you will feel differently very soon, and he has entered a relationship in a completely wrong way, and it will not work. Please do not let him blame you, he is a big boy and creates his own issues.


Love Questions: Posted September 16th, 2013

I met a guy online in January and fell in love with him. We had, what I thought, was a great relationship for four months when all of the sudden he broke up with me. His reason for breaking up with me was strange. I then found out from a friend that he had still been on the dating site for a while after him and I were in an exclusive relationship and checked out her profile. I've just really been questioning our whole relationship. I have no idea if he was playing me for a fool the whole time or what. I'm just so confused. Can you give me some insight? –Cara
There are certain benefits to an online relationship and also drawbacks. I feel strongly that he did in fact develop realistic feelings for you however; evolving in to a full relationship is another story. One of the benefits you both experienced was the ability to open up to each other, you made each other feel very good. The detriment is that it is fairly impossible to evolve into a complete relationship at a distance. Most people online with dating sites talk or communicate with many people until that special individual enters their life. I feel what happened is he did know how to, or he felt that he could not evolve with someone at this time of his life. I do not feel that he lost his attraction to you, he only could not go beyond the stage that you and he were in. You will hear from him (if you stop trying to communicate with him) with in the next three weeks you will hear from him and he will attempt to explain his situation to you.

Is my wife going to meet a man where she works who is attracted to her and tries to have an affair with her? Will she have an affair with him and if so how log will it last? –James
You and she also know that your marriage is unhealthy at this time; what I mean is that you are both making each other feel very unhappy and uncomfortable. An affair I feel is out of the question; if your marriage does not work out she does not want to be to blame. She also knows you are very aware of her actions and timing. Most importantly I do not feel the desire to enter an affair from her. It is not to late to strengthen your marriage however; with out trust and desire it will not work out well. One thing I see in your favor is that your love for each other is still present and I do not feel you or she really wants a divorce or separation.

I would like to know if my recent partner and me will get back together. We are still friends but he doesn’t really contact me, only replies to me when I message him. We broke up a few months ago for nearly 3 months and he distanced himself from me and acted as though he was starting a new life. When he eventually admitted he still loved me and came back he said he never lost his feelings for me but just learned to control them as he wanted to create a new life for himself. We were back together for 2 weeks and now he has left again because I am, in a way, a bit controlling and angry and he said he can’t live that life after he has just built himself up. I am getting professional help with my issues and he is coming with me to sessions to help me but he is still adamant it is over for us for good. Will he come back and if so can you tell me when? –Andrew
I feel that he is trying to be honest with you. A lot of people learn early on in life that there home is there point of power; in other words if where the person lives and sleeps is stressful and uncomfortable this will effect his whole day, work, and all activities of the day. If he is in an unhealthy relationship this fact goes double. He wants you to feel better and also, feels he may be affecting you life in a negative way. You will not lose contact with each other, only taking an extended time out, he feels for the benefit of all concerned.


Love Questions: Posted September 9th, 2013

I haven't had any contact with my ex boyfriend for 2 years. He now as a girlfriend and even though I know this, I still find myself thinking about him all the time and still feel very strong feelings for him. I never told him my true feelings and I'm not sure if I still feel this way because I never told him or if there’s a chance he still feels strongly about me as well. Does he still feel anything for me? Has he completely moved on? –Jody
Each relationship is different. It is not common for two people to completely forget each other. Experiences, shared activities, and opening up to each other, these things lead to uniqueness in a relationship. I feel strongly that he will always hold you dear in his heart. There is no doubt that the positive memories remain and also the thought of where the relationship could have gone if things were different. I do not feel anger or frustration coming from him regarding your relationship; only a bit of disappointment. I also feel strongly that the relationship he is in now will work out, they both seem to be giving it their best; as I feel he wishes for you.

I'm looking to know how Joe really feels about me. He doesn't let me in when I ask him. Joe and I know each other through family and we had a fling about 5 years ago. I moved out of town and stopped talking to his family for a while. He said he has been searching for me and found me a few months back. We seem to be so alike in many ways but yet so different. When we are in the same room there's this HEAVY energy or connection between us. Another psychic said we are soul mates but he has a lot of negative energy blocking him and it s getting between us. I'm confused about us and starting to loose faith in him. ?–Samantha
What I feel from him is the desire for a non-complicated relationship and I really do not feel things between you and he were ever really taken seriously by earthier of you. You have both evolved and if the desire is to create a more defined relationship (I feel it is) is shared between you two, I feel you will succeed. However, if you still live at a distance this may create a barrier after a while. He has also felt the strong energy between you two. I do not feel any negative energy coming from him only a very deep consciousness of how others see him. Things between you and he will evolve to the point where you will have a more defined situation with each other with in the next three months. One thing to remember is that this man will not compete with another regarding you.

I'm almost 39 years old, single, and I’ve never been married. I work in a stressful fashion industry and rarely have time nor feel motivated to meet people due to past relationship failures. I would like to know if I'll get married one day and possibly have kids? My biological clock is ticking; it almost seems impossible to find my soul mate/true love. Please let me know where and when I should start looking for this person. ?–Nikki
Yes, I do see your destiny as being in a joyful relationship. The aspect of time and availability is an issue in almost every relationship right now in this very active world. I feel that you will meet a particular individual who is involved with the medical field and you and this man will have a strong liking and attraction to each other. However, you will find that his schedule is even more demanding then yours. Through conversation with each other you will find that his work schedule is the primary reason a past relationship did not work. This will occur around New Years day. Your complex schedules will enhance the quality of the time you do share. You as an individual will soon find that many people share your exact situation but still manage to live a very complete and pleasurable life; as is your destiny.


Love Questions: Posted September 1st, 2013

I am truly and fully in Love with Mark he told me today that he was having an engagement party for this women he said that he loves. He has told me three times before and they all fizzled what is going on this time. This person is almost 73 and he is only 45. Does he really love her or what. Is this so called marriage going to work out. –Sharryl
The engagement is real, it has been arranged and also well thought out. He already knows that this marriage has already started to fall apart (the vows have been broken, before they were even taken) Where you are concerned he does like you very much, but has been holding on to you for his own reasons. I feel strongly after some realistic thought you will see for your self that this is really not worth getting upset about. He is not the type of person that I see in your destiny. A lot of trouble and problems will follow this marriage. My advise to you is to let it go and move on; for you personally it would be a very wise decision.

Stephen and I were together 2 years - broke up once and then got back together. We had a big argument at Christmas and not had contact this time. Do you see us getting back in the future or has he someone else. –Deryn
He is a very friendly person and this reflects in his personality; as you he will always have friends however, I really do not see him in a romantic relationship that is not where his mind is at this time. Where you and he are concerned I do not feel a relationship ( a structured relationship) is a part of his plan as an individual. You and he both remain dear in each others harts, I do no feel that he blames you, or himself for things not working out. I also feel very strongly that in this case you and he are fully capable of becoming very good friends.

I'm in love with two guys the first guy Donyel has had my heart for years now but we are separated and working on trying again maybe then there is earl and I love him too but I can't tell if he is honest about a lot of things he tells me and I believe he still love his kids mother and can't truly move on from her. I'm confused on which guy is the one I should truly invest my heart in. Which one? –Jessica
Your best choice, if you desire would be the first man. You have invested a lot of feelings, time and a common image. But, You can not evolve with him if there is any body else in your life. The new individual and yourself have become each others counselors (some one to talk to, some one who understands) and I do not see things evolving between you two. Now if you feel you want to make a choice do so however, I really do not see the need; a committed relationship should not be a choice, under most circumstances couples arrive at that stage just by being together and bonding. If you really feel you need to chose and it is a difficult choice, remember it is a two way situation. I feel strongly that with in two months this will no longer be an issue for you.


Love Questions: Posted August 26th, 2013

I have a "kind of" relationship with a co-worker (boss) that is married. Neither him nor his wife is happy in this marriage but stay in it for their kids. I 100% feel he is my soul mate. I know he has strong feelings for me too but he is trying to hide/fight his feelings for me. Sometimes he is distant and other times he is very open with me. This has not been going on long but when you know you know. Do you see this being a long-term relationship between he and I? Will he get a divorce? And when do you see this happening if it will? –April
This is not a relationship it is an affair. I truly feel that he is happy with a wife and a girlfriend. Life is not easy for anyone all the time. There are ups and downs. I am positive that you both have thought about the implications with having an affair with a married man that you work with. He has already let you know that he is not going to give up his marriage, family, and everything he has worked for. Also, most importantly, this affair is not fair to you. It will lead nowhere and cause a lot of problems and disruptions in both of your lives. My advice is to end it now; even if he continues to pursue you - and he will.

I have been having trouble with my love life; it has been pretty non-existent for a long time. I try to put myself out there but nothing seems to be coming of it. It is getting very frustrating but I am trying to remain positive. Will I meet a man this year for romance and love? If you see me meeting a someone, can you tell me anything about them? I know deep down in my heart and spirit that I am ready for love, romance, all of it. I am just waiting and trying to find the guy. –Kayandra
You are the type of person that always strives to create harmony with in your family and your environment. When people speak of the woman being the queen of the castle, they were talking about you. However, it is very important for you to follow your heart and I do feel to a certain extent you have been doing just that. This will not be an issue to you by April. However, by the end of April, you will be happy but also know that a choice will be necessary to evolve in a way that appeals to you and also the man involved. Just remember to not look into the future to fast, let this common image of the future happen naturally. I do also see that your spiritual life is becoming more for filling your intuition and personal magnetism are at their peek at this time.

After 35 years of a happy, faithful, and truly loving marriage between two soul mates that shared everything, Valentines Day morning my husband left with only the clothes on his back and his briefcase never to return home. I have no idea where he lives or what has happened. I love him very much, miss him madly, and I am worried about his mental well-being, what he may be going through, what is he thinking and of course feeling. What does the future hold for us? –Glanna
First of all, it is very important that you follow traditional methods in your search. It is very odd for an individual to simply vanish. By sure to first report this to the proper authorities. The intention was to get away, however, some times things don’t work out exactly the way we would like them to. I do not feel he is in danger; but you really need to find him. If you have already checked with his family you need to do it again. I feel within three months you will know the full story; it is already on its way.


Love Questions: Posted August 19th, 2013

I'm in love with a guy I've been on and off talking to for almost a year now. We both started talking once we both got out of relationships and it wasn't the best timing. We argued all of the time and he confused me about how he felt so I played games that I now regret. We stopped talking for a little while and he is now talking to someone new. He's been contacting me very often recently but is giving me mixed signals. I have never been as serious about him until now. I want him back. Something tells me he does too because he always complains about the new girl and the other night we got together and talked about "us" for a while. Will we be together? If yes, when? It's making me depressed and I just want an honest answer. -Rachel
First of all you and he cannot expect each other to solve each others problems; and this goes three times regarding prior relationship problems, or should I say unresolved relationship problems. I feel that in the beginning of your relationship you and he were able to talk effectively with each other, were honest with each other about feelings and emotional conditions, and you understood each other opened up and identified with each other. I believe that the intention was not to fall in love again, but it happened, however the last impression that both of you have of love was not good and filled with uncomfortable and unresolved issues. Secondly he really would not be telling you anything about another girl friend; unless he desired you to be a little bit jealous; the reason he complains about her is to make you feel that he is ready to leave. You and he will have another chance to succeed with each other but, only one more. If you both have learned to build on new experiences, and not to dwell on past problems, you will have a very, very good chance with each other, if the past creeps up on your new relationship, or should I say is allowed to enter once again it would be a waste of time. Look forward to a nice holiday season.

I fell in love with George when I was 18. We both feel it was love at first sight. The minute we laid eyes on each other we were inseparable. He treats me like a princess and I love everything about him. However, he is in and out of jail. This leaves me heartbroken, lonely, and always in pain. Not a day goes by where I don't think about him. Will he get his life together when he comes home this time? Will our love last? He should be home within a month or two, should I stick it out or am I just going to get hurt again? I really am in love with him but at times I just feel he'll never learn and I'll be here waiting forever. I tried moving on plenty of times, but it never works out. All I want is George. I know this isn't a perfect relationship and everyone tells me I can do better, but I just can't seem to tell myself that. Is this relationship going to go anywhere or am I just wasting my time? -Maida
I really feel that is up to him; if he stops the behavior that is getting him in trouble, then I would say yes give it another chance. I feel strongly that he is pretty tired of all the problems he is going through, tired, not angry. I also feel that he knows he can not make a good life with out help or assistance of some sort. He does love you very much and is disappointed that you have seen him in the present light. His key to success is letting go of people who will distract him or get him in trouble, he has grown up and understands the seriousness of some aspects of life. You are his inspiration weather he lets you know or not. I feel you will surprised in a very good way with in the next three months.

I've been in a relationship for 6 years now I really am sick and tired of him. We never went together but now we have feelings for each other and it's real strong we're even planning things together. He wants me to come and stay with him. I think I want to be with him now. Where do I go from here? -Shalitha
You need to be honest to yourself and to him. If you really feel that he makes you feel the way that you mentioned, leave. However, don't blame him or make him feel bad. I would suggest that you have an honest talk with him, but speak from your perspective. He will not be entirely surprised, to a certain extent he expects this. Life is to short to be with someone that you really don’t want to be with. Now, this does not mean that you're cruel or insensitive, it only means that you are being honest with yourself. I do feel strongly that the process will go a lot smother then you are thinking.


Love Questions: Posted August 12th, 2013

I've been alone for many years caring for my very ill parents and also building my own business. It has been very hard and very lonely. Will I ever find someone to marry and have my own family with or should I just accept that I am meant to be alone? -Steve
The fact and the reality of your desire show you that your destiny is not to be alone; I know you may feel that way sometimes like we all do. To establish your own business and keep it functioning, as well as taking care of your parents is very time consuming, and I do not feel you have ever had the time to focus on personal relationships. I also feel strongly that you are drawn to assisting others to the point of self-sacrifice. You are a very caring and independent man; you have a lot to offer in a growing and happy relationship. You will meet a very nice woman with in the next couple of months; the circumstances of your meeting each other will be in your pursuit of an atmosphere that you have always found to be energizing and stimulating mind, body and spirit. I feel strongly that you will find each other to be supporting and encouraging in each of your lives. The possibility of a more serious and intense relationship will depend on common interest and a very, very, common view of a desired future; but as you she must be sure.

I have been unsuccessful in my past relationships. Just when I think I found the right man to share my life with something happens and we break up. Will I find the right man to share the rest of my life with? -Patricia
Yes, by fall you are going to meet a man with a very magnetic personality, I feel he is involved in the music industry possibly a musician. One thing that you will most likely not be too happy with is his traveling schedule, you will find that he is also very tiered of his schedule and is in the process of becoming more stable. This is a very good man who thinks of others, and has matured; the most desirable aspect of his personality is his ability to make you smile and laugh. One thing about this perspective union is that it would have no room at all for jealousy or possessiveness. You will always have many friends but this one has a very strong potential for something more. A man from your past will attempt to reenter your life, please remember that he will only waste your time, as before.

I have been in a relationship with a man for 13 years he is married but has lived apart from her and all of a sudden he calls far and few between he says he is still in love with me but yet he doesn't call and I found out he has been with someone else. Please should I just give up on us? Do you think he is still in love with me or are they just empty words? Could he just be saying that thinking that's what I want to hear? I keep telling him all I want is the truth to be honest with me. What should I do? -Bettie
It is very unlikely that he will change to much in his life, after knowing he was married (even though it was dysfunctional) you stayed with him for all that time (thirteen years), he would always be able to say that you knew his circumstances, and still chose to be with him, he has merle moved on. I do strongly feel that his marriage was and is a convenient barrier to committing too anyone else, it works for some people. After all this time the relationship should have evolved; and I do not feel it has. He does know you very well as you know him, and he does know what you want to hear. I do feel also that this man has a problem that he has never had to deal with, until now. I do not really feel it would be worth your time to pursue another relationship with him.


Love Questions: Posted August 5th, 2013

I've started to fall for someone I've recently met. We get along well but he's still hurt from his ex. What do I do? I think about it constantly, and if I'm not thinking about that I'm thinking about my other ex who still hates me after such a long time. What happens from here on? -Chloe
I would advise you to try to see things from a personal perspective, and also in terms of the present leading into the future. An individual cannot use the past or past experiences to judge what they want from a current relationship; do not get me wrong we must remember what led to current feelings and a situation that did not work. All relationships are different and unique. I would also advise you to move a bit slower, your current interest has not come to terms with his past, but he will. At this phase you need to avoid a relationship based on becoming each other’s counselors; it will not succeed. I feel strongly that he will accept his situation (with out regret or bargaining) within the next three months. When you become aware that the friendship makes you and also him happy, and when there is a clear positive view of a new friendship that can become something more, then it will be time to think in a more serious way; but right now is not the time, the past must be dealt with first, so it remains in the past and not interfere with the future.

I have been with the same man for 5 years and almost a year now he has been in and out of my life. Well I am now in a new relationship with a guy who I feel I can grow with, but I am not in love with him as of yet. My question is will my ex come back full force and stop being so wishy-washy or am I better off without. -Candice
Your ex is only coming back because he feels you still want him to, he definitely feels there is a chance to reunite. He is willing to meet you half way, but that’s it. Asking a person to change radicle for the sake of the relationship never works. You and your ex have the five years you were together to work with, and you have both grown and became more defined individuals. The love you once had for each other is still there, but matured; to continue and reestablish the relationship with your ex is possible but it must mature and be nurtured to work out well. If the relationship your in now was a genuine relationship, you would not be thinking the way you are. By the way you will never, never be alone; it is your destiny.


Love Questions: Posted July 29th, 2013

I have been divorced for many years and I have 3 grown children. Will I meet my soul mate, fall in love and get married again? -Bernadette
There will be not one, not two, but three opportunities within the next nine months. Situations of strong feelings regarding close friendships that can definitely result in something more. Someone dear to you from the past will make an attempt to contact or get closer to you, however, barriers that were present at the time may still be there. There is also an individual in your current situation who feels very, very interested in getting to know you better; now if by chance you do not feel the same, not to worry you are also going to meet an individual as a result of attending a social (possibly a religious occasion - baby shower, wedding, or the celebrating of a spiritual occasion.) You are very magnetic right now in a very positive way; it is an extremely good time to start anything new.

I have been single for over a year. There are men that approach me but they are not what I am looking for. When will I meet someone I will have a serious relationship with? -Fina
I feel strongly when you realize what a defined woman you really are and establishing a relationship is a matter of incorporation into each other lives; yours and his. The opportunity will arrive by the end of summer; however, the key to getting what you want out of a serious relationship is time. When you meet the correct person you will know it. Through bonding and spending time with each other, when you and he naturally see a common image of the future, you will be sure. By the full moon of August you view of life will be bright and very happy; this does apply to you only and not a perspective relationship. There is a man who is in love with you right now, although you have not made time to get to know each other, I feel strongly that you have a lot in common.

I have finally met the right man in my life. He has all that I ever wanted except that he is married. But he says that as soon as his daughter grows up a bit he will get a divorce. I am not the cause of his leaving his wife as he has already been living a separate life for quite sometime. I don't want to be the cause of any hurt. He and she have been living separate lives for a while. He is a good person and I truly love him. Do you see a future for us? He is the perfect man that I always dreamed I would have in my life. And while my life is not perfect either and I still have many past issues to resolve this man has brought sunshine and love into my life and he is a man of his word. What do you see for us? –Jean
He has learned about the ups and downs of any relationship, and I feel that he has pretty much gone through all the feelings that are involved in any divorce. In his eyes he has found you to be a catch, inelegant, beautiful, and available, you have brought joy and affection to this man. You and he have developed a spiritual bonding with each other, and he is aware that he needs to offer you a realistic view of the future together; if not he feels you will lose your interest. It’s understood by him that the relationship as it is, is wonderful but does require growth and nurturing. Even though this relationship is not fare to you, he does love you very much and fully intends to continue the romantic relationship. Give the situation two months and there will be a positive change, one in which there is a clear path to a future together. But remember the ultimate decision is yours and yours alone.


Love Questions: Posted July 22nd, 2013

I'm in love with a guy I've been on and off talking to for almost a year now. We both started talking once we both got out of relationships and it wasn't the best timing. We argued all of the time and he confused me about how he felt so I played games that I now regret. We stopped talking for a little while and he is now talking to someone new. He's been contacting me very often recently but is giving me mixed signals. I have never been as serious about him until now. I want him back. Something tells me he does too because he always complains about the new girl and the other night we got together and talked about "us" for a while. Will we be together? If yes, when? It's making me depressed and I just want an honest answer. -Rachel
I truly feel that he is enjoying you defining your feelings for him (big compliment) however, a committed relationship and intense definitions of his feelings for you I feel is something he sees as easier expressed then to put into exact words; he is a fire sing (Aries); Fire and Air sings are masculine, which means they tend to express by action rather then by words. You are just about on a cusp (between) Aries and Taurus (you would be very compatible). You and this man would define a relationship just about the same way. The reason he has not made a choice in this matter is that in reality he does not feel he needs to at this point. For a genuine and growing relationship to evolve there cannot be any one else involved (third parties); or the process cannot occur, or proves to be very disappointing for all involved. I do strongly feel that with-in three months, you will receive what you want, but may not want it at that time.

I fell in love with George when I was 18. We both feel it was love at first sight. The minute we laid eyes on each other we were inseparable. He treats me like a princess I love everything about him. However, he is in and out of jail. This leaves me heartbroken, lonely, and always-in pain. Not a day goes by where I don't think about him. Will he get his life together when he comes home this time? Will our love last? He should be home within a month or two, should I stick it out or am I just going to get hurt again? I really am in love with him but at times I just feel he'll never learn and I'll be here waiting forever. I tried moving on plenty of times, but it never works out. All I want is George. I know this isn't a perfect relationship and everyone tells me I can do better, but I just can't seem to tell myself that. Is this relationship going to go anywhere or am I just wasting my time? -Maida
I feel very, very strongly that he wants to succeed but may not be able to ask for help (with the behavior that has cased problems in his life), one thing that is certain is that he loves you very much. One thing I see is that he may have a strong tenancy to bunch the stress of life altogether and feel overwhelmed by the feeling that is produced by dealing with things that way (This can be common male behavior), I feel his path is to systematically (one thing at a time) take care of things that he feels he needs to. Of course you are directly involved, weather he admits it or not you are one of his strongest motivators if not the strongest. I do see you will succeed with each other as a couple if you are realistic about the future and take life systematically.


Love Questions: Posted July 15th, 2013

I have been dating my boyfriend J for 2 years now I have a hard time trusting him we don't live together but I see him many days during the week & I stay overnight at his house, when we are not together I wonder if he is with someone else I asked him if he is he said no & that I have to trust him every time I feel I am on the right track with trust something happens to make me take a step back. Do u think my doubts are real? Or he has been faithful? -Reine
I feel very strongly that he tends to be very insecure where you are concerned and, to a great extent this causes you to be insecure. Generally individuals who spend this much time together really enjoy being together, as you and he. If your relationship is going to continue this insecurity must completely stop, if not your relationship will become something that is uncomfortable, and undesirable. I do not feel that he has that desire, to him your relationship has been an investment (in time, opening up, and shared feelings), he may enjoy your jealousy a bit in a way it shows you still care however taken to far it can destroy something good. By winter you will be in a structured relationship, one in which you do not want this type of insecurity to exist, it will make he and also you embarrassed by your failure, and others will feel as if you made a mistake. I know you and he will have much more enjoyable relationship when you and he are secure with each other; the love is definitely there.

I have never had any luck with my love life, and also a single mom to an awesome little girl. My baby's dad has nothing to do with her he has not seen her in two years. Just wondering if my daughter will ever have that male figure in her life? And will I find someone to grow old with? -Heather
The answer is yes; I base this on two aspects, First of all you have a very clear view of what you would like to accomplish in life (this is because you are grateful for you current situation in life) and, secondly it is your personal destiny in life to be in a committed relationship; it is what will work for you. Please understand that you are a very defined woman, and you know what works for you; and the person you have a chance with, is very much the same way. You will meet for the first time at an event that concerns your little girl, possible a school event, through discussion you will find that you and he are in similar situation in life. Your similarities will be a conduit to a very good and understanding friendship that will have a wonderful chance at becoming something a lot more.

My boyfriend of 4 years asked me to move out in September. He officially broke up with me in December and started seeing this other girl. About a few weeks ago, we met up at our gym talked, he went to Hawaii for a week, during that time he was talking to both of us, since he got back we have spend almost every day together, last Friday he went and talked to her and he told me that he didn't want to be with her the next night. I have been told that he and I are supposed to be together, that he will want me to be his girlfriend again and possibly more. I am just trying to see if this is true or not. I love him very much and we have been through a lot. I just am afraid I am going to get hurt again. -Lisa
He has already shown you how he would likely respond, and I do not feel that’s what you want, trust must be earned and this is not the way to accomplish trust. Even though you are very attracted to each other, you are not at that point. I would advise you to back up a bit and take things very slow, make sure you and he look at a committed in the same way. I do feel that you and he love each other, and every one makes mistakes the point is what they learn from the mistake. Things will be a bit distant and slow for a while, after three months he will want to do something to prove his love for you, I do feel very strongly that you will enjoy this very much.


Love Questions: Posted July 8th, 2013

I am 26 years old and about a year ago I left an abusive relationship after 8 years. I'm worried about not knowing if this is the right one for me. I feel that since I spent so many years in a relationship that was nothing - I missed my chance to find someone that truly loves me for who I am. I am currently in a new relationship for the past six months. The first 5 months were great! He would spend as much time with me as possible and text me throughout the day. Lately he hasn't been doing that so much. We still spend time together just not as often as I would like. I know that relationships change was you get to know someone better and I just hope that is what this is. Did I miss my opportunity because of my previous relationship or could this be the right guy for me? -Jeana
I do feel that this new man in your life could defiantly be right for you and you for him; I also feel strongly that he has been through the ups and downs that occur within relationships; as you. I would advise that you and he continue to establish positive experiences and memories. If you base your relationship on new and enjoyable experiences it will continue to grow. Neither of you can go back to the past and change circumstances, it has already occurred; nor I feel you and he are not likely to make mistakes or allow them to happen. I do know that you and he have learned and you both know what you want out of life together. The past negative relationship that you and many others were or are in should be taken as a lesson in life that is it only a lesson nothing else. The activity and descriptive terms of affection will ebb and flow, however you and the new man in your life are adapting to each other and, this is happening because you are establishing a common view of life together.

I recently met a man who was only in my life for a short period. I am currently in a long relationship (9 years) and am struggling with mixed feelings about it. I want to move on by my fears of being alone overcome anything I can do about the relationship. The man that I met stopped contacting me about a month ago with no indication as to why and I haven't tried contacting him since. I am curious as to why he quit contacting me and will I ever hear from him again. Was it just a chance meeting with him or did it mean something? -Reagen
It is because you are in a committed relationship already; to him (the new man you met) going to the next level of a relationship would be dangerous and troublesome. I do not feel that he had a relationship in mind, even though you like each other something serious is out of the question, he has no desire to be the knight in shining armor. I do strongly feel the man that you have been in a nine-year relationship with does feel as you, the emotional distance is also perceived by him. This next year will be a time of change for you and I advise you to reacquaint your self with you strength; you will succeed.

I have recently met a new romantic interest. When we met we discovered we have similar ideas and passion for a project that would enhance and improve the lives of people with Special Needs and their families. My question is what do you see as the future of our romantic as well as business relationship? Also any advice you may have for us? -Mary
It will be the love you have for each other that will create a good relationship, but it will be your common interest that will hold it together and make it work out and succeed. On T.V. and at the movies we always see opposites being attracted to each other and working out the differences together and I am positive it happens however, the true aspect is that most people are attracted to individuals that are like them selves, similar points of interest. I do feel strongly that you and your boyfriend have a good head start on a lot of relationships. There will be the opportunity for a small trip and you and he will have a wonderful time. My only advise is to bye a calendar and only use it to schedule activities that involve both of you.


Love Questions: Posted July 1st, 2013

My ex boyfriend and I have been on and off for nearly 3 years and I genuinely feel like we are meant to be together. I seen a psychic last year and he said we would definitely end up together but more recently I seen a psychic and his reading left me so confused. He said he's not meant for you, at that stage I got upset, it was the last thing I expected to hear, and then he said that doesn't mean you won't be together. What does this all mean? -Deborah
First of all I would advise you to look a little more deeply into the reason the relationship tends to be an on and off one. I feel very strongly that you and this man truly love each other in a very realistic way however, I also feel that you and also he are very hesitant to evolve with in the relation ship, and I do feel the reason is a desire to keep the romance going. Emerging into reality within a relationship does not mean the romance is gone, it only means that a person can not see the future with out the other person being there (I do feel that you and he are very close to that point) but not really sure if the other person sees things in the way you do. You and this man are very similar in a lot of ways. You will try one more time, to be a couple in a realistic relationship and I feel strongly this time it will work.

I hope you can help give me some peace of mind. I have married my high school sweetheart. We have been married for 38 years this June. I know that what started out as friendship with a co-worker, then an emotional marriage, now a full-fledged affair, all of these events are from 2009 to now. I know he is having a mid life crisis. My heart is broken. Everyone tells me to wait 5 years; things will change after the honeymoon phase of this disgusting relationship. Believe it or not I have learned a lot from this affair he is having about our relationship and myself. Will this relationship ever end? Will he learn from his mistakes? It pains me to think what was all of our years for? -Debra
As soon as there was any type of infidelity the marriage is over; very many people attempt to repair the damage or ignore it and this never works, the distance only increases. It does not feel to me that the desire is there and the blame game has already started. If the behavior has been present sense 2009 it would be considered an established pattern of behavior. I feel strongly that you and he would benefit from counseling, this issue runs very deep and if it is going to be resolved it will take a lot. I also feel that you and he have adapted to this behavior, and what makes thing so difficult is that you love each other more then you realize. This love must be acknowledged and right now you and he are not communicating the way you should be, this situation will improve with in the next month (communication) and this will be a start.

My partner had an emotional affair he told me she meant nothing to him; he did it to mess with her head. His actions tell me differently. He called her 92 times in nine days, sent her multiple texts, did multiple video chats in one day an also sent her multiple videos telling her he loved her, I am not understanding any of this. -Veronica
Emotional cheating is on the same level as infidelity, in other words; people will react in the same way. I feel this man is very smart and knows this type of situation has caused many divorces and separations. With in the next few weeks you and this man will find an active situation which you can do together and is very enjoyable to both of you and, I feel this endeavor will bring the excitement back into your relationship. Where the phone situation is concerned it must stop completely, or you and he are going to fail as a couple; and I do feel strongly that he is well aware of this.


 

 

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