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From an early age James has been aware of the energy and feelings of others, the first aspect of being an intuitive. The powers were so strong it prompted him to be of service to others. Through 33 years of practice and professional study he has the ability to guide people through the paths of their lives, the ups and downs, the realistic issues, surrounding relationships and love, career, money and spirituality. His techniques include clairvoyance, tarot, astrology and Native American totems and animal guides. He looks forward to speaking to you soon so that you may begin your path to insight. 

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Posted November 20th 2017




My ex broke up with me this past August. For 3 months I've been struggling to let go of him. I blame myself for him leaving me. And to make things worse i kept contacting him. He's so upset with me now. He has blocked me on everything. I know i need to leave him alone and let go. I just can't help but wonder every day will he ever speak to me again? Will we reconcile? I want us to be cordial and get back to a positive space. Does he think of me? Does he love me still?
- Shalom J.
05/05/1996
You will reconcile but, as good friends. We as human beings have a way of remembering the good things and forgetting the uncomfortable things about ourselves and the people we love. You have grown close over the past, when the other has a break, what music reminds us of them, the way he talks and responds, what a person is like in the morning etc.. When a person breaks up it is common to miss them; when you contact them they don t have a chance to miss you. When a person does not understand you may get the police involved. Also, it gives a person a feeling of discomfort and not remembrance. You two will eventually talk and communicate with each other. He feels as you, but he needs time... 

I just received divorce papers after almost 18 years of marriage and never saw it coming! We have been married and I? lived in our Fla home and he in our MN home since he is a farmer and couldn’t move the land with us! He spent all winter her with our grandchildren and since we never really saw each other in the summer I? stayed down here. He paid almost all the bills down here and I? never really knew what we had financially because he would avoid talking about it and I? just figured he was old fashioned. Upon receiving the divorce papers I? had to get a attorney in Mn and have come to find out that he had me sign papers I?that I?thought were bank papers when in fact they were quick claim deeds and also had my name notorized without me being there. He has also in the past 3 years opened up partnerships, changed the name of our farm business, sold our home and bought another home, bought a very expensive pick up truck and somehow got my name off of everything we owned together. He was ordered to pay me 2500 a month , supply a car and pay attorney fees of 10,000 to my attorney and has refused to do so claiming that he does not have the money. He made 120 thousand last year. How is this going to turn out for me, I? am now 61 years old and Right now don’t think I? have the energy to reinvent myself to sustain the lifestyle I’m accustomed to
Coreen B.  04/05/1956


This sounds like a legal matter but as far as his feelings go, he does feel like he made a mistake by moving too fast; in the field of farming sometimes you lose and sometimes you win, it is hard and takes patience. It appears that he has moved on alone, and you should do the same. I am not saying not to fight for what is yours, do. You and he do not trust each other anymore and that has to return. We all need to change in life even if we are not ready for it, it happens. Your life style depends on yourself and not him anymore. 

My love life has been a little dull and dark lately, and I’m not getting any younger. Most of my friends and even relatives who are younger than I am are all attached, then there’s me. So I’m just curious about my love life, like how will I meet my future boyfriend, how he looks like and when will I meet him? Thank you so much!
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Temmie  10/13/1997 
I feel you want someone to share life with but, first you need to do this for yourself not others. It is your destiny to married to a man you love very much. I see you being a happy woman but you will meet a person who is a lot like you. Likes the same type of food, entertainment and family life. I feel you will run into each other at a carnival or fair. and like will turn into love before you know. He is average height, black hair, and he likes cars.

 

 

  

Posted November 13th 2017

 

 

Hello i have been in a relationship for over two and a half years. as you can see im 65 my was partner is 67.we been togeher 24 7 for 7months and got engaged in june 2013.then in january he decided to return home which is 180 miles away.we were so compatable and got on really good,i am now heartbroken and want him so much i cant think strait .my life has gone from full traveling between our homes and here there and everywhere to nothing,he says he dont love me anymore and no feelings for me please help thank you
-linda 01/05/1948
I feel he has another reason.. He has a heavy mind because he does know how to tell you, he has obligations he needs to attend to. He ignored the fact that he has another life and obligations he needs to take care of, if he can. Life has caught up with him. He does love you and you will hear from him in about three weeks. He just needs to make up his mind and you need to understand. He loves you to but, life got in its way.


Hi my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago will we get back together?
-Rekaleigh J. 04/03/1985
I feel he will try to explain that he had prior obligations, or plans he made before he meet you. I think he has done this for you, he feels it would be the best thing to do. Give him about 1 month. he is more into you then he knows.



My boyfriend and I just broke up last week, and then we met up the following day and changed it to a break. We were together for a year and a half and I can't help but feel as though we made a mistake. He said that he needed time to find himself and what he wants in life and our relationship, and I respected it and allowed him to take the break. I am just confused because he wants me in his life and he said I love you when we left, yet I haven't heard from him since then. I just want to know if its worth waiting for him and if he will come back to me? I love him and he loves me but is that enough?
-Amy  07/25/1994
People change and he is trying to be honest with himself and you. I feel this was caused by his plans for himself. They did not pan out and he just does not feel worthy. Let him think about you a little and I feel he will finely change his mind, if you are still there. Remember this is a thought not an action.  he is only thinking he might have missed something in his pursuit of you and your friendship.

 

Posted November 6th 2017

 

 

I. Want to know if this man above is cheating on me and who with if so this is my email thank you
-Kulwinder B 09/22/1965

This man needs to be careful and he knows it. His behavior is not normal, because he knows he is under sispision. I do not feel this man is cheating unless he wants to end the marriage and i do not feel he is that and he is a lot smarter then that. He will not react to your sispision. You should not let him know about our actions. I feel the marriage is already in trouble.

I met my ex on a dating website we connected immediately. We started dating and he met my family. We had been together for 6 and a half months. I found him to be honest and open I loved spending time with him. He told me I was perfect and I made him feel like a teenager he hadn't felt this way for years. We lived half an hours drive away from each other I work night shifts and he works days. We never argued and he said he loved being around me. 2 weeks ago he had been texting me as normal then lunch time I received a text of him telling me he was ending our relationship. He said our jobs get in the way and we lived too far apart and he had a lot of stuff going on in his life. I was shocked and hurt. He continued to send me loads of text messages telling me what he as doing at work, what he was eating and that he'd just got out of the shower. I replied to these text messages but I am so confused by him. I haven't heard from him f or 3 days and I haven't text him. His friend passed away suddenly 3 weeks ago and he started a new job 7 weeks ago. I just want him back thank you for taking the time to read this.
-10/22/1995



Hi I want to know what will happen between this guy I know Pete and me thank you.
-Linda 09/14/1962

I feel he has very strong feelings for you and will make it clear to you in the coming months. He is a little confused about feeling so open and he feels it is about time to let it be known. I see you and he loving each other and being happy. He does have some insecurities because of his past relationships.  

 

  

Posted October 30th 2017

Am in love with this man and I don't if this is how is or there is more to it. He comes and disappear without even communication. Am very confused at this point.-Carolyne O. 09/12/1987
I feel there is some kind of barrier he has now considered, now that your relationship is becoming realistic you need to know, soon. He is going to have to make  a certin sacrafice for your relationship to continue. You can not know a  person who intentionally keeps things from you; this is why he waited until you fell in love with him, he felt if you did know, that this would eliminate his chance to be with you. Its time you were informed. 


Will my ex come back -doreen s. 02/15/1973
He will contact you first to see if you are mad at him, then he will attempt to return.


Will I ever find Love and Success? –Jay S. 12/09/1988 
You have picked two subjects that only you can define. Love will happen when you are ready and success when and if you are willing to work hard for it..You currently are in the middle of a high energy cycle; anything you start or make better has a nine in ten chance of working out for you. 




Posted September 23rd 2017




Im prettty confused with my emotions toward another i feel we are suppose to be together but he keeps pushing away .. should i just move on -Genine 05/31/1986

I feel strongly that there is something else. Some people do not enjoy being close to another. There is something he does  or can’t tell you; I can tell you it has nothing to do with you, this has been occurring for a long time before he met you, You should be supportive, he needs a friend not a girlfriend. You will see a change and so will he around Dec, he will find the incentive to grow beyond what you see... 

I have been together with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and he tells me he wants to marry me. Do you see this happening? He is my true love and we have known each other 36 years.
Thanks. -Kathie 06/21/1959
I know you have been living as husband and wife and I know you are prepared. I think it would be wonderful. I can see you and he married as soon as you plan on it. I can feel the love between you two. Be sure to make the ceremony as spiritual as possible that is the benefit. I feel also, that it will last forever.

Does my. exgirlfriend Tiffany. ever think about. me or miss me? -Khalil E. 10/09/1984
Yes. you shared a lot, and had a lot between you and she. Each relationship is like a finger print, each one is special in its own way and remembered; good and not so good, people tend to see the good times and  she sees it as a learning experience. 

 

Posted September 16th 2017

 

Will I get back together with my ex girlfriend? -Matt 
If you leave her alone for now it will give her time to think and define her feelings. I feel that right now she is very confused and finding it difficult to define her feelings. She needs a little time to see if she wants to try again. Depending on what caused the break-up in the first place. For some reason I feel you and she acted very quickly and really did not think about your actions or words. If you give her time she will call you to discuses what happened. This would be your chance to prove your true love for her. I will give you and she about two months to repair any problems but, first they must be acknowledged.

Is the man currently in my life the one I am destined to be with or should I continue my journey alone? -Jeanne 
You know this man will do any thing for the sake of your relationship. I feel he wants to make you happy and, he does feel you love him as much. If there are no problems in the relationship first, this is rare. It is really up to you at this point; does he make you feel happy, loved, and safe? I feel strongly that he does truly love you; if you see some changes would be called for, just ask him, as I said your happiness is very important to him and he will listen. I do not see you as being alone in life, you will always be loved.

I am struggling with a past breakup that occurred over 6 months ago. I just need to know if she will come back or if I need to let go even though it's making me miserable. -Christina 
A relationship is between two people and both must agree. I feel strongly that she needs some time to make correct choices for her self. I feel that she would talk to you, but talking becomes arguing and that is what she is avoiding. You and she will talk after a while and please listen to what she is saying to you. Remember, to talk you must become friends first. Things between you two must be comfortable, and for some reason they are not. It would be best to carry on with life and be happy. She does have a lot of work to do.





Posted September 9th 2017



I was talking to this guy that I started to gain feelings for and every day we would talk and all if a sudden he started to become distant to the point I got upset and text him saying I want my stuff back and that he is a jerk and so on and so in. Well he got upset and now he doesn't want to talk to me and I already apologize to him several times through text but he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore. I'm wondering if he would come back around and forgive me. - Briauna – 09/03/1986
I feel that you may be concentrating on he not wanting to talk. He would like you to wonder about him; it keeps the relation active, at least in his eyes. In our society it seems that things must be vocalized, to be consider d real, to that particular person. Do you want to end the relationship, would you like to continue it with some modification. You have to ask yourself if the situation is worth understanding. Never the less the relation has known entered a different level, a higher one. You also need to look at things from his perspective ( If there is any ) do you correspond when looking toward the future. You and he can work out give it two weeks.

Does my boyfriend love me? Or just using me? Joanne – 07/22/1973
What is wrong is, you should feel it. It is something you must feel in your hart and spirit, not making your self-fee that way but, letting it happen. Right now he feels as you. I think and feel you can work out almost anything. Keep things as privet. Friends do not fee as you nor, can they understand the way you and he feel. Right now friends are not good for the relationship.

I want to know if the Boy I like D. K. really likes me. And will he ever ask me to be his girlfriend in the future.  - Da'Shay B. 02/16/1996.                                                                        
I feel he does  like you, but he is really not sure how you feel, he does not want to give you the wrong impression. Actually he is waiting to hear from you. He is not sure if you want him. He has a lot of uncertainty about how you may feel. After some time keep the relationship active, so you share some experiences to talk about. A relationship must be cultivated and nurtured and it still might not work the more you see the future the same the more likely it will work out; if you are to that level yet. It looks good.


Posted September 2nd 2017



I met a guy last year and we had a very intense relationship. We broke up because he misunderstood me. I was telling him I loved him and he thought the opposite. All I want is some closure he won't listen to me I love him very much . Will he ever contact me? It’s been a year and I can't move on I've tried everything. Can u help?Betty  -05/01/1971
How did this man misunderstand ? has that been resolved ?  This man cannot be the man you desire. He should complimented. I feel he will contact you over the holidays. He will express a lot of joy in talking to you. I feel you will have one more chance to work things out but, he may not be completely in agreement with the process. Be sure not to take the blame for things you have nothing to do with. He feels you cannot make a life without him; you may not feel the same.  

Hi James,
I have an issue where i need some guidance, my boyfriend and i broke up a couple weeks ago because he thinks he still has feeling for his ex and he wants to give her a second chance however, he said he's also confuse because he's about to lose his mom to cancer and he doesn't know if he had made the right decision to go back to his ex but he really loves me and need some time to really decide what is it he wants to do because maybe he's just going through too much emotion about his mom right now. I'm just confused too and don't know what to do.  Nicolene L.  -09/10/1985
In this case it is not your place to interfere only support him right now he will be confused for a time. The last thing a person thinks about in that position is romance. . The reason he can’t make a design is it is working out for him. He sounds confused and I feel he cannot make decisions, try not to give this man to much stress he is already going through enough   

I pursued what turned out to be a very brief but intense and tumultuous fling/relationship with a coworker which temporarily and immediately filled the void left by the breakdown of a very long relationship. It started when it shouldn't have and I guess ended when it wasn't ready to end. We are no longer in contact outside of work but I'm constantly consumed by thoughts of him. Doesn't matter how occupied I try keeping myself my mind wanders towards him unconsciously. He is acting distant, cold one minute, warm and 'normal' another, sometimes seems even a little angry (but I don't know what I've done to make him angry or even dislike me). in my mind he acts like someone who is far away from being over 'it'. he shares nothing with no one. I want this to be over, so I can move on, but another part of me misses him constantly and wonders what could have been. It seems like it's taking way to long to heal from what was just a fling. Were the feelings deeper than what we decided to show one another? Is this over, for good? Is it just me or does he think about me as well and with similar regrets? Are we destined to be passer-byes in life and nothing more? Where will we find our self-weeks or months from now ?      Sophie  - 10/25/1985                                                                                                                                                                                                                  
I feel this is a common issue. You and he did things back ward, What I mean is you feel in love after you brook up; he may not feel the same. People change with time. We must expect some changes. And sometimes the one we feel in love with changes, and those changes are a part of persons personality. It is time for you to have an open discussion with him. You will not be so confused any more.    

   

Posted September 25th 2017

Will my long distance relationship last?
Kuuipo  08/13/1993
It is possible, you are speaking in terms that would indicate a long term forever type of relationship.   Long distance can be diffacult  in many ways. There is not a way  to create a relationship, it must be nurtured. There should be a lot of shared experiences, it must be financeialy sound ( this is key, the reason these days is finances. There must be the opportunity for shared positive spiritual times. If there is active plans for a change then there is a wonderful opportunity for a long term relationship. Other than that I don:t think or feel it will work.

I would like to know if my ex-girlfriend Lisa will get back together with me in the next month. We have had many breakups over the last 3 1/2 years. We were engaged at one point and then broke it off. I moved out of her place last October, she contacted me in November and said she wanted to try again. So we did, we had an argument while discussing marriage again and she broke up with me last Tuesday. I truly feel she is the love of my life. I have never felt so connected to a woman. I tried hard to make this relationship work because I do want to marry her and be with her forever. We shared a deep connection that neither of us had ever had before, and she has had many relationships in her lifetime. She is a very beautiful woman and has many men chasing her, I'm trying had to give her space and time to defuse. We were high school sweethearts and reconnected after 24 years of not being in contact. We thought of each other many times throughout our lives. She was born in September and I was born in August. I need to know if we still have a chance, If she will be willing to give me that chance, and if it will be soon. I miss doing everything with her. Thanks so much for you time. ---  --Chris 08/09/1968                                                                                                                
I feel she is tierd and becoming dissapointed. A three a half year relationship in which you lived together is a marriage. Unless you resolve the original problem or if it  is solved it won’t work, love is not the problem; you do love each other but, unless the problem is taken care of, it is a repeat of the past
and will resalt in the same way.  

i have a long time boyfriend, recently i feel his changes even the way he treated me talk me even small things has changes. but i dont know the reason why? 

does my boyfriend cheating on me? or let me say does my boyfriend love somebody else? a secret affair?
-mavigael l. 11/05 /1988                                                                                                                      
I do not feel it has to do with anyone else. People such as me, you, or he change. according to growth, age, and personal experience. I feel he has very strong feelings for you and he is noticing the same things. As long as you continue to change so will the relationship. It does appear you will stay together..

 

Posted September 18th 2017

 

I have strong feelings for someone. He is one of the most nicest and kindest man I have ever met - not just with me but with everyone he encounters. Some days I feel we have a special bond. Other days he ignores me. I'm not sure what's going on? Can you please provide an insight. Thank you.
-Sam 12/06/1985
I  feel he is acting normal. I feel also, that he is a kind individual and is just like that; be cause he is like that with everyone. You admier that. . I Feel you could be wonderful friends. Strong feelings for another such as your father, mother. sister or brother are natural and strong. He is use to getting attention sence he war a child and h is aware of that.

Hello I just wanted to no if you see me and my ex ever getting back together or should I just move on pleas direct and don't hold back.
-Mona 04/04/1982                                                                                                                                               
I strongly feel that there are some changes you would like, If he is in agreement there should be no problem. I feel that had something to do with your situation.  If you and he can talk about the issue than you can solve this. One thing is that he misses you more than he realaxed. He is looking for some thing to say to you. wait and see.


is linda the one for me
-10/05/
1975 A.J. 
I can see she is wondering this too. She is ready for a committed relationship, and a life time change. Now if you fee that you are ready for this, I feel you would be the one. Now there are strong feelings between both of you. I think there should be more clarifcation of your feelings and hers. You will find that she is as confused as you and needs clairification. She does have strong feelings for you.

 

Posted September 11th 2017

 

I'm wondering when my ex will come back to me. We've been on and off for 2 years. I've gone too many psychics that've told me he will make his way back to me. I just need to know if I should be chasing him or just give him his space. We haven't spoke in 2 weeks.
-Yscasia 02/09/ 1995
Two weeks is not much time but, it seems like a lot when you are in love with someone. First off all if he needs time away, he should. I do not feel he is getting into trouble or, with another woman. I am certin he loves you also.You are really not to blame hear, he just needs some perspective he will return home soon with in three weeks. The original problem must be solved first, or it will end your relationship. He feels the same as you, confused.


Hello, I 'am in love with a man and I know he loves me too. A few days ago , we got into a misunderstanding and I'm not sure if he still cares about our relationship or where I stand with him. The other day he emailed to tell me something about school and I was really happy for him. Any way I just I want to if he still loves and will our relationship move forward. Please help
-Samara 07/20/1974
First of all I feel you have a good relationship going and this matter should be easy to deal with.  A misunderstanding can be delt with. Explain, I feel he loves you enough to listen. Right now he feels you and he have a communication problem; this will change. Yes he loves you, realistic love does not fade away so fast. So, just give him a chance to miss you or vise a versa . I feel he will call be next week end.



Hi, I would like to ask if my ex girlfriend wendy is in a new relationship allready and is there a chance we will get back together.
-JUSTIN 07/07/1976                                                                                                                                                                                                                     
It takes time to build a relationship and if it is real people do miss each other a lot. I fell your chances are good, if you still feel that way in a little while. Some things will be entering your life that may change how you fee right now. Try to give her what she wants, give her space, if that is what she wants. She is very usto your conversation. She also is veag on the reason why. 

 




Posted September 4th 2017

Will my long distance relationship last?
Kuuipo  08/13/1993
It is possible, you are speaking in terms that would indicate a long term forever type of relationship.   Long distance can be diffacult  in many ways. There is not a way  to create a relationship, it must be nurtured. There should be a lot of shared experiences, it must be financeialy sound ( this is key, the reason these days is finances. There must be the opportunity for shared positive spiritual times. If there is active plans for a change then there is a wonderful opportunity for a long term relationship. Other than that I don:t think or feel it will work.

I would like to know if my ex-girlfriend Lisa will get back together with me in the next month. We have had many breakups over the last 3 1/2 years. We were engaged at one point and then broke it off. I moved out of her place last October, she contacted me in November and said she wanted to try again. So we did, we had an argument while discussing marriage again and she broke up with me last Tuesday. I truly feel she is the love of my life. I have never felt so connected to a woman. I tried hard to make this relationship work because I do want to marry her and be with her forever. We shared a deep connection that neither of us had ever had before, and she has had many relationships in her lifetime. She is a very beautiful woman and has many men chasing her, I'm trying had to give her space and time to defuse. We were high school sweethearts and reconnected after 24 years of not being in contact. We thought of each other many times throughout our lives. She was born in September and I was born in August. I need to know if we still have a chance, If she will be willing to give me that chance, and if it will be soon. I miss doing everything with her. Thanks so much for you time. ---  -- -Chris 08/09/1968                                                                                                                
I feel she is tierd and becoming dissapointed. A three a half year relationship in which you lived together is a marriage. Unless you resolve the original problem or if it  is solved it won’t work, love is not the problem; you do love each other but, unless the problem is taken care of, it is a repeat of the past
and will resalt in the same way.  

i have a long time boyfriend, recently i feel his changes even the way he treated me talk me even small things has changes. but i dont know the reason why? 

does my boyfriend cheating on me? or let me say does my boyfriend love somebody else? a secret affair?
-mavigael l. 11/05 /1988                                                                                                                      
I do not feel it has to do with anyone else. People such as me, you, or he change. according to growth, age, and personal experience. I feel he has very strong feelings for you and he is noticing the same things. As long as you continue to change so will the relationship. It does appear you will stay together..





Posted August 28th 2017

 

My partner says they do not want to be with me, I said I will give them space to this Sunday to see if that's what they really want, what do you say will be the outcome and when will I hear from them?      
Lou 05/09/1984
I feel strongly that your partner was more detailed about the reason or reasons however, this person is more attached to you than you realize. I do think also that you will hear from this person when they start to miss the timing, little things like when your time off is, or breaks etc...  
that, does not mean the original reason won’t be there, it will. And that it needs give and take and most important trust.

 

Hello! I was in a relationship with a younger man, for 2 years he has no children and I have three grown up boys. He dumped me five months ago for a beautiful young intelligent women. He sent me a text saying "sorry it's over you always argue and make me miserable it's not working really sorry farah" I begged him not to leave me and called him so many times, he never did reply or call. So I took a deep breath and maintained no contact for five months now. But i still miss him. Do you think he still misses me and loves me and do you think he will ever call me just to see how me and my kids are? Thank you x
-Farah 08/29/1966                                                                                                                              
You will hear from him when that relationship has nothing to offer, he will very appoligetic, this will happen in another three months or within that time. You have a lot invested remember. He will indicate that too, but you might feel it is too late. Your feelings of trust may be gone.


Will Scott and I get back together?
-Lakeisha 07/01/1976                                                                                                                              
You will have a chance to talk about the subject, if it still is on your or his mind after that. The chance will not solve the issue, only mutual talk will. He does miss you but feels he has a good reason. Right now he is figuring everything out, or trying.  He will need you to do that.  He does not know how much intensity to put into things, if any. 






Posted August 21st 2017



Do you see me and my children s father ever reuniting and working on getting our family back together?  -Alissia K. 04/13/1992
I feel he would like to but, he feels he can"t. He does love you but, was not expecting all the money pressures. He feel that he tried but, could not find a way of making you and the children happy. All of his efforts never pay off and he is just given up. I feel he will get lucky and find a way of making things work and, you are the first he is going to tell. He will be happy and so will you.  With in the next two weeks things will start working out for you and he.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  

 I've been wary about getting involved in relationships for a while now, but recently I've developed very strong feelings, very rapidly, for one of my friends. Will I get together with him? 
-denise 08/05/1995                                                                                                                          
I feel it is possible but at the cost of the friendship. It is very different for a person to create a relationship then a friendship. In relationships people will change because they love each other a friendship will develop when two people start with something that makes them compatible or interested. A relationship is a lot more personal  and more realistic. In this case I would say have a serious talk first .

    
Met a woman online and connected yet had a brief month relationship. I believe I scared her by showing too much emotion and need yet felt something was off with her and had to communicate…she broke up and it has been slightly over a month with no contact. Will I be hearing from her again? Is it best to move on and remain open to someone who is ready to be in a relationship? -AC 12/23/1971                                                                                                                          
I feel this woman has been involved with some one who brook her hart and that she may be looking for someone to rebuild her confidence. I feel you may have scared her by moving to fast. I don t think she will call be she may be ready to talk about it in person, she is as confused as you. She feels that a serious relationship involves trust, she is right





Posted August 14th 2017



My partner says they do not want to be with me, I said I will give them space to this Sunday to see if that's what they really want, what do you say will be the outcome and when will I hear from them? lou 05/29/ 1984
I feel very strongly that your partner feels they could have accomplished more out of life, this person is blaming you for not living up to there own goals. 
This person feels they have wasted time. My opinion is let this person go and see if they can accomplish what they have in mind. This person will be in contact very soon; as soon as he thinks a bit. Do not let another make you feel to blame, you are not.


Hello! I was in a relationship with a younger man, for 2 years he has no children and I have three grown up boys. He dumped me five months ago for a beautiful young intelligent women. He sent me a text saying "sorry it's over you always argue and make me miserable it's not working really sorry Farah" I begged him not to leave me and called him so many times, he never did reply or call. So I took a deep breath and maintained no contact for five months now. But i still miss him. Do you think he still misses me and loves me and do you think he will ever call me just to see how me and my kids are? Thank you x    -Farah08/29/1966                                                                                                          
He  was seeing this other women for a long time before you know, he ruined your relationship by this. What ties two people together is a common vision of the future together, once there is any sort of infidelity, the common vision is no longer blessed by higher power, and its only a matter. You and he ant different things out of life, I feel this relationship is unhealthy, It leaves you feeling bad. Relationships are not supposed to do that...


Will Scott and I get back together? –Lakeisha 07/01/1976
-If you and he can agree on your feelings for each other, and take care of any barrier first. I feel he does love you however love does not pay the bills and make individuals compatible. You and he did things back ward, you got together in the early stages of your relationship, before you really got to know each other well enough.

 



Posted August 7th 2017

 

I met someone whom I can't get out of my mind. He presents with such integrity - as someone who strives for higher ideals to be the best person he can be. His friends speak so highly of him. Opportunities to get to know him on a personal level, however, have been limited. He is one of my coaches, and I am a student. I think he gets nervous talking to me, but I don't know if he is experiencing an attraction toward me or disinterest. I would like to know if our feelings are mutual. We are older and mature, so I believe we can handle the dynamics of friendship, love, and training instruction. I don't know if I should make a direct move, continue waiting, or just relinquish these strong feelings and move on. I just need peace, so I can stop being distracted internally. Thank you so much for the advice. -Gena  04/30/1970                                                       
There is nothing wrong with your curiosity and attraction to this man,I suggest that you find out if he is attached, I feel he is not. It is best if you look into this first. That way your feelings have a chance of being returned. Some places of learning have rules some do not.  You do fall in love very easy and it is important that this is returned in a positive way. I feel he is a good man who had a bit of bad luck in the past. I feel he will be complimented by your feelings toward him..


Will my ex, Z and I get back together? He asked for space a month ago as he said he needed to work on himself. -Haley 02/06/1982                                                            
It is not the same any more. He has changed but loves you; you have changed too. I feel you and he have become only good and close friends you can work on the relationship which only needs activity or let things fade away. I feel right no he is looking at things from a perspective of, where is he in life?, and did he think he would be in this life this way?.  You see he is not blaming  you for anything as I said before he loves you. He is going through a natural process.       


My boyfriend and me just broke up after ten years of being together. He feels that I need to be with someone else because he feels he does not make me happy. This is not true I always though as him as the one. Will this happen for us again is this just a separation thing? -Melissa 08/07/1979
After ten years of being together and getting to know each other so well. You have been in a relationship for ten years. I feel he is only looking at your reaction to what he was saying. You and he are very use to each other and each other’s way of acting and responding. He has a feeling your unhappy, he does not know; so be sure to tell him the next time you talk to him. This is not over yet.

 



Posted July 31st 2017



Can i know exactly date when my marriage will occur ???? With which type of person????? -Amitha 06/09/1992        
I can see many people and music in your life. I feel strongly that you will have a chance within three years; what I mean is I can see your growing ( Mentally ).   Be sure you don t move to fast, a courtship should last six months at least. People entering marriage to escape any problem, will take it with them and marriage will suffer; This would apply to potential husband and wife. You would need to at least get to know the person well enough; That is the reason to move slow, plus, you may feel differently by that time. Remember people are like finger prints, the same but unique and all different. 

I have known this man for roughly 8 years, we started out as simple lovers, he called that quits and we have been friends since. We do not speak everyday, we go weeks on end with out speaking. We have had one fight, last year when he was going through an upheaval in his life. Before the fight he told me that he loved me, I told him I loved him, and after the fight there are no more I love yous. He has moved to my side of town and I have now seen him three times since December. I love him very deeply, I would do anything for him and feel at ease and complete when he is around. I believe he feels the same way but I really lack the courage to ask that one question. When we are together we talk and its like we have never been apart and it has always been like that to me, I felt like I new him from the moment we started to converse. I really would like to know if there is a feeling of love on his part and if so is there a chance that we will get together. 
-Alicia 04/11/1962                  
I feel he is still blaming himself to an extent. many people who break up or divorce still love each other, that is not the problem; he has the opinion that you and he gave it a good try and are deep down good friends.  He started to look at life what he has done and has not  ( This man is very confused as to where his life is going. Where there is love, there is always a chance, and you and he will have many. 


My partner of about 6 months has said he wants to stop seeing me, but wants to be friends. He still responds to texts and emails, etc.
I feel that he has some emotional issues, it is fairly soon after he first told me that he loved me (only 3 weeks ago did he first say this).
I do not know if he is saying he does not want to be lovers any more is true or not?
-Sandra w. 09/13/1965             
This man has fallen in love with you and this was not his intent. It does take longer than three weeks, way longer to really know a person well enough, this is why it a mistake to move to fast and never commit in the romantic stage, which is three or four months.  And by the way he has an issue with being lovers, because he gets more attached. You and he did things backwards. You and he will have many chances to talk, now if you or he don t feel like it; that’s another story.




Posted July 24th 2017

I was with my ex dob (march  1993) for 2 years and we broke up. He was disrespecting me online afterwards and was bitter afterward. I haven't stopped thinking about him.. He hurt me a lot and so did the people around him and I just want to know if he ever loved me? What he feels towards me now and if he will ever talk to me again in the future?
-sam   11/05/1993                                                                                                                         
I  feel you did the right thing. He is a Pisces you are a Scorpio You are very likely to feel very emotional. You have moved on he is still upset, He is very likely to stay in love with you for a long time, he is going to try to talk to you about the past. He loved you when he first saw you. This relationship will cause problems for you. He is a nice man but, does no how to be in a realistic relationship.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      


Please would you tell me when I can expect to hear from my ex boyfriend that I havent seen for three years. He ended the relation ship due to him having many problems. I still love him, and sent him a text in December 2012 just to say hello. He reacted by texting back, and being nasty asking why I was contacting him. I felt that as he was being emotional this signifies feelings for me still. With this in mind, I did not contact him again, however keep having a gut feeling that he will be in touch. Thank you Judy.
-judy 10/14/1967
                       

His reaction is showing he has not forgot about you, and the reason you brook up. We as human beings remember the people who were close to us, we tend to not remember the bad things and just remember the good times. You should not contact him. You don"t know how he has changed or what has been going on with him. His reaction to your text tells you;                                                                                                                                                                                                                              

Will i get married and have a children?Thank you

-Galina  09/22/1976                                                                                  
I feel you are a very independent and stronger than you think. I feel you will meet someone who thinks as you and, has wondered the same thing. It is your destiny to marry in the traditional way, and there are two children in you future; Isee this happening in about two years. In the mean time  be happy and know good things come to people who wait.

Posted July 17th 2017



 Before marriage i had affair with my cousin im about to marry him, in between my bad time i met my husband and married him before 3 yrs, now im feeling very bad to run the life with him, he is not satisfying my expectations, not living like normal hubby n wife, v r together in the house like friends, im trying to improve his skills but he is not doing anything just going to office after sleeping and taking rests on saturday and sundays, i got irritated to run a life like this. sometimes i feel like i miss my cousin's love and the way he treats me. can i back to his relationship, will it work for me? will he accept me? understand my probs? will he forgive me?-bala 08//1984
I feel your confused feeling is because from the start you and he did things your way; what ever felt right, at the time. There is a reason for doing ceritne things in the way we have learned by people who love us to prevent issues like this. I know you think you did know each other, but its not working. Try telling him how you feel and communicate about how you feel. It sounds like he loves you and will understand. Be sure not to blame him for working this much.

When will I get proposed to???-Jennifer 10//1979                                                       
Within the next five years. To make it work do it in a Spiritual way.    
                                                                                                                                                                   
Hi, I am hoping you can shed some light on my current situation. My ex boyfriend and I recently broke up for the second time. The first time he wasn't over his kids mom and it created a lot of havoc for us. I ended things with no contact for three months. We ended up getting back together and things between us had completely changed for the better. But for some reason I assume from not being happy with myself I ended up taking stuff out on him and pushing him away. We broke up and he said he had fallen out of love with me and moved out. We still hang out from time to time. He has even come to help me right away when I need him. I have always felt a very strong connection to him. Not one that I have had with many others. I dont feel in my gut that things are final between us. I honestly think he might be the one for me. I feel that he hasn't let me go either. So I am wondering, is there a purpose for this? Are we actually meant to be together or am I wasting time and need to move on? I would really appreciate any insight you have for me.-Shandli 04/05/1980
You must remember when you marry you also need to except his family and children, these things create the man you married, a big part of him. I feel you married to soon, before you really knew each other compleatly. There is always a chance if you love each other. He will not be back, his family means to much to him. Some how he is always going to be involved with his family and his children. Right now he feels they don"t matter to you. Everybody has baggage; past dose mean a lot to some people, some grasp it, some will not accept it, but it must be excepted as it is reality                                                              

Posted July 10th 2017


My ex boyfriend dumped me for another women, six months ago, will he ever contact me to say sorry! He dumped me by text message and he has literally disappeared, heard that he is getting married etc.... I was with him for 2 and a half years
- Farhat f. k. 08//1966

He is living to fast but, that may be alright for him. You will get a chance to talk to him but, you will be surprised about how much he has changed and forgot. The way he does things, or does not do things will not change. He has nothing to say about your past relationship, and it is a little soon for marriage


I keep thinking of my ex off late, to a point where I cry about him because I want to reconnect with him so bad. Does my ex G W still think of me ? Is he in love with me ? Does he miss me as much as I miss him ? Do you see him contacting me ?– Avril G05//1978
 he feels as if something interfered. I do see him contacting you but, no time soon, He needs to figure out  what to say and right no he has none. He does miss you but still cant put it into words. To him every thing seems very complicated; I feel he just needs time. 

Will my ex partner James and I get back together? Is he my soul mate? Will we have kids together and how soon will we get back together? -Dulce 
God does create situation where soul mates do meet one another, now what two people do with that is entirely up to them; there is no such thing as a guarantee in any relationship. Soul mates are not lovers all the time, they can be brothers, sisters, friends, pets, or advisers. I feel strongly that you and he will try again however, the original barrier will become stronger. You or this man can not over come this obstacle alone or individually. But you can together; the first step is to respect the others feelings and way of thinking. If you and he can do this for three months, the rest of life will seem easy by comparison. This lesson will benefit you in the future and teach you something that you will never forget.

Posted July 3rd 2017



I am going through a breakup with a girl I am still in love with. We were seeing each other for a few months and things were great, but we decided to take a break of sorts as we both needed to focus on our careers. We agreed to meet up on a specific date last week, which we did. The night was great and we ended up sleeping together, with all the old feelings flooding back. However, whereas I was keen to give things another go she felt that things were too difficult the last time around and got overwhelmed. I went home thinking it was all over. Since then we have been texting each other constantly and she's having second thoughts. We're both so confused but we know there are still strong feelings there. Will we end up back together? –Graham 12//1986
You being a Capricorn you must find if you are compatible with her according to the Stars ( believe me it matters ). You and she both went through a romantic cycle for all the time together but, when you tried to see each other in reality, it reminded you and she of the romance ( That is not enough to hold a relationship together, and the feelings will always be strong, until time creates other memories ). I feel you and she both have looked at your relationship from different perspectives but, I feel you and she, have not reached your personal best. There is a chance for things to work, if you both try.,.


My ex boyfriend dumped me for another women, six months ago, will he ever contact me to say sorry! He dumped me by text message and he has literally disappeared, heard that he is getting married etc.... I was with him for 2 and a half years - Farhat f. k. 08//1966
He does not feel it was working between you and he. He will contact you but, not to say he is sorry, he will say it is to hear your voice. If you are contacting him in any way even to hang up or checking his situation, that is what is prolonging things and it is like standing on the highest mountain to state your love. He has made choices, so have you. I feel it is best and cheaper to carry on with life, allow him to contact you when he figures out what to say. If you feel there is some type or form of missing information from ether you or he, there is not. The only way is spiritual and, I do not feel you are in agreement.

I keep thinking of my ex off late, to a point where I cry about him because I want to reconnect with him so bad. Does my ex G W still think of me ? Is he in love with me ? Does he miss me as much as I miss him ? Do you see him contacting me ?– Avril G. 05//1978                                                                            
I feel very much it will happen however, in the future. This is his way of making sure you do not forget him. Now that you and he have moved on, you know that you still have strong feelings for each other, that will not change. Why is he your x ? what does he feel 

Posted June 26th 2017

Me and my ex girlfriend split a year ago we have twin girls together,and were a coupel for 2 and a half years.she has a new boyfriend and she says she is happy but we talk everyday at lest 10 messages each everyday. She told me her boyfriend did ask if she would Marry him and she said no... I love this women so much and can see up having a really good future together. What I really want to know is, is there really any hope of this happening ?? –Adam 03//1988
I understand, it is confusing. At this time you are a better friend, then anything else. It is much more rare to have a friend of a different sex. I feel if you have an honest talk about your feelings, it will make her think, and be clear about your intentions. A lot of couples get to gather but do not last, it is a head start that you are friends.. If you do not like talking about her plans with someone else, do not let her to continue, say something.  


I've been single now since 2009 and I would like to know if I will meet that special one I am meant to be with, settle down with and have a family with.
but I still feel the ghost of failed marriage lingering around and the bad karma. Will I ever meet my soulmate and have my happy ending? -Errin T. 04//1980

What is most likely going on is unresolved feelings. It is hard to be positive about someone and be so wrong but, believe me it happens to all. I feel you are to smart to repeat mistakes but, it will take time..


PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER me. My boyfriend went to jail yesterday for 3 years and 4 months.I love him with all my heart and i want to wait him but i don't know what is going to be with us.I really really need your help,please tell me is it worth waiting or not?I am desperate i want to see him to touch him to kiss him but he is where he is and i don't know when i'm going to see him next time.His name is Mirko,born 20.07.1986.PLEASE ANSWER ME,TELL WHAT TO DO!!!-Jelena U. 07/18/1992
He will be expecting what what you tell him to be real. First express to him how you really feel about the time issue, see what he has to say, I am sure he has thought about this before.from your perspective. The best policy is honesty it resolves future problems. What ever you do do not blame him, he has a lot to think about and that is what he is doing. If this just happened you might want to wait a little, he has some major thinking to do. Right now he does not need any new information of this type. 

Posted June 19th 2017

Am in love with this man and I don't if this is how is or there is more to it. He comes and disappear without even communication. Am very confused at this point.-Carolyne O. 09/12/1987
I feel there is some kind of barrier he has now considered, now that your relationship is becoming realistic you need to know, soon. He is going to have to make  a certin sacrafice for your relationship to continue. You can not know a  person who intentionally keeps things from you; this is why he waited until you fell in love with him, he felt if you did know, that this would eliminate his chance to be with you. Its time you were informed. 


Will my ex come back -doreen s. 02/15/1973
He will contact you first to see if you are mad at him, then he will attempt to return.


Will I ever find Love and Success? –Jay S. 12/09/1988
You have picked two subjects that only you can define. Love will happen when you are ready and success when and if you are willing to work hard for it..You currently are in the middle of a high energy cycle; anything you start or make better has a nine in ten chance of working out for you. 

Posted June 5th 2017



Met a woman and dated for about a month. She ended it due to my fear and feeling that she was not fully committed. We have not been in contact for over a month. Has this relationship run its course? Or will I be hearing from her again? –AC 12//1971
I feel strongly that she is looking forward to the future; she has a plan that has been working for her. She does hold you dear in her hart but the emotional situation  was distracting her from her goal. There is always the possibility of becoming friends and reflecting some positive to her. She only wants you to be happy and you looking forward to the future.

My ex husband and I have been divorced for 2.5 years. We were married for 10. We have been off and on during that time period. He is having a hard time forgiving me for cheating on him with an old high school boyfriend. We have agreed to a friends with benefits relationship but I really want him back as my husband. He says he wants to be my friend and we tell each other everything (i.e. he wants to know when I begin talking to another man, etc.). He was talking to another girl but I sort of flipped out and caused problems there telling her that he was just with me (which he was) and that he still loves me (which he used to say). Anyway, I am wondering if I can still get him back. If I can when do you think this would be possible? I love him dearly and really want to patch my family back up. –Brandi 07//1980

I feel you have a lot of pressure on you, this is bothering you because you are doing all the work and worrying on your own. He all problems on you. When you divorced all rights were gone, you must be aware of this. If you have been with him since than; that must be the source of your problem. If you want to be with him why did you divorce in the first place. You do have a relationship going on which only you can improve. Do you want to? because he will not stop playing husband and father. He will always be the center of your attention... he will always come back but is not likely to get remarried. This is because he does not wish to have any commitments.

My ex and i broke up 4 months ago and i have these feeling than he wants to come back to me, but he has a new girlfriend already . Is my feeling correct? -April 04/24/1985
I do not feel he has moved on so quick. he does still care for you, for now. The other girl is for your bennifit. I think if you tell him how you feel it will make him think. He does love you. You have a very romantic way about you, he will listen. You may be a little bold in your attempt but, it will hit him as honesty.
Posted May 29th 2017




About 2years ago I met a man who was out of a long marriage and I was just out of a so so relationship things started casually and over time I fell in love with him , we had an on again off again relationship .He said he wasn"t ready.We broke up and I miss him terribly ,we were good friends as well,  Do you see us getting back together? How does this man feel about me?He seems so torn .Should I give up and move on? I havent felt like this about any man in a very long time,I am so hurt and confused about what to do. –Trace 07//1968
You should not hold on to any guilt or confusion. He has been through this before, I mean the certainty of love and, where it will go. This is especially for a man that has been sure before. He is being extremely careful because he has been sure before and it cost him dearly; he paid a price for moving to quickly and he does not want to feel that way again. It seems as if you and he need a clarifying talk.

Hello James, 

In 1995 I met the love of my life the following months were a joy it just kept getting better and better, we started to have a few ups and downs and she let it be known that she wasn't seeing signs of me settling down, things like saving and stuff, still we kept on going and I absolutely adored her, after a year and a half together I had to go away for three months or so as part of my job, she could fly in and visit occaisionally. I let her know about a week beforehand, she planned a feast for our last night together before my trip...Unbeknown to me at that time was she was fully expecting me to propose (she had been 'nesting' for some time so I did have hints). Anyway I didnt, and to make it worse fell asleep shortly after as I had been working very hard in lieu of the departure.
The next morning she was angry and bitter and ended it there and then her dreams were torn away in just one night, I said I had to go and would call her asap and that I was sorry..she wouldn't have any of it. 
Despite my best efforts over the coming months that was it she had made her decision and it was final. Then I found out she had a new boyfriend, I saw them leave work together and in my anger I boxed every gift, every memory into a large box and dumped it outside her office door ( There was one thing I couldn't part with, a pair of gloves she got me at Xmas 1995 I just felt her love in those gloves.there was also a picture of us taken at the beginning of our relationship which I returned to her but had 2 copies made for me beforehand...Again I couldn't bring myself to part with it)
That was that..No contact of any kind for about 2 years then we bumped into each other at the 1998 boat show and we didnt speak, she did try at one point but I was the angry one now and I made no secret of my bitterness purely by short sharp responses to her, she seem cool and detached almost aloof it didn't seem to bother her much at least on the surface.
Forward 1 year May 1999 to boat harbor in the Bahamas, the boat I was crewing was here and then she shows up She tried several times to talk by walking by often but when I saw here I would turn my back and go inside, I was still angry at her for breaking my heart so badly.
Since then nothing, and despite daily thoughts of her I was able to cope and get on with my life somewhat though I never had another relationship despite numerous opportunities since her But heres what really upsetting to me, every 2 years or so I have dreams of her that just take over me..When that happens she's all I can think about, I Google her, look at pictures of her on the web, she's become an accomplished woman in the marine industry and real estate..I always knew she would succeed as she's a smart classy lady with real ethics and being beautiful helps too. Problem for me is I go to pieces thinking of her, I'm upset for days at a time sometimes even a week or two weeks recently my hearts still broken though I have forgiven her and wish for her forgiveness also. Its been 17 years since she ended it and 13 since I saw here last in the flesh, I think of her daily. I love and miss her to this day though its destroying me. Well on the last Google I found a set of pics only a few months old, in none of the pictures was a wedding or an engagement ring. It gives me hope but we're getting older. Why didn't she marry in all those years, and why didn't I? James, please can you help me The intensity of my emotion is as strong as ever..What do you make of all this? –Frank 2//1960
It feel that she has her life well planned. I also feel that she is disappointed that things did not work out, but has moved on and wishes you a good life. She sees it as a part of life. She blames no one for this and puts it down to youthful excitement. I feel you have unresolved feelings and it is making you very confused. You should not feel as if there is a reason for everything, there is not. You should look toward the future rather than trying to fix something that has been dealt with a long time ago. 

I want to know if my common law of 4 years has been with my mother since the beginning? –Jolene 11//1978
No, I feel it was their own feelings. Through introspection and time. You will have a chance to talk but, it is nobody’s falt

Posted May 22nd, 2017

I have a lot of friends in my life who I think are attracted to me and they are all good friends ( I have three in mind). I don't know if I'm attracted to them as more than friends or even if the relationship will work. There is one who is my best friend who knows everything about me, but he's in a relationship. I refuse to start something with him if there is a possibility when he's in a relationship even though I truly believe that she isn't the one for him. It could stem from jealousy or I could sense their incompatibility or both, whatever the case may be, I'm confused. :/ -Olivia 08//1992
You need somebody who is able to live life your way, and it’s not one of these men, their lives are very much planed out. The right individual for you would be somebody without baggage. One of these men will step up and describe their  feelings for you and their plan you will also run into someone you will be very taken with in about three weeks. You will know the right person, and you will have no question.

I am still in love with my ex he broke things off with me after a year of dating we were friends for over 20 years off and on before we moved in together. He had a lot going on like court cases and financial issues I supported him through it all I thought we were getting somewhere in the relationship until one day he told me he didn't want to leave but he was to stressed to stay. I try contacting him he does not answer or call back, I stopped calling and have not tried for a month now u really don't know how he feels do you think he may come back or try to contact me soon –Malisha 12//1975

I see him as deep in thought, he has always figured things out. Now it’s hard for him to understand why the most important things such as you, does not work out the way he had planned. He feels he needs something to offer other than words. As far as he not contacting you, you should not worry, it is his way of making sure you are still thinking about him. I you are trying to contact him in any way ( e- mail, phone, or message ) stop all contact, he will think you have moved on or, found someone else. eventually you will be in communication, sooner than later...

Hi, I really like this girl from school since last year, and would like to know if she has the same feelings towards me or not –Kevin 05//1994                                
 I feel not exactly; right now she considers you a friend, she knows you like her. I feel you should strike up a conversation with her; you will be surprised by the commonality. She will find you very interesting and want to see you again. right now she only knows what she sees. She is wondering when you will talk to her.

Posted May 15th, 2017


I have been married for 8 years now my husband is good but there is no true love in the marriage.i have a kid from him though. Some 4 months back I met this guy on Facebook.we haven't known each other outside Facebook though he stays in within some 30 km radius of my permanent house.we have been chatting sometimes and quarrelling also sometimes. I have madly fallen in love with him and have also told him this.i am ready to leave my everything and go with him.but he is telling he doesn't love me and we can't co-exist which I think is all false.i want to ask only one question to you-do you see a future for both of us together as lovers or in a marital relationship?is he my soul mate? –Deepa  11/1978
Conditions are not right this can not be rushed or it will back fire. I feel you know each other in romantic love but not in, realistic love. This must be gone through; a thinking process that is all en composing, first about yourself and him, your problems must be over before you think about moving forward. You can not ignor your own problems before taking his on; and vice a versa. It is just to early...  


I met a younger Virgo last year and really felt a spiritual connection with him. I have been told he is my twin flame. We really had some communication issues I was trying to tell him I was falling in love and he thought I was breaking up with him. It just snowballed from there. Do you see him coming back or do you see someone new to enter my life? –Christine 05/1971
You will meet up with him. He will act as if nothing went on. Before you develop real feelings for him and, except him to tell you that he loves you, this is hard for a Virgo, he will most likely show you by action.


I am having trouble deciding what to do about my relationship. My boyfriend D. is currently in jail, and I do love him and I'm not sure if he really means it this time with me, and i dont know how he is goin to be when he gets out, on the other hand there is another guy that i like a lot and I need to know if that is even worth trying? –Kristina 08/1995
I feel D. deserves a chance to prove that he really cares. The original problem or concern must be dealt with first for any attempt to work. If you have hesitation about taking responsibility for him, I would say do not. Everything depends on your feelings; if you feel that you want to try, let the other person know or there will be a problem that will arise. For your own good, I feel you should slow down. You do have a lot of time to feel the way you want; which cannot be rushed. 

Posted May 8th, 2017

Will I marry Natasha J. ? –Joseph 09/23/1991
I feel it is possible. also, that she also feels strongly toward you. If you treat her good and she treats you good and one day you may decide if you and she feels the same. If you are good for each other and respect your relationship then higher power will help you and keep you together.

Almost 6 years ago, my husband passed away. I since have been content and happy with my independence --- not really venturing out into the dating world. Besides, it's something I really don't know how to navigate very well. About 3 1/2 months ago, I met someone who seems to strive for high ideals in being the best person he can be. He really has caught my attention, and I am open to exploring a potential relationship with him. Unfortunately, conversing and getting to know one another has been challenging. I've been told we are both shy and that he is interested. I am to give him more encouragement, and he will take the first step to ask me out on a date. I think I have given encouragment, but maybe it's not a strong enough signal. I am not sure how to prompt him. Perhaps he never was interested in me in the first place. I am starting to feel that I should just give up and move on, because I can no longer stand th is impasse. I've become disheartened, and I'm starting to believe that any future with him was simply my imagination. If I shouldn't give up, what should I do so that this path may unfold? –Gena 04/30/1970
He likes you but, he wants to be sure it is the right time. This man understands and does not want to lose your friendship. Moving slowly is his way of giving you respect. He also is starting to get the idea that this a good time to create a good relationship, depending on how you feel. Within three months the relationship will start.

 Me and my boyfriend broke up about 3 months ago, we had a very loving but also an emotional roller coaster of a relationship. I feel something truly special towards him but it seems like when we have an issue, he walks out of the relationship. We had broken up once before and we decided to work things out but the last time we broke up it seemed like things are not going to go back to what they used to. I am deeply hurt by his actions, for not sticking to his promises and for just leaving. I know what we have is something special but I can feel something preventing us from having a stable relationship. Will we solve our issues and come together once again and stay together? Viviana 12/17/1992                      
Your relationship has taken a turn to reality. If he feels like you ( I feel he does ) he will try to give you what you want, but you must try to listen to what he says and how he sees things, you must establish a way of loving each other that the other can except. You and he will speak again, very soon, I would say days.   

Posted May 1st, 2017

Will D.C. be moving into my home? If so a time frame? I love this man. –Tee 08//1974
I feel he will. To him this is a big change, and he wants to be as sure as possible. He feels that being a bit of a mystery is what started this relationship and has always been there to an extent. You would be wise to emphasize the positiveness of being to gather, and also the feeling of security one would posses. In actuality I feel he will be very enthusiastic in about three weeks.

I have met a man named Jamie back in June. Everything was great until he had to leave for work in a different country but we have stayed in touch. we havent seen each other since. We talk via whatsapp and telephone. He has been offered new work now back here although they are trying to keep him abroad and the money is good so he is at a cross roads on what to do. I was wondering if he does like me and is genuine with what he says and also wonder if we do have a future. I do like him lots and im very curious of what is in store for us. He is also just finalising a divorce. –Gemma  12//1981
You need to realize if its you, you will be financially
responsible for both of you, for a while. I feel it is you he will pick, but you will think twice about being responsible for it all. It will be hard at first.. Remember he has been sure before.

Will I marry Natasha J. ? –Joseph 09/23/1991 
I feel so, if things continue as they are for at least three months. Remember, a lot can happen with in three months  positive or the other way around. It all depends on how you develop a common view of the future. I feel it is possible. 

Posted April 24th, 2017



My husband decided he wanted a divorce fter only 2 years of marriage.. I love him so much we had such a strong connection. I can't help but feel that our connection will bring us back to each other in time. I'm so broken hearted there's been no closure. He reads my Facebook Messages, yet he doesn't reply. We do not have children together, but he still helps my son when he needs help. Our divorce was ugly due to my being ugly because of his ignoring me. I feel like we were meant to be. We went through a lot in the short time we were married. Blended families, death of his mother, my hysterectomy, his health elements. Why does he ignore me? Is it pride? I think he's a narcissist, only has not been diagnosed. He has all of the common signs of it. How could he just walk away with no remorse? Will he ever miss me and come back? I love him, with all my heart & soul. –Erica 10//1970                                                                                           
Ifeel this divorce was as hard for him, as it was for you. I feel also, that he became disappointed with the whole relationship. He is not blaming you or himself,  he just did not himself in this position. He is defining his place in life; he feels he is running out of time. I feel he will call you to prevent you from worrying however, the things in his life that he never wanted, he feels his life has become and he can not talk to you because you will take it wrong. You and this man must see how you feel about the vows; he feels he has lost a lot. He feels as if he always disappoints you.                     

 An 2nd of this year my ex and I just stop speaking with each other. No correspondance whatsoever. We both left without a word. I was tired of having to be his personal cheer leading squad and felt I was getting nothing and giving it my all. We had been together for almost 7 years with th elast two being very off and on. I love him and still do but it was becoming increasingly difficult as he put no effort in. He made a big deal about Christmas and then boom there was a diconnect. I thought he was coming back. I was sure he was coming back. Now 7 weeks later I hear he has a new girlfriend and he has already introduced his 16 year old daughter too. The kicker with that is I never met her. She was younger and not ready and then his ex felt she wasnt ready and then after so much time it just didnt seem necessary although I always wanted to as he had met mine. I did meet his son and we got along great. He was always worried about her not wnting or accepting me. It hurt me to the core to learn this and today was the first day I cried and feel like I have really lost him. I guess i am uncertain if this is the real thing and not a rebound like I origionally figured. Will he have a relationship with her? Does he not miss me at all? Are we truly done? –Susan 04//1972 
He heard something about you from a close friend; that is why he believes it. You will have an opportunity to talk when you stop trying to contact him at all. Do not make to much out of his new friendship. It is mostly for your benefit. You should use this time to organize your thoughts, is this where you really want to be. I feel this is a lot more thought then activity. It is really if you will except him, as he is. He sees no reason to change.

I am currently in a 5 years relationship with a guy. Recently, I went on a trip with a bunch of friends and fell in love with another guy. I'm not sure if he feels the same way. I also dream about him in my sleep. Should I move on with the new guy I've just met or stay with my current partner ? – Sharon 06/21/1999                I feel he does like you and would like to get to know you better, he really does not know to much about you or you him. I do feel he is a good person however, you should base you opinion on reality, I feel you will be a happier person. Just give time, a little. He finds you very attractive and would like to get to know you and what you like in life. You will find you have a lot in common.  

Posted April 17th, 2017

Me and my friend have been seeing each for quite some time now and the feelings between us is so strong. He's a Gemini and I'm a scorpio. He recently moved to Texas and we don't talk as much anymore he says he working and taking care of business but now I feel disconnected from him. Is this something temporary or he's total lost interest in me? –Cae 11//1979
Being a Scorpio you have super sensitivity and intuition. The connection you feel with him is a is strong and beyond words it is a unique       connection of the past and fun in the minute. He feels the same but has a habit of seeking out activity and if he sees that there is nothing     he will perceive the relationship as in the past. It is very important that you talk to him, and know where things stand. That time will be magical for you and him. I feel he still loves you but, College is his main goal you need to see if you and he are still compatible. The news will surprise you very much.   


 I have been single for quite some time now and to be honest it does get to me at times, well alot of times. I do crave that deep, honest, passionate great love with a man that I can eventually create a family with. Marriage and motherhood are two things that are very impotant to me, i know you're not suppossed to plan your life, but I know if that doesn't happen for me I will be dissappointed. I know at my age of 21 people just want someone they can hang or do things with, and in some way I feel thats why i am single because I dont do the typical 21 year old things. If i stop focusing on long term love & pay more attention to just having fun with guys, will that help me in my situation if being single, cause some of the frustration does come from being lonely and seeing everyone with someone except me. I just want a man that i can give love to & him to me in return. I am just worried that i wont find someone. –Kyandra 08//1992
There is someone for everyone, sometimes it happens fast and, sometimes slow. People want to be sure that they are not making a mistake. It is very refreshing to hear from somebody who is so sure about what they want. I feel in about two years you will get what you want. As long as it is spiritual in nature it should last. You are a good woman and will get what you deserve, as a matter of fact, it is happening now but, remember good things come to people who wait.


He is my cousin, His star is Scorpio. He stares at me a lot and when I cough him he immediately look away, He says"Sorry" on every Single thing and he look into my eyes while talking and he doesn't like whenever I Wear Lense. But from 5 to 6 months we're not talking to each other, i dont what has happend to hm. He has also Blocked me on Facebook, i though im no more in his life but why he Stares me then and listen to Romantic Songs specially infront of me! –Sadaf 07//1995
Scorpios have the most magnetism out of all other signs. I feel he is good at leaving an impression but, continuing on ward to a relationship is something he is not used to. He is seeing how you might feel about continuing your acquaintance. Scorpios are very nice looking and get use to the attention early on in life. Jealousy can be an issue. I do feel he is trying to get your attention. I feel strongly that he is a good man and would be a lot of fun for you. I perceive no barriers.

Posted April 10th, 2017

I have a lot of friends in my life who I think are attracted to me and they are all good friends ( I have three in mind). I don't know if I'm attracted to them as more than friends or even if the relationship will work. There is one who is my best friend who knows everything about me, but he's in a relationship. I refuse to start something with him if there is a possibility when he's in a relationship even though I truly believe that she isn't the one for him. It could stem from jealousy or I could sense their incompatibility or both, whatever the case may be, I'm confused. :/ -Olivia 08/1992
There is a difference between friends and people in relationships. Friends are based on closeness and an ability to talk about anything and develop a perspective on whatever the situation is. In a relationship you always do what is best for the relationship or the other person. The only thing you should be confused about is if he feels the same           You need to communicate a little more and clearly about what each want and is it each other. There is a chance  


I am still in love with my ex he broke things off with me after a year of dating we were friends for over 20 years off and on before we moved in together. He had a lot going on like court cases and financial issues I supported him through it all I thought we were getting somewhere in the relationship until one day he told me he didn't want to leave but he was to stressed to stay. I try contacting him he does not answer or call back, I stopped calling and have not tried for a month now u really don't know how he feels do you think he may come back or try to contact me soon –Malisha 12//1975

I feel he will contact you when he needs money. You and he know each other better than anyone but, to stressed to stay is not the reality of the situation; he became stressed because of money; he feels you love him no matter the situation; when he does not have the knowledge you still feel the same, he will wonder what happened; then he will contact you. You will have one more chance, or should I say he has.


Hi, I really like this girl from school since last year, and would like to know if she has the same feelings towards me or not –Kevin 05//1994  
 I feel she has the same confusion; if you get to know her and develop a friendship. You will have a chance, you see she really does not know you well. Give her a chance to get to know you. I do feel she likes you but now, just well enough to call a friend. Get to know each other better, this will define your feelings. Sometimes not knowing is bliss.                                                                

Posted April 3rd, 2017

Me and my ex were together for ten years. It was a up and down relationship but one thing that kept us going back is our love for each other. But back in 2012 we split up. And even though we both still love each other both can't forgive the other. I would like to know if we ever will get back together later down the line or is it completely over this time and if so will I ever find the right woman for me? –Wayne 09/18/74
You and your ex are familiar with each other’s habits and routine, you know each other’s patterns of life. You know what you like and what you don't and so does she. I feel you and she would make good friends. I do feel the only thing that will bring you back together, would be to re do your vows, and this time mean it. She is not ready for this and will listen. You and she have created a common view of the future together this has faded, the love in your hart just might bring it back. It will be hard and will take time but, worth it for both of you...                 

It has been two months since my ex of 4.5 years broke up with me. He stated that he felt he couldn't make me happy because we were not compatible. I am struggling with letting him go, as I believe there was a string connection btw us. I have not spoken with him since the breakup but want to know if he's moving on or if we will reconcile in the future. –Monica 11//83
He wants to see if you miss him. The sound of his voice and behaviorism. He feels the same and misses the same thing however he believes that you will not make it without him. If you eliminate contacting him . He will start to wonder if you still love him or have moved on. After a while he will contact you, just to hear your voice ( you and he can tell a lot by hearing each other’s voice. Then you can talk without interruptions  or talk about starting a new however there will still be the old problems which you can work on or solve. You still love each other very much and thinking about each other. Remember no contact on your part.. 

About 6 months ago I reconnected with my old high school love. He is a Pisces and I am a Sagittarius. I have a lot of hurt from past relationships and even though things are going very well and he talks about our future all the time, I can’t help but sometimes feel like it might be too good to be true. Everyone I love seems to blindside me in time and leave (friends, past relationships, etc.) I am scared to tell him this because I don’t want him to think I have any doubts about us (I truly don’t and believe in our relationship) but I was wondering, do you see if he is in it for the long haul? –Erin 11//84
He feels he is, this man is in love with you mind, body, and spirit and will look at you with a desire to solve all issues. He is a dreamer it is true. you will be logical and can bring excitement to the relationship and activity. Fire and water have a hard time not interacting,. If you and he can resolve the possessive reaction, it looks good.

Posted March 27th, 2017

Please help. MY QUESTION IS. 4 years ago I reconnected with my first love. I’m 47 and he’s known me since I was 14. He is my first love as I am his. He was the only man I have ever loved. I never married cause I wanted him. We had a fun loving relationship until maybe the last 6 months I became insecure and obsessed with him. I smothered him. He wanted space but I kept clinging hard to him. I do regret it. Wish I can start over and do it right. We just ended our relationship a few days ago. I’m hurting. I kept calling him and texting him. Now he replied to me and said do not contact me. Wow that hurt me even more. He is angry and I pushed him over the edge. My question is will he think of me and when he cools down will he talk to me and give us another try. I want him to see that I’m the same woman he fell in love with and I will stop my smothering. Do we still have something left? I believe we do. Will we get back together? How much time should I give him before I contact him? –Laura 01//67
I understand this is hard. Remember he and you have the same memories, have the same experiences, and lived life together. I do also feel that this has happened before. He does care for you and wishes you well. You and he will give things one more try. Remember the original problem must be resolved or, the attempt will be for nothing.. 

I have been having secret fun on and of with a guy at work. Sometimes I get a very powerful feeling that he has feelings or is even In love with me. Can I trust my feelings? –Jane 07/22                                                     
Do you know anything about this man, except where he works.  There is a reason  a person needs to know somebody first because this happens. It does not matter how he feels there are barriers to overcome for him and he feels he does not know you well enough. Has he given you indication that he has feelings for you? I feel you should talk about this. Before you get in to deep. This is a big change for you and will result in you learning a lesson that most adults have. We tend to build up people we are close to, but that does not mean they have the qualities we think they have. He will be in a fog  about this. try to be serious about your connection.. You have many things in front of you, you  have not seen because of you unhappiness.. This will not last and is already being dealt with.  

Posted March 20th, 2017

Will me and my boyfriend Jason make amends or get back together? –Mika 08/18/77
 I feel that yes, it is possible but, I don’t know if you or he wants to enough or are certain about it. As far as making a mends, you will get the chance. It appears that you and he have started to be super conscious of each other and your feelings toward each other, you were starting to look at each other, or read each other for the next move. After a confrontation you parted. I still feel love between you and he but, neither one of you have an explanation. It seems as if your personalities were depending on the other actions to confirm the way you and he, feels about each other. He will attempt to ignore you, if you do not contact him at all; e-mail, phone, letters, he will contact you; as he feels the same and cars for you. Give the no contact a chance to work but do not even talk about marriage, you and he must get along first, and above all else trust each other.     

Hello. I would like to know if Daniel will be coming back into my life? I also want to know if he will be moving into my home to live with me? Please let me know. I really am hurting over this. Thank you. –Toni 08/29/74
I feel he wanted to see what being apart would do to all concerned. He knows there are lot of feelings involved and and a commitment, he is not made a determination yet, he will call you when he misses home. He figures you are hurt and angry about what he has done or did not do, simply upset and feeling alone. He will contact you in about three days. And that is the time to talk and see how the other feels. I do feel he loves you, as you do he.

 I had a short relationship with a younger Virgo last year. It was mostly sexual. For some reason I cannot stop thinking about him. I really fell hard for him. We stopped seeing each other due to a misunderstanding. Do you see him coming back at all? –Betty 05/02/71

I do see you running into him. He will be glad to see you, but he won’t put it into words he will show you by action; Virgos have a way of showing a person how they feel but, rarely put it into words.He does not realize how you feel, first you must let him know your feelings about being apart; you will know then. Some encounters can be intense, even a brief one. People often don't talk enough or let the other know. You will run in to him soon..

Posted March 13th, 2017

About 6 months ago my boyfriend of 3 year broke up with me for another girl. I was extremely depressed but then a few weeks ago i met this new guy, we are dating and I really have strong feelings for him and he says he does for me as well, but he also got out of a 3 year relationship and his ex has also moved on like my ex did. I’m just scared of being hurt again. I really like this new guy I’m with and so I want to know how long him and I will last? –Sam 10//95
Since you are aware of what the dynamics of you relation are, you do have the capacity to make a new relationship last. He is also aware of the rebound effect. I feel you and he can work out and do not let a past relationships that you were both in effect the present. As long as it is a growing and nurturing one, I see you and he smiling having fun together. How long it will last is up to you and he, but I do see you and he together for a very long time…

Hello, My boyfriend of three years broke off with me in December. I love him and find it difficult to move on as i still hope things will change. i tried everything possible to get back but he says he doesn't love me anymore. I don't know if he like someone else? We had decided to get married once we had settled down. I am torn apart and find it very difficult to even concentrate on anything and break down more than often. Should I wait for him? I tried talking to others but my instinct says that my ex is the only person I can spend the rest of my life with. –Rizzy 06//88
I feel strongly that you and he tried but, something went wrong. Sometimes relationships do not work or, people find they have lives that do not correspond. I do feel he is trying to be honest. You do not see the situation as it  is. There is information that he will not share with you, because it would change your opinion. 

When will my boyfriend be allowed to come home? –Kelly
03//86                                                                                                                                                  
I can see that he will be home within a year, I feel you and he should start to find your relationship again. As you will define the relationship by its activity and common interest. I see you  accomplishing a lot, within a year leading to a financial wind fall  and possibly a life time of security leading you to happy life. 

I started dating this guy back in November of 2013. We had about 11 great dates, and then suddenly he said a few things that I found rude so I addressed the matter. He was angry because I kept the issue from him for three days, which happened to be over the Christmas holiday. He decided that we needed to take a 6-day break of no contact. He contacted me again on new years day, however, after that we were both a little on edge with one another, more so on my part. Two weeks later we had plans to see each other, but he canceled saying he had something to do for work. I found this strange considering the last two dates we had, either he was angry with me, or he was just off. I asked him if I would get in his way of work and if he wanted to continue our relationship and he said he did not. The next day I implored that we try once more to see if he would regain the spark. We both agreed, however, over the next two weeks it was somewhat of an emotional roller coaster and he finally broke it off saying he did not feel comfortable being friends knowing that I wanted more than he did, which was on January 28th 2014. Two weeks later I wished him a Happy Valentines Day to which he responded to positively. The following two days I attempted to either make small talk or to see if he would at least tell me why he wanted to break it off. He responded to the small talk, but with short answers, then he asked me to please stop when I asked about why he ended it. I did the 30 days of no contact, then tried texting him to make small talk once more, but he did not reply. This was one week ago. Will he ever return? –Lisnel 09//89
I feel that he will contact you by phone, when he dose ( I would say 2 months, or within that time ). You and he have been playing house, and expect the same kind of relationship as married couples have, husbands can’t just walk away when things don’t go there way, the act carries more consequences. This can be a loss to everyone involved. You are going through all of the stress of being married, with none of the benefits. I am certain you will think differently. 

I have been with my boyfriend since I was 18 until 22; I admit i treated him wrong sometimes by calling him names and hurting him verbally. He started a new relationship while we were still together, he tells me that I made him feel unloved & unwanted so I guess he went searching for someone to fill in the spot I was making him feel empty in. I have expressed to the best I can that i apologize forever hurting him from the bottom of my heart & I love him & want us back together. Do you think we will ever be back together, we been through so much together, he is my 1st & I am his 1st? I can't seem to continue my life without crying every day missing him & him giving another girl my love. –Ebony 01//92
A person just out of a long term relationship, will not fall in love again so soon, but a person that needs a place to stay will. He does not have you reinforcing love for him, he has no dough you love him and are going through hurt in a lot of ways, you most likely let him know. I do not feel he is going to change, and you will always never be able to trust him again, the way things look he did you a favor.   

I have been friends with J.  DOB April  1986 for over 6 yrs. In the past couple months we took our friendship to the level of having sex with each other but no relationship beyond friends. I have developed very strong feelings for him and would like to get into a committed relationship with him but not sure if he feels the same. For a few weeks I felt he had feelings for me as well but recently he's been pulling away some. Could you please tell me if he has feelings for me and if there is any chance we will become more then just friends and if so how soon will this happen? –Gwendolyn 07//70
This type of situation happens a lot, you had a relationship when he was getting sex and you classified your relationship as friend. Friends do not have an obligation and a responsibility to a relationship.  He feels he tried and is not happy, as you do at this time. If he makes an effort to rectify the relationship may start again. A relationship takes two to happen. It is impossible to not develop feelings when you are so close, but what you do with those feelings is another story. The relationship has lasted a while, it will take time to heal..

Will me and my boyfriend J. make amends or get back together? –Mika 08/18/77
I feel that yes, it is possible but, I don’t know if you or he wants to enough or are certain about it. As far as making a mends, you will get the chance. It appears that you and he have started to be super conscious of each other and your feelings toward each other, you were starting to look at each other, or read each other for the next move. After a confrontation you parted. I still feel love between you and he but, neither one of you have an explanation. It seems as if your personalities were depending on the other actions to confirm the way you and he, feels about each other. He will attempt to ignore you, if you do not contact him at all; e-mail, phone, letters, he will contact you; as he feels the same and cars for you. Give the no contact a chance to work but do not even talk about marriage, you and he must get along first, and above all else trust each other.     

Hello. I would like to know if D. will be coming back into my life? I also want to know if he will be moving into my home to live with me? Please let me know. I really am hurting over this. Thank you. –Toni 08/29/74
I feel he wanted to see what being apart would do to all concerned. He knows there are lot of feelings involved and and a commitment, he is not made a determination yet, he will call you when he misses home. He figures you are hurt and angry about what he has done or did not do, simply upset and feeling alone. He will contact you in about three days. And that is the time to talk and see how the other feels. I do feel he loves you, as you do he.

I had a short relationship with a younger Virgo last year. It was mostly sexual. For some reason I cannot stop thinking about him. I really fell hard for him. We stopped seeing each other due to a misunderstanding. Do you see him coming back at all? –Betty 05/02/71
I do see you running into him. He will be glad to see you, but he won’t put it into words he will show you by action; Virgos have a way of showing a person how they feel but, rarely put it into words. He does not realize how you feel, first you must let him know your feelings about being apart; you will know then. Some encounters can be intense, even a brief one. People often don't talk enough or let the other know. You will run into him soon...



Posted March 6th, 2017


I am so lonely in my life right now. It has been a long time since I have had a meaningful relationship. Do you see any coming up in my future? -TD 09//82
I see you in a lot of different relationships in the year ahead. Within the next three months you will have an opportunity to meet somebody nice who thinks as you, and is not obligated to another. I do view this meeting in a church or large building, in some sort of group activity. You are very magnetic right now and, this will last another four months. It is also a good time to start or begin any new activity, you will likely succeed

Hi my name is Nabila. I met my ex 12..07 we were together for for weeks then we broke up. I found he was with another women he got married had children and moved on. What happened, did he love me? What does he think of me I been thinking about him a lot recently what’s going on in his mind? I know something is there but I'm not sure. I'm confused. Can u tell me? -Nabila 11//77
First, you helped this man through a hard time, and was only you who he believes helped him get through bad marriage. One thing that’s not accomplished is a better marriage. I believe his wife and he are attempting to strengthen the marriage ( He has a lot to lose in a divorce ). He has lied to you from the start, he told you exactly what you wanted to hear. He will try again. But, I feel you feel in love with this man. You will not be happy with him, and his many issues.

Should I save my relationship with my husband? We live together but we fight so much we have two beautiful daughters. But lately he's been very cold. Not that he's always out but he doesn't show me to much love. -Vivian 07//86
Try to wait until he lets go or talks about whatever is bothering him. Because I feel you and he love each other. You must see if he wants to redo the vows, with your daughters. I do feel you and he should do something special together. He right now is a bit worried about the immediate future. You and he should enjoy yourselves and do whatever you have always wanted to do and laugh. Everybody needs to get away once and while; sometimes alone sometimes not. I sense no problem or barriers.

 I started dating this guy back in November of 2013. We had about 11 great dates, and then suddenly he said a few things that I found rude so I addressed the matter. He was angry because I kept the issue from him for three days, which happened to be over the Christmas holiday. He decided that we needed to take a 6-day break of no contact. He contacted me again on new years day, however, after that we were both a little on edge with one another, more so on my part. Two weeks later we had plans to see each other, but he canceled saying he had something to do for work. I found this strange considering the last two dates we had, either he was angry with me, or he was just off. I asked him if I would get in his way of work and if he wanted to continue our relationship and he said he did not. The next day I implored that we try once more to see if he would regain the spark. We both agreed, however, over the next two weeks it was somewhat of an emotional roller coaster and he finally broke it off saying he did not feel comfortable being friends knowing that I wanted more than he did, which was on January 28th 2014. Two weeks later I wished him a Happy Valentines Day to which he responded to positively. The following two days I attempted to either make small talk or to see if he would at least tell me why he wanted to break it off. He responded to the small talk, but with short answers, then he asked me to please stop when I asked about why he ended it. I did the 30 days of no contact, then tried texting him to make small talk once more, but he did not reply. This was one week ago. Will he ever return? –Lisnel 09//89
I feel that he will contact you by phone, when he dose ( I would say 2 months, or within that time ). You and he have been playing house, and expect the same kind of relationship as married couples have, husbands can not just walk away when things don’t go there way, the act carries more consequences. This can be a loss to everyone involved. You are going through all of the stress of being married, with non of the benefits. I am certain you will think differently.
 

I have been with my boyfriend since I was 18 until 22; I admit i treated him wrong sometimes by calling him names and hurting him verbally. He started a new relationship while we were still together, he tells me that I made him feel unloved & unwanted so I guess he went searching for someone to fill in the spot I was making him feel empty in. I have expressed to the best I canthat i apologize forever hurting him from the bottom of my heart & I love him & want us back together. Do you think we will ever be back together, we been through so much together, he is my 1st & I am his 1st? I can't seem to continue my life without crying every day missing him & him giving another girl my love. –Ebony 01//92
A person just out of a long term relationship, will not fall in love again so soon, but a person that needs a place to stay will. He does not have you reinforcing love for him, he has no doubt you love him and are going through hurt in a lot of ways, you most likely let him know. I do not feelhe is going to change, and you will always never be able to trust him again, the way things look he did you a favor.   

I have been friends with Jono  DOB April  1986 for over 6 yrs. In the past couple months we took our friendship to the level of having sex with each other but no relationship beyond friends. I have developed very strong feelings for him and would like to get into a committed relationship with him but not sure if he feels the same. For a few weeks I felt he had feelings for me as well but recently he's been pulling away some. Could you please tell me if he has feelings for me and if there is any chance we will become more then just friends and if so how soon will this happen? –Gwendolyn 07//70

 This type of situation happens a lot, you had a relationship when he was getting sex and you classified your relationship as friend. Friends do not have an obligation and a responsibility

to a relationship.  He feels he tried and is not happy, as you do at this time. If he makes an effort to rectify the relationship may start again. A relationship takes two to happen. It is impossible to not develop feelings when you are so close, but what you do with those feelings is another story. The relationship has lasted a while, it will take time to heal..

 

Posted February 27th, 2017

Should I save my relationship with my husband? We live together but we fight so much we have two beautyful daughters. 
But lately he's been very cold. Not that he's always out but he doesn't show me to much love. -Vivian 07//86
He feels preasure, I feel that you should talk or have somebody talk to him about how he feels. I do not feel another in his life.
A good guide is to see what your faith has to say about pressure and stress. And what ever faith you married in, has the info. 
I feel you will see and notice his gradual change. One thing is he loves you and his children and would do anything to make things better, and live a stress free life.

Me and my ex partner was together for 10 yrs it was an up and down relationship but the love got us through but in 2012 we split and since then there has been a lot off damage done. But we still love each other the same. I would like to know some where down the line we might be able to get back together again or is it completely over this time? -Wayne 09//74I feel you can be good friends at any time. This person feels that they went through a lot and needs to rest and feel good so that they can think strait. As you said the relationship was not good. The best way to show your concern is to do theright thing and ignore the idea right now. Every one needs to recharge them selves  once and a while, and people do this not knowing how long it will take. I feel strounlly that you will talk and the stress will fade within four months..

Will I ever get my ex M. S. back? I love her so much and am so incomplete without her. I don't want us to just be another failed relationship, I really want her to start my family. Please if you can give me some help, I'm so tired of not knowing and being sick. -Dale 08//87
Some people do not forget being hurt. Some people heal and, some not. She feels she went through a lot and is not the person you knew. She was extremely disapointed by what happened to you and her. People around her are telling her " I told you ". Give her some time. She does care for you. I feel you and she may need a break.





Posted February 20th, 2017

Who will i end up in a relationship with? Do you see me with anyone? -Jen 

You are very picky and take time to observe your situation in relationship to how you see yourself in three years. I see many friends some closer to you then others. You are a natural leader however, you must stay close to your home, to reap the benefits. You will always make your home, your base of operation; as it should be. These things are very important to your sense of freedom. I know most people do not plan for the next year much less three. But this is your key. If you are single right now it wont be long till you are attached. The more spirtual and mutuly respected the greater the chances. You may feel different in the near future.

I seen most of the signs my husband was having a emotional affair. He said not but l am finding it hard to believe him. My emotions are all over the place. Please help me!! -Lorraine 
What the relationship needs is to forget the past and start a new future. There are many questions answered by spirituality (really, to all questions). The only way to start a new is to recommit to each other. You did it before; this time study relationships, the ups and downs. If you and he are willing and faithful it will work. Study what your spiritual belief has to say about being a good husband and to be a good wife, and marriage. Once the process is started, it wont take long. I know this because I feel a lot of love between you two...If your heart is with him and his heart with you, this is guaranteed to work out well.

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and few months, but his friend told him that I have been flirting with him, so my boyfriend ended our relationship. I know that I haven't did anything but I can't tell that to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to listen to me and he believes his friend. I don't want our relationship to end because of some lies. I want to know is he going to think again and come back together with me? -Katerina 

I feel the actions of a young man, a person who does not know where to go, he misses you however, his friends are a big part of his life right now. People at certin times of their lives are ready to say good bye to there attachments of their past. You and he will get a chance to talk about this and it can be saved but, your relationship has evolved to a more defined situation. I feel you are about to enter a time of reflection and the thought process. He will listen to you if you stop trying to contact him

Posted February 13th, 2017

Will my ex and I get back together? We had a four year relationship and he decided he wanted out because he didn't know if I was who he wanted anymore. We are still in contact and I get so many mixed signals. Does he share my same desire to be in a relationship with each other again? -A.W.
I feel the relationship is becoming stronger and he is starting to view himself in perspective, knowing this is his future. Right now he is thinking “what do I have, have I done the things that I wanted, what do I have and what responsibilities come with that security? I do feel that he is much more in love with you then you know. You and he are use to each others routines, breaks, days off, and type of response. to subjects feel he will slowly come back home; let him realize how lucky he is.

So there's this guy I work with whom I have had conversations with before but they were all mostly before I knew I really liked him. Anyways, around early March I saw him come in to work as I was leaving (we used to work the same hours but now we don't). He seemed very unsettled when he noticed me (He's kind of shy but opens up easily to potential friends). He blushed and started to fix his hair and wouldn't initiate a conversation with his good friend who works there whenever I was in the same room. I readily sensed his nerves and would smile at him and he would smile back. So, the next time I saw him wasn't until the 29th of March, when he came in earlier than usual. He saw me and the same reaction was present as last time-nervous about making an impression. For some reason I was more nervous than usual around him and I could not speak to him, even though I wanted to. I could feel him looking over at me (I'm a little of an empath). He acted a little more awkward than usual too. Long story short, I saw him the other day when he came to pick up his pay check at work and I said "hello" to him with a smirk. What unsettled me was he didn't respond! I have a soft voice so maybe he did not hear me but I'm pretty sure he did. My question is--does he avoid me because he likes me or because he doesn't? I really, really like him and sometimes I get the feelings likes me the way I like him but I'm not for, sure so does he like me in the same way? -Hana ?
I feel he does like you however, he is very shy. It is common knowledge that you and he like each other. He may feel that if you liked him, that you would continue to pursue him. He has no idea how to initiate a friendship with you. Go see a movie together, or get to know each other better by having a cup of Coffey or lunch. It is important you get to know each other. At lest a phone number, you will be able to talk to each other more at ease over the phone. You will both realize that both of you are individuals with your own way of expressing interest.

Can I get him to love me again? -Marie
If he feel in love with you before, and felt you were unique to each other. If the issue is not to bad he will listen. I feel you have had a strong relationship before, and it can happen again. This man really loves you a lot but, you shocked him.

Posted February 6th, 2017

The guy who loved me recently told me that he does not have feelings for me anymore. He tried to come back but couldn't. I really love the guy and i know that i'm good for him. Does he really not feel anything for me? Will he ever love me and come back to me again? -Amna
I feel this man is being honest. There are certain things that an individual gets use to; just as these things take a while, so does getting use to being with out an individual. I feel he and you have tried more then once. He is disappointed that the relationship is not working and is not blaming you. He will call you soon and he will explain that being alone is not that satisfying. This man is very changeable, from one day to another.

I can't seem to forget my ex friend I see him in my dreams. I would like to know his feelings towards me presently and if he still likes me will we ever be together again? -Crystal
I feel that he thinks about you just about all the time, and his thoughts are of fun and you smiling. It seems as if his plans were set long before he met you, so he feels you will understand. He would like to see you when he gets back home. Distance has a way of making you forget or look forward to the future and, you are defiantly part of what he sees. I feel you and he will get together, though it may take some time. Yes you are a part of how he sees the future.

My bf and I have been together for 4 years so he decided to break up with me saying that he wasn't happy but only to find out there was someone else they made there relationship public so it seems he is very much in love and happy my question is did his feelings and the love we shared disappear? And will he and I ever get back together again or should I move on? -Michelle
I feel he was not happy because he was living two lives. This was going on before you know, so he was holding a lot in. This can cause a lot of problems with in relationships. You will never be able to trust him. He probably blamed you for the changes in communication, And I feel you will never forget because you love him. I feel strongly that you will feel differently by this time next year, You may feel you have benefitted from this and you have, it will help you to read people more effectively but, this may not be over yet.

Love Questions: Posted January 30th, 2017

I fell in love with a younger Virgo last year but we broke up due to miscommunication. Do you see him coming back? -Betty
He will call you, before he comes back. By virtue of sing, he will also act as if nothing happened, he will be more interested in you and, he will show rather then say which is his way. It is not that you have miscommunication going on, it is you come from a different past. He will always show rather then say, some how putting things into words, can be a challenge. He did leave for another reason and not you. At this stage you and he can talk of your plans for the near future. And remember, relationships evolve; we must evolve with it.

My wife left me, will she come back? -Okeedo
Somehow the original reason has been lost, she made a choice to tell her family, so, the barriers are great. Where you may be angry that she will not listen to you, wait, she will contact you; what her family dose not realize is the love involved. Trust in that, for it is strong. She has went through a lot of embarrassing conversations about you. I do not think she intended to create such an issue, but she needs help. Let her have some time to think. She does feel as you. She realizes she must wait a little while.

When will I meet my soul mate? Will we get married? -Tiara
We meet sole mates all the time in family, friends, and in our choices of who ever we are attracted to, and at every age. Your personal destiny is to excel at your point of interest, you may find a way to pursue a career in your point of interest. You will meet several people in the near future, some sole mates. This is no guarantee, it does matter how a person treats a relationship. It does take two people to see the future in the same way, or getting to that point. The chances will be many. The next month you will have a chance but, you will also do some deep thinking.

Love Questions: Posted January 23rd, 2017

I met this gentleman online a few weeks ago and he emailed me right away. We exchanged cell phone numbers which at first was fine, he works second shift in the evenings and afternoons and I have other school (online college) and other family obligations. About a week ago a red flag raised when he wanted us to become exclusive. He deleted his online profile on the dating site, and I agreed to have mine hidden from view. Over the weekend he left a few voice messages on my cell phone and it concerned me that he was moving so fast and we had not actually met face to face. I had explained this to him yesterday and he stated that he is a person who likes to think outside of the box and look at the glass as half full. The messages were that he did not feel that this was working out, all because I was not able to answer my phone. He called my home, my children and I live also with my elderly father who is widowed, and I help to take care of my father and I am a single mom of 3 children, one adult, two teens whom one is an adult also now. This gentleman got bent out of shape because when my dad answered the phone, he claims that my father told him that I was not home, so I must be with someone else. Needless to say I get that this guy is the controlling and jealous type, after I told him about this actions yesterday and leaving the negative voice messages yesterday, I have not heard from him since. Should I follow my gut and leave this guy alone for good? -Celestine 
Yes. It does not feel good, this man will not be as you see him now. Being a single mother I am sure your children will not feel comfortable around him. Children are a lot smarter year by year. He is moving to fast and I do feel he has an agenda. It sounds as if you are serious relationship. Do not try to explain, that is what he is waiting for. The only way is to just go and do not e-mail, instant messaging, or connect with him at all. He knows why so you do not need to feel you need to explain to him. You are in a position to take your time, you’ll know when it is right. Do not let someone rush you to a decision you are uncomfortable. You do not need this you are going to have a very exciting year and meet a lot of quality and good people. 

Very recently began dating a much older gentlemen and surprisingly enough I am very attracted to him in every way yet I know that it is impossible for us to have very much in common so my question is will we grow to become anything more than just sex partners which we have not yet entertained would love your insight thank you very much. -Sheniqua 
If love is not involved it is hard for one or another to get involved with out feelings. I can see a lot of problems. First of all hurt feelings and an older man has a lot of baggage. My honest opinion is that it will very difficult emotionally, and life style wise. Look at your reasons, be rational in your choice. He is getting more and more attached. In about two months you will meet someone who will be able to live a happy life with you.

I fell in love with a Virgo (younger) last year but due to a misunderstanding we broke up. Do you see him coming back? I cannot stop thinking about him. -Christine 
Virgos make wonderful friends and lovers. Virgos will show you their feelings by what they do for you. Even though Virgo males make a good choice for relationships but, they are very undescriptive and rarely put emotions into words and are always ready or prepared for a quick move. Virgos most compatible sings are Cap and Pisces. Or any positive water sing or earth sing. You will talk to him soon. You need to remember the deprivation creates motivation.

Love Questions: Posted January 16th, 2017

This guy and I have been in a relationship over thirty years ago and have in the last two years reconnected. We are happy with each other most of the time. So you see us being in a committed relationship and getting married? -Adina
I do, I feel he is ready and that is his way of showing his commitment to a new life with the one he loves. He is just about ready to have a talk with you about this exact subject. You should always do what you like with him because, his intentions are to get closer and you make him feel loved, he would like you to feel the same.

I love a guy. I want to know that does he love me? are we meant to be together? I'm born on 2nd Dec 1995 and he on 18th March 1995, I have a feeling he loves me too, he didn't accept it although.
-A.G.

You and this man are very astrologically compatible. This is only a head start. I feel he dose feel the same but, I also feel that he wants to say it, at an unexpected time. I do feel you and he are sole mates but, that no grantee. Higher power brought you together, the rest is up to you and he. I have a great deal of confidence in this union.

I have been seeing this guy for around two months and things are going great or were. We both have kids and two days ago he said he needed space out of the blue. He said he needs to sort out how he feels about me and thinks its because he misses his kids and needs to see them. He tells me it's not a break up but I'm not so sure? -Rachel
I feel this man is being honest with you. He is looking at your relationship in perspective. He does love you a lot but, he felt sure before and was wrong. It would be a good idea to allow him to deal with his children first then he will be less occupied and can fully concentrate on other things; I do not feel he is gone, just thinking realistically. I do not feel that he intended to fall in love with you. Allow him to look at his life for a while. You wont be disappointed.

Love Questions: Posted January 9th, 2017

I have been a widow for 6 years. I pretty much closed myself off to exploring romantic relationships. Although content with my life, I have met someone whom I cannot get out of my mind. I feel like he's worth taking the risk for, so I am willing to open up to the possibility of dating him. He seems like he wants to be the best person he can be, and he is willing to pursue his dreams in starting a new business. I just do not know if he feels the same way. I have been told that we are both being shy, and I should give him more encouragement. I just don't know how. It has been difficult finding an opportunity to talk to one another on a meaningful level. Should I continue to have hope? If so, how long should I wait before something finally happens? -Gena
There is nothing wrong with having a friend. I feel that this man is excepting an amount of grief. They say “ it will take time or time heals all wounds “ it does not, only the person involved knows when they are ready. I feel very strongly that your husband loves you very much and wants you to be happy. He trusts you to make well thought of decisions, He trusts you to do what is best for your self. He will always be with you because he loves you and more than anything he likes you as a person, and remember the respect is there. I feel the man you are thinking about is a good person and desirers to get to know you better. He realizes that you are healing and is willing to help you, he understands your situation and knows certain things take time, he has also gone through loss and knows everyone is unique.

My ex and I had some trouble do to him being very dishonest. He had some dealings with his ex as the relationship with me was beginning with me, even though I asked him whether he was sure he wanted to move on and he said he was not going to be in contact with her again. Although he never actually said it through his own admission, meaning I asked him; he has now decided he does no longer want the relationship due to the fact that I do not trust him. Is he just wanting some time out and testing me? Does he still care and love me? Will he come back? -S
You are right, he should let the past go, but people do not react that way. You need to remember that he thought he was more than sure about his X, he did develop a relationship with her, and he does care. I feel that the relationship they had was thought about a long time. One of the problems they had was control, and a lot of communication problems; for one thing he does not want to give the wrong idea (my wife will not let me, she is very distrustful and controlling), This will create laughter and the thought of making the wrong choice. I feel your relationship will succeed but no matter how it feels, it is to early; the relationship has a long way to go. He does love you and, does not want to argue about such things, which do not exist any way. You will see that they naturally have not much to do with each other; have patience.

Who will I end up in a relationship with? Do you see me with anyone? -Jen 
You will end up with a man who understands and feels the same however, this will take a couple of years. Right now you have a chance to pick your own path first, and find the one who feels the same. Your views will change within the next few years, views on a lot of things that do not seem important now. If you do not move to fast you will make as sure as you can and are ready for such a relationship. You will know when it happens and I give it a year to occur. And then you will analyze some more. If you follow the love of higher power you choices will be correct. Now, You have several choices, if you want.

Love Questions: Posted January 2nd, 2017

Could you tell me why I have been constantly having dreams about someone from my past. This has been going on for 13 years. I have moved on since then but this person is always in my dreams. -Angela
I do feel strongly that the person in your dream is you. You are trying to tell yourself it is OK to have a past, everybody has one. It is correct to find your past has relevance. This person you dream about represents what has made you, your experiences, your upbringing, your likes and dislikes. Someone has made an influence on you and you notice certain characteristics in your self that remind you of a lesson, or a memory that made a great influence on you. The answer you seek will arrive after Christmas. Remember this message does not have to do with words, it has to do with a feeling. Ask through your prayers or meditations, or both. The answer will make you happy.

After 20 years, my boyfriend when I was 17 years old and I found each other, his name is Tony, we have been together for over 2 year now. I believe it is fate that we found each other again. Am I right? Will will be married someday. -Dawne
I do feel you and he are sole-mates who made it work If you can grow with each other and give each other support, keep each other safe, and find the happiness of a good life, I do feel you have a head start on good life. However you wish to commemorate at some time the, or your church is the place to start. Although I feel everything is just fine.

How does my love life look like in these couple years? -Ivan
You have had time to look at life in perspective. And you have become more defined as a man. The chance for a good relationship begins with you. I do feel there was a good reason for you to look at life in wonderment about this subject. When you find a source of giving back you will find the person you will fall for. She not only has beauty but also brains. This one will be very good for you, you success, and peace of mind. I see the next few years as the key to your future. You will meet several good people, and also that special someone. Get Involved and strive for what you desire. I also feel you are a very good person.

Love Questions: Posted December 26th, 2016

I seen most of the signs my husband was having a emotional affair. He said not but l am finding it hard to believe him. My emotions are all over the place. Please help me!! -Lorraine
First you and he must have correct and clear communication, which I feel you do not ( this may be intentional ) It keeps you in the dark Secondly what do you mean emotional affair? These things can be a disaster to a marriage although, I do feel you can save it, I see you and he happy after this is taken care of. You should get prof before you accuse him, and then do what is good for the marriage. I also feel that the love between you and he is strong and can defeat this before it gets in the way of a good and happy relationship.

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and few months, but his friend told him that I have been flirting with him, so my boyfriend ended our relationship. I know that I haven't did anything but I can't tell that to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to listen to me and he believes his friend. I don't want our relationship to end because of some lies. I want to know is he going to think again and come back together with me? -Katerina 
His friend is not the reason; for some reason he was looking for an excuse to end the relationship but, he does have feelings for you, he just is not as mature as you would like. He will call you when he sees the friendship is not as strong as he would like. If you stop trying to communicate, calling, text-ing etc... even hanging up. You and He have found that relationships are serious. If you wait he will want another try but, right now he is a lot less mature then you, this means things have a need to be clear with out vagueness. I do also feel he is a good person, just influenced.

Love Questions: Posted December 19th, 2016

Does Christina B love me? Is she cheating on me? -Lovenia
I do not see her as cheating, but you and she should reach an understanding, jealousy is the cause of numerous problems. Look at things logically. I feel you do not think your relationship is something you deserve, and you do, so does she. Do not create a suspicious environment it is not conducive to a long term and successful relationship. It is your nature to celebrate your love. But trust is essential.

I have a longtime friend I have known for 7 years now. However we both seem to collide and clash In difficult situations. She's with a guy she's been dating sense last year so that makes it about 10 months they've been together . However she said she had feelings for me. Physically coming on to me even saying things like "I don't know what's wrong with me , it's not normal to like both of you”, “ a dark part of me wants you both to be mine" "would you share me with my boyfriend? ", "would you be mine even though I wouldn't be yours?" Then she said she doesn't like me and loves her boyfriend. She kept saying this nonstop, it was one or the other a new week. And I don't like the guy she's with now. So I was wondering does she have feelings for me? Are her and her boyfriend meant to be together forever? -Michelle 
She does feel very close to you, but you must let her make that decision. I feel that she is happy and trying to make her new relationship work or at least give things a proper try and chance, she does not want to be to blame for any problems. Just be friends so you can chat about what is happening. I feel for you there is a person around you who would like to be friends, possibly more. A relationship is supposed to make a person feel good and have fun together, get to know each other, but be happy that this person is around you. You will know soon. Things may not seem so active these days, but for you the activity has just begun.

Love Questions: Posted December 5th, 2016

I have been married before, and divorced. I have been in a relationship now for almost 4 yrs. We discuss marriage a lot, however I am unsure if he's my soul mate. Are we meant to be or is there someone else for me? We have been arguing a lot lately and want to know what I should do. -Amanda
I am posItive you know that all relationships are different, and all relationships have an opportunity to fine tune the relationship. I do not feel you are ready to committed in that way right now. There is nothing wrong with waiting until you are sure. I do not think you know each others real reaction to things, or all parts of a personality. Higher power brings certain people together, that does not mean everything will be perfect. Higher power brings us together, but its up to us to make it work. There are close relationships that do get stronger but, the individuals involved must be sure, and also get to the point where they see the future in a common way. I just do not think it is the right time.

Will me and Niles get back together soon if so when? -Vikki 
I think the original problem has not been addressed; you are a very independent woman. I do feel the chance will come in two months but, the original problem must be addressed and felt with or you will find your self in the same spot.

So I've known this guy for about 8 months already and I've developed a lot of feelings for him and I've had them for awhile. I can sort tell that he has feelings back for me but I'm not sure how to be sure of them. I would like to start a relationship with him but I'm also scared that I'll ruin things. How can I tell if he for sure has the same feelings back? And if we start dating how can I make sure not to mess it up? Thanks. -Gabby 
Not one person is sure; you get to know a person through dating, then if thing call for it people become more committed to each other. He does also have strong feelings for you. If things go good you will find out each others reactions to certain situations and, each other opinions and attitudes about things. But, no body is completely certain they may feel like it at the time but some relationships are forever. I feel you and he are equal in your feelings for each other; remember to have some fun...I feel it can work.

Love Questions: Posted December 5th, 2016

My ex left 3 days ago said he will miss me already is. We spoke tonight but he pretty much hates my 4 year son.... He knows I love him and cherish and care for him... He said it's not Going to work regardless how much he loves me as my son just frustrates him he can't stand to hear his voice... My ex also has two kids one which didn't really like my son but yet they played well. We have separated once before and got back together. He said he took a deep breath the other day before he came inside because of my son but yet he thought Iike this girl. A week ago he said he was concerned of losing me and found himself caring for my son.... My son liked him but just wanted Attention I feel.... What do I do? Do I walk away and never bother with my ex again? -Elizabeth 
When you choose to create a good relationship with an individual, he or she must like, not only except at the time. When you and he meet and got to know each other this issue should have been covered, it is a mothers obligation and most of the time, to create an atmosphere that is conducive to a child” s health physically, emotionally, and create a loving home. If he wants you to choose, remember a boyfriend is temporary a child that is yours is forever. The choice is clear. I don’t think and feel that he will go, only becoming familiar with your reaction.

im in love with a guy I sorta live with does he feel the same or is he in love with someone else? -Crystal-Lee
This man has no desire to change in any way. I feel there is an affection and caring but only, when he is happy. This is not you, consider your position in life not his. His needs are being met, are yours?

I am in love with two men. One says he is career Army in Afghanistan and getting ready to retire in a matter of days. He swears he loves me and has asked me to marry him. He is younger, but says it doesn't matter to him. I discussed it with a friend and she feels he is possibly a scammer and not being honest with me. He is supposed to be coming home next week. My friend thinks he will have some mishap so he won';t come. The other man is Andy. He's a very sweet and caring man. He is presently in Malaysia setting up an orphanage., He will be coming home also and wants me to marry him. He is retiring at the end of this trip. Of the two, I trust Andy the most, but the feeling on my part isn't as strong as with Tim. Can you help? Is Tim lying to me? -Cheryl Shaw 12//43
First of all does your friend know him at all? Only believe what is between you and he, no one knows. If one of these men find out about the other all your plans will fail the choice should have been maid a long time ago. One of these men will become very hurt ( emotionally ). It is up to you in how to respond but, I would suggest you put the whole thing aside for now. There is a time when play becomes serious, and this is one of those times.

Love Questions: Posted November 28th, 2016

Will R.C. come back to me? -Nortoya
He is trying to prove a point for your benefit ( that he does not need you ). Whatever the fight was about he has no idea, but he is very disturbed about your and his situation. He has an idea that he can predict your reactions to him; what you will do, and say where he is concerned, he does feel as if he knows you better then anyone else. I feel he is avoiding talking about something, because I do feel also, that the relationship is evolving. In a realistic relationship you can not just run away.... usually you would want to explain your actions, to prove a point, explain the reason that you are disturbed. He is very confused about what is going to happen. He will call you, when his certainty that you love him is reinforced. After you and he regain your communication with each other. To continue with each other the original issue must be solved or it will reaper, but first regain the communication, he does miss you.

Does Nancy really loves me and wants to be my wife? -Dennis
Her feelings remain the same, but she is starting to sense a little nervousness from you. Relationships are fluid like the sea. Ebbs and flows, constantly changing. Adaptation is what it is all about. She appears to be happy with you and feels genuine love. She, with help from friends and family, will think you are so suspicious because of your actions. See what your clergy has to say about your engagement, and what your faith has to describe. I feel this will ease your worry. It does take two.

My former personal trainer and I have known each other for 6 months. He seems interested, then pulls back and is somewhat hot and cold. I had a psychic tell me he is very interested, but nervous as to how to begin. He is a Scorpio, and younger than I am. (I am a cancer with Pluto in first house, which is very scorpioid). I am not looking for marriage or long-term, and I really feel we are compatible. Does he feel the same and if so, how should I breech the subject with him? I feel I just want to throw it out there and break out of the rut I've been in for a long time. I appreciate any insight you have. -Susan
I feel he is attracted to you and, feels he knows you well. But I do not feel that he is open to a new relationship, he is not ready for some reason. Attraction and long term relationships are very far from each other. He would like to get to be better friends and get to know each other. Because you really don’t know a lot about each other. I feel he is attracted to you but, moving slowly is the key. This man has a healthy view about what he would like to accomplish in life and how. The more spiritual the relationship is the more love will grow.

Love Questions: Posted November 14th, 2016

Will I marry C? -Diana 
If he is available, he seems to have a lot of friends. I can see you and he having a lot in common. I feel strongly that after 1 year, if you feel the same and he also feels the same way. But, the year is very important. The long engagement will be the time however, you and he must be very sure, mind, body, and spirit.

I recently met a man a Capricorn who is recently divorced. I want to know if I should peruse a relationship or let him go. He is ok one minute then distant the next. We haven't spoke in six days. Has he met someone else? -Elle
You need to understand that he was certain he would always love her, and her him. He is disappointed in things not working. If she complained about his behavior being confused is a big part of it. He feels as if he wasted that part of his life and he may be still paying a price. He must learn to live alone before, he commits to any new situation. Men get disappointed just as woman do but, expresses it. Before long he will want you, as a friend at first.

I'm in love with a Korean guy named C (surname) S H (first name). Will he ever fall in love with me?
-Lolanda 
He is very use to getting attention and he knows a lot of people. First thing you must get his attention ( and you will ) and stand out in a way that will get him to listen and want to communicate with you. You will be certain after six months of dating. Right now he has a project going on and you would be perfect for it. Be a good friend and, may be more.

Love Questions: Posted November 14th, 2016

I have been married before, and divorced. I have been in a relationship now for almost 4 yrs. We discuss marriage a lot, however I am unsure if he's my soul mate. Are we meant to be or is there someone else for me? We have been arguing a lot lately and want to know what I should do.
-Amanda 

I am posItive you know that all relationships are different, and all relationships have an opportunity to fine tune the relationship. I do not feel you are ready to committed in that way right now. There is nothing wrong with waiting until you are sure. I do not think you know each others real reaction to things, or all parts of a personality. Higher power brings certain people together, that does not mean everything will be perfect. Higher power brings us together, but its up to us to make it work. There are close relationships that do get stronger but, the individuals involved must be sure, and also get to the point where they see the future in a common way. I just do not think it is the right time.

Will me and Niles get back together soon if so when? -Vikki
I think the original problem has not been addressed; you are a very independent woman. I do feel the chance will come in two months but, the original problem must be addressed and felt with or you will find your self in the same spot.

So I've known this guy for about 8 months already and I've developed a lot of feelings for him and I've had them for awhile. I can sort tell that he has feelings back for me but I'm not sure how to be sure of them. I would like to start a relationship with him but I'm also scared that I'll ruin things. How can I tell if he for sure has the same feelings back? And if we start dating how can I make sure not to mess it up? Thanks. -Gabby
Not one person is sure; you get to know a person through dating, then if thing call for it people become more committed to each other. He does also have strong feelings for you. If things go good you will find out each others reactions to certain situations and, each other opinions and attitudes about things. But, no body is completely certain they may feel like it at the time but some relationships are forever. I feel you and he are equal in your feelings for each other; remember to have some fun...I feel it can work.

Love Questions: Posted November 7th, 2016

Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months. He left to visit his family in New Jersey. He broke up with me and I don't know why. Does he still think about me? Will we get back together? -Priscilla
I feel you are on his mind always however, his plans were designed before he left. I also feel what he said to you, about breaking up ( all of a sudden with no reason ) was planed before he left. He only wanted you to wonder why, and also for you to think about him. I think he would have told you if he was to return but, he did not know and wanted you to wait for him, or an explanation. This was his attempt to hold on to your attention. He will contact you in two weeks.

Is he the one? Will we be together—as man and woman in love? Does he love me? Is he the one? –Julie
This is a question only you can answer. I do feel that you and he were destined to meet, now what you and he do to make your love grow into a relationship, is up to you however, he will do what he can. I feel it is important that you pace your self, so you are sure. I do not feel any barriers or prier commitments. You have the power to create life as you want, right now. Just be sure about what you want; you may just get it.

I would like to know what is the best way to get M to initiate an intimate relationship with me? –Carlita
I feel you only need to be yourself, I feel he likes you very much, but he wants to savior getting to know you. He seems to be right where you are regarding the perspective relationship; be sure you see eye to eye on things and you should do just fine. Do not worry about him, his feelings for you are very strong and, he has been through a breakup before and he knows how it feels and, he does not want to feel that way again. You might start be talking about what you both want out of a relationship, this is important, for both of you to have a clear view of what you want out of life. I do feel strongly that you will succeed.

Love Questions: Posted October 31st, 2016

I started talking to this one guy but all of the sudden he stopped I'm wondering if we are going to talk again or if he is not interested I'm really into him I just want to know if I am ever going to talk to him again. –Mariely
I feel that he has been noticing you as well. Attraction to an individual is based on a lot of things but, going out or talking to each other is a good way to get to know each other better, in more detail. The reason he stopped giving you attention has nothing to do with you; he is going through some situation where he needs to think and figure something out. You will find that things are back to normal very soon.

We were in relationship for more than 3 years, it was such a beautiful relationship but one month back, she broke up stating that we can not make it further, career, lost feelings etc. I could not believe that. She was not a girl who usually talks in such way. I do not know what happened but the relationship ended. I want to know whether she will come back. -Shashank
Some people use the process of elimination to deal with a frustrating situation; gradually letting things go. I feel she has been dealing with this a long time. Sometimes we need to take a step back and observe , you see she felt this was very unfair to you, she does care. I feel also that she needs time to think and look with in her self. I know it”s hard but I suggest you give her some time to put things in perspective. This situation is not about you but her own view of the future. I think the best thing is to give her space.

I miss my ex Ethan so much. I struggle to move on with other guys as I am not attracted to them like I am attracted to Ethan. We've not had any contact for a few months now. I think about him every day and I can't let go of my feelings. I struggle to understand how he could love me so deeply one moment and then suddenly just feel nothing. I don't think there was anyone else, but there might be some negative influences around him. I would just like to know if we may reconnect at some point or if there is someone else for me? Baring in mind that I don't feel attracted to other guys as Ethan was and is everything I want physically and emotionally. –Sarah
There is the real person and the person we want them to be. I truly feel that he was the person that you wanted him to be and, not the realistic individual. He did really like you but, there is something he is not bringing up. People always retain the feeling they had the last time they seen each other, or the immediate situation; it could be anger, love, or anything in between. It will be wise to let it be, he knew you were leaving. Because he wanted you to think of him, he gave you a answer to an question never asked. You will run into each other some day soon and you will understand his motives. Agin, he was only making sure that you do not forget him. Your sing will never have any problem attracting attention and romance. He generally fells as you; a lot of questions but, very little in return.

Love Questions: Posted October 24th, 2016

Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months. He left to visit his family in New Jersey. He broke up with me and I don't know why. Does he still think about me? Will we get back together? -Priscilla
I feel you are on his mind always however; his plans were designed before he left. I also feel what he said to you, about breaking up (all of a sudden with no reason) was planed before he left. He only wanted you to wonder why, and also for you to think about him. I think he would have told you if he was to return but he did not know and wanted you to wait for him, or an explanation. This was his attempt to hold on to your attention. He will contact you in two weeks

Is he the one? Will we be together—as man and woman in love? Does he love me? Is he the one? –Julie
This is a question only you can answer. I do feel that you and he were destined to meet, now what you and he do to make your love grow into a relationship, is up to you however, he will do what he can. I feel it is important that you pace your self, so you are sure. I do not feel any barriers or prier commitments. You have the power to create life, as you want, right now. Just be sure about what you want; you may just get it...

I would like to know what is the best way to get M to initiate an intimate relationship with me? –Carlita
I feel you only need to be yourself, I feel he likes you very much, but he wants to savior getting to know you. He seems to be right where you are regarding the perspective relationship; be sure you see eye to eye on things and you should do just fine. Do not worry about him, his feelings for you are very strong and, he has been through a breakup before and he knows how it feels and, he does not want to feel that way again. You might start be talking about what you both want out of a relationship, this is important, for both of you to have a clear view of what you want out of life. I do feel strongly that you will succeed.

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Love Questions: Posted October 17th, 2016

I have been seeing this man for almost the last 4 years long distance. He is in the military. He is from my home town, I went to school with him since grade school. We started seeing each other right after I graduated high school and before he left to boot camp. Since then we have seen each other. Every time he comes on leave and have written each other letters, as well as skype, and message each other consistently. I fell for this guy because he treated me with respect and like no other man I’ve ever been with. I had a connection with him that I’ve never felt with anyone else. He would even talk about marriage and me moving in with him. Also told his best friend he was in love with me. I saw him a few months ago and met his parents. I was getting ready to come visit him over seas in August. He asked me to move in with him but I told him I had to wait until I graduated, which is in about a year and a half. He was fine and asked me to stay in his life forever. About 2 weeks ago he told me the reality set in he wasn’t going to be home for 2 or more years. And he doesn’t think he can go that long without seeing me. It is too hard. He told me he would never want to upset me. And he was hurt. But he would be home eventually. We agreed to stay friends. I haven’t talked to him for almost 2 weeks. Is this over for good? Did he lose feelings for me that fast? Or is there a possibility for a future with him. I do love him, and I want him happy. I am trying to stay positive but I can’t help but wonder if this is the end.
–Lina

I do not feel this is the end of the story, he does love you very much more then he realizes right now he is attempting something that he really has no faith in, and I feel he does not want you know; because it would reflect on his, or should I say the image you have of him. You and this man have built up a bonding, You and he are use to each others schedules and certain appointments. He will contact you when he has something to say; something more positive. I feel you will on to other things.

Will Darrell and I get back together? We were together for five years and been apart for several months he broke up with me. We recently got back in touch he agreed to dinner and also expressed what he would like to eat on another dinner date. It’s only been a week but there was no date set. He seems to be holding back. What do you see for our future? –Shanell
I feel that the reason he has been ,as you say, holding back; is I do not think he was prepared for things ( which have been moving so fast ) he has been thinking about his position in life, what does he have to offer to the relationship etc...He will stop being so distant; he only needs time to think and he does love you very much. It only seems that life has been out pacing him and, he may have lost track of his goals. This is common behavior at times he will compare his life before you and after he met you, I would say he been completely taken by you.

Will my ex boyfriend ever love me again and ever come back? –Fiona
There was a lot more going on then you are aware of, with him. I feel that this man was not prepared for you to return his feelings. You need to understand that a lot of men will build them self up; this means not bringing negative things to a discussion and only their aspirations or something of interest. It is not you or he losing his love for you, he was simply unprepared for an evolving relationship. You will see him and he will have very little to say not because of you but his unmet aspirations right now.

Love Questions: Posted October 10th, 2016

The past 7 years it's been ups and downs! Now I'm pregnant and he's sending mixed signals. I don't know what to do being that he is acting distance. What do you see fog us? Are we going to be together? Will he be here to support me emotionally throughout this pregnancy and will we raise our family together? I love him but I would like to know if I should move completely from him and just co-parent. –Ronnie 
He needs a little time to adjust, there are a lot of changes happening. I feel strongly that he is 
doing what you want, or behaving as you would like. Having a child changes several things, I feel he is boggled and just taking time to think; this goes double if this your and his first child. Allow him to be more involved and he will. If this is looked at as a joyful event and makes you happy, he will want more involvement. Let your child bring you closer together as a couple. He is a little confused about the future, that is all, and thinking about life. Resist the urge to be totally in control.

About a month ago, my boyfriend of three years broke up with me. His name was A. He said he needed to find out who he was without me and he wasn't sure if what he felt for me was love anymore. We spent so many precious days together and now my heart is lost without him. We tried to stay friends but that was impossible with the relationship we previously had. The moment we decided to no longer talk was very tearful and emotional for both parties. We haven't talked for a week now and my hopes of getting back together are being crushed. I don't want to exist without him. Will he come back to me? –Sydney 
I know what is like to miss somebody and I feel very strongly that you miss each other. I also feel that you and he were so into each other but, did not plan for the future, while you and he were celebrating today. He has a plan for the future but, did not discuss it with you. There are a lot of opportunities going by you and you can not see them because of you negative feelings. Move toward what you want out of life or at least get started. When he knows where he is going or has more of a grip on his future he will call. In the mean time, move forward even if it is slow at first.

I have been with R for a year now. We lost two babies, which he was the daddy. The first was a miscarriage the second died inside of me. Did the babies die normally? I heard that he is engaged to Viline and is in a relationship with Marie-Ange. I love him very much. Do you see Richard and I being in a serious relationship or is he going to be with Viline or Marie-Ange? Is he blinded by a love spell, if yes to who is he bind? –Fanilia 
He walks in the direction he wants; he has learned from life about what is expected of him. I feel he will always desire to see the children but, I do not feel he knows what it is like to be Father and it may intimidate him. He is in, if you want to call it that other relationship because he wants to it is nobodies fault. You want different things out of life but, will always be friends. I know at times he wanted a change but, the barrier is always money. He needs to find himself and figure out exactly what he wants out of life. I would suggest that you do the same for your self and your children. He will attempt to come back with in three months.

Love Questions: Posted October 3rd, 2016

I was with my ex on and off for four years. We planned a future together. Will me and my ex get back together? –Kelly
He will attempt to contact you right before the holiday season, I feel your voice will tell him a lot however; he will have the opinion that he has tried or I should say, you and he ( it takes two to make a relationship ) and he is very skeptical about trying another time. He does have very feelings for you and more importantly he knows you have very strong feelings for him to. I feel that you and he will give things another try but, the exact same issue will come up within three weeks, so I would suggest you and he resolve this issue or try. It must evolve to a higher level.

I have been having romantic dreams about me and my Archbishop. He recently told me that he loves and appreciates me. What does all this mean? Is there any love relationship between us? –Marilyn
An Archbishop must love all ( it is a part of there vows ). Remember all dreams or charters in our dreams behave and act the way we see the situation, not the they would act in reality, it is our interpretation. You may have misunderstood, this issue should and will be clear with a conversation.

I have had a lot of men interested in me but just for sex so I have not been in a relationship for a while. I want one. I am so lonely. I think I have met a great guy and am wondering if B is the genuine one for me? Thank you in advance. –Alison
I feel that he is however, posing the question it self shows me and I also feel strongly that you should wait; until you are sure, about four weeks. He can sense how you may feel just make sure a change of behavior and attitude is explained. You and this man do have a chance to work as a couple if honesty is a big part of the relationship, for both. Remember you can initiate activity within your relationship just by asking.

Love Questions: Posted September 26th, 2016

I was with my ex on and off for four years. We planned a future together. Will me and my ex get back together? –Kelly
Sometimes we are so caught up in the moment, and we plan thinking our partner will agree; we feel so happy and compatible. We forget that a relationship is a two way street. It is a collaboration with the one we plan our lives with. I do feel strongly that this person cares for you. She may be hesitant to let you know that she was not sure, to her this was a major move. All relationships move at different levels. There is not anything wrong about her feelings for you, she cares about you in the same way. I feel your plans will resume in about two months. But, make sure she is ready and prepared for this change; she was not ready at the time you wanted to make this move.

I have been having romantic dreams about me and my Archbishop. He recently told me that he loves and appreciates me. What does all this mean? Is there any love relationship between us?
–Marilyn

It would seem that you have misunderstood him. Archbishops are dedicated to their flock which include priests, as a major part of that type of life it is essential that a person loves and cares for his parish. I do feel you are misunderstanding his meaning. What he feels for you and all his flock is to help us out of hard times, and teach us what true love really is. Try not to miss understand his context and what he represents.

I have had a lot of men interested in me but just for sex so I have not been in a relationship for a while. I want one. I am so lonely. I think I have met a great guy and am wondering if Brendan is the genuine one for me? Thank you in advance. –Alison
It would seem that are a good judge of character; as you know we must deal with our past inevitably, so be ready. Every one has a past, everyone wishes they could repair any mistakes or uncomfortable situations. The past and our memories are only there to teach us to be more defined and to think about who we let into our lives. I feel the man you are interested in likes you for the person you are and, you and he, will prove your love and how much it can be. He is a good man and, you are a smart individual, I feel you and he can be wonderful friends and may be more.

Love Questions: Posted September 12th, 2016

I was with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. We had a rocky break up last year. Got back together and everything was fine. We split again due to me mainly telling him how bad a person he was. It was due to me being unhappy picking up all the time. Trying to support and getting nothing back. Part of me wants to move on, the other part wants him back. What should I do? –Lynn
You are expecting this man to change; but nobody changes unless they really want to. First, it seems you have a lot of time to think. I feel strongly that this man feels as you, not wanting to let things go but, you and he know things half to be resolved to live together happily. He does feel as you confused, disappointed and rejected. I do feel he wants to be with you, but he is also unsure. If you want this man to pay attention to your relationship, he will, once you talk to him. He is looking for a reason to return, so let him know it takes two to succeeded, also to fail but, try to not blame your self or him, but both.

Does my ex Shane still want to be with me? -Terry
I feel he does but, he would desire things would go back a little, to how they were in the past. He knows that he loves you but, he is questioning his reasoning, he feels as if he does not know you completely. I know it does not make sense but, the reason he does not want to see or talk to you is because he still loves you. He wants to be with you but, in his way.

I’m in love with my mate Peter (aka toby) but I don’t know what’s going on. We’re currently friends with benefits but he treats us like we are in a relationship. I’m so confused please help me. –Crystal-Lee
Relationships or a definition of friendship are difficult. There are many people who interpret being together with benefits as a relationship. Men can not have a physical relationship with out there being a lot of feelings involved. It really is up to you, relationships even only physical ones can not occur with out feelings being involved. Being close together crates a bonding that can earthier grow or let go, never the less with feelings. Love may be getting involved.

Love Questions: Posted September 5th, 2016

I have been divorced for almost three years. I am trying to find someone new to share my life with but am struggling. Will I find someone new as he has done? –Angel
I feel you must find happiness with in your self. You are a very defined women and you do not like to make mistakes. I also feel you and he are very disappointed by the divorce, it does not matter who is at fault. A persons hart has to be ready for a new love, or just a friend with an open hart. We all take different ways of thinking and try to figure things out, yours may be complex. Fall will enter your life, a new vigor is in store for you. You will become very involved with a subject close to your hart. As you become more involved you will meet a lot of very nice people, including one man. This man will become a very close friend and very easy to talk to; he has also went through a divorce not so long ago... I feel you will find each other to be fun and get along marvelously.

I been in five year relationship. At Easter I found out my partner had cheated we worked thing out then he started getting depressed about every think saying did not feel anything for his children and parents said me as we'll but wanted me to help him . He finished with me 5 weeks ago saying about he cheated and not sure how he felt now he dating the girl cheated with. Do I move on or rebound relationship? –Maria
Once a common vision of the future is gone, it takes a great deal to bring it back. I do not feel you will ever trust him, and if you stay, it will be a topic of discussion and tension. I feel he simply does not know what to say to you or, how to respond. If your relationship was evolving to a plan together, it has been taken a back. His response indicates it is no big deal. I think you should reexamining your view. You have drifted apart.

What is my husband hiding? I know he's hiding something. I'm not crazy. I'm not a jealous or unforgiving person by nature so this feeling I have that won't go away probably shouldn't be ignored. I can always tell when he's lying and he truly is. We've recently gotten back together and I've found shocking things on his phone since I've been back. I truly need to move forward with whatever in life. This is really bothering me. I feel like there's something I really need to know. I can feel it deep and nagging. I'm not usually one to feel this way unwarranted. I need help with this and I feel lost. Please help. I'd be truly grateful. Thank you so much. –Dianna
I agree with your feeling however, I do not feel its some type of bad experience he is trying to hide, only a situation he feels you will not like at this time and this may interfere with your reconciliation and attempts to work on your marriage. You and he are afraid to talk to each other and both of you can tell. Your responses to each other are not natural there is suspicion on both your parts. I feel you and he should work on your comfortable conversation. Natural communication. I advise you and he to sit down and work this out; it does seem you are picking up something but not what you think; you will find out it really is not something you should get upset about. This man loves you very much.

Love Questions: Posted August 29th, 2016

Can u tell me anything about my true soul mate, if I have one? –Janet
First of all everyone has a Soul Mate, several in fact. I feel you are referring to a romantic soul mate. It is destiny that you will meet certain individuals that you have a strong connection with (meeting soul mates happen at times of your life and possess many descriptions) you will meet an individual who you seem to have a strong connection with during a concert or an out door event such as a carnival or a fair. Sole mates mean you are brought together by destiny, only brought together, the perspective relationship is up to you and he but, destiny will assist you when properly asked. This will occur at the end of Fall to the beginning of Winter.

My ex boyfriend and I broke up a month ago because I felt he wasn't emotionally available and he felt I would not be happy with the slow process he was making when it came to "us". He didn't want to hurt me and continuing to feel like he was would only cause him more anxiety. We recently reconnected and started conversing again. We even have become romantically involved. My question is well we work things out and get back together? –Kathy
To converse about something you must have memories of it. I don’t feel this is a good time to intellectualize your relationship; it is time to pile up the memories and as many enjoyable experiences as you can. The rest will be natural; to have something in common and talk about always celebrate your being together. These events will also serve you in the future. Your astrological sing tells me that you define a relationship by the activity that is involved.

From the day I met him I fell in love with my best friend. Everyone in my life has told me that they think him and I will be together. However he has told me 3 times that he loves me like a sister. But everyone says he likes me. The problem is I am now dating my best friends cousin. My best friend also has a girlfriend but he seems unhappy with her. I am still completely and madly in love with my best friend. Do you think my best friend is secretly in love with me? Will my best friend and I ever be in a relationship together? –Jennifer
I feel you are best friends because you trust each other and know each other well. In this world it is less common to have a friend of the opposite sex but, very valuable. I also feel he is trying to be honest with you. You and he have spent time with each other and have grown to know each other well. You have also seen if more than a friendship, attempt to understand. Many friendships turn into relationships and relationships into friendships. Stay friends and maintain your communication with each other, things change day to day. Remember you are not the center of this situation.

Love Questions: Posted August 22nd, 2016

I entered into a relationship back in late March. I met this man back in August 2013. He was living in another state but working where I live at the time. He thought I was interested in his friend at first but once I made it known, that I wasn't he said he was interested. He went back to his home state we didn’t really remain in contact but around my birthday, he texted and said he would be here for about 12 weeks. When I did here from him, we made plans to meet and he did a no show. A few months later he made contact we went to dinner and that is when he said he wanted a relationship with me. He has since been distance, not allowed me to come visit him because he keeps coming up with work excuses but yet, says we are still in a relationship and exclusive. I'm not accustomed to this type of relationship. I am finding myself about to throw in the towel. He invited me to spend the weekend with him now he is coming up with an excuse for t hat. I strongly feel I am reading this relationship right. Contacted other mediums that say he’s just busy and he really wants to be with me. Am I crazy? I don’t see it. Please help. –Micki
When a person dates a person with Perier obligations it is a must that they understand. An individuals occupation is an essential part of there life, and it sounds that what he does is an important part of his life. Every one needs an income and he is lucky to have something he enjoys. This can be an issue in several occupations and I am positive he has thought about just this point. To have a trusting and supportive relationship one must sometimes go through inconvience; I am sure you and he will work it out. He is a true man and can not wait to see you he feels he has found a person that he can devote to, and love. He feels you understand. Please let him know how you feel. This man loves you and will work with anything within reason for you. Make the time when you are with each other special, all the time; he is there for you and you for him. A relationship is compromise, so things keep working through out. I do feel you are a good couple and can arrive at a solution.

I love this guy but we broke 3 months ago. I miss him badly and one night I felt that someone is missing me. Do you think he still misses me? –Pamela
It is a natural thing to mis somebody that you spent some time with. He does mis you and is vague about just why. He has some questions as you do. If you need to let somebody go, for what ever reason; either make up or move on. People hold on to the feeling brought on by another, and hold on to them as memories that worked or did not. Three months is not really that long and you and he only started to get to know each other. Now would you like to continue or no?

Is my husband coming back to his family? –Sandra
I feel right now he regrets his decision in part. What he does not miss is the constant cretinism and bickering and in the process, lost his marriage. I do not feel that you see the reason or the cause. It took a lot for him to leave, it was not easy. He will attempt to contact you with in a month; he also knows you and he can tell how the other is feeling just be hearing their voice. It would take a redoing of the vows to make it workout. Beside the vows being brooked he knows not what to do. Try not to imagine how he is feeling only, what he is going to say. He knows how embarrassing this is to you and feels you are very mad. If it can be worked out the original problem must be resolved first.

Love Questions: Posted August 15th, 2016

Is there a man around me who loves me? If so, can you describe this person to me? –Jessica
I feel there are several, and there have been all your life and this will continue. If you are talking about a romantic relationship; I do see three different possibilities between now and the end of Fall; one man you have known for a while although, you may not be aware of the way this person truly feels. You will also meet an individual through your involvement in a school or educational pursuit, The third will be a new person to the area. You are very magnetic and will make a wise choice; now the opportunity will be there weather you are ready or not, is up to you and he.

I’ve been with my girlfriend for 2 years. We've been having a really bad time lately and she’s become very distant, I don’t want us to split up. Is there still a future for us? –Terri
Two years has created a shared view of the future and this was strong but, now you and she are looking at things in terms of what each of you want and are going. I do not think you or she is happy. You will strengthen your relationship. You and she have just gone to a level where you need to think about how things are going and where do you want to go as a couple. Once you and she are in agreement on where you are going, then you will know where you are. A relationship is a constant view of the future together that gets more defined as time go s on. You will find a willingness to talk and be close. She cares about you more than you know.

I met a man a little over a year ago who I immediately felt I was ant to be with. Almost immediately things became very difficult as both of his parents became ill and died within 6 months. We really didn’t get a chance to have a relationship or even bond but and we no longer communicate after an abrupt ending in December, I really miss this person. Will we get a chance to see if this relationship can work? –Susan
I do see a chance however, he needs a friend more then a romantic partner, I do not feel he will ever get over this situation but, will grow and live with a higher awareness of what it means to love unconditionally. He does need to think and I feel he would love to hear from you, you have always made this man smile and have fun. Be a support system and that is a lot; he will never forget the support. He would like to be at his best when he talks to you and he has not felt his best for a while; your attention would be appreciated and remembered.

Love Questions: Posted August 8th, 2016

I have been dating this wonderful man for the past 6-7 months. However that time I have accused him of cheating. We have always managed to work through it before. Will we work through it once again or is he gone on with someone new? –Heidi
He is not with anyone new, even the thought tires him. It takes time and money to maintain more then one relationship. This man loves you but he is getting tiered of the accusations. He has felt that time would take care of the blame. He has given your relationship a chance, and he is still trying. We can not solve past problems by focusing on them and letting them interfere with a happy life. You have found someone to love and that loves you a great deal. Work it out, let him know what makes you suspicious, talk about it, try to resolve it. You and he are very lucky to have each other in your lives. I am sure you would rather be enjoying each other. Share occasions and make happy memories together. Resolve any problems ( all couples do this ) and keep learning to fully enjoy being with each other. He will find dealing with what ever is making you uncomfortable, will lead to a long and happy life with each other.

I’m 22 years old. I liked this boy for 7years, and we always looked at each other with strong feeling. One day he saw me and turn me down he said he did not like me only as a friend and that made me so sad, I did not know what to do. I need u to help me so I can feel better because I still feel sad, I want to know if he liked me deep down in his heart. That will make me feel a lot better. –Evelisse 
A lot of people build up fantasy about another, (we must remember they are only our thoughts ). I feel he does like you but does not want or know how to deal with information he never new. I feel you can become great friends; so you can get to know each other, do things with each other; that is if you still want to after you get to know him better. Right now it is fantasy but, some day it might turn into reality and by the time you read this, things will have already changed.

I've been involved with this guy for almost 7 years on and off. Recently things haven't been easy for me and I've had a lot of stress. Which has caused me to push him out of my life. I love him, but I don't know if he feels the same way. Does he feel the same way? Or have I just wasted my time, like I've thought all along? –Liz 
Being together for seven years you should know each others wants and complaints very well. It is very likely that your stress is a result of desire to change him. It is impossible to change a person unless they want to change; and he does have a lot of built up stress as well. But you have each other and after seven years you should know each other very, very well. I do not feel he is the source of your stress. You must use your best judgment. In a realistic relationship people can depend on each other and the trust aspect grows. It looks like this man does care for you but, he does not want to be the source of your stress. Find out what is bothering you and battle it, if it is his unwanted attention let him know; if he is a part of the solution also let him know. All will be fine and you are a lot stronger than you think.

Love Questions: Posted August 1st, 2016

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me in January for no reason, or for a reason I will never know. We still live together. Sometimes he acts like a boyfriend again but says he still wants me to move out and we are not together. I want to hold his hand. I want to tell him I love him. Will we be getting back together? Is he going to make me move out? Are we going to get married and have kids? –Kelly
I do not feel you will end up back with him, he will attempt to contact you when he feels your behavior is unpredictable ( he feels your behavior is predictable now ). First there is no reason in your opinion, he does have a reason weather it is yours or his. You and he tried for three years and for some reason he has changed. It is better to try first then commit, which he does not want to do. You will have another chance, but you will feel the same. I do not feel this is because of another. Do not define your feelings, he knows. Do not call and leave messages and do not send e-mails any more; remain silent now, when it comes to him. You will have a chance, if you want it, in about two months; if there is no contact.

When will I meet a man that's right for me? –Jessica
You will meet several people in your life and you should be in no hurry. The easiest way to meet somebody nice that you will like is by doing something that touches your heart like a subject in school, homeless shelter, a DV shelter, or something with community insolvent. Once you see that you are needed your vision will be different as well; you will meet one of your soul mates while being involved and have a head start on seeing the future in the same way.

I've been married for 13 years. A few years ago, I met a man, also married, and immediately developed intense feelings for him that led to a spiritual, physical, and emotional transformation. Eventually, I felt it was right to cut off the "platonic" friendship. My marriage has been in crisis for some time, and I am working very hard to do the best thing for myself, my husband, and my family. Yet I still feel a deep, lingering connection to this other man from afar. I don't plan on contacting him, but I want to understand the situation. Does he feel the connection, or have I imagined it? And am I on the right track in trying to fix my marriage? –Kat
Every body has feelings; and different situation dictate our ups and downs. Now you see a problem with your marriage; I know you can see clearly and are taking things very slowly. Let your feelings do the right thing, give your marriage a try but, remember it is a two way street. Do not let confusing feelings for another interrupt your clarity of thought; or turn a fantasy into reality. Think out your actions clearly; remember these days will count a lot in your future. Your feelings are something to work with, not something that works against you. Do not let even a nice person to occupy your thoughts; you have important things to do and do not need the distraction.

Love Questions: Posted July 25th, 2016

I recently broke up with a man, I would like to know if things will work out and we get back together and be happy or should I just forget about him. -Dianna
It really depends on what is the reason for the breakup. You will have a conversation with each other but, you will find he is confused: is a relationship supposed to be this complicated ? What is my next step ? Can we work it out? He is confused. Just seeing each other will make each of you very happy. You will try it one more time. Even now the cause is fading. If nittier one of you want to say I am sorry, right now, a concert or movie and a meal together will get the conversation going. I do also feel that you and he will be together a long time.

Can I get my ex boyfriend to come back to me? Samantha
Depending on why he left in the first place, it is very important to resolve any problems you may have; weather it is his or yours. Relationships take an effort to grow and the effort now should be to talk and see each others eyes. If the source of his frustration is a breaking of a confidence, it may be difficult to get back on track. I feel you both love each other very much and, know it can be accomplished. Remember that if you and he are running out of things to talk about, you must create them; and experiences and memories need to occur a little more.

Will Armando come back to me? Angelique
I feel that you will see him however, he will not provide the information that you want, I do not feel that he has a reason. Your relationship was getting more involved that he felt comfortable with. You will get a chance to talk and he will say “I just don’t know”. You and this man are considered to be the most psychic and intuitive out of all the sings and should be able to agree on most things related to in stinks and the ability to talk about your feelings. He does miss you but, he knows not what to say.

Love Questions: Posted July 18th, 2016

I am still in love with my ex we have a child together and have been apart more than we have been together she recently started hanging out again things got a lil passionate but then things slowed down saying she’s not ready for a relationship because she had just got out of a long relationship and said she needs this. I haven't been able to get her out of my head and continue to wait cause I feel we can make us work together as a couple and truly be happy together. I would just like to know if she will come back to me and want to be with me. -William
This is a question of what she wants, is it you, is it freedom to experience life. She is experiencing life on her own, this is hard with a child. I am certain she not having an easy time, a family is just that a family and she is very embarrassed by the situation. When she built you up to family and friends she was sure, as she is not sure right now. It would make a lot of people take notice. Be the person she wants and the father she sees. First you must demonstrate and take care of past problems. Allow her to miss you; that means no phone calls e mails texts, let her think and make that choice. I feel she loves you and I can see you love her. This attempt will be noticed if you mean it. Give her a reason to be proud of you and do take care of the problem you and she were having. Being happy takes an effort, take care of problems, show her you want to come back; not tell her. After all words can be disputed unless they are given with action and some sort of proof. Be the person she was once in love with. She will notice your effort and that a start.

My current bf and I recently reconciled our relationship. We both missed each other and decided to give things another try. We both love each other and he says he wants to be with me and have a future with me but I haven't heard from him in a couple of days. I’ve tried texting and calling and he hasn't responded. He's been doing this quite often lately but when we do talk and I ask him about it he says he's just stressed and that he's going to work on it. But he hasn't, He tends to wonder off from everyone. Including miss work sometimes. He says he doesn't want to lose me but he's steady pushing me away. What should i do? -D.P
You have impressed me but, the proof is in the pudding. He has entered the mode of comparison measuring his success on yours. He knows you wondering why and trying to figure his behavior out. I do not think he sees the reality of the situation. He remains a mystery to you, and his behavior is unpredictable purposely to keep you censured. I feel he feels he dose not have an easy way of going through life. You are entering a realistic relationship which, is not easy alone but, entirely possible with understanding, communicating effectively. Sometimes it seems easier to handle one self but, in reality it takes two. Your relationship will come back stronger if you think of what you would want as a couple; and not completely yourself.

I began a relationship with my best friend of 14 years. We have been off and on for the past 2 1/2. At the moment we are off. He says he will come home but actions are showing otherwise. Do you see him coming home anytime soon? -Kristina
First of all, for all intent and purposes you are married. And I feel you are going through all of the stresses that new couples go through, with non of the advantages. He will come home as soon as he finished running away, and when he realizes the according to the law he is reasonable for any financial pressure you may be going through. If a woman is married then she has recourse; if not, there is not much you can do. I see a relationship, a serious relationship; as long as you follow your desire but, make sure you protect yourself.

Love Questions: Posted July 11th, 2016

I'm beginning, I think on my way to not being in love with my ex boyfriend anymore. I would just like to know where my love life is headed. -Tabbitha
Your destiny for a relationship, that works, is to follow your own heart, and use your feelings. You thrive on activity and are very charming. Your love life is based on special occasions and how another holds themselves. Your never at a loss where humor is concerned. You expect the other person to make the first move. Being a defined woman you will do your due diligence. I do see a happy family and the joy of children in your life; the more traditional a relationship is treated, the better your love life. Your destiny, as for all is to follow what is right; and take your time. Certain people will enter your life but, it is up to you and the other person involved to make it work. The more compatible the better all will be. Remember to use you intuition and listen to what it is saying.

I have been with my boyfriend a little over three years now on and off. He'll be graduating college next May. I love him dearly and I want this relationship to work. And I've asked the universe, God and my spiritual guides to continue to believe that everything will work out between us. I feel that our relationship is at a place were we are either going to take the next step of getting engaged then marriage or we'll be ending it soon. He gives me mix signals as to what he wants so I want to know are we going to take the next in our relationship or should I prepare to move on? -Sydney
I feel you can make this work; he does love you more then you know. Nothing is defined for him yet but, after a few months he will be stronger because of you. Your understanding and ability to adapt to new situations. No matter how strong it feels you can not read another intentions. He is wondering if a relationship will encourage him or, become another problem. It is impossible to give any subject your all when your hart is feeling desire to be with another. As I said before you and he can make this work, it will be difficult for a while but, that what a relationship is all about; give and take. Please give him a little while. I do feel very much love between you two and I do feel it will continue and evolve.

I'm in love with one of my coworkers and I don't know if she feels the same? -Pete
I do not think she feels in love but, she does think you are cute and nice. Be careful your fantasy life does not interfere with reality. Be yourself ask her out to Coffey or a concert, a situation where you can talk and get to know each other better. Do the things you like and, what she likes. Become a friend first. I feel she has noticed you but she has questions, like you. You need to find out what her situation is and, this will come naturally through conversation.

Love Questions: Posted July 4th, 2016

My boyfriend broke up with me three weeks ago. We did not part on good terms. Does he miss me and will he come back to me. I am missing him so much. -Sarah
He fells the same way, there is a lot of mixed emotion going on. You and he have both evolved to a higher and a more mature level together. He does miss you however, he feels also that he can predict what you will do and how you are felling. I also feel that this issue was created as an excuse to avoid anther issue. I know you are tempted to contact him but, do not. He will contact you when he figures out what to say and, feels that your relationship needs to be defined or, let go.

Who is my true love? My soulmate? -Katelyn
Astrologically you most comparable with Pisces, then Cancer; also the earth singes Taurs, Virgo and, Capricorn. I do not feel you will ever have to worry about this subject; your sing ( Scorpio ) and also Sagittarius posses the most magnetism out of all the sings. You will always be able to develop a relationship if you desire ( the magnetic quality will last throughout your life). You are also considered to be the second most naturally psychic out of all sings Pisces being the first. Higher power brings certain individuals in to our lives, mother can be a sole mate, father, brother or sister; and even people we have not met before. But that is it, higher only brings us together, what we do with the meeting is entirely up to the people involved. All relationships need an unconscious normality or, process to succeed. You will not feel this way for very long, look forward to Fall.

Will there be anytime for any kind of relationship to a caring generous man. That wants not ønly physical closeness but an emotional spiritual togetherness? there are two guys on mind from different states but our wants clash. -Jennifer
If you plan on a certin type of individual; one person that sees things such as the future as you? It may take a while. You are a very defined woman that knows what she wants; congadulations. You will have more than one opportunity, several infact. I do feel that you will meet someone very soon that will meet an individual that will think as you and, want what you want. I do feel it will be better than expected. Three weeks.

Love Questions: Posted June 27th, 2016

I made some mistakes with a woman (C.O.M) earlier this year, while I was dealing with school and emergencies. We had some harsh words and tough actions for each other. Since then, time has allowed me to address all of the problems we had - from where I live to communication style to money to attitude to spirituality. After repeated attempts to contact, she threatened police action. When will I have the opportunity to show her that I am the best man for her? -Jason
If she has threatened to call the police, you should listen to her. Not only you but she needs to resolve any speculation or problems, that is if she desires to. She wants no contact with you and it would be advisable to you listen to her, and leave her alone. You can not change a persons mind once it is made up, no matter how you feel. It does take two to create a relationship and she does not want to. The cause may not be within your sight. If you leave her alone, not even call or e-mail. It can be interpreted as harassment or stalking. This woman is not right for you; she will only get you into a lot of problems. Listen to her; do not further police involvement.

My Ex Left me two weeks ago saying he needed space! We have an 18 month old son together and I miss him so much! Is he coming back to me or is there someone else? -Danielle
Everyone experiences stress, some more then others. A child is a blessing but, can add to stress if not planed. Going from a single mans lifestyle, to a family mans responsibility and obligations scares a lot of men; this goes double if he is not prepared. He does love you and the baby but, he is not prepared to be a daddy, or play husband. He will make an attempt to contact you but, right now he feels you and your family are disappointed with him. You will go through a lot of changes in the next three months; your way of thinking and looking at the future. Do good for yourself and your child. I do not feel he will help you..... so do what you need to do. I also strongly feel that you will find the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow; and remember he will be held responsible. For now also remember when one door closes, another opens.

 

I am 38 and yet to find love in my life. Will I ever find love and get married? -April

 

The reason some things take a long time is so you can learn and experience life by yourself. Remember good things come to those who wait. I do feel that one of your sole-mates is on his way, but do not look, you will not meet him that way. You will find each other by following your hart and doing the things that make you feel good. You are a very defined woman and will need a defined man in your life; you also have a lot to offer. Be picky and choosey; you will get what you want very soon; or a chance to, if you want it.

Love Questions: Posted June 13th, 2016

My ex-boyfriend Bryan and I broke up 2 ½ months ago. we were together for over 2 years with some very high highs and extremely low lows. I do not think that he wanted the relationship to end nor did I when I walked away from him, but we could never seem to be on the same page as to what we wanted out of the relationship or each other. walking away was the hardest thing I have ever done, I've never felt so much love for another as I do him; I knew from the start I felt like I was coming home, and now I am lost. what is the best path (if any) for the 2 of us to reconnect? -Michelle
Every body goes through this; it is called defining. What I mean by that is I know you are trying to see if this man fits into your life. Good communication is extremely important at this stage. If you do not see the future that you have in mind, then move on. To leave a relationship with out explanation; he will always feel to blame. Explain the best you can, I think you will be surpliced by his response. He can not see a cause. A good talk will go a long way to defining your situation. He does love you, do you feel the same?

I made some mistakes with a woman earlier this year, while I was dealing with school and emergencies. We had some harsh words and tough actions for each other. Since then, time has allowed me to address all of the problems we had - from where I live to communication style to money to attitude to spirituality. After repeated attempts to contact, she threatened police action. When will I have the opportunity to show her that I am the best man for her? -Jason
It would seem that she has the answer. You must except what she says and, how she sees things, or not except it. A relationship is all about compromise. Being in a relationship, you will have difference of opinion and disagree on certain matters. Its all about compromise and finding a happy medium, then see if you can continue parsing a happy life. Sometimes inactivity and distance does make the hart fonder and, will allow an individual to see things in a different light. You are approaching a legal problem. You must listen to her and, not become an enemy. Do not violate a restraining order, you will regret it. Allow her to think. It takes two to create a relationship.

I have been dating my boyfriend of 6 years. Do you think he is the right one for me or should I move on?
-Angelica

Six years is a long time and you should know each other very well. If you are able to move on as you say, there is most likely not a true relationship ( a least in your eyes ). Be aware of his feelings for you, he does have strong feelings for you. Just do not blame him for the relationship not living up to your standard. Six years is good amount of time, and you will know if it is working out. I feel strongly that it will.

Love Questions: Posted June 13th, 2016

Where can I meet my soulmate? And what are the signs that I already meet him? -Carmelita
A sole-mate is a individual that destiny matches yours; destined to meet. You will meet several people in your life realities, friends, mates, etc... Now it is destiny that you meet, not that a relationship will work. It is destiny to meet, working out a long term or a close romantic relationship is up to the individuals involved. A sole-mate is an individual who sees things some what like you; most important is to establish a common view of the future. Destiny is gods area, to create a relationship that works is yours.

I had a connection with a guy for a few months. I knew that he liked me a lot but I don't think he knew that I liked him. I did give hints but I'm shy, so it was very subtle. There was never a relationship, but we talked occasionally and had a few "moments". He's moved away now and there hasn't been any communication for over a month. I got on with my life but after about a week I got the sense that he was thinking about me. What is he likely to think about me, if anything? Is it likely that we will have some form of connection in the future? -A
I feel strongly that he holds the memory of you close to his hart and, thoughts of you enter his mind all the time. His thoughts of you are idealistic, and he holds the time you spent together closely. I feel this man will surprise you with a call on a special occasion; may be a holiday or in remembrance of an occasion that you and he shared. You and he both were in love before he left and there is still a lot to come. You do need to catch up, memories are clear and pleasant to both of you. He does think about you a lot and one day soon, he will call to say hi.... He wants to accomplish something important to him. He has a need to give it the best try he can and, this will plant a seed.

My ex wife and have been apart now for two years. She is in a relationship with someone she met within a very short period after. . Do you see this relationship last or is she likely to want to come back to me and our children? -Morgan
First, she met this person before you realize; so they know each others situations. I will give the relationship three months however, that does not mean she wants to give a relationship with you another try. The other man in her life now does not mean she has replaced you. He is not the reason for her breaking the marriage. He also knows very little about you. I would suggest you talk to her ( if you can ) find out what went wrong. Correct the issue if you can, then she will listen to you. Because another marriage is possible however, the issue or issues must be resolved first.

Love Questions: Posted June 6th, 2016

Can I get my boyfriend to come back to me? -Samantha 
If your and his love is deep enough, it will bring around a chance. If you have known each other for longer then three months, then chances are you and he will think twice before you let it go; if the cause of your breakup was infidelity; you must go all the way to the beginning, if possible. If infidelity was the cause it is contrary to the relationship and if desired, reestablish a common view of the near future. By the way to come back the relationship must by stronger.

I recently broke up with a man. I would like to know if things will work out and we get back together and be happy or should I just forget about him. -Dianne
This man is use to getting attention and is no stranger to mistaken intentions. With you he thought he met an evolved individual who understood him and visa versa. He must follow what he is been studying for. I feel strongly that things will work out; if you listen to him and he you. I also feel you have a lot invested in each other and, do not forget the good communication you had with each other. Try it again; I feel if you and he compromise you can work things out.

Where can I meet my soul mate? And what are the singes that I have already met him? -A
We have many soul mates; but between a man and woman there is a deep sense of familiarity And a continue sense of knowing the person or meeting each other before. Things have a tenancy to work out ( if the other feels the same ). Higher power controls our spirit before we are born and when we pass on. As far as our time on earth we control our own steps, our emotions, and our destiny. We must work to get what we want and appreciate it, in life this goes for a successful relationship; Soul-mates does not mean every thing will work out naturally but, you do have a great head start to accomplishing what you work for and; and chances are better.

Love Questions: Posted May 23rd, 2016

My ex and I recently broke up, he said it was because I didn't have time for him but I found out that he was cheating,. We recently started talking again nothing serious though, I was just wondering if we would work things out and get back together or is this the end of the road for us? 
Just because he was cheating he confronted the issue that he was hurting you. He has an idea of how you feel. I do not think he is mentally prepared for advance with in your relationship with each other. He knows that getting back together would mean a commitment and things will be defined and serious. Your best bet would be to move on or else work on a committed relationship, which he is not ready for.

My boyfriend of 6 months we lived together for 3 months knew each other for a year broke up a month ago. His step mother was my friend and brought us together and she tore us apart. I miss him so much and have not spoken to him in 4 weeks at all. My question is will J contact me again will we get back together? I knew he loved me we were buying a house planning a baby then he just left with no word. His family told him many lies about me know I think he hates me. I just need to set it straight but I cant contact him. do you see us together again does he love and miss me or has he moved on. -RC
There is conflict within him. He has always trusted his family and, lies were never a part of this scenario. He has a love for you and, your situation is very privet to him. His family knows how this has effected him and right now, he knows not what to do. He will eventually want to hear your side of things. He will call you ( one month ) and you and he will meet, he will listen to what you say. And then make his decision. You and he will talk and see each others behavior and, he will let you know what she told him and why.

Will Armando come back to me? I want him. -Anonymous
He will not come back however, you and he will run into each other; he does know you have questions for him. This man is a very sensitive individual and did not want to be thought of as a man who walked away for no reason.. He will let you know that he felt things were getting to serious and, you will find it is more about him. You do need to talk and find the reason for your self. I do feel a lot of anxiety from you. If you are trying to figure things out remember that you can not, because the explanation, and the complete story must come form him. He just may be doing this on purpose to see how you will react.

Love Questions: Posted May 23rd, 2016

I have been seeing a guy for almost three yrs now I am in love with him and he says he loves me. It's been an up and down thing with us he gets close then pulls away he says he is scared and not ready for a relationship he are both divorced and have been hurt by our exes. I feel by this time he should know if he wants a relationship but people tell me men heal different I always think it's another women he insists tights is not it. Does he see me as a person he can have a relationship with eventually like he claims? Will he come around? Does he really love me help? I can't see myself with another I've tried to just can't see it. -Ayana
This man loves you a lot and is really scared of the responsibility. At one time you both were sure but. Things did not work out, this can be very hard for some people. There is a depression that involved, physical difference ( to get accustom to being alone ) and taking care of living alone is very difficult for many. It is hard to believe someone who is supposed to love you, and you love them, to end a relationship and it is even more difficult when children are involved, it can be very frustrating and for some a lifetime of doubt. He needs time, it is obvious he does not feel it is time. I think you are lucky to find someone so honest. You can be a little controlling. It is very different to be girl friend and boyfriend, then a committed relationship is, very different. Give him time to work things out; he is not going anywhere.

Is it meant for me and my child father to be in a relationship? -Rozie
It is doing things backward for a child to be born before a relationship. There is a reason for dating, engagement and if both adults involved agree marriage. I feel strongly that higher power has brought you together now what you do with that is up to you, this man has strong feelings for you and the child however, being together as a couple, takes work, from both of you equally and an agreement; this for you will be no-problem, but for him things must be more certain.

I wish I could honestly say that I don't still love my ex husband. I believe that I will always love him. Part of me wants him back while another part thinks this would be a horrible idea. He is currently getting divorced, again, and is already seeing someone else. I am trying to move on without him and am talking to other guys I just can't seem to find someone that makes me feel special. Is there any hope for me to move on? -Angel
Life gives you a choice. First you must decide to move on, or hold on to something that’s already run it course. It is a natural thing to remember the fun and unique times, after a relationship is over. The human mind has a way of remembering the good times that stand out and in time forget the negative things. An individual enters ones life usually by a unique love and attachment and, if both people involved agree and see eye to eye on subjects of the future. You will naturally move on and will meet someone who sees life and the future in the same way. I feel you will meet this person at a yard sale, you will like him and he you. And I feel you will really want to succeed, as he does. Do not move to obligation so fast, let it come to you; in other words be yourself.

Love Questions: Posted May 16th, 2016

Will I ever find my soul mate? -Becky
You will and have before; it does happen at different stages of life. Higher power has a way of taking and bringing people together at times, even though we can not understand why, at the time. Where relationships are concerned it is the same. Either automatically or through a certain amount of time our emotions will tell us through feelings. Now if the person feels the same, not only when you meet but, also as the relationship evolves. I feel that you will meet one of your sole mates very soon ( mid-summer ) through serving others or, pursuing a career serving others.

I'm stuck. I met a guy one day on my way home from work, I was staying with my sister and her family in a trailer park and this guy was staying in his brothers travel trailer while his brother was out of town working, anyway he stopped me told me he knew me then he told me everything about me. Yes, I said are you stalking me? He said no just I've been after you for 20 yes. I said really? So he asked me out had a blast, and 6 yes later he turns like I'm not even there and walks away. That killed me. To me he is gorgeous 50 yr old man well endowed charming fun always non the go loves to watch movies you know, but toward the end I look back and he was doing very mean things like he would go out of town not take me, anything to do with his kids I wasn't involved, rock concerts that was a definite no, and I remember him saying (I just wanted to have sex) just he said it in other words. What do I do? Move on or see if he'll come back ? What? Its been 2 weeks I feel like I've lost my best friend I have no motivation to even find work please help me if you can please. - Diana
There is much you do not know about this man, even though you have spent so much time together and it is obvious that he is aware of the issues. He has meant to keep the relationship very vague. I do feel strongly that you both perceive love in different ways. It does help when the people involved are similar as to how they see a relationship. I do feel that he has no intention of continuing, if it means obligation however, he is more bonded to you and, your ways then he lets on.

My boyfriend and I 2 years ago, but we were friend. We were both secretly in love with each other and this year we finally expressed our feelings to each other. we have been dating for 3 months now, I want to know if we are meant to be or we are wasting our time. -Meilan
There is a barrier that has always been there and, why secretly involved? If your relationship evolves and is acknowledged, you may have a good chance of arriving at this conclusion, as he. But, if the barrier is still there, it will inter with a developing relationship. You require a common view of the future; it does help if there are no issues from the past; if so they must be over come first. Three months is very relevant amount of time, carry on and also a very intuitive and an individual who can turn dreams into reality. He does feel more similar then different, about you.

Love Questions: Posted May 9th, 2016

Can I get my ex boyfriend to come back to me? -Samantha
Did you cause him to end the relationship? If this was caused by a difference of opinion; Then, stand up for your right to speak; if this was caused by a casual situation I do feel that he will attempt to re-unite with you, first by a call or e-mail. I do feel strongly that you and he do miss each other, and do see the solution, this will come to you soon as you and also he, once you get a chance to talk. Things will work out; if you talk, see each other smile, and do not take blame for something that is not your fault. You must be comfortable in your environment; do not let anyone create a contrary feeling.

I recently broke up with a man birth date 9/21/1972, I would like to know if things will work out and we get back together and be happy or should I just forget about him. -Dianna
You are astrologically, very compatible with each other. One thing that is common between you two is that you tend to show how you feel by action. I feel you and also he should work on doing active things together, rather then with friends or family; I know family is very important to you and, don’t forget, to him also; no matter what his situation may be. Sometimes people need to be alone to define there inner self, to see what is positive and what is not for them. Or what their situation in life is. If time is used for a resolution to the issue, it will work; if the issue at hand continues it will result in failure.

Where can I meet my soul-mate? And what are the signs that I already meet him? -Carmelita
We have individuals who we are destined to meet in our lives and, it happens all the time. That is in the hands of a higher power. What we do after that point is entirely up to the people involved. What is essential is a common view of the future; this is acquired through commonalities. Just because individuals are destined to meet does not mean a long term relationship will evolve naturally, it takes effort but, with a strong love, it is a pleasure. Love grows as a plant; if nurtured, it will grow and produce a good life, if not, love will not grow, or die somewhere along the way. Life has a way of defining itself, in various ways along the path of growth. The feeling of destiny to meet will defiantly create a closer relationship only, if the other person involved feels the same way... It will occur, when you are not looking for it, or them ( A soul mate ).

Love Questions: Posted May 2nd, 2016

My ex and I recently broke up, he said it was because I didn't have time for him but I found out that he was cheating,. We recently started talking again nothing serious tho, I was just wondering if we would work things out and get back together or is this the end of the road for us. -Dianna
I feel strongly the he will do what you want. After a week or so, You and also he will want to hear each others voice. He is very uncomfortable with the way his actions made you feel. I feel that you and he will give your relationship another chance however, It ( the relationship ) must come back stronger; more structured. If you desire to give this man another chance, you will get back together in two months.

My boyfriend of 6 months we lived together for 3 months knew each other for a year broke up a month ago. his step mother was my friend and brought us together and she tore us apart. I miss him so much and have not spoken to him in 4 weeks at all. my question will J contact me again will we get back together. I knew he loved me we were buying a house planning a baby then he just left with no word. His family told him many lies about me know i think he hates me. I just need to set it straight but I cant contact him. do you see us together again does he love and miss me or has he moved on. -Jenna
I feel that he will contact you in about one month. He wants to hear your side of the story. One of the reasons you have not heard from him is the his family, they are keeping an eye on him; he wants to talk to you but, he knows it will be one of those I told you so, situations. Now the relationship must go to a higher level. Your relationship is now being observed, and when it comes back, it will be observed even more.

Will Armando come back to me I want him. -Angelique
You do not have all the information about him as you think. He has another reason for ending the relationship. With out seeking it out you will find the information you need to make sense of what is going on with him. I feel you and he will talk soon. He will want to talk to you; You may change your mind when you hear the full story. For some reason he feels he can not give you the kind of relationship you want but, you will feel a lot better when you speak to each other. I do not feel that others know how strong your relationship was.

Love Questions: Posted April 25th, 2016

Hi I have been happy with my boyfriend we have been together 9 months I want o know if he is my soul mate and I want to know if we are going to have a baby anytime soon. -Natalie
I do feel, a lot of love between you two; It was destiny for you and he to meet up with each other however, that does not mean there will not be issues,, there will be. Your destiny was to meet, that is all. Weather you and he make a relationship work, depends on each of you. If any barriers exist, they must be resolved and handled first. A child right now will be surprise, and change the situation a bit; I would not advise it. It is very important to establish a common image of the future; If you and he wish to be together in the future? It is very important that you spend quality time with each other and get to know each other, You can consider your present situation as a beginning. I do see you as being happy, and also he.

My ex boyfriend and I of 7 years recently broke up few months ago. It was a crazy break up because I just couldn't let go especially when I knew he was having an easy time leaving me because there was another woman he was interested in. We used to be so in love but we started to fall apart over the years. Lots of arguing. My questions are will A and I get back together or is this separation permanent? Is he dating and how is he able to move on so fast if so? Will we ever talk to each other again? I love him so much and he told me he will always love me and never forget me, but I feel like I'm already forgotten. What can I do to bring him back to me? Is there still hope for us or should I try and move on? Will we ever be in each other's lives again? I just can't imagine him out of my life for good. Please give me some insight. -Tiani
Peoples promises change with the years. I feel strongly that he will approach you but, at the time he does knot know what to say ( he was in his current situation with the other woman for a little longer then you think ) I do feel you are trying to see things from all perspectives in order to understand. It is impossible to figure out something you have very little to do with. You do not have all the story yet; but you will soon. When he decides to give it another try, you may feel different.

Hello, I just would like to know if my fiancé K, DOB April 17 1980 has been cheating on me since he moved to a difference province for work in August 2012. -Preetkamal kaur Rehal
I do not sense any infidelity. It is entirely normal to miss a loved one when they are far away. I do also feel that he is a little reassure by your jealousy however, I feel that he also misses you a lot and also members of his family. He is working and doing the best he can, he does not like being away but, there is a job to do. If the jealousy does not subside; the relationship will not have a chance. Your reaction to the situation is what he is noticing right now. If you and he make it for the next three months, you will be together forever.

Love Questions: Posted April 18th, 2016

Does my guy friend want to be more than friends? -Noelle 
I feel that he does however, he is very unsure about you. According to your astrological sign and I feel this very strongly you are a very friendly person, very capable of pursuing any career you are interested in. I also feel, a great deal of affection coming from you both, towards each other. He is very likely to stay interested in you for a very long time. If you feel the same, enjoy every minute of being together. Sharing a Native American tradition, will be natural.

Will Kristie and I get back together and be happy for the rest of our lives? -Neal 
I do feel you and she will give things another try. Also, I can see that deprivation creates motivation. Happiness is something that you and she need to create; a lot, until it becomes habitual. Remember the same issues still exist, and need to be resolved bye both, to equal satisfaction.

I like two guys and don't know who to choose C or M. -Joanna 
If you are ready to make a choice; what I mean is going from friendship into a relationship; I would suggest you do this quickly, before you lose both. A relationship implies a certain commitment. If you can not chose one you are not ready for a relationship and; I would suggest that you make your choice known to the other individual. If you are ready? I do feel that you have a lot of time.

Love Questions: Posted April 11th, 2016

Will I ever find my soul mate? -Becky
I feel that your sole mate. And yourself, will come in contact with each other in mid spring. This contact will be in the way of working together, or one of you doing something for the other. You will find that this man thinks as you, and understands lives ups and downs. I feel that you and he will be working on the same project, only in different ways.

Hi my name is Diana and I'm stuck. I met a guy one day on my way home from work, I was staying with my sister and her family in a trailer park and this guy was staying in his brothers travel trailer while his brother was out of town working, anyway he stopped me told me he knew me then he told me everything about me. Yes, I said are you stalking me? He said no just I've been after you for 20 yes. I said really?? So he asked me out had a blast, and 6 yes later he turns like I'm not even there and walks away. That killed me. To me he is gorgeous 50 yr old man well endowed charming fun always non the go loves to watch movies you know, but toward the end I look back and he was doing very mean things like he would go out of town not take me, anything to do with his kids I wasn't involved, rock concerts that was a definite no, and I remember him saying (I just wanted to have sex) just he said it in other words. What do I do? Move on or see if he'll come back ? What?? Its been 2 weeks I feel like I've lost my best friend I have no motivation to even find work please help me if you can please. - Diana 
This man is not open about his desirers right now, he is very confused about something. You have become very insecure, and this should not be the case; you should not be so confused considering how long it has been. If you chose to attempt a more secure relationship; it would be very difficult. I feel this sense of confusion will diminish in a very short time. Look to your present situation, to know where you will be at, in one year.

My boyfriend and I, 2 years ago, but we were friend. We were both secretly in love with each other and this year we finally expressed our feelings to each other. we have been dating for 3 months now,i want to know if we are meant to be or we are wasting our time. -Meilan 
If you and he were secretly involved, it is not a secret any more. If the reason you and he were keeping your relationship secret in the first place, is no longer a consideration, then you and he will fell better about seeing each other. No couple is meant to be; that feeling comes as a result of knowing each other, doing things together, and living life together. I do feel that you and he have a good start, keeping things secret is a shared emotion that has brought you together for a common cause, to be together. I do sense it will progress.

Love Questions: Posted April 4th, 2016

I was in a relationship that ended years ago. However we still see each other at times. Will he and I get back together again? If so how soon and will it be better? -Karon
I do not feel you and he will ever be in a committed relationship. There is a certain romantic part of a relationship that bring us together. You and he also have found a way to keep the romance going; essentially you and he have been dating for many years. For him this is a wonderful set up; long term romance (seeing each other now and then) with out any of the obligations of a structured relationship, for you, if things do not evolve, it is not about you. It is a secret.

My ex and I used to b very close friends then he proposed me and we got into a relationship for 6 months. Then he suddenly left me without giving any explanation and for another 4 months. I had no connection with him not a single text, but one day he texted me and soon we became friends again but we never mentioned about our relationship and now he is in relationship with my friend which is very strong and I am also in a relationship for 3 years now. Whenever I think about him, I’m in so much love with her don't know why but it bothers me very much. Please help me I want to get out of this pain. -Diya
I feel strongly that you and he gave it (Relationship) a try and it was what neither of you wanted. I sense an amount of relief coming from you when he made a disappearance, although you and he never had a break up or, officially ended things. You never had a chance for closer or, to prepare for his disappearance. Now you have nothing to worry about. Just leave it as a failed relationship. The reason is mute. By the way, you have a very exciting year ahead of you. You can accomplish a lot.

What is going to happen between him & I? -Gabriela
I feel you and he will have a love affair, that is not the problem. You do like each other very much and have possibilities; now if there is any barriers to you and he being together; they must be dealt with now, with honesty I do see a relationship. If barriers exist this is not the time to deal with them. Give your hart three weeks, and the knowledge will be yours. At certain times talk is cheep; at times honest talk will clear things up. Remember it takes more then one to create a meaningful relationship; as well as taking care of any problems or barriers that exist. I am very glad that you will see things as they are. And how you are able to focus on what you want and deserve out of life.

Love Questions: Posted March 28th, 2016

I have seeing someone for almost 3 yrs now but have known him 14 yrs. we dated briefly yrs ago but married other people. During our marriages we never saw each other. We found each other again two yrs ago and discovered we were both separated and started seeing each other again. At first we saw each other all the time but when we got our divorces he became distant. It's been up and down ever since he claims he loves me and there is no one else but his actions show different. He says he is not ready for a relationship and he is scared. When I pull away he comes back I am confused I am in love with him but don't know what do. Does he really love me? Will we ever have a real relationship? Is there someone else? -Ayans 
I feel strongly that you both love each other very much however, a divorce can be very traumatic for all concerned; people go through sometimes a great depression, and a big disappointment. People are very different in how they react to a divorce and, he has taken it bad. It would seem that he is being blamed for all that is involved ( It is very hard on a family situation ). He has been going through a lot of loss recently and, that is very hard on a person ( especially when you are blamed ) I do not feel that it has to do with you, you helped this man get through a stressful time and, he does not blame you in any way. It would be wise to discuss marriage at a later date. The last thing a man wants to discus after a divorce is another marriage; he must be enthusiastic about this marriage and right now he is not ( it is about all the unexpected problems that go with a divorce ) give him three months to think and handle this very important change. Loss is never easy.

My heart soul and mind has a burning desire to have a love relationship, marriage. I have been single 2 years.
-Sallie
 
I feel strongly that your request has been herd through your prayers and or your meditation. Your situation is one that many people go through. Your sing is able to active a balance and make a good marriage work. You are also very defined and a bit picky, very good. I feel you are a good woman and, deserve a loving and workable marriage. You will meet this person around a celebration, of a spiritual nature. You will find that his long term vision of the future matches yours and, he is single.

Love Questions: Posted March 21st, 2016

I want to know if my wife is having an affair and do I know this person and how long is it going on for. -Indran
I do not fell there is any thing going on however, I do sense a hesitancy on both your parts to openly communicate, for not knowing how the other will respond. I also feel strongly that you and she need help in you communication skills with each other. If this is done, whole heartedly, it will benefit your marriage, yourself, and of course, her. I do feel strongly also, that you and she love each other. Some times silence is because an individual is not comfortable with the reaction of another.

Can you please let me know if the person that I am in love being faithful to me? is he planning a weekend trip with another woman? -Michele
I do not feel that there is anything going on behind your back. It appears that you and he both have strong feelings for each other and, I do not feel that he wishes to entertain this subject, not because he is hiding something, but because he does not want to argue, or you to feel upset. If you are feeling a bit insecure about the relationship, please let him know. If this man was in another relationship or having an affair; he would not be leading you on, he does care for you. If you may be uncomfortable with a situation let him know. Do not let suspicion end a good thing.

Will my ex return and try and patch things up or will I find someone new who actually wants a relationship? I love him but I can't keep taking him back to go through the same thing again. -Dianna
There are many, very many people looking for a relationship. Where you are concerned I do not see you ever having an issue with that subject. All relationships are different, people are different, and the feelings in the beginning sometimes change. There is no need for you to worry about this, I do feel this present state of mind was planted with in you, by your ex. He does plan on contacting you however, I do feel you and he will try again but, the same issues will come up if not resolved mutually.

Love Questions: Posted March 14th, 2016

Recently my husband left me and is now with a woman 13 years younger than him - we have a 1 year old daughter and his 15yr old daughter was living with us too - will he realize his mistake and return to me?
-Amanda

I feel strongly that he realized that he made a mistake the first day; you need to understand this was a plan for a while. He felt that there was no escape from the stress he felt at home; so I feel at the time, he did not think out his actions. You will hear from him very soon, he realizes that he made a mistake however, he will rationalize his actions even though he now also realizes that he would be the looser, legally. The point is the vows of the marriage have been broken however, I do feel the love between you two; he also misses the children and wonders what the family will think of his actions, he knows this will embarrass you, as the news gets around. Every one makes mistakes and this is very true; he deserves another chance but, I must repeat, The Vows must be taken again ( this time, taken seriously ) for the common image to be reestablished.

I'm 20 years old and have never had a real boyfriend. I've only been on one date and that was four years ago. My question for you is will I ever find that person that I'm looking for? When will I be married and will he have the same beliefs as me? Will I have a happy marriage? -Ciera
Your beliefs and way of living life will be what brings you and he together however, I do not see this occurring for about three years. There is a certain subject that you will excel in and create a good career in, this is the key to you and he meeting each other. This three years will go by quickly and you and he will not know your destiny, until about three months. I do see you having many friends, male and female. Your destiny is to have a chance to achieve what you want. As far as your love life, your request has been acknowledged and is working according to the laws of life.

Thinking about — powerful energy but I don’t trust it. Why is it there? Does he feel the same? -Lana
Always follow you intuition, it will never fail you. I do also feel that he, feels the same, exactly the same including the unique feeling that is indescribable ( artists and humanity in general have tried, and tried sense the begging of humanity ). I do see you and he spending a lot of time with each other. In your process of getting to know each other better. I feel that you and he will evolve very quickly. This relationship has the potential to evolve into a life-long and lasting love.

Love Questions: Posted March 7th, 2016

Will “F” and i ever be a couple again? He had gone back to his ex wife but I’m still in love with him. I have always seen him a my soul mate and would love to have him back again. -Cherie
The institution of Marriage is a spiritual bonding; created by a common vision of the future in accordance to the plan of higher power, mentally there is a very strong psychological imprint of what love means. He made a mistake by breaking his vows and, I feel strongly that he regrets it very much; he must re-bond with his wife if possible. Unfortunately you are the victim of a deceiving individual. I do not feel you will get back together, for the reason that he realizes his mistake. It will be hard, very hard to reestablish his marriage ( if possible at all ) but, they do love each other and, it would be very wise of you to find someone who is available and wants to start anew; I do feel that you deserve this. It is your right to live a happy life.

I'm turning 40 years old by end of this year, single and never been married. I was wondering if you see me ever meeting my true love in this city (LA), get married and have a family here or do I need to move somewhere else to meet him? Where at? How is he like? Age/race/profession? When will I meet this person and if I'll ever have children with him? -Nikki
You are a very defined woman and realize what you want and how you desire to get it. I feel that you have your time to design life the way you want and, to go about getting it in your own way. The only reason is that you are very occupied with life and have very little spar time. I do feel however, that you will make a very good friend, who will become more. You will meet in about two months, during a social event of some sort ( it will have a hint of spirituality). This man is tall with a mustache and, has a wonderful sense of hummer (at the right time ).

Guy I work with once was my friend but I cooled it off because I was not sure of his true intentions. Did I make the right decision? and does he care for me at all or am I imagining it all? -Eliza
I do feel strongly that you did the right thing be following your intuition. He is and has been interested in you; only in the way of friendship. But, I do feel that he realizes that getting involved with you would be a serious thing and, I do not feel that is where he is at, right now. Always love yourself, as a child of this earth and, respect your intuitions; they are present for a reason and, only you know why. You will find an access to a goal you have had for a long time but; it is up to you to be prepared to take advantage of this once in a life time opportunity. It will happen with in the next three months and I know you will be ready to meet it.

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Love Questions: Posted February 29th, 2016

I have been in one sided love with this guy since 3 years now. I initiated contact last year. We had a brief relationship only this year, and broke up recently. Will he come back to me? I am trying to move on, but it hurts a lot and feel very depressed. Will he come back to me? -Divya
This man, considers you to be very disciplined, he also feels that you will end up getting what you want out of life, he also, wonders exactly why you want to be with him. When you really love somebody you desire them to be happy and, it is your nature to be a nurturer. You would be wise to not analyze this relationship to intensely, and I do feel that what you have been doing. Looking within the relationship to intensely will result in frustration; as long as you do this, the greater the frustration will become. The reason for this is that you are not the center of this situation, nor are you to blame for the breakup. He has attitudes and ideas he has not revealed to you. If he succeed, it’s his success, if not, only he will fail. He has no idea to share his plans and does not want you to get hurt, and its not another. He does care for you a lot but, he will not commit; plainly he is not ready. Remember, a good relationship is not selfish, it does take two and a common vision.

My ex said he wanted to work things out but for two months he couldn't even ask me to go get coffee. I feel that I am the love of his life and that he will figure it out and come back to me. Am I right, or just delusional and headed for more heartbreak? -Liz
He does love you in his way and, always will however, he has a definite desire to not get involved with any thing legal and, he is very disappointed in the marriage. When you love someone you would never think that person would cause you problems. A relationship is likely but a marriage, no. He is not likely to take the chance again.

Will me and Greg get back together? I love him but he seems like he has moved on. I miss him. -Venus
I feel strongly that you will have a chance in about two months. You will find that he still sees things the same way. You are very compatible romantically but that is all, you have strong views and so does he. I do feel you and he know how to compromise but, neither of you will. You are both good people and you both will succeed but, if you do not compromise, it wont happen. If you and he work on developing a common view of the future and a common plan it may work but, right now is not the time.

Love Questions: Posted February 22nd, 2016

Please tell me if my husband will return to me and our children. He left me for a girl 13 years younger than him. I still love him and want to save our marriage. -Amanda
The marriage is over, the vows have been broken. He will attempt to return with in six months. He is not sure if you are hurt or angry, he would assume both. He realizes that you want to save the marriage and are probably very embarrassed; so he believes you wont let your family and friends know what is going on. When he does attempt to return ( like nothing happened ) if the issue is ignored it will return and always be on your mind. It would interfere with a happy life. The only way your relationship will work is if you and he redo your vows to god and each other, and mean your words. I feel that your heart will give things a fair try but you see he also must mean his vows. You and also he truly love each other ( which I do feel ) and it is true that all people make mistakes however, the image of you and he being happy with your children must be reestablished in your souls, mind, and hearts. There is to much water under the bridge to be able to explain it away. Redoing your vows will prove to all concerned that you and he truly love and care for each other and your beautiful family ( a gift ).

I have been to see a psychic recently and she said that me and my ex girlfriend would definitely get back together but at the moment I just cannot see it happening. So my question is; will I get back with my ex girlfriend soon? -Steven
I do feel that you and she have a lot of dissatisfaction with each other and I also feel that you and she can not talk to each other with out blame or accusations. The first thing to try to accomplish is communicating in the correct way and; this always starts by listening. You still have strong feelings for each other and you are both very disappointed. Give things a little time and attempt to start over; even though you have taken things to a higher level.

My boyfriend Shakeeb broke up with me claiming he doesn't love me anymore. However I want to know if he does and is he coming back to me? -Thahmina
I truly feel that you and he find each other very attractive and physically appealing but not in a way that will last very long. He thought that he did love you very much and that you and he are a good match however, your personalities conflict with each other. You are both leaders and outgoing. Every thing is fine while you were dating but as the relationship evolved and became a bit more intense, I feel you both had second thoughts. You will have an opportunity to talk and you will find that you did not realize a lot of things about him including he not being ready to move forward. Also know that most people do not fall in love and out of love so automatically.

Love Questions: Posted February 15th, 2016

I would like to know who my soul mate is. Which of these guys, there are two guys who seem to be great, but I need to know is (T) the one? I miss him a lot and we haven't talked in some months. On the other hand there's Sky. He seems loving and caring, but I don't know what to do and I need your help please! -Candice
I truly feel that both of these men are good people, however, sense soul -mates are all about feelings and how they evolve, and the ease of being together. I do not feel you have given things enough time and possibly rushed to a conclusion. In a soul-mate connection there is an ease of being together and a relationship develops naturally, also, the other involved feels the same way. Soul-mates are a part of reality not someone that a person needs not to persuade. Please contact me in two months, a lot of things are going to happen, in a good way, to you.

My ex boyfriend Kevin broke up with me 7 months ago for an older woman. He recently contacted me apologizing for what he had done. I forgave him and decided to just be friends (for the time being anyway). I was scared to let him in so easily but I don't know if he realized that. He agreed to hangout and catch up on everything. That never happened and it was the last I heard from him again. After many texts explaining to him that I want to put things in the past and try again I still got no response back. Yesterday, I saw pictures with him and the older woman. Why is he ignoring me? Do you see us together again? I feel like I didn't handle things the right way when he contacted me and I drew him away once again. -Ayla
I feel strongly that he does love you however, not in the way you think. Life is working out in a way that gives him what he requires in reality. The relationship that you once shared has not worked out in reality but is fantastic in a very romantic way; he will never fell the same toward another. One thing that is not possible is for he to entertain two relationships and if you entertain this idea it will not work out well. Allow him to make his own mistake and find his own solutions. I truly feel it is time to think about yourself and your future; new ideas will point you in the correct direction.

I have had my heart broken so many times and given up on the whole idea of love but would like to know if I will ever find love. -Rebecca
I feel that you have numerous times. A part of loving someone is knowing that some day they will be gone or that you will be, but we continue. Knowing all the time and feelings we gave to that person only meant something to them and you. Life is a chance being human we make mistakes but that is also how we learn. It is very difficult to give your life to another and most people will not take that chance. You will find a person who shares you point of view and your way of looking at life; you will meet in a very meditative environment like a church, temple, or library.

Love Questions: Posted February 8th, 2016

Will I get back together with my ex girlfriend? -Matt
There will be an opportunity after the holiday’s; things are very stressful for a lot of people at this time of year. She is thinking of your relationship, what worked and what did not. First of all I feel that thing’s have become to complex. There is a need at this time to reinforce yourself. If you and she are destiny; it will come back stronger then ever in around two months. I feel strongly that you and also she are defining yourself; and your feeling’s. If you do not contact her at all; she will contact you, she knows how you feel.

Is the man currently in my life the one I am destined to be with or should I continue my journey alone? -Jeanne
I feel you are in love with the one you are with; and he with you. We all have rough times, it’s a part of life. It is how we learn and evolve. If there are no people around that love you and show it. I feel you are lucky to be together; and I do feel strongly that you should be honest and happy. The journey is over. It always better to weather out any storm it promises sunny and blue skies.

I am struggling with a past breakup that occurred over 6 months ago. I just need to know if she will come back or if I need to let go even though it's making me miserable. -Christina
Just because we desire to change another out of love does not mean it will happen, nor does it mean they will change. I feel your relationship was becoming difficult and she needed a break. I also feel you both have good points, or complaints about each other. Human nature will follow what feels good and shy away from things that cause a person to feel bad. You and she are on an equal level where this is concerned. You will have a chance if you want it and she accepts it. Talk it out.

Love Questions: Posted February 1st, 2016

I've been in love with a guy for years and he knows. Will we be more than friends?
I feel that he is very complimented by your admiration and considers you to be a very nice person in your personality and actions. He also has always thought that you are very attractive. This man is aware of your desire to be more than friends however, friends of your type and feelings you have shown, he knows are rare. You look up to this person and he knows it. At this time he feels that if he entered a relationship or gave you that indication, it would cause a great misunderstanding and someone may get hurt. He feels that there is a lot going on in his life right now; he does not to enter any new obligations or give the wrong idea. The issue is that you and he have become very good friends; and that is rare for a man when that friend is a woman.

Will me and my ex boyfriend k be together again?
You will see each other at a store or restaurant and just look at each other. Even though you and he have a lot to say to each other, you both will be with out words at this first exposure to each other. You will find that he still has feelings for you. I feel strongly you can give this relationship another try. The key is to communicate with each other, create new good and happy experiences with each other. He will not respond to an implication of a new relationship but he also has a deep desire to be near you. If you and he talk it out, you will find yourselves with out a cause.

I have been on this one track mind of waiting for my soul-mate. I've had several heartbreaks as they moved on and married and I'm. Stuck in a time capsule. I no longer have feelings for these guys as I feel I'm emotionally, physically ( so-so), spiritually and energy ready to meet this guy. Can I have assurance and possibly description of what he's like? -Roxanna
Your prayers and meditations have been heard and noticed; your first meeting with this individual will occur soon ( with in five months ). Higher power will bring you together however, the rest is up to you both. Remember the ride is what it is all about, not the destination; at least at this time. He does have longer hair, a dog, and a fondness for guitars.

 

Love Questions: Posted January 25th, 2016

I want to know if the guy I like wants to start seeing me and be my boyfriend? -Melanie
I feel that he has defiantly noticed you, and he is complimented by your feelings ( which he knows of ) however, he does have more questions then he has answers. There may be an issue with friends, yours and his. Within the next two months I feel that you and he will get to know each other better and not only continue to like each other but at the same time develop a respect for each other and an interest in each others lives. If you do stay in each others hearts for longer then one year; you will remain together always. The key is to become friends; good friends first.

Will I be in a loving relationship with someone who supports me in my efforts and will want to be there for my kids? -Dianna
It is your destiny. You have had something very important and special to do; this changed you and gave you more then you realize. If you do not know what I am referring to, it will come to you in a dream, within three weeks. You, I also feel are very defined, and have learned a lot. You will have a hard time not meeting good people but, the one you seek is very close to you, in location and you are both of the same mind. He does also have children, who he loves. He has a dog who also means a lot to him. You will find each other when you are not looking.

I want to know if my wife K, will love me again and come back to me. -Barry
There is a unique affection between you two however. Also a distrust. Somehow an outside influence is at play; friends or family. She also knows that you and she know each other a lot better then anyone else. Somehow there is an embarrassment involved. In one year you will have your chance; you will also find that she understands a lot of things and does care about her future. Have faith in people, make friends not enemies. First thing to remember is that it takes two to tango. If you do not pursue her in any way, and allow her to think. I feel strongly that you will have a chance, within the year however, you may feel differently.

Love Questions: Posted January 18th, 2016

There is an older woman that I like. We do not know each other very well, but I feel a strong connection with her. My question is how does she feel about me? I’m afraid to make a move because I don't know how she would take it. I have the worst luck with love. Any advise? Thank you in advance! -Vero
She does know you like her but that’s all. My advise is to have a good talk. I do feel that she would be complemented by your honesty and know where you are taking such notice of her. You need to know what it is you may be dealing with. Sometimes shyness can be misunderstood. First find out where you stand and also if she may be interested or available. Remember, everyone comes with baggage but we all need to start somewhere.

Will my husband come home? We've been separated for 1 month and a half and have a baby together. -Jacqueline
First off all, I feel he is alright and is trying to figure out what to say to you. What ever the reason, it must be resolved completely, or at least started in an honest way. He knows you are worried and he does miss you and the baby. I feel strongly that he wants you to miss him. You and he have been given a gift with all the up’s and downs. You must look within yourself and know you are a child of higher power; and the assistance is there if you ask. If you can not see a reason from your perspective, and also from his and you still confused, it most likely does not come from you. It does take two. You will hear from him within two weeks.

I have not had the most luck in love, and am hoping to find out about when I will experience such a thing as being in love. There is a man I am speaking with right now, could this lead to something? -Melanie
Yes it can. You are a very defined woman and I feel you are very intelligent. I would suggest that you follow your heart and do the things that give you happiness. I strongly feel that your taste is good and also defined. You will know if this man is correct for you by the end of the holiday season. And if you and he fall in love, more power to you. You will never have an issue with this subject, good things come to those who wait. This particular subject will vanish by next year. When an opportunity comes to you please take advantage quickly, that is after you do your due diligence.

Love Questions: Posted January 11th, 2016

Who will I end up with; the ex from 30 yrs ago or the guy I just met? Another psychic claims it’s the one from a long ago! We have a daughter together. -Karen
I feel strongly that the ex form long ago will make this attempt. This man has a great deal of affection for his daughter and a lot of fond memories of you. The key is to develop an optimistic view of life. You must establish contact with him because I do also feel that he has another family and I would suggest that the status of his life as well as the distant past is discussed. Misunderstandings must be dealt with as soon as possible. I would also suggest a spiritual bonding.

A year and a half ago I met a woman that became my best friend we have incredible chemistry, we have looked at each other and agreed what we have never gets old. We have totally loved one another but do to misunderstandings have not talked in over a month. Will I be together with this woman again? Or will she leave my life? -Norman
Yes, I do feel that as you, she is defining her feelings for you. A small misunderstanding will not effect a solid and perspective relationship. Give her time to think and be the first to apologize and admit the misunderstanding. It is essential to have a good communication with each other; and I do feel she does miss you and knows you miss her.

I have been in a relationship with a Taurus guy for almost 2 years now. He wants to move back to Cape Town alone. Does he really love me or is there someone else? Will I meet someone special soon? I would like to get married one day again. Will he come back to me? -Ansie
You will never have a hard time meeting new and exciting people. I do feel that you and your Taurus man need to define where you stand with each other. He does love you, and I feel you love him also. Certain circumstances come up in life that endear us to an individual, and sometimes it happens over and over again. But, I do feel you should have more off a detailed plan involving him. And as I mentioned you will never have a problem making friends. I do feel strongly that you will have a very productive and profitable year in front of you.

Love Questions: Posted January 4th, 2016

Can you see when Gary and I will get back together? I really do feel we are meant to be. -Sarah
I strongly feel that within one month, you and he will be in contact however, the conversation itself will make or break this relationship. The relationship will either benefit both of you in the way of where you both become a lot more secure with each other. He is very focused on the future, his and also you and he as a couple. You do have very strong feelings for each other and the relationship must go forward and become stronger to make it work. For some reason I feel trust is at the center. Please be adult in your conversation, only refer to yourself when discussing the problem and how things effect you. You and he must enjoy seeing each other and also your relationship. To resolve any barrier to your relationship should be easy at this point.

I am happily married. However, for the past 6 months I have been having strong feelings about an ex. I wanted to know why. Is he thinking of me? I just can't shake him out of my mind. It's in my head and my gut. I always felt spiritually connected with this ex and maybe that's why. -Katrina
When an individual is in a newly committed relationship the intention is be together forever; it is normal to think about the past and people who we care for. This change is supposed to be starting a mutual life with each other. You are correct this is a big change for many and reflecting on life before is entirely normal and natural. There is a difference between passing thoughts and preoccupation. There are memory triggers that remind us of past experiences. If your compulsion is to act on these feelings or cant stop thinking about this; it is only a result of problems with in your current marriage and I do feel it will be fine, in two months.

My relationship ended about two months ago with a man who I believe is my twin flame. I would like to know if you sense if he has any interest in healing this relationship and getting back together at some point? -Rachel
If you are looking for a reason and even tried looking within yourself it will prove to be very frustrating, you cannot see the reason because it does not come from you. You are super sensitive and also very psychic. If the reason has you baffled; it is effecting him also in that same way. He will contact you when he feels things will not turn into an argument this man cares for you more then you know. We Pisces have a way of seeing the effect, cause, and result of a situation, even if they see themselves as a factor. The term it takes two to tango is especially true in serious relationships and this definitely includes conversation. Try not to get to upset about this, it is happening for a good reason. I do feel you can be twin flames; we will see when the relationship reanimates, if you still feel the same and he feels similar then there is a good chance you will become twin flames. Higher power brings us together; it is up to us to make it work.

Love Questions: Posted December 28th, 2015

Can you see when Gary and I will get back together? I really do feel we are meant to be. -Sarah
I strongly feel that within one month, you and he will be in contact however; the conversation itself will make or break this relationship. The relationship will earthier benefit both of you, in the way of where you both become a lot more secure with each other. He is very focused on the future, his and also you and he as a couple. You do have very strong feelings for each other and the relationship must go forward and become stronger to make it work. For some reason I feel trust is at the center. Please be adult in your conversation; only refer to your self when discussing the problem and, how things affect you. You and he must enjoy seeing each other and also, your relationship. To resolve any obstacles should be easy at this point.

I am happily married. However, for the past 6 months I have been having strong feelings about an ex. I wanted to know why? Is he thinking of me? I just can't shake him out of my mind. It's in my head and my gut. I always felt spiritually connected with this ex and maybe that's why? -Katrina
When an individual is in a newly committed relationship the intention is be together forever; it is normal to think about the past and people who we care for. This change is supposed to be, starting a mutual life with each other. You are correct this is a big change for many and, reflecting on life before is entirely normal and natural. There is a difference between passing thoughts and preoccupation. There are memory triggers, which remind us of past experiences. If your compulsion is to act on these feelings or you can’t stop thinking about it. It is only a result of problems within your current marriage but I do feel it will be fine, in two months.

My relationship ended about two months ago with a man who I believe is my twin flame. I would like to know if you sense if he has any interest in healing this relationship and getting back together at some point? -Rachel
If you are looking for a reason and, even tried looking within your self it will prove to be very frustrating. You cannot see the reason because it does not come from you. You are super sensitive and also very psychic. If you feel baffled, it is affecting him also in that same way. He will contact you when he feels things will not turn into an argument this man cares for you more then you know. We Pisces have a way of seeing the effect, cause, and result of a situation, even if they see them selves as a factor. The term it takes two to tango is especially true in serious relationships and, this definitely includes conversation. Try not to get to upset about this, it is happening for a good reason. I do feel you can be twin flames; we will see when the relationship reanimates, if you still feel the same and he feels similar then there is a good chance you will become twin flames. Higher power brings us together; it is up to us to make it work.

Love Questions: Posted December 21st, 2015

I was good friends, emailing a guy I use to work with almost every day. We both liked same baseball team, talked sports. Things were great. I supported him looking for second job. He was very appreciative, thanked me etc. No problems. He usually emailed me about problems with new job, etc. Things seemed great. All of a sudden a month ago he stopped emailing. I haven't bothered him. What is going on? -Diane
I do not feel that he is in any trouble or unsolvable problem; do not worry so much. Some people are looking for a friend, a confidant somebody to talk to and run by the day’s events. I feel just knowing you and becoming a friend was what this man needed. He has developed strong feelings for you and this is what he is feeling. You know about certain struggles and situations he is going through. He will contact you and, if you are becoming use to his attention. This man is thinking about the difference between friendship and a relationship. These things are very different it tends to be easier to talk to friend then to a person you are trying to impress in a relationship. He is only trying to see if you care, are you going to be mad or, concerned or really do not care one way or the other. I feel he is only looking for your response; and right now he is defining his life and situation, you will hear from him however, a long distance relationship is not easy, he will call by next weekend.

My partner and I broke up a month ago due to me having depression and drinking. He gave me many chances before. We were very much in love and we connected and always knew what the other was thinking. He gave me one last chance and I drank and said some awful things and he will not communicate with me at all. I've taken steps to stop drinking and turn my life around but he still won't talk to me. I asked him a final time the other day if we could try and take little steps and work at maybe getting back together. I've still not heard from him even though I know he's reading my texts. I don't know what to do now. -Nicola
I feel your partner left not because he wanted to but because he had to. Dysfunctional relationships are very difficult to understand. You do understand that the drinking caused you to be a different person and act and say things you would not under different circumstances. People who try to keep an individual around even if they do want to will fail and, possibly in a lot of legal trouble (many people are in prison for a long time for trying to hold on, when they should not.) I feel that this person still cares about you and will after you take care of this problem. I feel strongly that you will succeed; you have already identified the issue. This is something you must do for you own benefit and only your own life will benefit. You will feel better and happier with your life in four months, if you proceed correctly...


I'm a married woman whose husband is deployed. I started having physical relations with another man. Something physical has now turned into something a little more. I know it has to end and I know it will. I'm just so confused. I tried breaking it off a couple of times but we keep coming back to each other. The connection I have with this new guy is something I never felt. If I had drawn up my dream guy physically he is exactly him. These feelings I have are all new. I just recently started realizing the connection. It's like I'm drawn to him. We don't talk about our feelings for each other so I have idea if they are mutual. Is this new guy toxic for me? -Monique
Yes. Your marriage is over. The vows have been broken. You have made your choices and must deal with the repercussions. I do not feel you husband will understand; what ever you do, do not blame him for this. I also, do not fell this other man will be around for long, even if there is a mutual attraction it is based on a wrong decision and betraying you husband. The only solution I see is honesty. However, it will not be enough unless he (your husband) really loves you. You are still attracted to this other man, and being that marriage is about trust, the marriage is over.

Love Questions: Posted December 14th, 2015

Is my husband having an affair or interested in another woman? If so, when does he see her and do they work together? How often do they see each other and or are intimate? -Kim
The details of who any why are not important at this time, the point is that the marriage as it was is over; a breaking of the marriage vows has occurred. He is depending on your love for him and your love of the family to pull him through it all, your questions to him will never be clear in response. Please do not make the mistake of holding on or trying to get to the bottom of things; this would be a big mistake. A lot of opportunities are going by you right now however, your disappointment and felling of betrayal, and anger is preventing you from seeing and taking advantage of these opportunities. I know it is tempting to try to talk to the one you love and attempt to make them see the light but in this case I would suggest not. You will feel a lot better in about three months, around February; seek help by knowledgeable and professional individuals to ease your confusion.

My daughter and her husband of 4 years have recently separated and are living in separate homes. They don't have a lot of money right now and my two grandsons currently live with their father. I had an intense dream about them all last night that my daughter was willing to toss them all away while I was yelling and picking up my grandsons. Will they ever get back together? -Joy
I feel strongly the they will try, however it depends how serious they are, if they are still in love and how and if they resolve the original problem. The Thing is they are very angry with each other and blame each other for not accomplishing certain goals in their lives; to be very honest right now they do not want to even want to try. The important thing is they ( the children ) were in a very negative environment when they were together; they are safer and happier now. Allow things to stabilize and try not to worry. Things have occurred that you do not know; but you will in about three weeks.

4 years ago I had met a young woman in college. A few months later she had become my Taekwondo instructor. Anyways, making a long story short. I had fallen in love with her. My insides are telling me she feels the same, but she is quit a few years younger then I. Does she want me and will we ever be together? -Frank
First of all it is common to fall for a nice looking individual however, thinking about the person for to long will destroy the chance. I feel she also likes you as a student and acquaintance. You will get to know each other better, then you will decide if you want to pursue the relationship, or not. It is a must that she feels the same way and that she is available. But, you will gather information to work with and be sure of your methods and desires. Be sure of the information that you have and, is given to you. Be realistic in your perception and your response.

Love Questions: Posted December 7th, 2015

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 12 years and have a 16 month old son and another on the way but I don't feel I love him anymore. I feel I should stay with him because of our children and I want to have feelings for him again, but he seems to have changed and has a very bad temper. He blames it on stress of having a baby. But I also have feelings for another guy I've known for years and feel like I want to be with him. He feels the same. Do I stay with the father of my children and hope I will fall in love again or leave him? -Emma 
Everyone goes through stress to different degrees, obligations of children and finances are a big stresses that almost everyone goes through. We can either walk away or find a way to deal with it. However, it is never easy. If stress of children were an issue it is understanding and care that is needed to find progress. The aspect of keeping a secret relationship going on I feel is the reason a marriage does not work is infidelity not children. It is true we all need to take part in a child s growth but a healthy environment is almost as important. If you decide to end the marriage do not blame him, tell him the truth. All marriages have ups and downs, that is how we learn. I feel it can work with the help of higher power. By the way, working does make an individual tired, this I know.

I dated guy for two years that I genuinely believe to be my soul mate. From our first date, I knew we had something special and different. We moved in together a year ago and our relationship slowly fell apart during that time. He ended up breaking up with me in July saying that "his feelings aren't as strong anymore" and that "our love did not grow" over the year. I am starting to question our entire relationship. Did he ever love me? Is there any chance of reconciliation for us? How could I be so certain that we aren't meant to be and he feel so opposite? I feel so confused. -Kris 
Dating and a living together relationship are very different, just as romance and reality. A lot of couples stop doing things together once the relationship is established. Just like all things that keep our interest growing relationships must be nurtured, it is the memories of dating and enjoyable times that keep a relationship going; as we grow individually we also grow as a couple. I feel you and he will have one more chance but you and he have to schedule a date go out and have fun together when the time is right and convenient for both of you. Marriages are there to live life together; he did not lose his love for you, it only evolved. He does miss you and he loves you, only not the disagreements. Three months will pass, then another chance.

I have been dating this guys for about a month. We went away camping for the evening alone and it was one of the most romantic nights of my life. I felt a definite connection. I am pretty sure he felt it too. Ever since that night, I have heard from him rarely. When he does contact he is flirty, but never follows through with a meeting. How does he feel about me? -Melissa
I feel he is overwhelmed; I do not feel that he was prepared for a relationship. After the relationship has lasted two months or more, then you and he will get to know each other better. He does like you but he is overwhelmed and it will take a little more time for he to relax a bit. I feel you and he went through all the benefit of a relationships before you really knew each other first however, the love you have for each other is real, in all probability it will work.

Love Questions: Posted November 30th, 2015

I have been in a long-term, off and on relationship with many ups and downs. Will this relationship become committed? -Tywanna
t will not become committed the way things are now. The habit or pattern of on again off again relationships show that one or both of the parties involved are not sure about the relationship and I feel you have had a lot of time. The only way to proceed to a higher level is to consciously want the relationship to work. I feel strongly the time you have parted served a stronger purpose. If it does not change it is destined to fail or more. It appears that you and he are attempting to change your relationship; I can say the affirming your relationship and desire to be a couple to higher power is a perfect place to start. If your relationship does not change, the next time you part will be permanent.

I have been seeing a man I've known for over 10 years off and on for 2 and a half years now. When we first started seeing each other we were both separated but both have gotten divorced in 2012. We saw a lot of each other in the beginning and it felt like he was my soul mate and he was brought back in my life as a second chance for us. Then he started getting distant. He says he is not ready for a relationship he is scared and that he loves me there is no one else he is just not ready and I am pressuring him. He says he going to do things for me but doesn't follow through and when I bring it up he gets mad. He says it is not just about sex with me but I can't help but feel that way because he is so distant. When I pull away he always contacts me and asks why I don't call. I am confused is he seeing someone else? Are we ever going to get past this roller coaster and really be a couple? Please help me I'm in love and confused. -Ayana
You found each other when you did need each other; that and opening up to each other bonded you to each other, you fell in love. I feel you and also he need the strength to make the changes you needed to. Usually the last thing a man wants to do is be in another committed relationship after he deals with a bad one; this man is going through some very difficult times with some one that once loved him, even though he is the cause, it does come with problems. You being in a similar situation, that you did know would be hard. First you and also he must deal with ending your marriages on your own, then you will find each other happy and content. After four months you will show a greater enthusiasm in laughing again and so will he but not now.

Can you tell me if we will be getting married this October? I want to make sure that is a good month to get married, or is another month better? Do you think it will last? -Kathie
Yes, you will be getting married and the time you have chosen is perfect. I do feel the marriage will be long-lasting and happy. I also feel you and he love each other very much. As long as you and he are realistic and maintain the vows of your marriage, you will do just fine. A good and growing friendship has started already; I do see a loving and supportive relationship. Enjoy.

Love Questions: Posted November 23rd, 2015

I have seeing someone for almost 3 years now but have known him 14 years. We dated briefly years ago but married other people. During our marriages we never saw each other. We found each other again two years ago and discovered we were both separated and started seeing each other again. At first we saw each other all the time but when we got our divorces he became distant. It's been up and down ever since. He claims he loves me and there is no one else but his actions show different. He says he is not ready for a relationship and he is scared. When I pull away he comes back I am confused. I am in love with him but don't know what do. Does he really love me? Will we ever have a real relationship? Is there someone else? -Ayans
He has not come to terms with his divorce; he feels it was his fault. He made some sort of mistake or meant to feel guilty about a mistake being made, the relationship that is the subject of your question, cannot start until he comes to terms with his divorce. Now he is depressed, disappointed and going through a bargaining process ( if I only did this or that, or if the situation was different from how he perceives it ) to make a long story short, he is not over the divorce; he feels he suffered a great loss and the divorce caused problems in his life. It is not the right time to ask about a more committed or more structured relationship. He thought he had a marriage that would last and withstand; it did not. It is very hard to feel someone that you love and feel they love you would not listen to you or have anything to do with you. Everyone goes through this but he has not accepted it. He does love you and cares for you very much but do not become this mans counselor, it will not work. It will take about four months for him to see clearly and deal with reality, after and not before a relationship will be new and welcome. He pretty much feels he is still married, he is learning every day how to deal with his divorce. This is not the time to bring a deeper relation up; he will, in a few months.

My heart, soul, and mind has a burning desire to have a love, relationship, and marriage. I have been single for 2 years. -Sallie
Remember good things come to those who wait. There was a task that you needed to accomplish or handle only in your own way; congratulations I feel you have succeeded. In the process you have become much more defined about the type you prefer and the qualities that you like in another. I feel strongly that you and the other individual will find each other; you see, he has been looking for a person just like you. You will not be looking, nor the other however, you will come into contact regarding a cause or important project. I do feel it ( a relationship ) will last. After this meeting you will believe in love at first sight.

Love Questions: Posted November 16th, 2015

I want to know if my wife is having an affair and if I know this person. How long is it going on for? -Indran
I do not feel that anything is going on behind your back however, I do feel that the marriage is almost to the point of collapse. I also see your communication with each other is not really there. My best advise and what needs to occur is counseling. If you and she no longer care for and love each other, then it would be easy. You as she see things as different and no longer want to speak to each other, this is primarily the reason that you feel that she is doing things behind your back; I can tell she is a lot more controlled and to smart for that to occur. She knows the marriage is in trouble and is determined for it not to be completely her fault. I feel strongly that your spirituality would save the marriage. The thing is you still love each other uniquely and this is the only chance I see.

Can you please let me know if the person that I am in love being faithful to me? Is he planning a weekend trip with another woman? -Michele
our relationship needs definition and clarity. I do not see him as wanting to get away with anyone. I would suggest that you and he discuss what type of a relationship you have. If you feel and hear him saying that he loves you; you need to follow your feelings. You and he seem to be uninformed about a lot of things; this needs to change.

Will my ex return and try and patch things up or will I find someone new who actually wants a relationship? I love him but I can't keep taking him back to go through the same thing again.
-Dianna

I feel that your ex will always love you; you and he did have a special connection with each other. You and he do love each other, in different ways; you always will. I feel you tried and he also tried but you and he were still unhappy. The reason that you and he keep braking up, is the exact reason. People get very tiered of making mistakes and, people who learn will not repeat a harmful past. Something is not working; he will wait some time but eventually call and make his case. He is only checking that you miss him. And even though he also misses you; he will wait about four months.

Love Questions: Posted November 9th, 2015

Thinking about powerful energy but I don’t trust it. Why is it there? Does he feel the same? -Lana 
We can always interpret our own feelings but we can not make the mistake that we can read an others. Attraction happens for several reasons looks, personality, and content of personality. I can tell that he is well aware of your liking of him and it makes him feel very good. You and he will get together and talk about a lot of different subjects; you must listen very carefully. He will let you know that he has liked you as well for a long time but you must be aware of barriers. Because if you and he decide to get together any barriers will be real and pronounced. You may find that wishes do come true but sometimes not as perfect as we would like. Investigate and find what is going to benefit you in life and how other see you.

I'm 20 years old and have never had a real boyfriend. I've only been on one date and that was four years ago. Will I ever find that person that I'm looking for? When will I be married and will he have the same beliefs as me? Will I have a happy marriage? -Ciera 
You do understand that life is very unpredictable and that there are thousands of people who are in similar situations. Life is a process and nobody has the perfect idea. You are very defined in a lot of ways. I also feel strongly that you are extremely smart. Between the age of twenty three and twenty six, you will meet a man who has a life similar to yours and feels as you about the future. You will both realize that the journey is more important then the destination. I do see you and he sharing the all that life has to offer. You will always stay close to the water, which inspires you.

Recently my husband left me and is now with a woman 13 years younger than him. We have a 1 year old daughter and his 15 year old daughter was living with us too. Will he realize his mistake and return to me? -Amanda 
Even now he is regretting his actions, he can not help but miss his family. I feel strongly that the pressures of living a lie just got the better of him. Fantasy is healthy as long as we remember that a fantasy is just that, a fantasy. Even though he has done this, he did not remember the legal aspect of running away with another. He does now, and it’s causing a lot of stress on him and it is building up. We all make mistakes, however we also learn about consequences. He will contact you and only talk about how much he misses all of you, he will also tell you that he still loves you and he has made a big mistake ( within three months ); the Vow to God has been broken, as well as your heart and it will take a lot to bring it back however, if the love is still present and the Vows redone in a spiritual way the possibility is very good that you will give life together another try. Do not try to heal the past, it will not work; attempt to see the future in a positive way.

Love Questions: Posted November 2nd, 2015

I've been in love with a guy for years and he knows. Will we be more than friends? -Odette 
He has always been complimented by your attention to him, and yes, he has realized you like him, and has for a while. There is some barrier to establishing a relationship, some thing that may change in the coming months. He has had a lot of time to think about this and for some reason he has felt it is not a good idea. Also, he has a great deal of affection toward you but, does not think it would be a good idea. If you can not see a reason, it is because it is not about you. His hesitancy is about things you are not aware off, right now. You and he can be wonderful friends and get to know each other better. I do feel however, things will be more in your favor in about a year.

Will me and my ex boyfriend Kevin be together again? -Michelle 
I feel strongly that after a few months you and he will give your relationship one more chance. It is evident to people around you and also he, that you are both unhappy. I also feel that it will take two months to be comfortable enough to talk, and open up the way you use to. What ever the reason was, if your relationship comes back, it must be stronger. You and he have gone to a higher level one in which you consider each other and your situations in life. You and he will give things another try but things are real now.

I have been on this one track mind of waiting for my soul mate. I've had several heartbreaks as they moved on and married and I'm... stuck in a time capsule. I no longer have feelings for these guys as I feel I'm emotionally, physically ( so-so), spiritually and energy ready to meet this guy. Can I have assurance and possibly description of what he's like? -Roxanna 
There are no assurances that any relationship will work. There are several components including time, financial situation, location, and the most important, common vision of the future. There are short term relationships that are very intense and, long term relationships that are more like partnerships with very little romance. Relationships are like fingerprints, no are the same. As we carry on with life we become more and more defined (desires, dreams, needs and, reality all evolve, as do our bodies). I feel you are a very defined woman and know what you want and what you do not want; I feel this is great. By this time next year you will be in a new relationship and you will recognize him by his way of looking at life, he will be spiritual but not religious. This is a well liked person by all that know him, as you are.

Love Questions: Posted October 26th, 2015

Guy I work with once was my friend but I cooled it off because I was not sure of his true intentions. Did I make the right decision? Does he care for me at all or am I imagining it all? -Eliza 
A physical attraction is usually the first reaction to another person that we become attracted to. I feel strongly that you and he built up trust and friendship, and just moved too fast ( this can be confusing ). You must always follow your feelings, they are present to protect you form any possible harm. Being that you and he were friends first, It would be very possible to rekindle your friendship and talk things out. I do feel after a friendship is started again the subject of a relationship will come back however, you must remain friends for a least three months and get to know each other better and more completely.

I'm turning 40 years old by end of this year, single and never been married. I was wondering if you see me ever meeting my true love in this city (LA), get married and have a family here or do I need to move somewhere else to meet him? Where at? How is he like? Age/race/profession? When will I meet this person and if I'll ever have children with him? -Nikki 
I feel you will meet the one you see in your thoughts during a visit, This is a place that touches your heart from a long time ago, friends or family possibly both will create a magical feeling with in you. You will come home with a lingering felling. The person you will meet will be a friend of a friend. You will know him by his situation; it is as yours. I see this visit occurring with in the next few months; a lot of things will change but most important is your ability to relax and enjoy all life has to offer, including a good and realistic relationship. He loves to make people feel good and is a very nice individual.

Will “F” and I ever be a couple again? He had gone back to his ex wife but I’m still in love with him. I have always seen him as my soul mate and would love to have him back again. -Cherie 
If he was available and willing to apply the effort I would say soon, but he is not in that position. As in his situation many men and women will reconcile for different reasons. The aspect of marriage is not only a promise to God, it is a legal contract; it comes with advantages and obligations. This is why marriages are realistic and binding. Many individuals find it easier to reconcile the to go through the penalties of dissolving a marriage ( many people are in this position ). In this case he has a lot of unresolved feelings regarding the marriage. He does care for you and in a very romantic way, loves you. Allow him to try and make his marriage succeed; you will hear from him in about a month and he will try to explain his situation to you. After he does this, I feel you will understand his position better.

Love Questions: Posted October 19th, 2015

I have been in one sided love with this guy for 3 years now. I initiated contact last year. We had a brief relationship only this year and broke up recently. Will he come back to me? I am trying to move on but it hurts a lot and I feel very depressed. -Divya 
Since the beginning he never wanted to be in a relationship and really never considered himself in one. He does care for you and there is love in your relationship however, only you considered this a relationship, he did not. Or should I say he never acknowledged it. I do feel it was his attempt to avoid any responsibility for anything. You will hear from him but as far as getting back together; it would be very difficult considering his attitude. I do feel a change coming to him, one in which he accepts his feelings. It is impossible to be with someone for three years and not develop strong feelings. I do feel what is going on is termed avoidance behavior. Expect a call within four weeks.

My ex said he wanted to work things out but for two months he couldn't even ask me to go get coffee. I feel that I am the love of his life and that he will figure it out and come back to me. Am I right, or just delusional and headed for more heartbreak? -Liz 
I feel he is waiting for you to take part of the blame for what occurred. He really does not feel totally to blame, nor does he want to be the source of your discomfort. I do truly feel you and he can talk thing out; it is very important that this happens within the month. He does not want to be without you in his life, he is only wondering if you still feel the same. By losing communication with each other you have both a lot of unanswered questions. He will attempt to return to you when all the anger, or most of it has run its course.

Will me and Greg get back together? I love him but he seem like he has moved on. I miss him. -Venus  
He feels that you are not taking the relations seriously; it appears that he has been realizing how deep his feeling are for you. He sees a complete relationship, he has always been attracted to you and he still is; he also feels that you and he are meant for each other. This man loves you very much and is hurt that you have moved on so easy. After a good talk and being honest with each other I do feel you and he would want to try the relationship one more time. I do feel strongly that a misunderstanding is happening. Enjoy a dinner together and talk in turn and you are almost there.

Love Questions: Posted October 12th, 2015

My boyfriend Shakeeb broke up with me claiming he doesn't love me anymore. However I want to know if he does and is he coming back to me? -Thahmina 
There are several of types of love, and a process to all. I feel strongly that you and he like each other very much and do love each other in different ways. He is not ready or willing to create a relationship with anyone, much less a long term relationship. This man has goals he needs to meet, and things he needs to do. He does not know if he can accomplish these things he has on his mind alone much less with another. You can be wonderful friends if you get to the point where you can speak to each other. Believe me, he is as disappointed as you.

I have been to see a psychic recently and she said that me and my ex girlfriend would definitely get back together but at the moment I just cannot see it happening. So my question is, will I get back with my ex girlfriend soon? -Steven 
You and she will communicate however, the same issue will be present. I do feel you and she are on a different path in life, you met each other along the way. You can be overwhelmed for a long time and eventually feel that you have wasted a lot of your time but, such is life. She does not feel she can go into the future on her own and, is still seeking out her future on her own. I feel you are a little more defined and more sure about what you want out of life. You will have a conversation with her, if you do not contact her; in any way. Right now she is sure only about her current situation you are starting to live in the future; please don’t waste you time.

Please tell me if my husband will return to me and our children. He left me for a girl 13 years younger than him. I still love him and want to save our marriage. -Amanda 
The marriage was over the first time he cheated, the vows were broken. And the vows could bring you back together. The marriage for you or the maintaining of the sacred vows is a very big compliment to you and your realizing things could be saved. I do feel the relationship is over but if both desire this it could work; but things have to start all over including and most important the vows. He will contact you when his affair is over but he will not know how to proceed. There is to much water under the bridge to solve problems now, I do feel he will find a way to say he made a mistake and that he has always loved you and the child. If you and he just fall together again it will not work and the attempt will fail within three months. Everyone makes mistakes but this was a total betrayal. I do feel it is possible to save your marriage but it’s going to be hard and take time. The vows must be done over and this time understanding is essential.

Love Questions: Posted October 5th, 2015

I have had my heart broken so many times and given up on the whole idea of love but would like to know will I find love? -Rebecca 
Considering your sign you have most likely broke a few harts your self. In this country we have a lot of choices; and with that comes many ups and downs. Your destiny is to have a loving family and, that takes time. The person we choose to spend our life with has everything to do with a happy life. It is not a good idea to say I love you, unless you really mean it and, do not believe everything you hear; a lot of men will find a way to blame others when they can not move in a certain direction. Good things come to those who wait. I see you in a successful relationship by this time next year. You need to first like and love yourself, to really know what you want. You will never be alone, this is definite. You have a great deal to offer the correct person, with matching views about how life should be and, how to pursue it.

My ex boyfriend Kevin broke up with me 7 months ago for an older women. He recently contacted me apologizing for what he done, I forgave him and decided to just be friends (for the time being anyway) I was scared to let him in so easily but I don't know if he realized that. He agreed to hangout and catch up on everything. Well that never happened and it was the last I heard from him again. After many texts explaining to him that I want to put things in the past and try again I still got no response back. Yesterday, I saw pictures with him and the older women... Why is he ignoring me? Do you see us together again? I feel like I didn't handle things the right way when he contacted me and I drew him away once again. -Ayla 
Do not fret, you did what most would do, I realize that you feel that you love him but, a person that feels the same would not be in this position. I feel strongly that you and the older woman are both operating on false information. He is telling you and she different stories, what he does not know is that the older women will take him at his word and, most likely he will have you and she very upset and take none of the blame. When she lets him go, he will attempt to return to you however, the best way to predict the future is to look at the past.

I would like to know who is my soul mate which of these guys, there are two guys who seem to be great, but. I need to know is (T) the one? I miss him a lot, and we haven't talked in some months, and on the other hand there's Sky he seems loving and caring, but I don't know what to do, and I need your help please! -Candice 
A soul mate (spiritual) is only brought to you the rest is up to you. If you feel that one of these men could be your soul mate, I don not think earthier one is a soul mate, you would know for sure. As in life we were with God before we were born and after we go, what we do is up to us. The path is shown but, the walk is ours. First I realize how deeply you feel about both o9f these men. If there is no reason such as an engagement, I feel you are rushing to a decision when you are not ready. Real love cannot be rushed, it evolves. But, I do see you with S for a long time, I also see you as having a very happy and successful year. It is very important that you do not continue to judge only from your perspective, but all concerned. You will have a wonderful holiday season, enjoy.

Love Questions: Posted September 28th, 2015

Will I get back together with my ex girlfriend? -Matt 
If you leave her alone for now it will give her time to think and define her feelings. I feel that right now she is very confused and finding it difficult to define her feelings. She needs a little time to see if she wants to try again. Depending on what caused the break-up in the first place. For some reason I feel you and she acted very quickly and really did not think about your actions or words. If you give her time she will call you to discuses what happened. This would be your chance to prove your true love for her. I will give you and she about two months to repair any problems but, first they must be acknowledged.

Is the man currently in my life the one I am destined to be with or should I continue my journey alone? -Jeanne 
You know this man will do any thing for the sake of your relationship. I feel he wants to make you happy and, he does feel you love him as much. If there are no problems in the relationship first, this is rare. It is really up to you at this point; does he make you feel happy, loved, and safe? I feel strongly that he does truly love you; if you see some changes would be called for, just ask him, as I said your happiness is very important to him and he will listen. I do not see you as being alone in life, you will always be loved.

I am struggling with a past breakup that occurred over 6 months ago. I just need to know if she will come back or if I need to let go even though it's making me miserable. -Christina 
A relationship is between two people and both must agree. I feel strongly that she needs some time to make correct choices for her self. I feel that she would talk to you, but talking becomes arguing and that is what she is avoiding. You and she will talk after a while and please listen to what she is saying to you. Remember, to talk you must become friends first. Things between you two must be comfortable, and for some reason they are not. It would be best to carry on with life and be happy. She does have a lot of work to do.

Love Questions: Posted September 21st, 2015

I want to know if my wife Kristen will love me again and come back to me. -Barry 
I do feel that she will always love you but, that is not the issue. I do feel strongly that she felt she had no other alternative. This relationship has you and also she going through a lot of stress, for a long time. She thought this out for a while, and hoped the relationship would heal itself, it did not. You must eliminate contact by phone and any other way, allow her to think and define her feelings. When she initiates the communication do not approach the situation with romance, it will back fire. She wants to hear that you have identified the issue or issues and wish to repair the marriage however, the issue the caused the separation must be identified and dealt with. I do feel that she will listen to what you need to say to her after you start to deal with the issues. The vows of your marriage mean a lot to her. She does miss you but not the problems in the relationship. I also feel that she is embarrassed that this has occurred, it does not look good to family and friends. If your approach is appropriate, she will listen. The love is still there.

Will I be in a loving relationship with someone who supports me in my efforts and will want to be there for my kids? -Dianna 
You have a wonderful way about you and will meet a person who wants what you do out of life. It is very important to express your desire at the right time and not get involved with a man that does not want what you do. You have a magnetic personality and are very defined about how you see your future. Keep that image with you and make it stronger with your prayers and meditations. One way that you will recognize him is that he loves to play the guitar, you will meet as a result of a beach party or an out door bbq. He also is single and was in a very serious relationship that ended abruptly; he has had a sense of loss that he is dealing with, and you can help.

I want to know if the guy I like wants to start seeing me and be my boyfriend? -Melanie 
I feel that he does like you. He would like to get to know you better, to see if you have compatible personalities. This guy is a bit shy, even though he does not seem so. After you and he get to know each other better then you and also he will know a little better if a relationship is what is wanted by you and also he; I do feel strongly the you and he will like each other very much and after three months or so you will both be certain that you want each other in your lives. Any atmosphere where music is playing will compliment you time with each other and create a good and memorable time.

Love Questions: Posted September 14th, 2015

I have not had the most luck in love, and am hoping to find out about when I will experience such a thing as being in love. There is a man I am speaking with right now, could this lead to something? -Melanie
There are a lot of types of love however, I do feel you are referring to romantic love. Within the year you will meet someone that you will feel love for, It will be a feeling that shows you about your views of love. When this occurs you will know it. It is very important to choose the individual that sees the near future as you see it. It is also very important to be friends and conscious of each others sensitivities. The man that you are talking to now has very good intentions and likes talking to you very much and wishes to continue seeing you. Love will enter your life before you realize it; looks like a very active year.

Will my husband come home? We've been separated for 1 month and a half and have a baby together.
-Jacqueline 
You will hear from him in about two weeks. The biggest part of his conversation with you is going to be about what he is going through and how he responds to stress, or how he has been responding. He will let you know in so many words that pressure in his life has been building up; this is not so much about you as it is his career. Right now he has no idea if you are mad, sad, or a bit of both; he does realize how embarrassing this situation is for you. I do feel that he does love you and is trying to succeed in life. He is also embarrassed by the situation you and he are in. I do see you and he and your child as being together and happy. He does miss you and your child very much however, he has no idea of what to say; he only knows he loves you and wants to do good in life. If you and he can get through the next three months, this will prove to be a very happy and long term relationship.

There is an older woman that I like. We do not know each other very well but I feel a strong connection with her. My question is how does she feel about me? I’m afraid to make a move because I don't know how she would take it. I have the worst luck with love. Any advice? Thank you in advance! -Vero 
I feel strongly that this older woman does like you very much however, I do not feel she realizes how you feel toward her. She would be in a better position to respond favorably in a very comfortable atmosphere such as a nice restaurant etc. Get to know this woman better and take things slow. I do see a good friendship between you two that can turn into something more. I believe she would like to get to know you. Try not to make her uncomfortable by stating your undying love for her; this would result in her not being able to talk as openly as she would have been. You and she have a lot in common and it can be a great deal of fun finding these things.

Love Questions: Posted September 7th, 2015

I have been in a relationship with a taurus guy for almost 2 years now he wants to move back to cape town alone does he really love me or is there someone else will I meet someone special soon I would like to get married one day again will he come back to me. -Ansie 
Your relationship is becoming very complex and obviously more committed. Taurus men are very committed to their career and as he will go where it leads this is one reason that Taurus is considered to be the best sign to work with or for. I feel that you will not make this move, there are several opportunities that will enter your life very fast. For this relationship to last there must be a mutual respect for each others careers. You will always have romantic opportunities through your life and it is something you should not worry about. After the holiday season you will have a clear view of where to go and how to follow your future in the way that is best for you.

A year and a half ago I met a woman that became my best friend we have incredible chemistry we have looked at each other and agreed what we have never gets old. We have totally loved one another bit do to misunderstandings have not talked in over a month. Will I be together with this woman again? Or will she leave my life? -Norman 
She does feel that there may be some issues that need to be addressed. After some time to think I feel she will want to speak to you. As far as the relationship, she feels there is a misunderstanding. She putting no blame as to why, but she may want to move slower. Everyone needs time to reflect and see things in perspective. You and she have a great deal of affection for each other but it will only last and grow if you are good to each other.

Who will I end up with the ex from 30 yrs ago or the guy I just met another psychic claims it the one from long ago! We have a daughter together! -Karen 
I do feel strongly that after a talk and catching up with each other, you will find that he has gone through some sort of difficult time, he is fine but this was a life changing evident. There will be a strong tendency to reflect on the past. You will find that he often thinks of you (which will be a topic of conversation). It will be that you and also he will be very happy to hear from you and you may well look at life in the same way. This has the tendency to move quickly, pace yourselves and all will be fine.

Love Questions: Posted August 31st, 2015

My relationship ended about two months ago with a man who I believe is my twin flame. I would like to know if you sense if he has any interest in healing this relationship and getting back together at some point?
-Rachel 

I do feel you will have a chance to talk to him on the phone within the next month and a half. I do feel that your feelings will stay strong but not as strong as before. The possibility of re-starting the relationship will exist however, with a realization of the future; and the time. I don’t feel you and he have thought about the future with each other. I do not feel your plans are the same and I do see him as trying hard for the next few years, it will be hard but worth it. As for you, I see you travailing as a part of your career; you will like it a lot. You can be great friends unless it’s to soon. I also feel there will be a chance again, in the future.

I am happily married. However, for the past 6 months I have been having strong feelings about an ex. I wanted to know why? Is he thinking of me? I just can't shake him out of my mind. It's in my head and my gut. I always felt spiritually connected with this ex and maybe that's why? -Katrina 
He also feels a strong connection with you however, to him it is a lesson. As human we develop connections to others, at different levels of intensity, some we retain all our lives. Life is about connections and disconnections, reality and illusion, some very strong. He often thinks of you. I fell you and he will meet one day and laugh at the past and it’s simplicity. He wishes a happy and meaningful life for you and very much wants you to be content. Your paths did cross and you and he parted leaving each other better then before. In relationships we will forget the problems, while we emphasize and remember the positive times; he does the same thing.

Can you see when G and I will get back together? I really do feel we are meant to be. -Sarah 
I feel it will be 90 days at least, and only if the issue that caused you and he to part, is resolved. I also feel strongly that this separation has taken you two to a more realistic way of looking at things. One thing that is certain is that he has done a lot of thinking and realizes that he misses you; you and he have grown closer than you realize. People need to reflect on their situation once and a while. He does not want you to be upset with him and to listen to him for a while. If others are interfering with your relationships. It’s time to make choices; this also applies to him.

Love Questions: Posted August 24th, 2015

I'm a married woman who's husband is deployed. I started having physical relations with another man. Something physical has now turned into something a little more. I know it has to end and I know it will. I'm just so confused. I tried breaking it off a couple of times but we keep coming back to each other. The connection I have with this new guy is something I never felt. If I had drawn up my dream guy physically he is exactly him. These feelings I have are all new. I just recently started realizing the connection. It's like I'm drawn to him. We don't talk about our feelings for each other so I have idea if they are mutual. Is this new guy toxic for me? -Monique
Yes. You are a married woman and should know better. The marriage is over, the vows have been broken. This man is not going to change anytime soon and most men will not get involved with a married woman, there are a lot of problems involved. Your relationship or affair with him did little for him but ruined your marriage. The time to realize a mistake is before it happens not after. Be sure not to blame your husband for your indiscretion. I do feel the marriage can be repaired but I do not feel the desire. It would be better if your husband heard this form you rather, the somebody else, he will be upset but, mostly hurt. He does really love you. I feel you will be surprised by his reaction.

My partner and I broke up a month ago due to me having depression and drinking. He gave me many chances before. We were very much in love and we connected and always knew what the other was thinking. He gave me one last chance and I drank and said some awful things and he will not communicate with me at all. I've taken steps to stop drinking and turn my life around but he still won't talk to me. I asked him a final time the other day if we could try and take little steps and work at maybe getting back together. I've still not heard from him even though I know he's reading my texts. I don't know what to do now. -Nicola 
I definitely feel a lot of love coming from him towards you. I also feel strongly that he has no idea what to do, he cannot see you hurting yourself over and over. First of all the source will be the drinking and unpredictable behavior, this separation is just one example. I see you and he finding the issues, or excepting the real issues. If a person loves alcohol they can not love another person, it does not work. There are several thousand people in prison for this exact reason and several people who have been hurt seriously or killed. I see you making a choice, it should be simple. Once the drinking and the behavior ( friends and places associated with drinking; that is what I mean by behavior) associated with it, stop; he will enter your life again. He does love you very much and will be out of your life completely if required. Once the problem is solved ( no matter how long it takes) it will be a life long effort. I feel you are a strong woman, and you can do this for yourself, nobody else. I can see the problem with relationships and the depression dissolved once the drinking stops; for yourself, everything else is secondary. I also feel strongly that you will succeed. Not being one of the hundreds of thousands that have lost everything love, money, and health, mental and physical. It is very worth it, for you and anybody. I see you as being very happy in life; once you make a choice.

I was good friends and emailing a guy I used to work with almost every day. We both liked the same baseball team; talked sports. Things were great. I supported him looking for a second job. He was very appreciative, thanked me etc. No problems. He usually emailed me about problems with his new job, etc. Things seemed great. All of a sudden a month ago he stopped emailing. I haven't bothered him. What is going on? -Diane
I feel to a great extent he is not communicating purposely. I do not feel there is any sort of problem that you need to worry about. He is starting to develop strong feelings for you and I feel this is his way of seeing if you will miss him, how will you react? There is a law of behavior that indicates that deprivation creates motivation. By the time you receive this response he will have contacted you to explain that he has been very busy, he also fells that he needs to be at his best when around you, rested and clean; being ready when he sees you is very important to him, at this stage of your relationship. He is only seeing what your reaction will be. I would advise you to inform him that contact needs to be maintained.

Love Questions: Posted August 17th, 2015

4 years ago I had met a young woman in college. A few months later she had become my Taekwondo instructor. Anyways, making a long story short. I had fallen in love with her. My insides are telling me she feels the same, but she is quit a few years younger then I. Does she want me and will we ever be together? -Frank 
I do feel that she thinks you’re a good person, I also, feel she is aware of your feelings. She may be a little confused that you have never asked her out or at least coffee. I feel she would accept an dinner date or something like a exhibition fight. After getting to know each other better then you and she can better decide if dating will work for you and her. I do feel she has had problems in the past with relationships and will need time to feel comfortable. I do not see age as a barrier; just be yourself and that should be good enough. I also feel she would love to go dancing, she is very smart and is a very capable woman; please remember her time is very valuable.

My daughter and her husband of 4 years have recently separated and are living in separate homes. They don't have a lot of money right now and my two grandsons currently live with their father. I had an intense dream about them all last night that my daughter was willing to toss them all away while I was yelling and picking up my grandsons. Will they ever get back together? -Joy 
Your daughter was not ready for a marriage with children and I do not feel he was earthier. She ( your daughter ) did not expect all the stress, I do feel she was over worked (doing all the work by herself). It would be nice for the children sake, but she has no desire to go back to him. She will have a lot of disappointment and embarrassment over the situation. I do not feel that she is ready to tell you all that happened. Your daughter will need help and support the next few months, Please help her as much as you can; she needs it. People need help sometimes and you are about the only person she trusts. I do not feel they will reunite and that might be a good idea for her.

Is my husband having an affair or interested In another woman? If so, when does he see her and do they work together? How often do they see each other and are they intimate? -Kim 
I feel strongly that your husband is or has been for a while, very conscious of your suspicion, as is several people. I do not feel that your husband has a desire for another; however, the accusation is enough to start something much worse. Your husband is not a stupid man and I do not really feel he is seeing another. When people do not talk to each other it’s easy to blame outside sources. You and he must start communicating so you can fully understand each other. If this does not happen you will be divorced within the next seven months. You and he do love each other but forgot how to express it.

Love Questions: Posted August 10th, 2015

I have been dating this guys for about a month. We went away camping for the evening alone, and it was one of the most romantic nights of my life. I felt a definite connection. I am pretty sure he felt it too. Ever since that night, I have heard from him rarely. When he does contact he is flinty, but never follows through with a meeting. How does he feel about me? -Melissa 
I do sense that he is very taken with you but; he is very insecure in being in a relationship. This insecurity will fade with time and will not last. He is attempting to see if you miss him; how will you react? After three months I see you and he being very comfortable with each other. He likes you very much but is more concerned if you like him. At this phase he likes to be as prepared as possible; He is very conscious of your opinion of him. Considering how you feel about each other and that you nor he would ever do anything to harm one another. I do not feel there is anybody else ( as far as a woman ) that he is involved with. You will continue to like each other more and more and; by this time next year you will be making plans as a couple. I see the happiness as never ending, enjoy.

I dated guy for two years that I genuinely believe to be my soul mate. From our first date, I knew we had something special and different. We moved in together a year ago and our relationship slowly fell apart during that time. He ended up breaking up with me in July staying that "his feelings aren't as strong anymore" and that "our love did not grow" over the year. I am starting to question our entire relationship. Did he ever love me? Is there any chance of reconciliation for us? How could I be so certain that we aren't meant to be and he feel so opposite? I feel so confused. -Kris 
When you and he met you were each very happy with each other but, I do feel you and he were moving too fast. It is not easy to live with another and takes time to assimilate. You and he felt very certain about each other and I feel you and he loved each other. The romantic phase is great and it feels unique and between two it is; it is a time to bond and derive pleasure in learning about each other. In the realistic phase of love people will see if they are compatible for more then a short time. I feel you and he did move too fast and cheated yourself out of having fun and establishing happy memories. I do feel giving things a try is benefit a lot of people do not enjoy. For every relationship that works there are a million that do not. I do feel he was being honest. I do feel strongly that you and he love each other in your own way and you will become good friends but that is all.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 12 years and have a 16 month old son and another on the way. I don't feel I love him anymore. I feel I should stay with him because of our children and I want to have feelings for him again, but he seems to have changed and has a very bad temper, he blames it on stress of having a baby. But I also have feelings for another guy I've known for years and feel like I want to be with him. He feels the same. Do I stay with the father of my children and hope I will fall in love again or leave him? -Emma 
After 12 years you and your boyfriend would be considered to be married. There is a need for your boyfriend to seek some sort of advise or counseling regarding the stress in his life; he will find sources and solutions. Many men go through pressure in handling children because of the financial obligation, luckily this will pass soon; around November. It is common to have these thoughts in your condition. He does love you and he feels you love him as well; most marriages don’t even last 12 years and I am positive you know each other very, very good. With another on your mind you will never resolve this issue. I feel strongly that your relationship will continue as your love for each other. Around the holiday season you and he will realize just how important you are to each other; this will occur even faster if you and he relive the joy of each other, and how much you have been through together. You and he have been brought together to be with each other; give it some good time.

Love Questions: Posted August 3rd, 2015

My husband had an affair on me for 6 months with a woman who a psychic had told me had put a spell on him. After lots of pain, time and money spent. I think I've finally won. However, I've been talking to an ex boyfriend from years ago and I think I'm starting to fall for him again. I started talking to him about 3 weeks ago when I was hurt by my husband still talking to this woman. Now, I believe my husband is actually done for good with this woman and I'm unsure what it is that I want. My question is, can you please help me to know what these two different men's feelings are for me? -Ashley 
Your husband feels there is a problem but that it can be resolved, he has made the mistake of taking it to some one else, you have done the same. The ex boyfriend feels you are having major problems with your marriage. He does like you but he feels you are looking for a shoulder to cry on. I do not see a long term relationship; he is thinking in terms of days. As soon as he had the affair the marriage was over, six month is a relationship not just seeing someone. You need time apart to see if you really want to be married. There is to much water under the bridge, if you and he want to be together you need to grow up; you have each made mistakes. For some reason you want to be together; If you and he want a happy life it is time to act, if you wait to long there will be no other chance for your relationship.

My husband and I have been together for 12 years. Last year things seemed very odd. I thought it was due to him turning 40 and about to retire from the Army. Later in the year, I started having, almost panic attacks, the feeling that something horribly wrong was about to happen. In January, the feeling was overwhelming, I went to his computer, amazingly, he had left it unlocked, I clicked on the history and found that for three months he had been on a local dating site. There wasn't much activity on page. He used his work email so I couldn't see if he was sending, receiving, meeting, talking, or texting these women. I honestly thought I would find emails or messages from his co-worker, a female Soldier named Shannon. He claims that he didn't meet or talk to anyone from the dating site. That he "got caught up in it". He found it exciting that women might be interested in him. I guess an EGO trip, if he's telling the truth. I still feel that he and Shannon had an affair or maybe it was someone who looked like her. I don't have the income to just up and leave. I need closure. To know if he was really seeing someone. -Connie 
I do not feel that marriage is over, things have not gone to far. I do feel your communication with each other is almost gone. You have become accustom to life with out each other. The suspicion and uncertainty is something that should have been resolved before the marriage not after. As far as turning 40, he has accomplished a lot for his age and will have opportunities in his life still to come. You and he have a good future in front of you with each other. You and he will have three months to repair the marriage. Let him know how bad it feels when turns to others for support. Now you and he have the time to do things right; its time to celebrate your marriage, and each other, the love between you two; it is still there but its falling asleep, wake it up.

I am still in love with my ex husband. Is there a possibility for us to get back together in the future? -Danche 
I feel you and he will always love each other and that he will always wish the best for you however, he is very tired and is still not completely over the divorce; it was harder on him then you realize. There was a lot of unspoken words that you and also he just could not say at the time. The divorce caused problems for you, he knows that but he also feels that nobody was concerned about him at the time. He misses you and the times you and he shared together. I do feel strongly that there is a chance for you and he however, I would advise starting all over again talking on the phone, dating, enjoying each others company. The past must be overcome to enjoy the future together. If you and he can get to the point of redoing your vows in a very real way, understanding what the vows mean and a mutual desire to try again; then yes.

Love Questions: Posted July 27th, 2015

I am happily married. However, for the past 6 months I have been having strong feelings about an ex. I wanted to know why. Is he thinking of me? I just can't shake him out of my mind. It's in my head and my gut. I always felt spiritually connected with this ex and maybe that's why. -Katrina 
In our modern society we meet a lot of people, we fall in love and this is magnified when the other feels the same way. Certain people in our lives we will never forget and we will remain connected in an emotional way. We as individuals mature, grow, and make mistakes along the way, and it is nice to have someone to be with and share conversation and issues. A lot of times in our lives we do not want things to change, but they do. You did love him and you felt he loved you and this was true at the time. In life we tend to forget the hard times and will see the good times only. You were and always will be connected to him and his memory; it was an experience you will never forget but it’s in the past. A new and wonderful time has entered your life and you are doing what we all do, remembering the good times. It is time to create some new memories with the one you love.

Can you see when G and I will get back together? I really do feel we are meant to be. -Sarah 
I do feel you will have the chance but remember you and he are in the realistic phase of love. With the correct effort and a lot of love I do feel you and he will succeed this time. He does miss you but not the confrontation. Certain behavior must stop or it will continue to get in your way. You and he will talk in about two months; he only wants to know if you have missed him. You and he are still not ready to be in a committed relationship but with work by you and he can make things right. I do feel you and he are right for each other and I do feel the love between you two has a wonderful chance, if done the right way.

I'm a married woman who's husband is deployed. I started having physical relations with another man. Something physical has now turned into something a little more. I know it has to end and I know it will. I'm just so confused. I tried breaking it off a couple of times but we keep coming back to each other. The connection I have with this new guy is something I’ve never felt. If I had drawn up my dream guy physically he is exactly him. These feelings I have are all new. I just recently started realizing the connection. It's like I'm drawn to him. We don't talk about our feelings for each other so I have no idea if they are mutual. Is this new guy toxic for me? -Monique 
Asking the question itself, Is he toxic for you; yes if you are married. I feel he is a nice man but you need to ask yourself. I feel strongly that in about four months you will be faced with a decision; will he stand by you or will he run away. He really does have great affection for you but you see, a big part of this is that it is a secret. You will be the one who has to deal with the situation. Please do not blame things on your husband for not being there; I do not feel that this new man will stand by you when things get hard but you cant blame him either. If you plan things for yourself and only yourself. The only thing that I can see is that the vows were broken and the only thing that will save your marriage is redoing the vows; if that is what you really want or if your husband even has the desire. No matter how you look at it this is a major problem for you but you are a strong woman and can get through this; just be honest with yourself.

Love Questions: Posted July 20th, 2015

Does my ex still care like he say he does and really want us together? -Uniqueka
He does care for you however, he does have a very romantic way of looking at things. I feel you are a bit more realistic about life and more mature in looking at reality. People sometimes get along great in the romantic phase but have an issue in the realistic phase of a relationship, it does take an active effort from both people involved. He does love you, and he always will. You and he have been through a lot with each other, you know each other and each others ways; during the next year you will get to know each other better and also understand each other in a deeper way.

I have been seeing this guy on and off for the past year I feel in love with him even though I never really wanted to, but I guess those things you don't plan they happen. However few months ago he started changing, pushing me away and I don't understand why. Is he in love with me and is there a future for us or is it time for me to walk away for good? -Maya 
He has some things he needs to take care of before he can devote more time and feel better. He feels pressure right now but that will change soon. This man cares for you more than you realize and he is very aware of your deep feelings for him, he like all of us, wants his life to be more in focus. I feel strongly that he will include you in his future; if that is what you want. Sometimes things take a little time and I also feel he is a traditional man, give him some time and I feel you will not be disappointed.

Hi James, is there romance coming up for me? I’m currently single with grown children and now would like some quality time with another person. -Jennifer 
I do feel you will meet a good person in about three months. This person will be involved with the holiday season; also some how involved with music. I feel this man also has grown children and wishes to meet someone. I sense that you and he will like each other very much and enjoy being with each other. Music will be the key.

Love Questions: Posted July 13th, 2015

Hi James, is there romance coming up for me? I’m currently single with grown children and now would like some quality time with another person. -Jennifer
There are a lot of people that feel as you, male and female. Time seems to be the issue. You are a very interesting person and you also possess a very magnetic personality. You will become very bored with a person that has nothing in common with you. I do see you in a happy relationship by this time next year. You are a very good judge of character and I know you will find the correct person for you and your life. You will know him by his concern for your happiness and well being, he will also be into airplanes. Your children want for you to be happy and safe and they support you, your happiness is what matters to them. The person you are to be with also will have a very good relationship with your adult children.

I have been separated from my wife and she has filed for divorce. I feel she still loves me and things will work out even with the change of events that has happened. I really love her and want her back in my life. Do I have a good chance of getting her back sooner then later because we have a son and I miss being around my family. I want to know will are love be better second time around. -David
There is a big difference between the time you were together then there is now. The love is still there but it has changed. She is very embarrassed by what happened and her family and friends know this. The first step is to talk with each other, patiently. You need to find out if she believes you and your intentions. I fell that she would like to see you but she is afraid that mistakes will occur again. I feel also that an intention to redo your vows is something she will listen to however, is that what you really want? It will be very difficult but possible with the right effort.

I'm somewhat dating a guy I met online. I’d really love to know if he is my soulmate, if not will I meet him soon? -Jessica 
You will meet him sooner then you thought, he is a lot more anxious then you know. A soul mate is a person that you feel that you have met before and that seems to know your thoughts, so this must be determined be the individual and no matter what it takes time to accurately know someone, sometimes a short time, sometimes it takes a long time, years. I feel you and he will be very pleased with each other and very conscious of each others feelings. I also feel your meeting will take place within the next two months, he is preparing for the meeting and is anxious to meet you face to face. Have fun and take your time.

Love Questions: Posted July 6th, 2015

I dated my boyfriend for 7 months. We talked every single day and saw each other every weekend ( we live an hour apart and both have kids). A month ago his teenage son got into major trouble with the law and is possibly looking at jail time. He suddenly broke it off with me saying that he needs to focus all his time on his son and that he may be moving away to be closer to his parents so they can help with his son. I told him that I loved him and his son and I wanted to help them. He said he didn't want my help, he was sorry, and he never meant to hurt me. I am heartbroken and want him back but he refuses to talk to me. Is there hope for us getting back together? Should I keep trying to talk to him? -Kelley 
This situation has this man very worried, a lot of people offer their support however, this does not solve his problem, only time can do that. It is human nature to systematically eliminate pressures and obligations when a priority occurs. He is anticipating a lot of problems trying to help his son. I feel strongly that he is just feeling stressed and in deep thought. Right now there is a lot of problems he needs to deal with and he does not want to pass this on to you; he is aware how much you care about him. Give him a month or so, he will seek you out and attempt to explain his actions. Right now this man needs s support system and men these days rarely ask. He will inform you of his situation when he finds the right words. He does miss you but remember a son is usually very important to a man.

Will my recent ex come back to me and will we be back together in a relationship as a clairvoyant said that it is my destiny to be with this guy and have a long term future with him. -Vicky 
Your ex will call you but he expects you to express that you have missed him. You and he will give things another try however, certain things in your life must be taken care of before you can effectively create a working relationship. He needs to look at life more as a man then a boy. You can assist each other in the process and become stronger in the process. There is a desire on his part, for you to miss him and wait for his call. This man likes to be at his best around you and he does not feel at his best right now.

I split up with my ex 8 months back, after I found out she was seeing another man, been together for 8 years. Do you see us having a future together or at least been friends? -Dave 
I do not believe this is right, no matter how you look at it, she made a decision she needs to deal with. You can not make another person love you and do things your way. You and she have been together for a long time, you and also she tried. I do feel this will excel you to greater things and that you will do better in life with out her. She will not talk to you because she has nothing to say. It is important to live up to decisions in life; sometimes it is for the best; even though it does not seem so at the time.

Love Questions: Posted June 29th, 2015

I'm a gay male who's never had a relationship lasting longer than a month. The relationships I have had tend to start out really promising from their side, but they gradually lose interest in me. These relationships never got to the point of sexual involvement. I have however, fallen in love twice, and had my heartbroken accordingly. The one thing I really want is to experience a long lasting, committed, stable relationship. My question is this: when will I find someone who loves me as much as I love them? -Michael 
Relationships that are emotionally draining do not last. Eventually people will get closer and closer or part. Most people do not want to be responsible for another’s happiness. You will meet a like minded person but I would suggest that you express more confidence in yourself; you are really not to blame for broken relationships, it takes two to tango and one person does not make a relationship. There are so many people in this world and life is short. You will meet two individuals who want a serious relationship within five months. Right now it is important that you figure out how to make yourself happy, then all else will follow but first things first.

My boyfriend recently broke up with me saying he needs time and space. Are we getting back together and if so when? -Heather 
I am feeling that you and also he miss each other very much however, you must listen to what he is saying. He is no longer enjoying the relationship he is blaming the time you spend together on some failure in life; a distraction. This man is not prepared or able to give you the time that you require. I would advise you to do the same; concentrate on where you want to be in life and make it happen. There will be a chance to reconnect in about nine months; by that time you will be deeply involved in a desired persuit; you may not want to break your momentum. I feel you and he will get together and understand each other better. It is not the right time for a serious relationship however, you and he will always be near each other.

Is the Guy I love going to leave me? I had bad predictions by other psychics and I feel really anxious about this because we had our plans to be together. I don’t want to attract the bad by thinking of it too much because the guy with who I am with, I really love. -D
This man needs to be with you right now and the reason you feel the way you do, is that he has no idea where life is taking him and because he is confused about his own future he desires you to be equally confused. He is thinking in terms of himself and what the future holds, you are thinking in terms of you and he as a couple. I feel strongly that you and he should have a lot better communication. He might leave but he will be back but before that he will call. It would appear that you and he do not know what the other is going to do. It will take a great effort on both your parts. You and he will have multiple chances to succeed however, you will get tired.

Love Questions: Posted June 22nd, 2015

I'm 20 years old and have never had a real boyfriend. I've only been on one date and that was four years ago. My question for you is will I ever find that person that I'm looking for? When will I be married and will he have the same beliefs as me? Will I have a happy marriage? -Ciera 
Just when you find your calling in life, he will show up. There will be choices to make and keep. The one that is right for you will be just as interested in what you want for your life as he is his own. You will pursue your own careers and be a good and supportive influence on each other. After a year or so, you and he will find that your careers compliment each other. I feel you will decide to get married after or, as a celebration of all the accomplishments you and he have made; I also feel you will be successful, happy and last together forever. Until you meet this person you will meet many others; but you see, it is what you want when you are ready. I see this as being a five year endeavor; a long time but, very much worth it.

Recently my husband left me and is now with a woman 13 years younger than him. We have a 1 year old daughter and his 15 year old daughter was living with is too. Will he realize his mistake and return to me? -Amanda 
To him this was thought out; he realizes how much he has to lose. This action was not spontaneous, it was thought about by him for a long time ( about five months ). He has known some of the consequences; ( or thought he did ) and felt he could handle some of them. The point of no return was the infidelity, ( the marriage is over ) the vows of the contract or marriage were broken; he will attempt to return to the marriage and swear to God that it will never happen again and this was just a big mistake, his mistake (about six months ) when money becomes an issue and she ( the other woman ) realizes that she made a mistake. He will try to return, apologize and want life back as it was at one time; this will not work. If your love is strong enough for him it might work; I just do not feel he knows what to say; he is with out words and he knows your upset. The only way that I see this working is if you and he work up to and are sure with out a doubt that this is what you and he want. This other woman must be completely out of the picture and his mind, for a least six months. You and he must take any classes about or, to prepare according to your faith, for a spiritual marriage, the point is to understand and except what the vows of your religion are all about. Another marriage with out preparation will not work This is going to be very difficult and 19 times out of twenty does not work; but if your love for each other is strong enough it will work. The assistance of higher power is there ( for any reason ) but the help must be asked for; the correct way.

Thinking about powerful energy but I don’t trust it. Why is it there? Does he feel the same? -Lana 
He knows you like him and enjoys the attention. No matter what the energy level is, it does not matter. This man is attached already and he has no desire to change his life right now. Pursuing this infatuation will not turn out well, for earthier of you. It is ok to be attracted to someone; but to pursue it further would be a big mistake. I do not feel that you have thought out things well. There is a lot more to an individual then there appearances; a lot more. I do apologize but, I do not feel it would be wise to go any further.

Love Questions: Posted June 15th, 2015

Will “F” and I ever be a couple again? He had gone back to his ex wife but I’m still in love with him. I have always seen him as my soul mate and would love to have him back again. -Cherie 
I do honestly feel that he has only told you what he thought you wanted to hear. There is a lot going on with this man, more then you are aware of. The first time he has a disagreement with his ex wife; he will seek you out however if you pay attention to him, you will end up to blame or at least accused of causing some kind of problem that you really do not have anything to do with. It would be a great benefit to you to wait, no matter what he says. It will take him four months to really deal with what he has been putting off for over a year and a half. When four months are over you will be sure and a lot more informed.

I'm turning 40 years old by end of this year, single and never been married. I was wondering if you see me ever meeting my true love in this city (LA), get married and have a family here or do I need to move somewhere else to meet him? Where at? How is he like? Age/race/profession? When will I meet this person and if I'll ever have children with him? -Nikki
Being that you are turning forty; you have had forty years to become the very defined women that you are. I feel that you have not been wasting your time; the important involvement has created a confident and inspiring person. Within the next few months a new project that you have been putting off will take on new life. You will be inspired by the attention of an individual who you felt did not even notice you. As partners on this project, you will be amazed by how much you learn about your subject and also, each other. This friendship can develop into something much more; as feelings start to develop. You will feel that he is the one you will spend the rest of your life with. He will be able to tell that you have developed feelings for him and you will be very surprised and complimented when you told in words, that he feels the same.

Guy I work with once was my friend but I cooled it off because I was not sure of his true intentions. Did I make the right decision? And does he care for me at all or am I imagining it all? -Eliza 
When you follow your heart, you may not know why exactly you do certain things. I do feel that you made the correct decision. This man does like you but he has no desire to make you feel uncomfortable; he is just a friendly person. I feel that you are used to getting attention and understand human nature well enough to know how people can change. This man is confused about your actions and feels he may have done something to offend you; being that he is your friend, I know he will understand. I would suggest that you get to know each other better if you desire that. He would be happy to be only friends if that is what you want however he would also like to get to know you better (you are right, he does have a romantic interest in you). When you follow your feelings and instincts you must be strong enough to follow your inner voice, without question or regret, after all it is your inner voice that will let you know eventually, if you are right or wrong. Within a year, you will change careers and also start a new and happy relationship also, a new pet will bring much joy to your life.

Love Questions: Posted June 8th, 2015

I want to know if my wife is having an affair and do I know this person and how long is it going on for. -Indran
I do not sense that she is doing anything wrong. Because of the lack of correct and comfortable communication there is a lot of stress in the home, in turn this is creating suspicion. You are a great mystery to your family; it is known that something is wrong but exactly what is not known and is causing anxiety to all. If some sort of intervention is not accomplished soon, the relationship or marriage will be over. An unbiased third party will be very helpful and save the family. People are very scared to say something that is taken in the wrong way. A third party; priest, counselor, elder or mutual older friend would be necessary. To redo and take to heart the vows of your marriage is the saving grace however, the desire ( from both people concerned ) is required; and this will take a bit of time however, it is possible. I feel the love in your hearts. Someone is going to offer help one more time; the first time nobody would listen.

Can you please let me know if the person that I am in love with is being faithful to me? Is he planning a weekend trip with another woman? -Michele 
I do feel that he is planning a trip but it is not with anyone. This man does not really know how things will go; he is extremely concerned about the future, his and also yours. This man does love you and is not likely to do anything to jeopardize his chances in life. He is also determined to not be the cause or do anything to bring problems to the relationship. If there is a problem, he will not let it be his fault. He cares about you a lot more then you know.

Will my ex return and try and patch things up or will I find someone new who actually wants a relationship? I love him but I can't keep taking him back to go through the same thing again. -Dianna 
He will return however, not to patch things up. In this case time will keep repeating itself. He feels he has done nothing to be sorry for and you and he have been lucky that things did not get a lot worse. He loves you and he feels you love him but that right now he needs to avoid any trouble; you and he do not trust each other anymore. You will meet someone who feels the same as you and desires a committed relationship but only after this man has left your heart. My advise is to move on and to let him do the same. It is best for all concerned. Your lives have gone in different directions, this does not mean that either of you are wrong; just for each other.

Love Questions: Posted June 1st, 2015

I have seeing someone for almost 3 yrs now but have known him 14 years. We dated briefly years ago but married other people. During our marriages we never saw each other. We found each other again two years ago and discovered we were both separated and started seeing each other again. At first we saw each other all the time but when we got our divorces he became distant. It's been up and down ever since he claims he loves me and there is no one else but his actions show different. He says he is not ready for a relationship and he is scared. When I pull away he comes back I am confused I am in love with him but don't know what do. Does he really love me? Will we ever have a real relationship? Is there someone else? -Ayans 
When an individual experiences a divorce this most of the time is a very hard thing, very disappointing that things you were so sure about come crashing down and it takes various amounts of time to move on. Nobody wants to repeat mistakes and people want happiness in their lives. I feel that this man loves you very much but he is going through all effects of a divorce which include regret, depression, and a lot of anxiety. It is not easy to open up to another about your feelings; I feel greatly that this man cares for you and does not want to go through loss again. Many have attempted to express sorrow through music, literature, and art but each in their own way. I feel that this man is being honest and this shows you that the relationship is moving a bit too quickly. There is no need to repeat things from the past and this is what is bothering him. Within three months you will notice a positive change in him. This is a condition that can not be avoided, one of the reasons you care for him is his ability to feel so deeply.

My heart soul and mind has a burning desire to have a love relationship, marriage. I have been single 2 years. -Sallie 
A lot of people feel as you. First of all a love relationship and a marriage are a bit different. A love relationship can lead to marriage but, not the other way around. Within the next year you will be very involved with a project that has not moved as fast as you wanted; the time will arrive soon. You are going to make an acquaintance who takes your breath away; you will have mutual interest in each other. He will want to move quickly with the new relationship and it will be you who wants to move slowly. If this friendship lasts longer then a year; you will marry in three years.

Love Questions: Posted May 25th, 2015

Will me Greg get back together? I love him but he seem like he has moved on. I miss him. -Venus
You will within the next three weeks have an opportunity to talk however, when you do se each other It will be a bit difficult for either of you to find the right words, I feel your eyes and smiles will get your friendship back on track. He also misses you and the time you shared together. It seems as if time got in the way of itself. This is a time of his life where he needs to make some good decisions about himself and he feels that now is the time; he also feels that a chance that you have been waiting for is fast approaching. If the vision that you both have can merge and compliment each others path, you and he can start over however, by breaking up in the first place your relationship will be realistic and will need to move to a higher level to succeed.

My ex said he wanted to work things out but for two months he couldn't even ask me to go get coffee. I feel that I am the love of his life and that he will figure it out and come back to me. Am I right, or just delusional and headed for more heartbreak? -Liz
His deep feelings for you are new to him weather he lets you know or not. He is realizing it more and more as time goes on but, more importantly he knows you love him, this realization is also new to him. You and he have a very strong connection with each other. You will give a more defined relationship another chance. If you and he care about each other you can create a good relationship however, I do see some major obstacles in front of any relationship, on you side and also his. Within two months he will receive a once in a life time opportunity; and I feel you will be a part of it.

I have been in one sided love with this guy since 3 years now. I initiated contact last year. We had a brief relationship only this year and broke up recently. Will he come back to me? I am trying to move on but it hurts a lot and feel very depressed. Will he come back to me? -Divya 
The one sided love that you have been experiencing I feel is very real to you however, I feel that the information that you are basing this love on is mostly fantasy that has been brought into your reality by your wishful thinking. This man has also developed very strong feelings for you but I do not feel that he is in any position to make things real. To him your attention has been a big compliment it did boost his ego a great deal. Where you may be in a position to, and willing to crate a relationship, I do not feel that he can, or should I say has the ability to create what you want. You are in love with the fantasy, and so is he. Within the next five months you and he will be a bit more realistic with each other and I do feel that you will feel differently. When communication is only one sided or sparse, it is usually a warning.

Love Questions: Posted May 18th, 2015

I have been on this one track mind of waiting for my soul mate. I've had several heartbreaks as they moved on and married and I'm stuck in a time capsule. I no longer have feelings for these guys as I feel I'm emotionally, physically, spiritually and energy ready to meet this guy. Can I have assurance and possibly description of what he's like? -Roxanna
In our life we meet several soul mates and it is up to us to make it work. First of all the other person must feel the same way. Higher Power does bring us together but that is it. It is up to the two people involved to realistically see if things will work. Being human we all change and grow with time. I do feel you will meet a person who feels the same about you in around six months. You will meet as a result of a class or seminar that will also benefit your career. This friendship can evolve in time to the relationship that you desire. You will also see that a good relationship is worth the effort it takes.

Will me and my ex boyfriend Kevin be together again? -Michelle 
You have both grown and matured. I know he would love to know you are doing well. It was not the right time for you and he; I feel you were both unprepared for the way you and he would eventually feel. In two months there will be a conversation between you two, and you and also he, will learn a lot about each other; you will find that the caring is still present. You and he will attempt to give things another try. You will also find that he has aspirations regarding the future that he may be having a hard time getting started. I feel you and he have matured and will give a relationship a realistic and desired try one more time.

I've been in love with a guy for years and he knows. Will we be more than friends? -Odette 
Feeling that we love someone for a very long time always gives us time to create that person in our ideal image and we attempt to understand how another reacts and feels. It is the intensity of your feeling that are preventing you from getting to know him in reality. He does know how you feel and he feels very complimented. Within the next three months you will have an opportunity to get to know him better and he to know you. If you back up a little and treat this as a friendship you will get to know each other better and communicate more effectively. You and he already like each other a lot and think about each other all the time. If you and he become comfortable with each other the next step is to enjoy being out with each other. I feel you and he will have a chance; a very good chance.

Love Questions: Posted May 11th, 2015

My boyfriend Shakeeb broke up with me claiming he doesn't love me anymore. However I want to know if he does and is he coming back to me? -Thahmina 
People do lose there love for others but, what I feel he really means is that he has no desire to continue the relationship. I know you feel it is about something you did, but it is not. If you ask him to explain he will have an impossible time. He needs some time to think. His view of himself has somehow changed. There are different types of love and intensities of love; he does love you but not in the way you deserve. You will hear from him in about six months and the information that will convince you that it was really not about you will also arrive. His life is very complex right now. You will also think about taking a trip but if the trip does not compliment your field you will decide against it.

I have been to see a psychic recently and she said that me and my ex girlfriend would definitely get back together but at the moment I just cannot see it happening. My question is, will I get back with my ex girlfriend soon?
-Steven
 
If the original cause is resolved and put away, she will see you again however, you caused each other a lot of heartbreak. You and she must start over again from the beginning. I do feel the friendship must be reestablished for a least a year before the subject of a relationship can be taken seriously. You are both not real sure what happened and are very disappointed that things did not work. No matter how hard it is you need to give her space until she feels ready. If you pursue her it will permanently dissolve your friendship and create additional problems. Everyone needs time, sometimes a little sometimes a lot.

Please tell me if my husband will return to me and our children. He left me for a girl 13 years younger than him. I still love him and want to save our marriage. -Amanda
Once he has lost a lot of what he has accumulated over the years and she realizes what she has gotten herself into, I do not feel the relationship will last; the novelty is almost over however, this is not the issue, it is infidelity. The vows of your marriage have been broken. Once he realizes how much he has to lose, not to mention the love he has for you and the children, he will want to return and put it all to a mistake. I do feel the love between you two and also the children so I feel you will give him another chance (everyone makes mistakes), but the effort will not work unless there is another ceremony in which you and he redo your vows to each other and to higher power. Without the redoing of the vows (after preparation and understanding) it would be a waste of time and only last a couple of months.

Love Questions: Posted May 4th, 2015

I have had my heart broken so many times and given up on the whole idea of love but would like to know will I find love? -Rebecca
When you consciously stop looking for it love will approach you. A friendship will develop for you first. I can tell you are a very defined woman; you know very well what you want and what type of person will maintain an active interest in a relationship. During a local trip to a friends home or a relatives home you will be invited to a local event. Even though you had no interest in attending, you will have a very good time and meet several good people, one of which will be the one in your future. He will be shy at first however, I do see that every time you see each other you will learn something fascinating about the other. This can develop into a quality relationship; also a long term and life long partnership. The trip will be offered to you around the end of spring. Also, a long forgotten interest will reemerge in your life and you will find a renewed vigor in its pursuit.

My ex boyfriend Kevin broke up with me 7 months ago for an older women. He recently contacted me apologizing for what he had done, I forgave him and decided to just be friends (for the time being anyway) I was scared to let him in so easily but I don't know if he realized that. He agreed to hangout and catch up on everything. That never happened and it was the last I heard from him. After many texts explaining to him that I want to put things in the past and try again I still got no response back. Yesterday, I saw pictures with him and the older women. Why is he ignoring me? Do you see us together again? I feel like I didn't handle things the right way when he contacted me and I drew him away once again. -Ayla 
I feel strongly that you and he can not be friends without acting out as a couple. If you told him you would like to be just friends; he took this as an insult. He seems to be in a hurry to be in a defined relationship. You said that you forgave him for past actions but he does not feel he did anything wrong. Even though you and he are nice people I do feel that you and he are in different places regarding a more defined relationship. Right now give any definite decisions a lot more time than you had intended; the next three months will be key and you will have additional information to work with. There is another that must be considered seriously.

I would like to know which of these guys is my soul mate. There are two guys who seem to be great but I need to know is (T) the one? I miss him a lot and we haven't talked in some months. On the other hand there's Sky, he seems loving and caring but I don't know what to do and I need your help please! -Candice 
If your heart is confused I advise you to give things a little more time. I do agree that one of these men are a lot more compatible with you then the other and if you don’t know who it is, then it is to soon. Within the next two months you will know without a doubt who it is. I can tell you that he will be more interested in your view of the future than his own. If by chance the future few months are undefiled then this will tell you it is too soon to make judgements; you will be working with a lot more reliable information if you wait.

Love Questions: Posted April 27th, 2015

I am struggling with a past breakup that occurred over 6 months ago. I just need to know if she will come back or if I need to let go even though it's making me miserable. -Christina 
I do feel that a lot of your anxiety regarding this matter is that you feel that she has something to say, or that there is some type of unfinished, unresolved situation going on; there is not. She is very aware of how you feel toward her and your feelings about what happened. She does not want to be responsible for your happiness, she feels it is up to you. You and she did go through the ups and downs of a relationship and you did give this a good try. The relationship has become painful not only to you but also to her. One thing is that you have gotten to know each other in reality. It is extremely important that you and she respect each others wishes. If space is created now it will lead to another chance in the future. Right now it would be advisable to give her space and do not seek her out. You both need perspective on the reality of the situation. There is no blame involved.

Is the man currently in my life the one I am destined to be with or should I continue my journey alone?
-Jeanne
 
There is no such thing as perfect relationship; it does not exist. We all have soul mates and individuals we are destined to interact with but to succeed in a long term relationship it is what you create or make of it; happy and satisfying or stressful and complicated. Only liking someone at the time is not good enough for forever. I feel you have been a couple for a long time and if things have been good, I do not see that ending. If you are lucky enough to have love in your life you are the exception not the rule.

Will I get back together with my ex girlfriend? -Matt 
The time will arrive in about five months however, it will be more of a need then a desire. Original issues that were present will have become very prominent in her life and require immediate attention. The romantic aspect of your view of her must include a lot or an amount of reality. I am not sure that you are ready for this however, it will occur. You must cease your current pattern of thought regarding this situation; you are not the center of this universe.

Love Questions: Posted April 20th, 2015

I want to know if the guy I like wants to start seeing me and be my boyfriend? -Melanie 
I feel strongly that he finds you to be a lot of fun and he also feels that you have a good personality and a friendly smile. If things continue to be positive he feels, and I do think he is right, you and he will be drawn to each other and find the time (actually look forward to it) for each other. I do also feel that you and he will continue to be drawn to each other and find communication flows very easily and naturally between you two and you and he will continue to enjoy your friendship. It is at this point that he will begin to open up about his true feelings for you. The chance exists to create a relationship that will last and succeed.

Will I be in a loving relationship with someone who supports me in my efforts and will want to be there for my kids? -Dianna 
Within the next year you will have two chances to achieve what you desire. You will also find an individual who does support you in your efforts however, it is essential that you also support him in his desires for the future. It is through a common project for another that will give you the time you need to get to know this man and he will get to know you. This man is aware of the children and will have a desire to be a very good example to them; he knows that a relationship with you, is also a relationship with your children.

I want to know if my wife Kristen will love me again and come back to me. -Barry
I feel strongly that the love is still there however, it has changed and evolved. I feel strongly that you and she have grown up together. The only difference is new conversations are about her alone and not you and she as a couple. The original issue between you and she has not been a priority and until it is, there is no chance. She is very disappointed and embarrassed about how your marriage turned out. If you can remain friends for at least three months; the chance to become closer will arrive; it will not be easy but I feel, worth it, the key is to repair the relationship with her family.

Love Questions: Posted April 13th, 2015

There is an older woman that I like. We do not know each other very well but I feel a strong connection with her. My question is how does she feel about me? Im afraid to make a move because I don't know how she would take it. I have the worst luck with love. Any advice? Thank you in advance! -Vero 
I feel strongly that this women is a very good judge of character and would like an honest relationship however, coming on to strong would scare her away. The best way to get to know her better is to create a friendship. In this process of learning about each other you will find that she is very serious when it comes to perspective relationships. She sees the long term in comparison of the current situation; you see a beginning, and focusing your attention on the intensity of your attraction and where it can go. I feel its possible to develop a relationship however, only time will tell if this is really what you want.

Will my husband come home? We've been separated for a month and a half and have a baby together.
-Jacqueline
 
In essence he has run away from home; I do feel for whatever reason he is very stressed out and needed to be away; I do not feel he wants to be gone permanently but right now he really does not know what to say. He will come back home and does not want to create any big issue. When you and he are ready to talk about this you will find it is not about you personally but only about his current situation in life. This man loves you more then you know and does not want to hurt you. He wants to say to you that it has nothing to do with you. He will find that he has a lot to be thankful for and a good reason to handle the ups and downs of a marriage. He has what he has always wanted and within a month he will see this.

I have not had the most luck in love and am hoping to find out about when I will experience such a thing as being in love. There is a man I am speaking with right now, could this lead to something? -Melanie 
Yes it can, I feel that you and he are on the same level of what you both want out of life. As the years go by we as human beings become more defined in our ways, our desires, and the way we do things. I do also feel that he has been in a very serious relationship that still plays a role in how he sees himself. Love is something that is non defined, it does mean something different to all of us and changes as the wind. I feel if you and he actively create what you want, you will hold on to it. If things are left to chance, it will never occur. You will know without a doubt when you feel love; and there will be no need for this question. I do also see that you will be happily married within the next two years and this decision will arrive very quickly.

Love Questions: Posted April 6th, 2015

I have been in a relationship with a Taurus guy for almost 2 years now he wants to move back to Cape Town alone. Does he really love me or is there someone else will I meet? Someone special soon, I would like to get married one day again. Will he come back to me? -Ansie
It does not matter how long you have known each other, you will never know an individual until you live with them. Taurus’s can be very detailed and make marvelous people to work with but Taurus’s can be very stubborn and sometimes argumentative; they are also very psychic and intuitive. Remember certain people enjoy being a mystery. Taurus’s can be wonderful mates if you enjoy a vociferous difference of opinion once and a while also; Taurians make very good parents. If you are a water sign or another earth sign the relationship should be fun and successful; if he is a fire sign or earth sign you and he need to be involved in the same interest to get to know each other well. Remember Taurus likes to be a mystery. I feel in three months you will be certain about him and also, Taurus’s are very romantic, moody, but romantic. The chance will be there.

A year and a half ago I met a woman that became my best friend we have incredible chemistry we have looked at each other and agreed what we have never gets old. We have totally loved one another but do to misunderstandings have not talked in over a month. Will I be together with this woman again, or will she leave my life? -Norman 
Right now she, as you, have a chance to think and see where your heart is in this perspective relationship. You need to remember that she is very capable of perceiving a misunderstanding and I feel your relationship is strong enough to get through any misunderstanding; just talk when she wants to and she will. Please do not make the mistake of calling her, or being in her life at all at this time. Allow her to think and remember. You both miss each other and she will contact you when she is ready; until then give her space and have more confidence in yourself and your positive qualities. You and she will decide to give your relationship another chance. She is also aware that everyone makes mistakes, nobody is perfect, and if you and she are going to succeed you need to learn to get over these things. You only shocked each other by your behavior; the learning has started.

Who will I end up with, the ex from 30 years ago or the guy I just met? Another psychic claims it’s the one from long ago. We have a daughter together. -Karen 
I feel you and he will be given the chance to repair any unresolved and hurtful issues from the past once you and he have had the opportunity to see things in there proper perspective, feelings will be healed to a large extent where you can be good friends with each other (for the child sake). I do not see another relationship with each other however, you and he will remember how you felt at one time and heal hurt feelings. You both care about each other and love each other in your way. If you and he had a Spiritual marriage and still feel the vows you took with Higher Power there is always a chance but I do not feel you and he would risk your new friendship because it will be very powerful and contribute to your individual lives. The new man in your life will become more important to you, as you will to him, and I see a good relationship that will be positive for both of you; please pace yourself in your growing feelings for him. Good things come to those who wait.

Love Questions: Posted March 30th, 2015

Can you see when Gary and I will get back together? I really do feel we are meant to be. -Sarah 
I also feel strongly that you and he will have an opportunity to get together however, if your desire is to be a successful couple that does take a mutual effort and a mutual vision of the future. Within the next three months a topic or condition that has brought you together in the first place will no longer be an issue, it will fade away gradually. After this has been completed, only after, the chance will arrive. If you and he still focus on each other and see a future together; then the chance will be there. I do feel you and he were meant to meet up with each other, now to live as a successful couple will take a constant effort; you will be sure in about five months.

I am happily married. However, for the past 6 months I have been having strong feelings about an ex. I wanted to know why. Is he thinking of me? I just can't shake him out of my mind. It's in my head and my gut. I always felt spiritually connected with this ex and maybe that's why. -Katrina 
We as human beings will often go back to times that were unique in our lives (it gives us perspective on our current situation in life). Certain relationships and friendships stand out in ways we will never forget (this is how we learn) and of course we get disappointed that things did not work the way we had intended. Just because certain people in our past are not there anymore, it does not mean our good wishes are not with them. Human beings are made up off all the experiences we have had before in our lives; good or bad. He thinks of you also; with a smile, and favorable memories of your time together in the past. I do feel he wishes the best for you and all the happiness you want. You will talk again in the future, this time not about yourselves but about your families. And yes you can be friends; be remember only friends.

My relationship ended about two months ago with a man who I believe is my twin flame. I would like to know if you sense if he has any interest in healing this relationship and getting back together at some point?
-Rachel
 
I feel he would be very happy to give you the life you want the thing is, there are to many complications and obligations that he needs to deal with and he just does not want you to be a part of these complications, he does feel you deserve better. I do not feel this man intended to have a long term relationship with you but his feelings changed as you and he got to know each other. There is some sort of an issue in his life (I do not feel that you know about this) that has a potential to last a very long time, if not forever. A lot of people talk about soul mates or twin flames and it is true; it does happen. We need to remember always that higher power brings us together but that’s all; it is up to us to stay together and put in the effort. Assistance and help are there, but we must ask for it in the correct way. First concentrate on healing the friendship; the rest will be easy.

Love Questions: Posted March 23rd, 2015

I was good friends, emailing a guy I used to work with almost every day. We both liked the same baseball team, talked sports. Things were great. I supported him looking for a second job. He was very appreciative, thanked me etc. No problems. He usually emailed me about problems with new job, etc. Things seemed great. All of a sudden a month ago he stopped emailing. I haven't bothered him. What is going on? -Diane 
This man knows how to make friends but not how to be one. He has been keeping a part of himself a secret from you and most likely himself (not realizing what is happening). I do not feel there is a big reason for his lack of communication; some people are just that way. It is a good thing that you are aware of this before it gets to carried away. In this world some people are takers and some givers. This is only called a lack of consideration. You will meet a very nice person that you like a lot and can be very happy with within the next two months however, if you pursue him; this will not occur.

My partner and I broke up a month ago due to me having depression and drinking. He gave me many chances before. We were very much in love and we connected and always knew what the other was thinking. He gave me one last chance and I drank and said some awful things and he will not communicate with me at all. I've taken steps to stop drinking and turn my life around but he still won't talk to me. I asked him a final time the other day if we could try and take little steps and work at maybe getting back together. I've still not heard from him even though I know he's reading my texts. I don't know what to do now. -Nicola 
He does like you very much and I feel he felt he met the woman of his dreams. This man here is some sort of a problem that is causing you to drink to access; he just does not want to be a part of that kind of life. It is that he has seen this type of behavior cause a lot of pain to the people involved. I do not feel that he wants to see you hurt yourself or someone you care about. People who drink a lot can not deal with a relationship (or close friendships, only drinking partners) and he knows this. This is really not about the one occurrence; it is about the future; he is being careful. It is not you he is ignoring; it is the lifestyle. You and he will talk and go out again with each other ( four months) but, he will always use the drinking, even if it has stopped; against you. He understands that everyone deals with stress differently; he needs someone to take care of him however, he is not willing to do the same. I would advise you to stop drinking (counseling) and put the friendship away; for now.

I'm a married woman who's husband is deployed. I started having physical relations with another man. Something physical has now turned into something a little more. I know it has to end and I know it will. I'm just so confused. I tried breaking it off a couple of times but we keep coming back to each other. The connection I have with this new guy is something I never felt. If I had drawn up my dream guy physically he is exactly him. These feelings I have are all new. I just recently started realizing the connection. It's like I'm drawn to him. We don't talk about our feelings for each other so I have no idea if they are mutual. Is this new guy toxic for me? -Monique 
No, he is not toxic to you, you are toxic to yourself. This man sees that you do not seem to care about the vows of your marriage (which is over anyway). There is a reason for maintaining marriage vows psychologically and spiritually; marriages are not easy and a couple needs to keep understanding and growing with each other and now there is really nothing keeping the marriage active. When you decide to admit (if you do) to your husband, what the problem is all about, I do not feel he will take it well. I would also advise you not to blame your husband for the failure of the marriage (a lot of families deal with this type of situation all the time however, honesty is very difficult sometimes). I understand the having someone you love at a distance is not easy but, this is your mistake. This other man has very little to do with this, he was only having fun and I do not feel you will ever be able to depend on him. He has no desire for a serious relationship, after all your married.

Love Questions: Posted March 16th, 2015

Is my husband having an affair or interested In another woman. If so when does he see her and do they work together? How often do they see each other and or are intimate? -Kim
I feel strongly that your marriage is in big trouble, not because of the rumors, but because you and your husband have lost your ability or desire to communicate with each other. Do not let your imagination run away with you; the fact is you are suspicious of him and his views on marriage. The time for speculation is over you need to do something about this. Remember there are two sides to every story. I do not feel that he wants to end the marriage. And I feel he would be very hurt by this accusation. The best advise I can give you is to seek marriage counseling; if he will cooperate, if not, what does this tell you?

My daughter and her husband of 4 years have recently separated and are living in separate homes. They don't have a lot of money right now and my two grandsons currently live with their father. I had an intense dream about them all last night that my daughter was willing to toss them all away while I was yelling and picking up my grandsons. Will they ever get back together? -Joy 
First of all try not to let the emotion of the situation get to you, try to take time for yourself and enjoy life. Your daughters current situation is common place these days. I do feel she does love him and he loves her however, they did marry too soon without really thinking about it but they are adults and will find a way. The relationship or the separation will be hard to handle for her and for him, after all the bad feelings and anger is over, then the depression and embarrassment will start. After a lengthy time apart, they will finally will become friends for the children’s sake and the children will be just fine (They have you). The marriage is over, they just did not think in the long term and only now will reality set in. I do also feel that you will take a more active role in the lives of these kids. It is very possible that you will be a very strong influence on these kids. Do not talk or allow your daughter to talk bad about him; it will backfire.

4 years ago I had met a young woman in college. A few months later she had become my Tae kwon do instructor. I had fallen in love with her. My insides are telling me she feels the same, but she is quit a few years younger then I. Does she want me and will we ever be together? -Frank 
She has very strong feelings about you however they are very undefined. I do feel she knows how you feel about her and she is wondering when you will open up (verbally). If you verbalize your feelings about her; I do feel you will scare her away. I would advise dating for a while so you and also she can become more comfortable with each other. She would be very uncomfortable with statements of undying love and affection, she would not know what to say at this time. If you and she enjoy spending time with each other and have a good back and forth communication with each other; then you will be sure. I do see a relationship if you start slowly and are as concerned about her as you seem.

Love Questions: Posted March 9th, 2015

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 12 years and have a 16 month old son and another on the way but I don't feel I love him anymore, I feel I should stay with him because of our children and I want to have feelings for him again, but he seems to have changed and has a very bad temper, he blames it on stress of having a baby. But I also have feelings for another guy I've known for years and feel like I want to be with him. He feels the same. Do I stay with the father of my children and hope I will fall in love again or leave him? -Emma 
Within five months the opportunity you are looking for will arrive. Your boyfriend has good reasons to be stressed; daily life seems to him, to be unfair and he just can not catch up with things. Children do suffer the most in a separation or divorce they do not feel pressure ease, the tendency is to feel the pressure increase and not have both parents to talk to. Children and babies feel the anger and sadness even without it being mentioned. If your boyfriend finds about your friend he will not like it and you are looking at a very messy break up. If you and he find love in your hearts it is possible to repair the damage however, it must be done soon. Even though you and your he do not like each other as much as you use to; it is very, very important to think of the children first, and stop being childish. No matter how much you want to go back to the past, it is impossible.

I dated guy for two years that I genuinely believe to be my soul mate. From our first date, I knew we had something special and different. We moved in together a year ago and our relationship slowly fell apart during that time. He ended up breaking up with me in July staying that "his feelings aren't as strong anymore" and that "our love did not grow" over the year. I am starting to question our entire relationship. Did he ever love me? Is there any chance of reconciliation for us? How could I be so certain that we aren't meant to be and he feel so opposite? I feel so confused. -Kris 
Some people enjoy the chase, romance, and spontaneity of a new relationship, it does not mean they want anything committed or long term. I feel you and he are very lucky that you did not marry in the romantic phase (a lot of people do), you gave the relationship a year and that was very good because you and he do not see things in the same way. You both have been trying too hard and you are accustom to each others moods; good and bad. He does miss the fun times and he feels there were many; he does not miss the tension and hurtful attitudes. He may be ready for a relationship in the future but it is just not what he is ready for. In the last weeks of winter you will meet some one who feels as you and he tends to see the future in a very similar way. We as individuals have many soul mates. God brings us together, the rest is up to us. The future must be worked on every day, as a marriage or long term partnership; if it is going to work.

I have been dating this guys for about a month. We went away camping for the evening alone and it was one of the most romantic nights of my life. I felt a definite connection. I am pretty sure he felt it too. Ever since that night, I have heard from him rarely. When he does contact he is flirty, but never follows through with a meeting. How does he feel about me? -Melissa 
He is surprised by the intensity he feels around you and this man is falling in love with you. I do not feel he was prepared for long term relationship (but he is thinking about it right now). When a man is as you say flirty, it is usually to hide shyness. He will become more sincere and real as the friendship progresses but before this happens he must take care of a situation that has keep him down for a long time; being liked by you has given him the incentive he needs to get things done. I do not feel your interest in each other will fade. The more you get to know each other the more you will want to be with each other. Honesty will emerge form this man about his feelings for you, and along the way he will open up about all in his life; are you ready? The next three months will be very telling and essential to your success as a couple.

Love Questions: Posted March 2nd, 2015

My husband had an affair on me for 6 months with a woman who a psychic had told me had put a spell on him. After lots of pain, time and money spent, I think I've finally won. However, I've been talking to an ex boyfriend from years ago and I think I'm starting to fall for him again. I started talking to him about 3 weeks ago when I was hurt by my husband still talking to this woman. Now, I believe my husband is actually done for good with this woman and I'm unsure what it is that I want. My question is, can you please help me to know what these two different men's feelings are for me? -Ashley 
I do not believe you and your husband were ready for marriage. A six month affair is not an affair, it’s a relationship. Everyone makes mistakes however, a six month mistake is very serious. The ex boyfriend that you have been talking to does not take your marriage seriously (because he sees that you do not). I feel you and he can be good friends but I do not feel he wants anything more. I also feel that you and your husband love each other and will get over this problem in your lives; if you and he really try you will succeed however these distractions in your lives must be eliminated from your lives, if not, the attempt will not work. An individual can only change behavior if they want to; if they really do not want to change, they will not.

My husband and I have been together for 12 years. Last year things seemed very odd. I thought it was due to him turning 40 and about to retire from the Army. Later in the year, I started having, almost panic attacks, the feeling that something horribly wrong was about to happen. In January, the feeling was overwhelming. I went to his computer, I clicked on the history and found that for three months he had been on a local dating site. There wasn't much activity on page. He used his work email so I couldn't see if he was sending, receiving, meeting, talking, or texting these women. I honestly thought I would find emails or messages from his co-worker, a female Soldier named Shannon. He claims that he didn't meet or talk to anyone from the dating site. That he "got caught up in it". He found it exciting that women might be interested in him. I still feel that he and Shannon had an affair or maybe it was someone who looked like her. I don't have the income to just up and leave. I need closure. To know if he was really seeing someone. -Connie 
Being involved with dating sites is the reason for the failure of many marriages. A psychological infidelity has the same affect as an actual breach of the marital promise. Although the marriage is real, he really never took it seriously; his love for you is real but you really did not know him as well as you thought. He is a nice person but wants something different out of life. You have invested a lot of time and thought you shared a common image. Repairing the marriage would be possible however, he does not see the problem. If your love for each other is strong enough you can get over this (you and he must get to the point where you want to re do the marriage ceremony). If the problem is not realized you and he will fade away from each other very quickly; he is very embarrassed by this situation and he feels uncomfortable.

I am still in love with my ex husband. Is there a possibility for us to get back together in the future? -Danche 
I feel strongly that he would very much like to re-explore the good parts of the marriage and also the common dream of the future you once shared. However, he is very much aware of the way things turned out; you and he have seen parts of each others personality that you did not like. Rather than attempt to change and become aware of any problems with communication, the issues continued throughout the rest of the marriage. You hurt each others feelings and lost faith in the marriage at the same time you lost faith in each other. Hindsight is 2020 and now the issues seem clear however he has no desire to re experience the disappointment and emotional lows that took him a long time to come to terms with. He does have a great affection for you and he does not see the past as being all bad however, the past is just that, the past. He has moved on and wishes the same for you.

Love Questions: Posted February 23rd, 2015

I like this guy a whole lot and I want to know if we will ever be together in a relationship, or am I just wasting my time? -Bridgett 
I do feel that he is a very nice person and that you and he have a lot of fun with each other however in matters of the heart I do feel that you and he are very different. I feel very strongly that you are an old soul and certain qualities of healing will emerge at different times of your life. You have many years of study and experience in front of you; there is a strong likelihood that you will end up leading in your field; in all honesty I do feel he would hold you back in one way or another. Many opportunities will arrive to you in you life. It is time to conserve energy, to absorb knowledge and prepare for a very exciting time in your life to gradually appear to you. It is never a waste of time to make friends, it ends up being an advantage. And you and he will be friends for a very, very long time.

Will my ex partner James and I get back together? Is he my soul mate? Will we have kids together and how soon will we get back together? -Dulce 
God does create situation where soul mates do meet one another, now what two people do with that is entirely up to them; there is no such thing as a guarantee in any relationship. Soul mates are not lovers all the time, they can be brothers, sisters, friends, pets, or advisers. I feel strongly that you and he will try again however, the original barrier will become stronger. You or this man can not over come this obstacle alone or individually. But you can together; the first step is to respect the others feelings and way of thinking. If you and he can do this for three months, the rest of life will seem easy by comparison. This lesson will benefit you in the future and teach you something that you will never forget.

I recently was broken up with. It was a short-lived relationship, but I felt this very intense connection right from the first time we met - so strong that I felt he could be the one. The last time I saw him he seemed happy with me. However, soon after he pulled away suddenly and broke up with me. I'm not sure why he ended things or what changed within the last few weeks of our relationship. Was there something I did? Is there a chance of him reconsidering his decision? If not, will I meet the guy of my dreams sometime in the near future? Thank you. -Nelly
If you have searched with in yourself for an answer, you are likely very frustrated. The reason for this is if you were to blame or had a direct responsibility the reason would be very clear to you. This man simply got ahead of himself; he became overwhelmed by the new experience of being involved with you. He was not expecting to feel so strongly, and for a while it was easy to feel good and enjoy ones self however, he understands that he needs to take care of an issue, or else it will interfere with his future happiness. You gave this man the incentive that he reacquires to proceed with life. He does care for you and wants you to continue to think good thoughts of him and your time together. He is planning to renter your life as a new and improved person able to move in the direction that he wants to, however if he waits to long your heart will be captured by another; Five months.

Love Questions: Posted February 16th, 2015

Will my boyfriend call me again, do we have a connection? Does he really know how much I love him, because I really do and I really miss him so much that it hurts. -Tammy 
He is caught between two different paths, one that has been his dream for just about as long as he can remember; the other path is new and a bit scary for him, it includes seeking out an exciting life that is filled with excitement and uncertainty (this does include you). I advise you to help him see that one path must include the other to be successful and work out. I also advise you and he to establish a growing pattern of happy and unique experiences; It is true that destiny has brought you together, the rest of your situation together is up to you and he. Even though you and he have found each other and your relationship has only just started. Please do not overwhelm this man, be yourself and remember he feels the same. He would have been long gone if he did not feel the same for you. Take it slow and enjoy each others company.

I was with this guys for only 6 months. He was going through painful divorce. I was there as a friend we then became lovers. He was over the moon and had love in his eyes. He said that I was amazing and everything his wife never was. Loving, caring, passionate, beautiful and a good girl for family everything he dreamt of. But many people told him to be careful and not jump into anything new. And his ex had big influence on him. So he started getting confused and doubting what he felt for me. Then I asked him to see a therapist to get help with depression and from there he started to be cold and distant. With a recent trip to his country he returned cold as ice and told me that I wasn't the one and he feels nothing. What makes me not "THE ONE”? I am told I am a perfect woman but he has no butterflies, he had them but they disappeared. -Sona 
It is very important to remember that he at one time felt the same and as sure about his wife. It is important not to fall in love with somebody on a rebound or going through a bad divorce, they are not really acting as themselves and you will fall in love with a temporary need for being close to another. I feel that the marriage has lasted a long time and meeting you is a new thing for him; even though I feel that he was the one that was seeking you out. You must see if he feel the same after the drama of his divorce is over; then it will be possible to start over for him. Right now he is not himself and he will not be for about a year.

I’m with a guy right now "T" and he says he loves me but I want to know what really feels for me and will get married? -Ayeisha
Definitions must be spontaneous to be honest, they must come from the heart to be real not planned. This man cares for you very much and your time together has amazed him; what I mean is that he can not believe that he falls in love with you more and more every time he sees you and I do feel that you feel the same. This man feels that things between you and he will get even more intense and if you feel the same. Within three months he will want to discuss marriage, it is up to you to pace the relationship so it grows strong and you both are sure about each other. I feel very strongly that if you and rush things will fail but if you pace yourselves things will grow at a very comfortable and enjoyable way. The next five months are going to tell the tail of the rest of your lives.

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Love Questions: Posted February 9th, 2015

My husband Russell has moved out of our home. Our relationship was bad but I have really changed and understand my mistakes. He has also started an emotional affair (for the second time) with an old girlfriend from college who is cheating on her husband who doesn't know about their affair. We had been married nearly 30 years. I still love him and want him back to start anew as I have so much more knowledge now. Does he really love her? Or will he return to me to try to make a go of it? -Debra 
30 years is a lot of time, you and he have invested everything in your lives for each other and I feel it is with the guidance of higher power that you have succeeded with each other. You know each other better then you know yourselves. I do sense that you and he still love each other and really can’t conceive of being without each other. We need to remember that all people make mistakes and also, people need to feel needed and loved. He talking to an ex is only his attempt to go back to a simpler time; when experience was new and exciting. Neither one of you wants to acknowledge any blame in what is going on, or not going on in your marriage. Remember that you both miss each other. If you go through the experience of a spiritual marriage again, you and he will see the big picture. If you and he still love each other and just cant find the right words to say to each other, then a ritual to commemorate your love for each other is required. I have every confidence that this is a phase that all couples go through; This will pass, but the marriage will continue. This year will add focus and enthusiasm to your marriage. You and he together will laugh at this time and consider it to be a waste of time. Your investment in each other will continue.

I miss my ex girlfriend M, and I would like to know if we will be together again? -Annette 
People will grow and learn throughout life, and in the process of growth you and she both have gotten to know yourselves better. You and she will always be friends and live close to each other; This is not intentional, it will just be that way. This woman will get to know herself a lot better in the coming months, you will meet at least three new female friends, one of which will cause you to have a new focus and vigor in and towards life. I advise you to conserve energy until you need it, and you will very soon. Also a hobby that has been put aside by your thought of the relationship, will take on a new motivation and also soon, you will turn this hobby into a successful career; one that you love.

I would like to know if you see this guy M coming back into my life and wanting to be in a relationship with me. It's been almost two months with no communication and I miss him very much. -Mary 
You will hear from him very soon, within three weeks. He will attempt to explain his situation to you and why he has been away without contact. One way to ensure that another will continue to think about you is by no contact; I know it does not make sense, but that is the way we react to each other. You and he will give a relationship a chance but this man is not even close to what he wants to achieve in life; It will take a long time but it will work. Give this man hope for his plans in life and he will love you forever and with some helpful guidance from higher power, you and he will have your chance.

Love Questions: Posted February 2nd, 2015

I have recently started seeing someone new my question is will this be a lasting relationship or do I need to move on? -Stacy 
If you and he can get over a present barrier together then the chance of becoming a successful couple will be great. If the barrier is put aside it will come back stronger and be a lot more difficult to overcome. If dealt with in the coming months it will be an obstacle that can be dealt with; with effort. These precautions will enable you and he to start a relationship without stress and be able to enjoy your time together without worries and conditions. And yes it will work; if the interference is put to reality.

Will my relationship with V be successful and we get married and stay together until we die? -Lorrainne 
It would be nice if things were that easy however, life is not that way. I feel that you don’t really know each other that well. She is a bit put off by your enthusiasm and forever type of attitude; she is not sure that your fascination with her will last throughout or fade away with the sunrise. This is a very good woman and she will not rush into a life changing situation without a lot of thought and time. Right now she would much rather her you talk about your views of life, she knows how she feels and she does not enjoy hearing how much you like her; she knows that already. She is giving you a chance and if you use this opportunity wisely, it will work. You need to be as sure as possible about your feelings for her. I would advise having some fun together such as a concert or movie; you will grow together and create the positive memories that will serve you in this endeavor.

I met K a month ago and we started a relationship. I had sex with him a week ago and he seems not to be very interested in me even though he says he loves me all the time. I want to be sure does he really like me and will our relationship lead to marriage? -Parity 
This subject should have been thought of before you had sex. The process of bonding and getting to know each other will go smoothly. The quality of your mutual desire to be with each other will tell the tail. If you and this man find each other to be interesting and caring for all life and develop a common image of a future together. He will have many questions; as you do. It is all about getting comfortable with each other and being able to depend on each others support in all matters. If the mental and spiritual part of your friendship evolves, it will keep you together. Please show this man who you really are; he will like it very much. You also must get know this man on a mature and spiritual level. You and he moved very quickly and you must take your time to know each other well. Things will be more difficult because of the way you met. By the way he is thinking in the same way, and working with the same experience.

Love Questions: Posted January 26th, 2015

What are Ken's feeling's for me and will we make a commitment to each other? -Audrey 
You have him baffled, this man prides himself on understanding behavior and in reality he is very good at it. He also feels that he knew you and a lot about you but now he feels he learns something about you every day and he finds this process very enjoyable. He is enjoying getting to know you and doing things with you and every day with you seems unique. I do feel strongly that if there are no barriers; you and he will continue to become closer and closer however, try not to make the mistake of looking to far into the future with him as a couple. This is something that must be gradual and work upon. When somebody in an early relationship tends to ask a question like that, (do we have a future or, are we going to commit?) It will 19 out of twenty times, scare the other away not because they do not feel the same but, because they do not know what to say or how to respond. By being good to each other and enjoying the time you spend with each other a common image of the future will be established between you two; by the way, this will happen very quickly and you nor he will have any questions about each others feelings, they will be established. If any barriers exists they must be taken care of very soon (by March) or they will become more prevalent.

I have not had even a date in over 6 years until 1 month ago. And it was just a nice date with only a hug at the end. I want to know if that's all I'll get for the next 6 years or if I'll find someone or if I have a chance with the man I went on the date with. Will my love life have a love in it at all? -UnDra 
To answer your question, yes. In the recent past people were very careless in the way that they proceeded with new relationships; things were too fast and too soon and long term or committed relationships paid an unfortunate price. Single people tend to be careful and want a long term relationship that is going to last; the free love of the 70s proved to be not so free in the long term. You are a very defined woman and deserve a man who is also defined about how he would like his future to be; you will meet this individual at work or possibly through a club of some sort. A friendship and interest will develop into the relationship you desire.

I have been going with this guy for 5 years off and on is he the one for me? -Sharita 
I do not feel he is, you and he will always have a friendship but I do not see this developing into a relationship. He is also thinking about this exact question, he has many times during the past few years. The on and off aspect of your relationship has become habitual and will only continue; So I do not feel that things will change however; you will feel very different in two months and will be surprised you asked me this question in the first place.

Love Questions: Posted January 18th, 2015

Me and my boyfriend John had been together for a year and a half. We have had many of the same problems throughout our relationship, but small problems like nagging and complaining. We broke up 6 months ago and got back together within 3 days. We talked about the things we had to work on and everything was great for a while. For the past few weeks he had been acting distant saying he felt things were different between us. We had some bad nights and some great nights, but I just thought that it was just a little rough patch because he had been stressed out a lot recently, very busy, and just 3 weeks ago he told me some really important future related things that he had never said to me before and seemed very happy. But just 2 days ago he broke up with me saying that he was unhappy and didn’t think he could live this way forever. That he still loved me but the problems we have been facing have never changed and we never do anything to fix them. I know I love him and that he loves me too. Even though we need to work on many things and neither of us were very happy in the relationship I still feel the love and the strong bond we shared. He is an on and off again type of guy, but I'm scared that this time is different. Do you think we will ever rekindle our romance?
-Jaclyn 
You will rekindle however, without active desire from both of you things will not change. I do feel that you love each other very, very much and know each other very well but, like most couples you have done things backwards or in the opposite manor. You and this man know what it is like to live with someone in a relationship, what it is like to know someone in reality. Individuals go through ups and downs all the time and the people who are close to you see the process and in a relationship this is magnified. I do see you and he as being happy with each other; if you try. The enjoyable experiences are there, they are a part of your and his lives, it is important to your success in the relationship to remember the joy you and he did bring to each other and to relive some of the fun and happy times you have brought to each other. If you and he treat this relationship as being established it will give you the time to enjoy yourselves and the pleasure that you bring out in each other. Within a very short amount of time you and he will work things out and this time you and he both will know the chance is your last. Let the love you feel for each other bring success.

My first true love came back in my life after 20 years. Will I get married with this woman? -Dejan 
You and she have had a chance to grow and define your personalities; each of you know what you want and do not want in your lives. Your friendship can turn into something more if you are both single and free to develop something more. Within three months you will know without a doubt if a relationship is what you both want; the key will be a common interest that will grow at the same time as your perspective relationship. The thought of what a relationship with you, has been with her for a long time but only recently has reemerged. I feel that you and she are on equal levels and will give a relationship a very realistic chance. Remember that feelings are hurt very easy in the beginning; this is true for both of you.

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Recently we had gotten into a fight (he was drunk) and I left to the living room. He had thought I left to go home. I went back to his room a little bit later to find him passed out with his phone beside him. I looked at his phone and saw texts to three unknown numbers. I woke him and confronted him about it and he said he was texting these girls for a friend. Every time I ask him about it I get the same story. I'm having a hard time believing that story lately and was hoping for an outside opinion on the situation. -Jordyn 
Couples get into disagreements all the time and this disagreement is letting you know that people do things when thy are drunk that they can not remember and this is not good. If the issues that you and he are going through surrounds drinking; then the drinking must be dealt with first or else the relationship will not survive. A relationship where one person drinks and the other does not has almost no chance of working out. I know this man loves you and would never do anything to intentionally hurt you but, if drinking is going on, it may not be realized or misinterpreted as having some other origin. You can not tell another what you want, or they will put it on you one way or another. Nobody is perfect but if you both give things a serious attempt a long term relationship will emerge however, you each have a long way to go.

Love Questions: Posted January 12th, 2015

I was together with a guy for almost 7 months but then he ended it suddenly. I want a another chance to show him how much fun we have when we are together. Do we still have a future? -Raymal 
It is very necessary to have fun in the beginning of a perspective relationship because we want someone who can bring us up when we are felling down. Having fun and enjoying time together is how we get to know someone in the beginning. Being that your interest in each other has lasted 7 months, if there are no barriers things will progress. A romantic phase is what some people want, only that. These romantic fascination do not last in to the long-term but can teach us what a committed relationship has to offer (security, mutually returned concern and love). I feel strongly that you and he will succeed however, I also see a barrier emerging in about three months. The love you feel for each other and the long term view you share together will get you through this with ease (this is why I see no barriers). Remember not to build each other up too much to friends and relatives too soon. (It can backfire).

I was involved with a man for over 6 years. I love him very much. He promised that we would get engaged but it never happened. I then gave the ultimatum to get engaged or get moving on with our lives elsewhere. He left. Wished I had done this much sooner. We got back together almost a year later. We argued after going out about 2 weeks later over something he conveniently didn't tell me. Will we ever be able to get together or what? -Maureen 
This issue should have been brought up a long time ago but I do not feel that he thought you would be together still. You and he were only getting to know each other and enjoying each others company; you did fall in love with each other in the process. If you and he are going to go to the next level in your perspective relationship. If you and he really love each other, you or he must give the other time to resolve barriers (a set amount of time) after and only after you and he will have the chance you seek; I do see happiness between you two, eventually.

I need to know if my former friend, Juan, misses me like I miss him. I miss him a lot sometimes. We had an affair while he was married and we haven't talked in over 5 months. I still do not know the true reason why he hasn't contacted me. I've grown so much since then intelligently and spiritually. I love myself deep enough to never commit the same mistake again. That's just not me at this point. It was like someone else other than me was involved in that affair. Does he ever think of me? Will he ever contact me again? I just miss our friendship and I should have never taken it forward. I'm always wondering if he misses our friendship or if I'm somehow in his thoughts. -Jenny
He also thinks about and misses your time together, as you he realizes the affair was a big mistake, not meeting you (he is grateful for that) it is how things progressed. I see that as adults you see this could have hurt people you and he care about deeply. He is feeling a bit more guilty and has asked God to forgive the indiscretion. There is no way around what happened or the inner feelings it has caused. I would advise that you and also he reestablish your spiritual relationship with your spouses (it is not too late). You and he really don’t even know each other in reality; and I feel strongly it (the affair) should also be done with. I am talking about the thought.

Love Questions: Posted January 5th, 2015

Me and my boyfriend broke up about 4 months ago. He was in love with me initially but later started changing his opinions regarding my family. Then suddenly he changed his mind and broke up and got very hateful towards me after the breakup. I thought he understood me and my problems but now he is telling everyone it was all very manipulative of me. Despite all this I believe I love him and he loves me if he once listens to me patiently. He has cut down all ties, changed his number even. Will he come back to me? Does he still love me? Why did he change all of a sudden? Please help! Without these answers, I am feeling very low and lost in life. -Ruma 
There has been a lot of unspoken language that he picked up on from friends and family; nothing bad only the long term plans that people may see you as living. It is really the interference of others that has created this situation. This man was in love with you and the romance that seemed natural and enjoyable however. I do not feel that he entered your friendship with the feeling that things would get this serious this quickly. He felt overwhelmed and put in a position that he was not ready for. It is true that when a relationship evolves family and friends play a necessary role. He still has positive feelings for you but he is not ready for nor does he want a serious relationship and he feels that is what you want. In a month you and he will get a chance to talk and you will see, it is not you but, your surrounding situation.

My girlfriend and I broke up after 2 ½ years. She tells me she's done with the relationship and that she does not want to get back together but she will not tell me that she does not love me and wants me out of her life. What should I do? I love her very much and I want to be with her. -Marty 
It is impossible to change an others feelings no matter how strong or overwhelming they are; in her opinion you and she gave a relationship a try and not only did it not work, the desire to continue is not there. She has many more issues then you know or are aware of, non has to do with you or your friendship. If you have a feeling that she feels differently, she does not. She must work out her life on her own right now. Allow her to think and put things into proper perspective; which is what she is doing. Remember there are a lot of types of love; just because a couple breaks up does not mean that the love is gone, only changed. You can be friends but not now, she needs her space; and sense you care for her I know you will give it to her. You will not only meet one female (who you will like romantically) but, three with in the next four months.

Why did my boyfriend break up with me and why did he hurt me so much? Will he ever come back and if not will I meet someone else soon? -Joellen 
I do not feel that he intended to hurt you at all, I feel that he is a nice person and has a genuine affection for you but not in the way you think. He chose to pursue plans in his life before it is to late or while he has enough time. If you and he were talking you would know this. I feel that he would like to be good friends but feels that you would be insulted if he asked you. This desired change in his life is very important to him and he feels that his time is running out. You will get a chance to clear thing up in about two months; you will be surprised by new information that you had no idea of. It is not another girl and he is not keeping things from you.

Love Questions: Posted December 29th, 2014

I'm curious if we will reunite, after 4.5 years he broke up with me. Now I haven't heard or seen him since the break up. I was disappointed when things ended. I did not take it well. However over the months that past I still love him. Do you think we can take this as a learning experience and be together in the future? -Ash 
Being together for 4.5 years is just like being married (if you were living together it is exactly like being married) The honeymoon lasted a long time and you each had time to put things into perspective. He is very taken with you and he will always hold you in a special place in his hart but, as far as continuing the relationship, he would feel you tried it once and ended things while you were still friends, He will not do it again, it is to much like being married and he feels that he is not ready (financially and goal wise), he still feels that he has a lot of growing to do and, he prefers to do it alone. He feels that nobody believes in him and his ability to achieve success in his chosen field; so he prefers to be solitary for now. It does not have that much to do with you but, everything to do with him.

My boyfriend Shakeeb has left me saying he doesn't love me anymore. However I feel I pushed him away with me constantly arguing and stalking. Even though we had bad break up we left things on good note and have not been together for over six weeks now. Every time I contact him we talk a bit and then he constantly blocks me. I want to know if he loves me and of he is when he is likely to come back to me? -Thahmina 
He does have great affection for you but, not your way of thinking. There are a lot of men and women in prison doing hard time for constantly arguing and also stalking; a lot of problems in life can be avoided by walking away; this must be accepted as one of the lessons of life and that is how he sees it. He has walked away from problems not you, even though the last thing he wants is for you to hold on to him. This relationship is better off ending right now, you and he are on different maturity level. Within three months you will receive information that will change your way of thinking of him and your situation with each other. You and he have very different views of what real love really is.

I met a guy over a year ago, and he liked me very quickly. I soon started to like him back, but there was confusion, mixed messages and fear from both of us. Eventually he moved away and the issue was never resolved or even spoken about. I haven't heard from him for a few months. How important was I to him? Thank you. -E.L. 
I feel very strongly that he more then liked you; he felt as if he fell in love with you. Not in his wildest dreams did he ever think you would feel the same. I also feel strongly that the reason he was so enthusiastic about meeting you, is because he felt it would never happen. One of the reasons he was so forth coming in getting to know you is that he felt your interest in him would fade, and not become real. One of the reasons the past and how it affects his life, was never discussed, is that he felt it would not be an issue; the friendship would never last. This man had no reason to hold back about his feelings; he felt very much that your friendship and his deep feelings for you were only temporary. The past and current situation were not talked about by him, he wanted you to like him. You and he will talk again after Christmas and find you both have missed each other a lot. It will not be an easy thing to develop a relationship however, if you do; this time it will work (it may take a while to resolve certain issues, but the issues will never return).

Love Questions: Posted December 22nd, 2014

There's this guy named Bradley that I really like and that I'm attracted to, sometimes he acts as if he's interested and sometimes he doesn't should I just let it go because I’m wasting my time or should I be patient and go at the speed he wants to go? -Sara 
He is enjoying the chase itself and enjoys that you are confused; he also is well aware that you more then like him. I very much advise that you, if possible get to know him better then you do; it will save you a lot of time and, create your certainty. However I do perceive that he has more issues involved in his life then you realize. Most people flirt innocently; it does not mean that they want a relationship. Flirting is fun and most men do it. All I ask is that you get to know him a lot better before you continue your fantasy. It may be shared.

I have a guy friend. We have a lot in common I guess. I am starting to fall in love with him. Does he feel the same? He's been talking to me more, but how do I know that he is in love with me too? He's quiet so he wouldn't tell me if he liked me. I can't stop thinking about him. Does he feel the same way? I talk to his other friend whom is a guy, is the guy I am in love with jealous? I'm not sure what to do. How do I make him like me? -Jasmin 
To a male a female friend is rarer then a romantic interest however; It gives an individual the time and experience to get to know some one in reality; It lets an individual know if there desire to be with some one, is returned. Every one fears rejection and in a romantic relationship rejection can be an issue that remains with some one through out there life and, can affect an individual in a very negative way. People learn that a game can tell you a lot about an others feelings and most time create a partial certainty that the one they have feelings for, feels the same. I do feel that the two friends in your life talk to each other more then you know. Right now the friendship you have with both of these men, is just that, friendship. If a situation arrives where you need to make a choice between the two, it will bark fire and both will not be happy. It is very important that if you are developing realistic romantic feelings for one that you are honest with him and see if the other friendship will understand and not feel rejected. You see they are better friends then you know and a relationship with one will offend the other. You need to find out if the one you have romantic feelings for feels the same (I feel strongly that he does). It is also important to know a friendship is a lot different then a relationship. Right now things are simple and fun however the first step (if you want to take it) is being sure your feelings are returned, but never the less you can not have your cake and eat it to; one of the friendships must end first; before a relationship can even began with the other. But no matter who you choose to be with (and they choose you) it is very likely to cause bad feelings of rejection to the other; if not handheld right with honesty.

I am trying to find out whether my relationship with Candace will work. We have been together nearly 5 years. Will this sort itself out? If so what vague length if time? -Drew
Five years is enough time to know another well and a strong desire can be felt, even a desire for a long term relationship. By this time you should be more certain about her feelings; you need to find out if she is being vague on purpose; or is she is as confused as you about the relationship. I do feel very much love between you two, and if one of you were away the other would be very unhappy. I the eyes of higher power you are married, and also according to some state laws. You have been together for five years and ending the relationship will be just like a divorce.. I also feel that you and she would like to continue the relationship; do not forget to have fun and enjoy the relationship; this will have the affect of reminding each of you why you are together in the first place. Your being true to each other will bring the spark back (and you each will learn). If there has been any infidelity it is already over; however right now you do have a good chance to grow with in the relationship. I feel strongly that you and she are very concerned about the others feelings; in other words the love is there it is just maturing.

Love Questions: Posted December 15th, 2014

I wanted to know if Rich and I will be in a serious relationship? -Michelle
He has felt as you say ‘serious’ for a while however, I also feel that he is happy the way things are. He has adapted to the situation that he feels you want. He does care about you very much, you could say that he is in love with you, this is why he has done things your way; to make you happy and create harmony within your relationship, no matter how undefined. I feel that he would like to become a bit more serious where the relationship is concerned. If things are pursued naturally, what I mean is the relationship evolving naturally, the way things are supposed to go. I would advise you to be honest with him about the seriousness of your feelings, you will be surprised that he feels the same. You and he have become friends and just let things such as your closeness to each other just happen. Going from an acknowledged friendship to an acknowledged relationship is never easy because a friendship and a relationship are very different and unfortunately this is the stage where people usually stop seeing each other (something that was easy, seems to have become complicated) and a lot of people will just walk away, it is easier. In your case however, I feel strongly that entering a relationship will work out for the simple reason that he feels the same and he feels that you and he have always had a good time with each other; and I do not see that ending.

Will my love C and I get our love back to where it use to be and when is he coming to see our son?
-Janell

There is nothing in life that remains the same throughout, everything changes, it cannot be helped or changed, however things can work out or not. It would be nice if we could change the past and its circumstances but we cannot. As human beings we learn, we emphasize the positive (what feels good) and normally learn from mistakes because we can not change them. I do not feel that you and he can change the past, even for the sake of the child. I do feel however that you and he can start a new and become the family that you and he wanted in the first place. If he feels the same as you it can work however the past and mistakes (which we all make) in the past relationship must be resolved first or else you and he are condemned to repeat them.

I love a guy very much but I don't know about his feelings clearly. Does he really love me? Will he marry me? -Nibedita
I really do not feel that you and he know each other well enough to consider marriage. Just bringing up the word marriage at this stage of your friendship will only scare him away. Things must develop in stages with consideration and this is the process that people call being in love. When there is genuine love in a relationship there is no need to wonder if a person feels the same; an individual should know because of their feelings. I feel strongly that you need to allow him to return the affectionate feelings. One of the quickest ways to end a friendship or perspective relationship, is to be to open in the beginning and wear your feelings on a sleeve that can be seen by all. At a time it may be appropriate, but not in the beginning, nine out of ten times it backfires. I feel that you and he can evolve in your relationship however, move slowly and enjoy each others company, get to know each other better; and I can see a relationship being there before you and he realize. The memories you and he are creating now will decide your future, they may seem important now but you see it becomes the substance that holds couples together. People will walk towards good feelings and run away from negative feelings.

Love Questions: Posted December 8th, 2014

I met this guy, we really hit it off talking to each other through Facebook a lot he even said he liked me. I don't know if it's an obsession or not but we're not talking right now for the moment. I guess I upset him in what I said. I’m not quite sure what exactly made him stop talking to me. (we’re just friends by the way) I'm not sure but I'm feeling the cold shoulder on his part but I'm stuck here with the curiosity if he's the one for me still. I believe I talked to a psychic and she said she saw a really handsome young man but I had to marry him dressed in white is he that guy? -Clara
One of the laws of human behavior is deprivation creates motivation, which I feel is the reason for his not communicating. You and he have been friends for a long time and he has been wondering if you feel more towards him then friendship; in other words will you be more motivated towards him; now that the possibility of not communicating is real. I feel strongly that he has a desire to become closer to you in a way of acknowledging a relationship. You see the quickest way to end a friendship is to come on to that person in a romantic way and it could be a mistake, he is really not sure. It is rare for a man to have a close friend of the opposite sex, at least for very long. The way he will know for sure that you like him in that way is by your response to this situation, is it just one of those things or, are you upset? It is not easy to move from a friendship to an acknowledged relationship, it does change things. My feeling is that he would like to enter a good relationship with you; he is just not sure if it would end a good friendship. Within the next two months you and he will clarify your feelings to each other at a very colorful and pleasant place, one that you both enjoy and you will both laugh at thinking in such a similar way.

Is my boyfriend being faithful to me and he serious about our relationship? -Latrenda
My feeling is that the suspicion goes both ways. I do not feel there is an actual reason to be jealous, you are only seeing traits in him which attracted you to him in the first place; he is also trying to live up to this reputation in your eyes; he feels it would create a desire on your part; it has already created curiosity. If you and he are realistic with each other, I do feel a good relationship could begin. If the current suspicion continues it would be wise to let it go, and also any interest in a relationship will fade. A big mistake would be to keep any secrets; I feel there is really no need.

My question is will my last boyfriend will ever come back into my life? We’ve been together for 5 years and for me it's hard to move because I love him so much. But I am wondering if he will ever come back to me? -Courtenay
Five years is more then enough time to know if a relationship is going to work. Where you may be sure in your love of him and would like to give a relationship another chance, he is not so certain; he does love you and care for you but in his opinion you gave it a try (most marriages do not last that long) a very good try however he does not feel that he is in a position to make things work. He is also very unsure about the permanence of a long term relationship. I do not feel with this uncertainty, and after five years that a relationship would be advisable. However, the friendship will last for a very long time.

Love Questions: Posted December 1st, 2014

When will I be able to find love; a girl that will really want me? -Danny
I feel there is two who already feel as you however, they are friends and you know it would likely ruin the friendship if you came on to either one of them and you are right. You will find love when you are not looking (people around you know how you feel). Right now you are expressing a need for someone in your life and to be honest with you, people really do not want to be responsible for an others happiness or be the primary object of an others obsession; it scares possible relationships away. Before a real relationship there is a time of bonding and enjoyment in each others company.  Others want you to be yourself; happy and open to the future in a positive way. I feel that you are a very likable person and you have a lot of very interesting things going on. Within three months you will make a very good friend of the opposite sex and you will have a good time and care for each other in a gradual but real way. I do see a lot of potential for an equally enjoyable and growing situation. She will have green eyes that seem to look through you. You are going to have a beneficial year in a lot of ways if you start preparing now.

My ex left me for another women 9 months ago. I just found out that she had a baby. He recently had text me to work things out. He didn't text me anymore after that. I am very confused and am questioning if he ever truly loved me. What do you think I should do? -Aj
He would be thinking about life in the long term, plans and desired path in life (a child in your life will do that and, he considers the child to be a great gift). I feel that you and he will always hold a special place for each other in your hearts. I also feel that he would like to be just friends but feel that would not be possible; he feels you would take it as an insult. In a time of weakness and self doubt he will attempt to get close to you again however you will see how unfair this is to you and your plans in life and you will not want this. This will occur in about four months.

I’ve been in love with this guy for a long time. Right now we are not together but he says he loves me. Will we get married? -Julie
I feel strongly that there is a very relevant barrier between you two and the thing is that he has no desire to change his situation. I feel a lot of growing stress from this man and I do not see it ending for a very long time. He would also feel that what you feel for him is romance and fantasy and there is nothing wrong with that, if the other is available for a relationship and wants one. He likes you very much however I do not see a marriage and it will be you who stops things; I know you do not feel that way now and, it seems unlikely however if you give things a while you will think differently, or should I say see things clearly. It is going to be a very interesting year for you. One in which you will finally gain access to something you have wanted a good part of your life, now what you do with this opportunity is entirely up to you however, that chance will arrive.

Love Questions: Posted November 24th, 2014

What do I need to do to find someone? It has been so long since I have had a meaningful relationship. Is there any hope? -T
I feel very strongly that you have not been in a relationship or close friendship with anyone for a specific reason; sometimes we all must sit and reflect on life in general (nothing specific); you have learned and recharged your batteries. Also I can tell you are much stronger then you portray; what I mean is you are very much aware that it takes two to make a relationship work, by the way it always starts with a friendship and fascination about the person. By the beginning of next year you will wonder why this issue was so complicated to you. I see a wonderful friendship starting at the same time as your enthusiasm for a new project, this friendship has a very good chance of becoming something more. A real chance for you to accomplish some thing that seemed like a dream before (a fantasy) will come into play. You will eventually find this has been a fantasy to her also. If you enjoy each other and are good to each other, I feel it will grow to fruition, you see you are each an important part, or should I say essential part of each others future. The coming year will be very fast paced, so I would advise to conserve your energy for now; you do have this opportunity.

Will my ex girlfriend come back to me? It has been a month since it ended. Will she change her mind and come back? -C
The reason she left in the first place was mostly about her insecurities; not yours. You opened up honestly about your feelings for her to soon, I feel strongly that she assumed you would except any thing and end up leaving first. She is just as confused over what happened as you; she has no specific reason however, she does know that you love her in a very real way. Without trying to do everything alone this time the chance will arrive however; you are well aware that a relationship takes two efforts not one. One thing that will evolve with in you is the realization that you have a very romantic way of looking at things but, a relationship takes reality and romance is only a start however, a good start. By the way it takes the human mind 90 days or three months to adopt to and show results of any new routine or pattern. You have only been apart for a month; allow yourself to think, also; allow her to think.

My boyfriend J and I broke up two months ago because I got scared and pushed him away. I know he loved me and when I realized I wanted him back he was not ready to give me a chance. He finally contacted me and wanted to work things out but a girl entered his life and we are currently in no contact. I feel like he is my twin flame and I've had lots of signs that I believe are from my spirit guides. I feel like he still truly loves me. Will he come back into my life and if so when? -T 
If this man was truly in your destiny he would be there now. You need to look deeply into yourself and figure out why you were scared, was it for a real reason, or something that was overly thought about at the time. He will attempt to return to you however, he will have the same and some new baggage. I feel it can be worked out but it will take a major effort from both of you and by that time you may see things in a different way.

Love Questions: Posted November 17th, 2014

I told Michael I was totally through with him in a jealous rage. I sent him a text message asking him if he could forgive me and for us to start over again. Is he going to forgive me and come back? -Carolyn
If a developing relationship does not go through this there is a big problem. If the jealousy and possessiveness does or cannot stop, the relationship is pretty much over, and I do not feel it is justified. You feel jealousy for the same reason that you were attracted to him in the first place. One thing you proved to him is how serious you feel about this relationship and that is has moved to the next level. If he is doing something that makes you uncomfortable let him know. His feelings for you are very strong and he does not want you to feel angry or insecure because that means he is doing something wrong and he does not mean to. If the jealousy and possessiveness (on both sides) is discussed, it will stop being an issue. If it is not discussed it will get worse however, I do see a developing and successful long term relationship for you two. Remember right now you should be developing good and secure feelings, not negative images that have a tendency to push us away.

I was in a relationship for a year and a half. The majority was great. I had some depression due to family passing away that caused me to be less than a good partner. We broke up and it was hard on both of us. We were engaged, had a wedding date, lots of shared friends, but the breakup didn't go well. She started dating a guy a few weeks after our breakup. I've heard they have had a rocky time now that she has moved out of state. But she also posts pics of them being happy on trips too. I miss her every day and wonder when they will break up and if she will open her heart to me again. Thank you. -Chad
An issue like this (passing of a close family) early on in a relationship or marriage can draw two people together forever if the other person involved is a good support system and shows caring however, if the person you are supposed to be in a relationship with does not seem to care or understand your strong feelings, the relationship will not work and is earthier quickly or all of a sudden over. I see her as being happy and holding on to a little guilt over what happened between you two, or did not happen, there is no blame or hard feelings. She has a happy life and wishes you the same. I feel that you could become very good friends but a long term relationship is not in the cards.

Love Questions: Posted November 10th, 2014

I’ve had an old flame in my mind lately. Can you please tell me why. He’s married. -Melissa 
Life is a constant learning process and I feel strongly that you and he were discovering what it feels like to care for and to enjoy life with another (aside from family) of the opposite sex; to feel evolving feelings and wonder if the perceived love and attachment is mutual or even real. You and he were learning a lot about life. The knowledge that you and he brought out in each other will last forever and has affected your lives in a positive way. You share disappointment that the ideal was not achieved but you will always wish the best life for the other. There are a lot of ups and downs at this stage of life and you shared love and feelings; this feeling is good and will last, as our love for our children.

I’ve been off and on with someone for about 8 years. Everyone says if it’s off and on it was never meant to be. Will it ever work out for us? Were we even right for each other? -E
I feel strongly that both you and he are afraid that the fun and romance will fade as you consciously move to a more evolved point in your relationship (men have a strong tenancy to think this way); and sometimes this is right. In real relationships such as yours, the conscious evolution or commitment to another can deepen the love an individual feels in a relationship and take it to a more mature level and in your and his case I feel this will work fine for you. You are not the only one that has been thinking about this subject, he has to. I would advise you to make sure he is ready to advance the relationship; if he sees it as being surrounded be pressure and stress, something he can not handle, he will not want to, but if the move is natural and pleasurable to you and he, he will be all for it. Please do not make the mistake of building an ideal relationship to family and friends, it can backfire. Let this relationship take its natural course. I do not perceive any barriers and what I do sense is realistic love between you two and if the relationship is paced, what you desire will occur.

I just want to know if my ex (we’re sort of seeing each other again) is trustworthy and if he isn't being involved with girls right now as he says he isn't and expects me to not be involved with males as well. -Domareena
I feel that you can trust him, as much as you can trust yourself. I feel strongly that he is very aware of the situation; what I mean is that he knows that an evolving relationship is something that a person is ready for. He is not the ladies man that you see him as; he only wants to show off for you. The reputation that he has built up in your eyes he sees now as being something that is preventing you from trusting him. He is aware that without trust, there is no relationship. In my opinion he is ready and very much willing to take things to a unique and committed relationship with you. I would advise that you and he further a realistic relationship, but take things slowly and enjoy the ride. He also understands that this is his last chance with you. The thought of being without you is a nightmare to him and he does not want to feel that way. For some reason he knows what loss feels like, and he does not want to feel that way anymore. Together you will have a great holiday season and your path will be created with each other.

Love Questions: Posted November 3rd, 2014

My husband cheated on me in July, he came back for a week then left again to go stay with his daughter saying to clear his head. Well in that week he was seeing the girl he cheated on me with. I had put a protection from abuse order on him. Well a week later he said he wanted to come back to me again, but I had to drop the PFA. So he could come around me. Well I went to pick him up, he stayed 2 days then went to work on the weekend. That week I had to finalize dropping the PFA. He never came back. That was about a couple weeks ago. Just recently he massaged me and wanted to come home and be with me. We spent the day together and he said he had to go back to his daughters house so he can straighten things out and he will be back home. Well that next day he said he wasn’t ever up here only so the girl he is with wouldn’t find out. Well she now knows the whole truth. But I don’t know what I should do. I know if things don’t work out between them he will come crying to me. As I Love this man with all my being. Will he ever come back and be faithful? -Tracy 
I strongly feel that besides being in love with him, you have become a co-dependent; in other words he needs you to maintain his current behavior which by the way will not stop. He is aware that you are blaming yourself for the problems in the relationship (which I feel you really don’t have) and as long as he blames others for his situation things will never change, and by the way he really sees no need to change nor does he have the desire. Some men like having two or three girlfriends and not having to commit to anyone. Where you are thinking in terms of the present to the future, he is caught up in the hear and now. I feel you relationship has started to evolve in to reality; and this is something that is not working. Many men and women are sitting in prison for the rest of there lives because of not knowing when to walk away. You may like each other, but the relationship is based on dysfunction and the results will not be good.

I went to a psychic yesterday and got told my boyfriend is going to leave me in 6 months because I am pushing him away. We are arguing a lot but we love each other at the end of the day. How can I reassure myself that that is not going to happen? Or how do I slowly turn into friends with him? I don’t want to loose him. -Cynthia
First of all, did the psychic tell you he was leaving or did you tell the psychic tell you what you thought was going to happen? I feel the latter is true. As far as reassurance that issues will not come up again, there is no reassurance, it really does not exist. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship where nothing goes wrong; It just does not work that way. That is why people need to be as sure as possible about who they let in there lives, we must know a person very, very, well before we intend to spend our lives with them. It is not on him (I really can not identify a problem). It is very important that the other person in our relationship knows you completely (or a much as possible) John Lennon once said Love is surrender and a truer statement has never been made. A relationship or marriage can give a person all the love and need they ever wanted (if done and planed right) or a relationship or marriage rushed in to unprepared can also be a nightmare and make life miserable. It appears that you and this man are not good for each other. There is to much suspicion and stress to be comfortable. I feel it is time to end things; and this should not be hard. This man is use to the conflict and stress, and to a certain extent doing things on purpose (to keep the confusion going). He is very afraid of losing you but feels he has nothing to offer to maintain and strengthen the relationship. I feel strongly that you and he are on the verge of conflict and blame. A time out is needed right now; not after twenty years in prison. It is almost impossible to go back to being friends; he would take this as an insult. He feels that you are totally in love with him.

I broke up with my bf 2 years ago for a stupid reason. I was angry with him and acted on it. He was so upset and confused. I broke up with him in a text. I made a bad move. He begged for me back and I said no. He was very upset. I found out from a friend that he started dating this girl who he was friends with. I didn't like this when I found out. It was a rebound relationship. I find out last year that they are getting married. They’ve been together since 2012. They had a baby before the marriage. I'm so upset about this. I realized within like a week I regretted breaking up with him. I then begged for him back. This was all before the marriage. His girlfriend was mean to me and called me names. I felt bad about breaking up with him. Then a year later I forgot about him. Now I'm back to thinking about him again and wanting him back. I want him to miss me. I prayed to god that I want him back and sorry for dumping him for a stupid reason. I want him back in my life. I hope he is thinking of me right now like I am. I hope he divorces her. She isn't right for him. Me and him belong together. What I want to know is why am I thinking about him again and wanting him to come back again? Please help me out what does this mean? We haven't talked since 2012. He told me on the phone when I called he may forgive me and that if he wasn't with her he would be back. I just hope he realizes that I miss him and that he shouldn't of got married right away. I hope he realizes this was a mistake. I realize I made a mistake in dumping him. I acted on my anger. Hope to hear back from you. -Lauren
To be very honest with you; you should leave him alone. You broke his heart and let him know that you are the person he thought. Please do not ask God to define your feelings for him. This man is married which means he is off limits and going back to the past, no matter how childish is not possible. If you really ever cared about him you would want him to have a happy life without complications. No matter what mistakes were made, they can not be corrected. You have been a part of his life and helped him define what he really wants out of life. He has moved on (not because of you entirely) and became closer to what he really wants out of life. He does wish you happiness also; your relationship was a game to you, to him it was serious and heart felt. Time to move on.

Love Questions: Posted October 27th, 2014

I have been broken up with my ex-bf Christopher for almost 2 years. I still think of him often and I love him still. How will things work out between us? How does he feel about me? Will we ever be together again? -C 
People will always think about what could have been and what could have been done differently (hind sight is 20/20). As you, he is disappointed that things did not work out the way you wanted, however he does feel that you had time to get to know each other and adapt to each others ways of thinking and acting. I do not feel he is upset or carrying any unresolved issues toward you. He does like you and he knows you like him and in both cases it turned into love. Things are too fresh and emotional now but he would definitely would like to be friends eventually. He is just not sure about how you feel. You will talk on Halloween and on Christmas day.

Will my ex of 3 years (who I also have a 1 year old with) come back to me? We split up 4 months ago and he started seeing someone shortly after and is now in a relationship with her and lives abroad. I love him a lot and I’m wondering whether to move forward and whether he is serious with her? -K 
Moving forward is not a choice, it happens whether we want it or not however, we chose what direction we follow. If we learn or remain affected all our lives, the choice is yours. I honestly feel that whatever issues became a barrier to the relationship were known and both of you were well aware of them. I do not feel that you should blame the other woman, he is a grown man and makes his own choices. Also, I feel that he was seeing her long before you realized (this would explain his emotional distance). In my opinion this is not a negative thing for you; I do feel that he was keeping you confused purposely. He will attempt to return however, taking him back would be a big mistake, that is condemned to repeat itself.

I was seeing this man for about two months, we got very close and fell in love. Something happened and he became distant. About two months ago he told me we needed to go our separate ways because he didn't see this going anywhere. I still have feelings for this man and think about him all the time. I miss what we had. I would like to know if he will contact me again and when? Are we getting back together, and if so, when? -E 
I see him as being a very good man that has made mistakes in his past. The person that you feel in love with is real however, he does carry a great deal of baggage that he believes will make him look bad in your eyes. I also feel that he started to fall in love with you and I do not feel this was his intention (romantic love is easy, realistic love that lasts takes strength). When he is ready to deal with the past, you will see a different person however now he does not feel so good, he does miss your company. In three months I feel the chance will be there, now weather you want to put that much effort in to it is another story another chance will take a lot of effort.

Love Questions: Posted October 20th, 2014

My recent ex boyfriend moved on and is with someone else. Will he ever come back to me? -Vera
You will find that he will attempt to return to you after his new love interest does not work out. Within three months he will contact you and try to explain the confusion he has and was going through when he left you. When you ask he will try to talk about all the mistakes that he feels he has made and that the only thing he knows for certain is that he cares for you and did not mean to hurt your feelings. He will wait until you bring up the topic of trying one more time; then he will agree. If there are no changes in your new attempt; the same thing will happen again. This event has caused your perspective new attempt to take on an air of seriousness, the trust must be earned not promised; then you and he will understand the real feelings you have for each other... one more chance... If you want it.

I met a younger Virgo over a year ago and had a short sexual relationship with him but I really fell hard. I was trying to tell him how I felt and he thought I was breaking up with him. Do you see him coming back or do you see someone else or no one(hopefully not the latter). -Betty
He is very use to possessiveness and what it can do to a happy relationship. This man is very friendly and works and plays well with others and he knows this. He will always have many friends (as you). When you finally talk to each other you will find that he is not making a big deal of this, and is very confused as to why you are. Once you and he start to enjoy yourselves, movies, amusement parks, concerts and see the biggest part of the enjoyment is being with each other. It is difficult to go back to the beginning and start over; but well worth it.

 

Love Questions: Posted October 13th, 2014

I am currently having feelings for someone I have known for 4 years, does he feel the same for me? Is he the love of my life and will he take the next step? It's really confusing sometimes, he's too close and other times too distant. -Pam

He also shares very strong romantic feelings for you and he has for a long time. He is only very confused about his feelings. Are you good friends or are you more? I do not feel he is real experienced in having a woman as a friend. He also knows that he can talk to you like no other; and he feels you understand him and he understands you. I feel that you and he have a very good communication with each other and you should be able to talk about this, he does feel the same but does not want to ruin the friendship. He is aware of how you are starting to feel. I would advise continuing and taking the friendship to a more defined level. This relationship is moving slowly but in a forward direction.

My guy asked for space a month ago. He started dating another girl days later. He never told me I had to find out on my own. Things were absolutely wonderful for is. No problems, no conflicts. I was left waiting & hurting so bad. When I found out he was seeing someone else, I fell apart. I loved him and I thought he loved me too; he told me he did. It hurt to see him with another. It hurts to see him look happy because we were happy too. I have no idea why he asked for space but I do now. I did see a psychic who told me he was The One but it just wasn't time. She said he loved me & this was only temporary & that he would be back. I love him still even though he left me. He texted me the other night asking how I was & asking me not to hate him and he apologized for hurting me. Can you tell if we will get back together over time? I felt he was the one only after a few weeks. I feel like GOD told me it wasn't time either. We dated 5 months & it stopped abruptly leaving me hurting bad. I see a counselor once a week to help me through. I need to know whether we have another chance or is there someone else for me? -Miranda
Five months is a good amount of time, it only takes three months to establish or break any routing or see a begriming of a result; work outs, running, work, new hours. I feel strongly that you and he gave things a very good try, and what else can you do? A relationship is a conglomeration of two ways of living into one; a sharing of life. In our society we have the privilege of choosing the people we would like to meet; we as individuals have many choices. Considering the consequences of a failed marriage or relationship this is something that must be well thought out by both people involved; one will not do. I also feel strongly that he is a good man, but not ready for commitment. No one is wrong here, you have been honest and so has he. I do not feel he meant to hurt you, I only feel you were not ready to accept it. It does take two to tango. He does have personal reasons for not wanting a committed relationship not only with you but with anyone; he is just not ready in his opinion. This is better now than after three years of marriage. He will pursue you in the future however you will be involved in a good relationship that can evolve the way you want it too. Your choice will be easy.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. He left me for the girl he cheated on me with. He seems happy but will he and I reconcile again? -Nicole
He will want to reconcile however, you will not be to interested by that time. Also I do not feel you will ever be able to trust him again. This subject would grow to the point of confrontation and I feel neither one of you want that. You and he are very compatible and would make very good partners in some sort of financial endeavor if you could become friends. I do not feel either one of you want a seriously committed relationship, however the spark will remain forever.

Love Questions: Posted October 6th, 2014

I wanted to ask you if I’ll be in a relationship this year? Also, how does my love life look in the next 5 years? -Ivan
I feel strongly you needed to have some down time for two reasons that affect each other. First a perspective relationship that brought you confusion and a lack of confidence. Secondly, a very important issue regarding your career or profession. In relationships or perspective relationships there are no guaranties the one you love feels the same or will eventually feel the same. This is a law of nature. It is all about trail and error. We learn, we evolve and change and this is the only constant in nature. You will meet a person who feels as you, sees the future as you, and wants the same things out of life, now weather you choose to proceed or not it is totally up to you; this will happen during the holiday season; for Halloween have a lot of fun with friends. Usually a person is not looking when they find someone compatible. The dating seen in the US is very social and full of all the freedoms we want; if your project is done or finished, and if you find someone who has the same passion towards your likes, this is a good start to something more defined. A relationship takes time but getting there is fun. Create what you want.

I've been seeing a guy for about a year. What started off as a fling has now led me to develop deeper feelings for him. We've never really talked to each other about commitment, but I feel I'm ready for one now. Is he? Does he feel the same way about me and I want to know if he is my life partner? if not when and why will what we have end? Thank you for your time. -Raj
That is one thing about flings they are basically novelty a way to know people you are interested in, and socialize. Many flings become genuine relationships but they are very different. I do feel he feels the same love as you and has been thinking in the same way about the same things. He knows how you feel and is only waiting for you to bring it up (the subject of commitment). We always need to remember we are humans it is a natural process to become close to individuals we care about. If there has been barriers to your situation marriage, distance, availability or previous commitment these things will get stronger until dealt with. However I do not see any major changes for about four months; for now I would say wait and let you decision be made for you. You will not be disappointed. And yes is the answer.

I was told there was a secret in my relationship. I honestly never thought it was, but if so what could this secret be? -Nakia
If you do not know even what it could be; forget it. Do not let it ruin your life. I do not sense anything major however if this is about you love interest, he should man up and just say something. I do not feel this is an issue that you should fret about, it’s really nothing and you don’t want to get into self analysis for nothing; its frustrating. The only secrets you are yet to discover are about you and your perceptions and these are very good. You are a person with a very kind heart you are sensitive to all around you and your environment. I consider this to be a great gift. Just remember the environment you are in and people you are around do rub off; only be around people and places that give you joy and happiness; the opposite is also true.

Love Questions: Posted September 29th, 2014

I am attracted to a younger man and we had been texting for about 7 months when I revealed that I may have feelings for him. He revealed that he did in fact like me too. We then stopped texting for a few months. Does he like me enough to start texting me again and possibly go a little further? -Sue
Being that he stopped texting you, I feel that this is his attempt to see if you really miss him (depravation creates motivation) a bit of reverse psychology. I strongly feel that this man is falling in love with you. The age difference will not be a problem in the beginning. Romantically you are extremely attested to each others personality. If you both take your friendship honestly and feel that you respect each other, I feel that things could very well develop in the romantic phase where everything is hearts and flowers… this is a time to really get to know each other better. This is where it is important to talk, have fun, and other things that you both enjoy. You and he are becoming more and more interested in each other and will create the opportunity to become closer to each other; yes the opportunity will be there and I feel it will work.

I was told in a reading that I would be meeting someone soon. However, I am wondering if I already met this person or if I missed my mark because I haven't completely gotten over my feelings for another guy. I thought I had a real connection with the other guy in the beginning and then all of a sudden he is distant with me. I don't know what happened or if I just imagined this connection. A psychic told me it was because I didn't believe I deserved him and I need to learn self love. We have communicated with each other on and off for the past year. Should he be out of my life completely or will we be good friends in the future because I don't want to lose him, especially since I was so comfortable with him? -C
I strongly feel that you do not know the full reason why he became distant; if this is for no specific reason he will contact you again and explain his situation. First of all, was the intention for a long term relationship? I feel that you and this man will have another chance to create what you want. One thing that has occurred is this action has created a real time to think and put things into perspective. I do also feel that he would be open to a more defined situation with each other but for some reason the reality of the situation has become very important. He does not want to hurt you and if things were completely your fault you would know the reason. Nevertheless he will contact you soon. He really does not know how you may feel about him; are you mad, sad, or a bit of both. Seeing each other again to you and he seems uncomfortable and full of tension; it will not, you will enjoy seeing each other very much.

I want my guy to marry me and make our bond stronger and make him forget our past and heal and make each other happy until death do us part. I want another baby. -N
Getting married to resolve problems never ever works, it actually makes things worse the pressure is a lot greater that is why couples need to be as ready as possible. A successful marriage is a blessing, a bad marriage can be a persons worst nightmare. Our ancestors did things the way they did because it worked. If both of you see the past as being a barrier to the future; the past must be dealt with and resolved before anything can and should happen. This man feels very overwhelmed at this time and you don’t know the half of it. It will take a lot of work…

Love Questions: Posted September 22nd, 2014

I’ve been with my boyfriend for years but I wonder if he is really into me. I never know what he thinks and feels or why he’s with me so we separated. I now still don’t know these questions and I’m really depressed. Will we get back together? -Clara
I feel strongly that you should know this man a lot better then you do. He knows you are analyzing his behavior and trying to understand his motivation towards you and your relationship. He also knows you and he are earthier going to stay together or go your separate ways; you see this man has nothing to say about the future, he feels it is being designed day to day. I feel you and also he are going through all the stress of a committed relationship with very few benefits. If you are looking with in yourself to gain understanding it is not going to work; it does not come for anything you are doing or not doing, so looking at things from your perspective will only create frustration for you. I also feel you and he are on the same level in your relationship however, you are more articulate and open. Only remember a relationship is designed day to day, not year by year. You and he will make it however you need to create some good happy experiences between you two, good bonding experiences concerts, fishing, museums, roller skating etc.. it is very addictive.

Is there a chance that my ex husband will leave his fiancé come back to me? We always said we were soul mates. When might that happen and should I even take him back? There are many changes he has tried and failed to make so far. -Rachel
Another person never gets closer to you by giving something up, it just does not work; just as in any behavior mod, if the personal desire is not there, nothing will be effective. People become offended when someone is asked to change with in a relationship or marriage. Soul mates, does not mean every thing is going to be naturally easy; Sole mates only mean that an individual or a couple feels an overwhelming feeling of the presence of higher power in being drawn to each other, as if destiny is playing a roll in the union. I feel strongly that there is to much water under the bridge between you and he, you have both moved on and, you are both disappointed about how things worked out; the possibility of friendship exists and always will.

I am currently out of an up and down relationship as of a couple of months ago. I feel like the person might have never really loved me and kind of used me to get by. Which is sad. But I have taken some time to heal and am working hard on changing myself so I won't attract someone who does that again as I feel I am a good hearted kind lovable woman and don’t think I deserve that. I am also working on manifesting my schooling to go well and bring a wonderful man into mine and my sons life. My question is for closure does my ex see what a jerk he has been? And how long till my dream guy shows up? -Shandli
Your ex does not see things as you do and has his own perspective about what happened between you two. You still care about each other and also love each other; for some reason the magic and romance were not nurtured correctly and faded away. At times you and he will feel very comfortable around each other some times not; communication is not right. You destiny is to be in a nurturing relationship, with some one who sees life some what as you do however, I feel it will be a matter of a couple of years, and if you are attached at the time. I see you as being very creative in many ways, but also stern at times in a way of independent action, I can see you feel comfortable with your self the man will be the same; if nurtured it will grow. Now it is necessary to determine you future; or is it?

Love Questions: Posted September 15th, 2014

I was talking to a guy for 3 weeks. Everything was going very well, we really enjoyed talking to each other. He asked me on a date and it all went well until the end. We ended the night really bad. After that he said he'll still talk to me but he has stopped replying to my messages. Do I still have a chance with him? He is really nice and I felt that he actually liked me. I can't stop thinking about the fact that if the date would've ended good, we would be together now. How can I make him like me again? -Oana
There is no such thing as a perfect couple; Adam and Eve had issues. This man backed off for his own reasons; reasons that you can not know because they are his and he has not shared them. This man is interested in dating and having some one to do things with, fun things he is not thinking in a long term kind of way. Some how he did get the message that you wanted something he was no ready for. I feel after a bit of time and thought you and he will give your friendship another chance. After a good clarifying discussion you and he will find that you do like each other very much and would like to continue the friendship. He does know where you stand right now and what to except. Allow him to think and put things into perspective, you did catch him by surprise, he suspected but now he feels he is sure abut your feelings for him. You will also find a way to make a career out of a hobby.

I have been through some things and most recently with a man named Jason. From the moment I met him I knew something was deeper connected and special. But I wonder how will we end up. Will this be a long term relationship or will this be a moment in time. It’s been awhile now. We have been friends and then much more and it seems to progress yet slowly with steps way back. What do you see for us? -Zaneta
Relationships are supposed to evolve slowly; it takes time to get to know someone completely. It sounds like you are getting very serious or falling in love; he feels the same. One of the biggest mistakes a couple can make is moving too fast and being unprepared for further commitment. I feel very strongly that you and he will end up together, you see he is feeling the same and has for a long time. I do also feel that you and he have no others in your lives that would create a barrier to your success as a couple. As long as you are good to each other and continue to create positive and happy memories with each other your relationship will last and be happy. Just remember to make each other laugh and bring enjoyment to the relationship.

My ex boyfriend and I broke up in January. In my mind I don't love him since he hurt me but honestly in my heart I love him so much. I just can't let him go but he "says" he’s moved on and is satisfied with his new social life which I feel they are bad influences on him and taking advantage of him. He blocked me on everything and said he doesn't love me. I don't know what to do. Should I be more patient? When will he come along or just I move on? -Amethyst
It takes a lot of effort and sometimes does not succeed to remove someone from our thoughts (someone we love). In getting to know someone we get use to their laugh, sound, smell, and mannerisms and tends to enhance the closeness and uniqueness, and is definitely a big part of bonding. I feel what is happening to you is disappointment that something that felt so right did not work out. You must go by his statement to you about not being in love; I know it is hard but you do not have the complete story and an individual can not and should not try to interfere with an others free will. He will attempt to come back in about three months but you will be with another who is all you have wanted.

Love Questions: Posted September 8th, 2014

Will my love life ever have as much love as it did in the beginning of my relationship? -Alexis
It is very important to look at an evolving love as a living, breathing, continually changing entity; an entity of two not one. I do feel that you and he have already entered reality. The different phases of love do not just appear in our lives, in an actual relationship the adaptations are worked on and with, throughout the relationship or marriage. As with your situation thoughts have a way of manifesting them selves in reality. You and this man feel the same way and if there are no barriers, you will evolve. Too many couples stop dating or going out to do something together once the others feelings are defined, including marriage; and this is all I am feeling, you and this man miss doing things with each other. He already knows what things interest you and vise versa; an active relationship, or a least new experiences that are shared, vacations, BBQ’s, fishing etc. Positive activity creates the substance the keep a relationship growing and evolving in a pleasant and natural pace. Continue to create positive and happy memories, you and he both are ready for some smiles and good memories throughout the relationship.

Me and boyfriend Anthony broke up last month because he told me that he has cheated on me a few times and he needed some space to figure out what he needs. I'm having an hard time dealing with this because we normally take a break and find our way back to each other. I am curious to know that is there a chance for me and him to get back together soon? I know in my heart that we are soul mates and the only person that is holding back is him because he is afraid. What should I do?
-Candice

He wants a time out because you caught him and he has no idea what to say to you. One of the laws of human nature is deprivation creates motivation. A time out does have a way of causing a person to face the reality of their situation and the reality of losing a person that they love. One way to see if you are mad or sad is to not to communicate, it promotes thought however if you and he do not start talking about this, it’s over between you and he. I do not feel you want the same things out of life or are ready to evolve to that point. You will see some major changes coming from him. Some of these changes you may like, some you will not.

I need to know if Timothy is still in love with me or is he in love with someone else? -Stephanie
Generally men will not remain in a relationship with out love. If you pick up an emotional distance coming from him it is not about another woman. He is thinking in the same way as you, you and he are studying each other and forgetting to enjoy the relationship. Within two months you and he will become involved in a project; and it is during this mutual project you and he will become more confident in each others love.

Love Questions: Posted September 1st, 2014

Me and this guy Steve dated for about 8 months. A couple weeks ago on a day that we were supposed to hangout, he texted me saying he needed to talk and that he was sad, stressed, and confused. He claimed that he wasn't sure if he honestly loved me and that he thinks that he was in love with the idea of being in love. He wasn't the best looking of guys but I was trying to go by personality for once since he seemed to be a good guy in the beginning. I was just wondering if I'll ever hear from him again and if he misses me, if not then when do you see a new guy coming into my life? -Sierra
He did not feel that he was as accomplished as you. The romantic aspect is very strong, you and this man are very attracted to each other. A committed relationship that is unique is not what he feels, he wants. I also feel you are very lucky that he attempted to explain his reasons and not just disappeared; leaving you with out explanation. I do not see him as regretting his actions and he will pursue a friendship with you when the emotions are healed. You will always have many friends and a lot of opportunities for a romantic relationship. You will start meeting many people when you pick up a hobby that was left behind a long time ago.

I lived with this guy for seven years but we've been separated over three months now with no contact. I think I'm receiving messages from him psychically at times, and/or sending them. Should I try to sever the cord or does this relationship deserve another chance? -Linda
By this time you would not have these feelings and so much doubt if the relationship was healthy. I have seen many married couples not last as long as you and he have been together; in the eyes of higher power and some governments you are married. Like a lot of couples you are going through all the feelings of being married, with non of the benefits of being married. There is a very good reason for getting married; a spiritual plan, a guide to work with, and a bonding that is unique. I feel strongly feel that you and he have become bored with each other and no longer have a common image of the future together; he realizes this and so do you. The cord has been severed already. You and he do miss each other and you both are a bit disappointed it did not work, seven years is a long time. I feel strongly that you and he will give things one more chance, in a few months. He is wondering the same thing as you; do you miss him or not? Remember depravation creates motivation. Your bonding is a lot stronger then you think.

I just need some guidance I broke up with a guy I have been with for over 4 ½ years and it should of ended awhile ago but it happened later rather than sooner. Lately I've just been wanting more and have just kind of lost in general. I want to know whoever I end up with will be everything I'm looking for and will make me happy and how soon until he comes around and I actually get to meet him. The next guy I date I want it to be the one I spend the rest of my life with. This has just been in my mind awhile. -Emily
If there were guaranties in relationships it would be nice, but there is not. A lot of people because of strong feelings, make the mistake that the other person feels and sees things as you do; this is a mistake, a proper bonding takes time. A lot of individuals make the mistake of committing to another too soon in the romantic phase of the relationship (the romantic phase is when everything is hearts and flowers) however it is the realistic phase when couples should commit, it prevents heartbreak. First of all if you were depending on him to make decisions it is time for you to decide were you would like to be or do, you need to make yourself happy and not depend on any one else to do it for you. You are going to have a very active few months and find a lot of reasons to be happy and smile.

Love Questions: Posted August 25th, 2014

I have been seeing someone who claims he likes me a lot and now have not heard from him. What do you see? Is he coming back? -Carmen
I have a strong feeling that by this time you should know and you should be secure in your feelings; is what your feeling real or infatuation and wishful thinking? I see him as being a very nice person however, he has not really found himself. I do feel there is a very strong chance that you and he could become very close. I do understand how difficult it is going from friendship to a romantic relationship. Within three months you will know how he feels about you. I do see him opening up to you. You see he is also thinking about this very subject and he does know how you feel already. I would advise you to have fun with each other; a movie, concert or a game and let nature take its course. I do not feel you will be disappointed.

I want to know who my soulmate is. I loved someone, his name was Ariel but he we broke up and now he has a girlfriend. Is there a possibility that we can be together again? -Mae Anne
If he was an actual soul mate you would not have to ask this question. There are essentially two types of soul mates; one type is an astrological soul mate and we have many of them and this only means we have a lot in common and getting along would be natural. The other type is a spiritual soul mate of which we only have one (maybe two if we are lucky), this is when one is sure that the object of there affection feels the same and there is a very strong feeling of familiarity and destiny (a very unique feeling) or that higher power played a part in bringing a couple together. You will be surprised by his desire to rekindle the relationship; you and he will try but I do not feel it will evolve.

Will I get back together with my ex boyfriend? -Eunice
I see him making an attempt to get close to you again however, the same issues will soon make an appearance if not solved. Your relationship has become real and you both understand that nobody is perfect; you both realize it takes effort and common vision of the future together. I do not feel that you and he are going to let the time you spent together go to waste. It will take time to talk and understand each other. I feel you will try one more time and if it does not work you and he will move on.

Love Questions: Posted August 18th, 2014

Will “G” ever come back? He seems to have moved on so soon and seems happy but I'm still in love and miss him a lot. He was bad to me but I believe he is my soul mate and would love to be together again and not feel so lost and broken. -Megan
The uncomfortable feelings are because of the disappointment that things did not work out. I would advise you not to look at this situation as far as finding a solution; if this was about you, then self blame and guilt will not work. He did not leave because of you; he feels unable to meet the necessities of a committed relationship, money, long-term image, and maybe children. He scared himself away. I do feel he misses you and very much understands that he is in love with you. He will try to put these things into words so please listen to him. He will stay away for another two months then he will make an appearance in your life again. You will also try a relationship again.

When will I find love? What does my love life have in store for me? -Tina
I see your romantic life evolving from a work or employment situation. You are very much a mystery to your friends; they find you have a very kind heart and do not know what you may be thinking about. You will find the opportunity for a deep friendship that most likely will evolve very quickly. You are in a very strong cycle where your intuition is very accurate, and anything you feel or start will be correct. Enjoy the high energy; it becomes you.

I've been best friends with this guy for a long time now. He's liked me I think but at the same time he's liked other girls. He's very flirty; I feel like my mind is being played with. I've been to other psychics which have just told me he does like me but there are other girls. What should I do? -Urja
Be yourself and feel good in life. He already knows that you like him but it is difficult to go from friendship to a romantic relationship; will it end the friendship? Will things backfire? I do understand everybody feels this way in perspective romantic relationship however, this is really not the time to open up about your true feelings; allow him to do this. He would also be very confused at this time and feel overwhelmed. For the time being, be a friend to this man and share one on one time with each other. I would suggest a movie, roller skating, a dance; anything light and easygoing. The chance to become more than friends will come within the beginning of fall however, you may not feel the same way. Remember jealousy that is misplaced is the fastest way to end things between two people.

Love Questions: Posted August 11th, 2014

I've seen this guy for months on and off; it started out like love at first sight. I hid my soon-to-be ex-husband from him because I didn't want him to know all of that. He likes my family and my family likes him a lot better than my soon-to-be ex-husband. In my heart it feels like we were meant to be. We made future plans and he talked to me about maybe one day in the future having a child together. I'm not rushing anything, I’m a true believer things fall into place on its own but this time around with him I would love to have the heart to speak up. What should I do? -Amy
He does care and is very interested in you. He is aware that you are in a dysfunctional relationship and will not pursue the situation until you are single again. This man is going to be a great support system for you however, if your friendship is defined it will not go any further. Do not expect this man to heal wounds from the past; he is really not interested in that. He has a lot of curiosity about you and right now he is observing how you take care of the uncomfortable situation you are in. He does not want a rebound relationship or to become your therapist. Within the next two months you will have an opportunity to end the problematic relationship you are in (it’s really up to you). If he did not genuinely have an interest in you, he would not entertain the possibility of a closer or more defined situation; you need to remember you are married. Another child will play a major roll in your life however, the atmosphere must be calm.

Am I going to find someone to love me again? If so, when? -Vicki
I feel very strongly that you are loved and that you have been all your life. You also have a tendency to pick up and reflect others apparent mood, weather it’s good or bad or anything in between; for this reason I feel you have been very conscious about who you open up to. I do understand that you have your own reasons, I also understand that picking up others feelings does not always feel good; just remember that if you begin the day in a positive mood and all of a sudden you feel upset in one way or another, this is most likely due to someone else. If you wake up upset the feelings are coming from you (if you develop this ability, it can be very much to your advantage) it is very important to a potential relationship that you have many commonalities; if not you will become bored very soon. Within two to three months you will be going through a phase in which you will become more sensitive than usual and the thing is most of the time you are right. This personal magnetism will last around three or four months. This is a perfect time for you to begin any new endeavors going from friendship to a relationship, starting a new career, or even developing, or strengthening a meditation routine; chances are that you will succeed. You will notice the attention very soon if you are not already. By the way your destiny is for a marriage (with in two years), you will meet him next month it will be love at first sight for both.

I dated my current ex for about 2 years before he broke up with me in July. It was the best relationship I had ever had and I have always felt he was the one and worth fighting for. Things went sour because everything was moving too fast. He wants to stay best friends because he says he cares about me more than any other person he's ever known. However, he has starting talking to a long distance ex and I still see him every day. Friends of mine who have talked to him, and he has even said this to me, that he is open to something in the future, and that he just doesn't feel ready for me, so to speak. However, it breaks my heart to see him every day and feel like we will never be together romantically. He has told me he loves me but doesn't have romantic feelings for me. I just want those back and I can tell he's putting a wall up, I think because he's afraid of how serious things will get. I catch him staring at me and he gets jealous when he sees me interacting with other guys. I have not been cruel to him since the break up (except when he had lied to me about seeing his ex), but even then he said he would choose me over any romantic relationship. Is there hope for the future? Is there anything I can do to speed up the process? -Sarah
Many individuals when they experience the actual process of being married (living together for two years, in the eyes of god is being married) find they are not ready for the obligations that go with a committed relationship, he does love you in a romantic way but, is not ready or willing to enter a serious situation. I feel this man is being very honest with you and that you genuinely want to try a new relationship but it takes two to tango. He is not into all the pressure of a committed relationship but would really like to begin all over and re-experience all the romantic feelings that are involved in a new relationship. It is not you he would feel that way in any serious friendship. You acknowledged that the relationship was moving too fast and I feel that is the primary reason for his actions. You and he will continue to see each other however, if your relationship is not more defined, the same thing will happen again. We see couples that are very happy and enjoying life however we fail to remember that it does take effort; a great effort.

Love Questions: Posted August 4th, 2014

I have a brother-in-law and I recently started thinking of him in a loving way because one night I heard a voice tell me he loves me and has since he met me. Every time I think of him it's like static electricity. But then there is someone else telling me that he hates me. I hope you can help me. -Karen
You are a very sensitive individual and if you have not already, you should not pursue your brother-in-law; it will cause major problems. If you are not in a relationship now, you will be very soon. I do not know how else to say it but back off. What you are feeling is fantasy and romance and there is nothing wrong with that but not at the expense of his marriage. You need to remember you are family and adults. Your relationship with your sister needs work and if you cannot trust yourself just stay away. He sees your interaction with each other as playful like a sister not a lover. Marriage is a very serious thing it can give you all the joy in the world or cause many problems with your life. Within one month there will be an individual who you are very interested in, you will know how in appropriate this issue is.

I would like to know when I will be getting married? -Anessa
You are looking for a traditional relationship and this is in your destiny. When you meet an individual who sees life as you this is a beginning. A marriage is a two way street and a very important move. I do see you refusing the first two times you are asked, but as they say the third time is the charm. You will have been dating for quite a while, and this move will be well thought out. I do see you in a career of some sort, and also he, possibly the same one. You will be married within five years.

I have had 2 boyfriends and with both it was a long-distance relationship. I feel like love might not be in the stars for me. There are many guys (mostly long-distance) who show their interest and I love talking to them (and enjoying their interest in me), but I don't see anyone I really would want to follow. I also over think things, so spontaneous crazy decisions in love are not really my thing. I always have way too many obstacles and it has never been a smooth experience for me; loving someone or letting someone love me. Nonetheless, I am a very sensitive and loving person. I feel the need for true fulfilling love in my life. Will I ever find my true love? When will it happen? Can it be one of my exes? -Irina
First of all, I would advise you to stop letting others define you; you seem like you’re already doing this and the answer to your question is a definite yes. Long distance relationships are tricky situations. It is very possible to meet a lot of people online; but as far as developing a relationship, it comes with its own problems and the couple must be very, very dedicated to each other to make it work. You are not the type of individual who would enjoy that kind of relationship. Within the next four months you will meet an individual who will capture your heart and he will feel the same. Even though the friendship will be established because of mutual interest and you and he will enjoy being with each other, this enjoyment will evolve in to true love. Stay close to the colors of purple and silver.

Love Questions: Posted July 28th, 2014

I have been with my partner for almost 2 years now. We have had some really rough patches but we are on the straight and narrow now heading in the right direction. Even though we are doing amazing, there are still little things every now and then that make me question him. I want to know if he has been faithful for the whole duration of our relationship. -La Toya
I do not feel that he has wandered (physically) however, I also feel that by you thinking that way, to him you’re showing that you do care. Jealousy is never good but it shows where a persons heart is. If the past is an actual barrier the relationship will never work. It is necessary to look toward the future together and establish a common image. Individuals that are caught up with the past never move forward. Hind sight is 20/20; which means it is easy to see an issue after it has occurred. As I said I do not feel he has been physical with anyone else; he seems to have a lot more intelligence then you give him credit for. You and he are doing very well with each other but if something real is making you uncomfortable it should be resolved. Your relationship with each other has been an investment and you both love each other. That’s a great thing.

I’m a lesbian and I’ve been in love with this person that I’ve been seeing for over 2 years. I love and care about them just as much as she loves and cares about me. Will we ever become a couple and if so when? -Nedra
I feel that she has been thinking about this exact topic. Astrologically you compliment each other and I do not see that stopping. I feel very strongly that you and she already have a relationship going on. If what your referring to is more definition in the relationship, this is growing as we speak. Interferences from others is completely up to you and she; and I do feel your love for each other will keep you together.

Am I going to end up with my close friend or are we better off as friends? We are both attracted to each other but we are both currently in other relationships. -Jacquelyn
Where you may not be serious about your relationship; he is. Being that you and he are forbidden fruit to each other at this time, I feel makes you think about this topic a lot. You need to remember that a relationship is very different from a friendship. One of the laws of human nature is that depravation creates motivation; this means the more a person can not have something or somebody the more they tend to want it. Everybody has thoughts, however acting on some thoughts has the potential of causing great harm. If you pursue more then a friendship with this man you will lose your relationship and your friendship. Remember think about things in terms of past, present, and future. And be sure to be kind to yourself and the people you love.

Love Questions: Posted July 21st, 2014

How will things work out with the man that I am in love with? I keep seeing signs of him everywhere that is in relation to his line of work. I try to stay busy but I think about him a lot and he is always in my dreams. I think he may have contacted my ex spouse. My ex told me that he received a call from him. I feel that my ex spouse may have sabotaged the relationship with the man that I'm in love with. He and I haven't communicated in almost a month. I am trying to clear my thoughts and focus on myself and legal issues with my ex spouse. Will I ever have a chance with the man that I want to build a long lasting loving relationship with? Can you give me any thoughts please? -Farah
My feeling is that there is a lot of unfinished business between you and this man. The circumstance of resentment influences have made him think deeply about the relationship. He realizes that others see your relationship as being serious and he is determined to make his own observations and determinations regarding your relationship with each other. If there are no deep secrets that you are keeping from him, I do not feel there are, it should not matter one way or another how others feel. Ex husbands and wives are usually not the best reference regarding other serious relationships; by observing your response to the talk they had, he will know if you are over the other relationship or not. He wishes to take your relationship to a higher level. My advise to you is to be your positive self and to try not to let others influence your choice in friends and others. Gossip is not conducive to a trusting relationship, but know he does love you very much.

I would like to know if my boyfriend will return to me after being reunited with an old flame of 15 years ago. We were together for 6.5 years and he basically jumped from me to her, dropping me like a hot potato, no explanation of what, if anything, went wrong or that he was unhappy in our relationship and why. Due to the many "coincidences" surrounding our initial meeting I feel that we are soul mates who are meant to be together till death do us part in this lifetime. -Beth
The reason you did not see this coming is that his affair has been going on a lot longer then you know. Your knowledge of what was happening was not a part of the plan. He does not have an explanation and really does not know what to say to you. He knows what he did and how he did it is a very cowardly way to do things, but it does show you, it is not anything about you; so if you are looking for reasons it will create a lot of frustration for you. He will attempt to return very soon however, the same thing will happen again if definition is not established. You will not feel the same when he needs to return; and he will blame you for what happened and all I can say about that… is that it is not true.

A guy from my past came back in my life. We started a relationship and then some drama happened from other people around us and then he started seeing another girl. She had been causing drama and friction between me and this guy. Will he come back to me will we be a couple again? If so, when? -Stella
For some reason I feel this man does not really want a serious relationship. I do see that he will attempt to reenter your life, but as far as a committed situation, he has no desire. Drama will occur as you are seen by others as the other woman and he does have strong feelings towards you and this can be seen by people who know him. Try not to blame the other woman, he is telling you and her different versions of the same issue. He will want to see you but a relationship would bring many problems to you life. He has many issues to repair and deal with, it would not be the type of relationship that you had in mind.

Love Questions: Posted July 14th, 2014

I have broken contact with a man as our relationship was although deeply meaningful to me, it was very unhealthy. I can not release thoughts of him from my mind. Was he my soul mate? Did he feel the same? -Clare
A person as a soul mate would not bring you into any unhealthy situation or anything that would ever harm your mind, body or spiritually. Most people cannot see the dynamics of a relationship until a strong attachment occurs (then things become real; romance into reality) I feel strongly that for some reason, he does not see love as you do. Some people confuse strong feelings for another, as love; strong feelings only take one, love takes two and I also feel that you have identified the issue. I know you are concerned about him however, he is a grown man. To see things in a more positive way I would advise him to seek out assistance. I do feel strongly that he will seek you out, and I do also feel he will tell you exactly what you want to hear. If you need a time out to gain perspective by all means take it; he will understand if he cares. Within two months you will see a great change in him.

I am at the end process of divorce. 9 months ago I met a man out of the blue when I was not expecting it and immediately felt connected to him. He felt connected to me as well, however timing was not right and he began to date someone else. Now I am available and he is not. There is an unspoken "psychic" link between he and I and an attraction and chemistry like none I have experienced. I know he will have to complete the journey with the woman he is currently dating and I have to live my life. I feel that there is more to come for he and I. Do you feel our connection is over or will there be a future opportunity for us? -Jenn
This man became overwhelmed by the perspective relationship. The reality of your feelings and possible long-term relationship that was implied scared him away. I do not feel that he was ready for that kind of change or responsibility, not to say he did not like you; he did very much. You and he are very romantically compatible however, in reality you want different things out of life. It is important for you to pace yourself and see for yourself what life has to offer; you may just enjoy it. In the past few years you have become very picky about what you don’t like or will except. You can do anything you want. Enjoy the freedom and never feel pressured to except what you do not like. I feel you may choose to be single for a while. His reaction to your relationship is not a reflection on you, but an expression of his view of life. You will talk very soon but choose to remain friends, which you will. The year ahead for you will be very active and you will make many life changes; these changes will give you great pleasure and for some reason you will be attracted to bells and chimes.

I have been single for 8 yrs now. I do have a man in my life but he is unhealthy for me and for himself. I do not feel that this relationship is truly going anywhere and I keep him around for the company mostly. I know he loves me in his own way, but he is an alcoholic and I am not good with that, life has so much more to offer. I have not given up on the thought of my soul mate coming into my life yet I am beginning to wonder if I truly deserve to be happily in love with the right man for me. My mom has been alone for over 20 years now and I do not wish to end up like that. She has accepted it which saddens me. I keep telling myself that my other half is looking for me as I am him, yet 8 years is a long time to wait. Will my soul mate come into my life or am I meant to be old and lonely like my mom? -Tamara
I feel strongly that you and he do love each other more then you realize however, the relationship you are in is unhealthy and damaged. By this I mean the codependency will continue and would only bring you more unhappiness. If you deiced to end it, do not blame him, it will cause him great pain. This man understands what is going on and to a certain extent he expects it. Let him know that you need to think about yourself (in a non-selfish way). You may feel that the relationship is not good for you and also him; you are right. He will find the strength to eliminate alcohol from his life; in his thoughts all bad things that have occurred, have been directly because of drinking. You do not have to stop communicating with each other. He would feel that because of drinking he lost you. And I feel his love for you and for himself will give him the ability to change, the desire is there. If you and he have based your relationship on drinking, you do not know each other realistically. People do change a lot when they stop or try so feelings will change. You as an individual would also need to stop, not cut down but stop and you will see a happy person who is magnetic and vivacious. I have strong faith that you will succeed. You need to do what is right for yourself if you want to see good results. It wont take long, but the effects will last forever.

Love Questions: Posted July 7th, 2014

My ex girlfriend split up with me last October. I loved her dearly and begged for her to come back but she always refused. I will be honest though, I’ve treated her very badly in the past. This year I did meet someone else, however, I have still been seeing my ex throughout this new relationship but she did not know I had a new girlfriend. I wanted her back during this time but she showed no commitment which is why I carried on with the current relationship. I know my ex still loves me but I’m currently still with this new girlfriend as she forgave my infidelity. I’m just wondering which of these women I will end up being with in the future. I’m really confused. Can you please give me some guidance? -Paul
It is a bit different when somebody else dictates our actions; do not make the mistake of repeating the behavior that prompted this reaction in the first place. I feel that she is very confused about all of her choices in life you are only a part of this. She understands how upset you are and that at this time, you do not have any idea of what the future may hold for you and her. It would seem that there is a fear in talking to each other and this needs to change. She does care for you but she also has the opinion that things regarding her or her personal interest tend to upset you. Now is not the time to talk to her or insist on talking to her; you can say I love you a million times but you are telling her something she already knows; nothing new. You and she need time away from each other for a lot of reasons but for now, to gain perspective and think. By the end of summer the chance to rekindle the relationship will present itself; what you do with it is entirely up to you.

I have been in a relationship for 6 ½ years with my boyfriend. Do you see marriage and kids? -Laurie
Yes I do, in about a year. He wants to do things in a right way and he wants to be very certain and in his heart he is. Your desire means everything to him and he wants to make you happy. He is a little concerned that after a marriage things will change; this is a common concern. Bring up the idea and you will see he feels the same. With planning and desire you and he will find the correct time. Please make this a special occasion, I would advise a spiritual marriage that includes family and friends.

I'm 31 years old and live in Los Angeles and am having the worst time with relationships. Every relationship I get in the guy breaks up with me 3 to 4 months later. I'm starting to lose hope. It's hard to meet people in this city and it's especially hard to meet the right people. There is a guy that asked me out almost a year ago but I was dating someone else at the time. I've thought about him off and on and wondered if there is any point in contacting him now. I'm just sick and tired of all the pain I've gone through over the past 3 years that I'm not sure I should even try anymore. -C.F. 
Many people have gone years without a date; you are very fortunate to have the opportunity. I feel very strongly that you are a strong and defined woman. You may be attracted to alpha males who express confidence and has the initiative to go for what he wants out of life; this is fine but you are an alpha female and there will be disappointment. You have a clear view of what you would like out of life. A companion in a long term relationship must posses the same view or want the same thing out of life; if not it will not work. Within three months two opportunities will approach you one is with an ex boyfriend who will insist he has changed his ways. The other opportunity will be with someone you meet as a result of pursuing an educational interest. You may find that you are not as anxious as you thought before, as the future looks brighter and brighter.

Love Questions: Posted June 30th, 2014

I have been with Katerina for four years. She has been in bad relationships all her life. I have not been bad to her but I lied about something and it was not the thing I lied about, it was the fact that I lied that made her leave. So now she can't trust me and left. I lied so she wouldn't get hurt but now it’s over. She has a son who is seven which I have been a big part of his life and his dad just passed away. I love them both with all my heart. Do you see us getting back together? –Derrick
First of all this is a time to heal and grieve; I am sure her child is her first priority as it should be. I understand that you want her to be happy and enjoy life but it is not that easy. She needs time to cope and deal with this unexpected event. People grieve in different ways and for different amounts of time. You need to understand that at one time they established a common view of the future together and they were blessed with a child. She picked up insensitivity and a lack of understanding from you, she does understand that you have a great deal of affection for her and she does like you. You will give a relationship another try and she will talk about her feelings about her loss when she is ready; not when you are ready. You need to have patience; if a romantic interest does not support an individuals in there grief, they will lose the affection but if an individual understands and supports the relationship will last and love will grow. Remember you are also developing a relationship with the child and this is what she is focused on. Give it time and be a good friend to her and her child, let nature take its course.

It has been over 6 six years that I have been separated from my ex-boyfriend. For some reason, I cannot forget about him and I even think I still love him. My question is: Why can't I get over him? Is it because he probably still thinks about me too? Will we ever be together again? I just don't know what to do to forget him. I wish there was anything that you could tell me that would help me. –Victoria
I feel very strongly that your memories have many ideals and vivid pictures of a good life with him and an individual will only get to that point if they are in love. People will always have regrets and wonder what if; we need to remember hind sight is 20/20. He has many good memories of you also. In our world we have the freedom to choose who we want (in many countries you can not choose who you want), and with that choice comes the chance that another feels the same or not the same. This is what dating is all about, seeing if the perspective relationship or interest goes beyond the moment. I feel that he likes you very much but may not see the future exactly as you; he does think about you a lot but feels the distance is what you want. Within the next three months you will start to communicate again and arrange a date.

I still have strong feelings for my ex boyfriend. It’s been 7 months since the break up and I haven't made contact with him in awhile but ran into him recently and basically I started flirting with him. I asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said no but that he was seeing someone and it wasn't serious. We were together for over a year. I really want him back but he never pursues me and never initiates with me. He is on a dating site saying he is looking for a relationship. Will he ever come back to me and want a relationship with me again? –Gina
He is looking for friendship and enjoyment, not a committed relationship. The concept of a committed relationship implies responsibility to him and he does not feel he is ready to make that move. If you listen well you will see that he only wants to date. Feeling free and happy is an essential part of a relationship and people usually and mutually agree to make things unique. I feel strongly that when you and he were together you were not taking the relationship seriously and really never discussed it and even though you love each other in your way, you will become very good friends. I do not see a relationship happening; is not in the cards.

Love Questions: Posted June 23rd, 2014

This guy and me have been dating now for 3 years, but we are not seeing other people. He tells me he doesn't want to be committed right now because he isn't ready. It feels like we are already in a committed relationship though. I don't know what to do about this. Does he really love me and is going to be with me seriously one day, or am I just a convenience to him? Can I trust him? Sometimes I have doubts. Is there someone else that will be my soul mate, if so what do you see happening? Thank you. -Stacy 
You and he have been in love for a long time. You both have adapted your situation in life to each other. I don’t feel he is involved with anyone else. In the time you have been together, I feel you have talked and explored the subject of a committed relationship at times in detail. At this point in your relationship a committed situation such as an engagement leading to a marriage may seem ideal to you however, he views the perspective situation as restrictive and legally a big risk. Another reason he is thinking about is why ruin a good thing; in his way of thinking you are already in a committed relationship without the acknowledgment. It is not like he has not thought about this subject, just like you he has had a lot of time. He does love you and he knows you love him; However you need to be in agreement on something like this. In the next three months his financial aspect, in his opinion will be ready to open up talk. For now, do not scare each other away by looking too far into the future, just let it happen or start to become clearer.

I feel like I'm never going to get to my goal of a partner, family and future. I’m wondering how easily a recent ex has moved on and if a couple of potentials I’m dating or to date is just yet another waste of time. I have a lot to give and yet I'm always the third wheel in my friends relationships. Will this change, if so when? –Jada 
You are a very defined person you know what you want in life and what you don’t want. I feel you have many interests and hobbies. As an independent woman you are very aware that things take time; the interest as well as the romantic attraction has got to last. I also feel strongly that you are very sensitive, possibly to the point of being psychic. You will be deeply involved in a friendship within the next month. This friendship will be based on common interest and can quickly evolve into more. Remember your family and friends can tell what’s happing just by being around you and they want you to be happy. Friends feel you will fall in love very fast; as do I. You will know him by his love of music, he is a guitar player.

I met a guy online in January. We had a short sexual relationship. I got scared and ended things. I developed very strong feelings for him. I tried to apologize but he won't listen. I just recently confessed my love for him. Do you feel he will contact me, if not what can I do to move on? I honestly felt he was my soul mate. -Christina
His opinion is that you have fallen in love with him, and he does now know how serious you are regarding relationships. I feel that you have moved very fast and caused him to look at the future in a serious way; to him this is happening too fast, and this is causing him confusion. He is sure that he wants to be with you however, if things are to complicated he will not know what to do or say. He will contact you, but for the moment he takes your situation as proof that you do care. Within two weeks he will contact you; that is if you do not make an attempt.

 

Love Questions: Posted June 16th, 2014

I meet this guy at work and at first I just thought he was cute. I’ve noticed my feelings for him now are growing massively. I know he is attracted to me too but I don’t want to fall for him then end up hurting myself later. Do you think he is the one for me? –Adrianna
You don’t want to ruin the opportunity before you make an attempt (or he). It is not the feelings that are growing but the anticipation and he does feel the same. Although most relations begin within the work place or school setting, it is frowned upon and not taken as being a good thing but a distraction. You are both attracted to each other and I would advise you to find out if you’re on the same page. I do feel strongly that your friendship will grow as you both become aware of the commonalities that you share. If you and he nurture your friendship there is no doubt you will get closer. Only two things; make sure there is no other relationship going on (you will get attached to each other very fast) and secondly workplace gossip creates a soap opera atmosphere that has ruined many careers and perspective careers. See each other outside of the work place, if a good relationship is established outside of the workplace it will be accepted by all; if it is in the work place where you and he create the time to be with each other it will create gossip and misunderstandings. I also feel strongly that it can work, if taken slowly and correctly.

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. I feel like I pushed him farther away begging for him to come back. We haven't talked in a few days now and I miss him and still have feelings for him. I'm also paranoid that he found someone else. My main concern is if we will ever get back together. I am currently having spell work done by a spell caster. Is there even a chance for us? He told me he doesn't want to get back together but I really want to. Help me. –Bridgit
First of all, one should never interfere with an others free will; it can and will backfire. This man does care for you and is right now defining the feelings involved. If a committed relationship is what you’re referring to, remember it takes two to work. The whole aspect of a long term relationship depends on the two people involved establishing a common image of the future together. This process must not be rushed or only established by one, it must be natural and according to the laws of nature. I truly feel that he feels very confused about what to do but he is confident that you do love him in your way. I advise giving this man time to think. The situation is not about another female, do you really think he wants twice the pressure? No. A committed relationship means something a bit different to a man. Within the summer months you can bond and enjoy the relationship or play games (communication tag) with each other all summer. Right now you and he are equally confused. If the communication remains open and enjoyable (no ultimatums) you will get the opportunity that you desire. If rushed he will also rush away.

I been in a long distance relationship for more than three years now. Everything was just fine even though we didn't have the chance to see each other often, we were building from distance a stronger love; slowly but constant. A few months ago he started to be more and more distant, now he doesn't call more than every three days or one time per week. He told me he has a lot of problems but I feel this relationship is not a relationship anymore. I asked him the other day if he considered this ended and he say no. Now I just don't know what to do. I still love him so much and I just don't feel walking away and trying to meet other people, but at the same time I'm not happy with him. What should I do? –Josie
It is very easy to be romantic and the knight in shining armor from a distance. Most people do not feel they can establish realistic feelings at a distance however, you can and swim in romance and fantasy but relationships have a way of becoming more intense when entering reality. This is where a lot of concerns originate; do I move, quit my job, will it last or is it worth it? I would advise you to be very sure about him. Are you willing to take on his problems or issues; can he do the same? Money does not matter when people fall in love, but it does matter in a realistic relationship. I feel if you bonded with each other in a more realistic way, the answer to the question of ‘where are we going, do we have a plan?’ will come to both of you when the time is right to evolve. Right now I do not see anything wrong with your friendship. He does feel as you, may be a bit more intensely (men will always think, what do I have to offer. Its in our genetic code) Do not rush to the answer, it will not be correct; let it happen it wont be long.

Love Questions: Posted June 9th, 2014

I’m in love with a guy named Anthony and we've been together for about a year. We recently got into dispute and are currently not together. Somewhere once he came back and wanted to give it another try but when I admitted to him about some things in between the breakup he all of sudden didn’t want anything to do with me. Is the love real or is this just a life lesson? –Kendra
The bonding and feelings are very real however, the word love has many meanings. We as human beings are far from being perfect, we make mistakes and evolved individuals learn and understand this. Where relationships are concerned in the romantic phase feelings and uniqueness is magnified. If the mistake has to do with another person, he will not return to the relationship. One thing that is very important in any committed relationship is learning to disagree and to not let minor disagreements grow into something that has nothing to do with the original issue. I feel you and he were doing this, in other words becoming real. He does love you and the time apart has made him more positive about his love; he only felt that you were doing the same thing. He will be very silent for a while, however within the next two months he will find a reason to communicate; you and this man are more alike then you realize.

My husband wants to divorce me and I don't want this. We've been married for less than 2 years. Is he going to divorce for real? –Pulma
A person does not have to stay married if they desire not to and it is a big mistake to hold someone down, it does not work. He is well aware of your feelings and sees you as very predictable. He just may be doing you a favor by adding distance. He is going through an issue you know nothing about; the past has caught up. You can not make someone talk if they do not want to and he does not want to talk, married or not. If you can not see a reason that only means it is not your mistake and if you try to see it you will become very frustrated. My advise is to agree with him; he will not be expecting that and it will give you an opportunity to talk. The divorce will go through, although after two months an annulment is more likely if there is not a lot of money involved. An end to the marriage does not necessarily mean an end to a relationship. However I feel that you will likely not be interested.

 

Hi. I’m so confused and would appreciate some insight. I’ve been dating this guy for a year now on and off and every time it seems this is the end we don’t have any contact he would make contact again. If he doesn’t have feelings for me, why can’t he just leave me alone? He knows how much I love him. I just wish he could be honest with me about his feelings. Can you please tell me what the future holds for us? Thanks. –Chantel
The reason you and he keep going from romance to separation over and over is that the next step is reality for you and he. A lot of people will do what he is doing in a relationship for the reason that he is not prepared to the point of security in his life. He does not want to end the relationship though, this man does love you. What you want must be cultivated slowly, a common image of the future will be established between you two. I feel this has already started and with bonding it will become reality. Do not be so concerned about the minor details to the point where you are not enjoying the relationship. Being with each other is becoming addictive to both of you. Within five months you will not be as concerned as you are now.

Love Questions: Posted June 2nd, 2014

Me and my ex broke up months ago after a sudden bad breakup. His depression was the cause that clashed with my stressful life. Now we are seeing each other again as friends but we are both aware we still love each other and should start things slow as friends. He is still focusing on healing himself by going to therapy and getting busy with life improvements for himself. I am doing the same during those times we are apart. I was busy at work, working out my body, and most hobbies and I enjoy keeping myself occupied. I’m just wondering about what will happen to us if we choose the path of reconciliation. Will there be any dilemmas that may happen or is it worth rekindling a broken relationship. Thanks -Gwendy
You and this man love each other very much and even though I know it was hard, you gave each other the freedom to pursue the important things to your happiness in life. Even though you see each other as being very different, you would tend to compliment each other. A talk or discussion with his counselor might help you to understand certain behavior. In a long-term relationship a man wants to have something to offer or contribute (to create balance and commonality) and I feel that he sees himself as having nothing to offer you. He also feels that his personal situation in life was holding you back or could hold you back. You and this man have had time to think about things in detail. If you and he take life together slowly and really get to know each others situation in life; a relationship will grow just like a nurtured seed.

I’m torn between two guys and I’m not sure which direction to go. I am wondering if you could help guide me in the right direction. The first one is “D”; and I’ve known him for years now. Somehow we never really committed to each other. The second, I just met a few months back named “N”. I don’t really know him yet but he seems genuine and interested. -Virginia
I feel very strongly that “D” has considered your close friendship or relationship as an emotional investment. Opening up and deep companionship, these features are an indication that he does take your situation with each other very seriously, however, if you and he have not established a common image of the future by now, you most likely will not. I know he would not appreciate your interest in “N”. Where “N” is concerned, he does posses genuine interest in you and feels that you feel the same way. I feel he knows about “D” but does not see you as being interested in him anymore. You may be thinking about the near future regarding long-term or committed relationships but, just remember it takes two. Ones individual image of the future generally does not work for two. I sense a great deal of affection towards you. However, two relationships at one time does not work. For the next month you will continue to be confused until someones action makes your decision for you.

I met a younger (six years younger) Virgo and we had a two month sexual relationship. I stupidly ended it but I really feel he is some kind of soul mate. I finally confessed my feelings to him by text before that I had tried to apologize but he won't respond. Do u feel he will comeback sometime? –Betty
I feel that you totally caught this man by surprise. People in relationships usually retain the last feeling that they had the last time they saw the object of their thoughts. I do also feel affection was developed between you and he and you both are very unsure about what to do next. During the next three months you will have the opportunity to talk. I feel that you’re both on the same page (regarding getting to know each other better). However, there will be a barrier to you and he getting closer. Your feelings will remain open it is how he deals with the barrier that will be conducive to a defined situation.

 

Love Questions: Posted May 26th, 2014

Hello sir, I'm writing this with a broken heart. I'm in love with one of my best friend who in turn doesn't love me; I know it's not a mere attraction. Something I never felt on any of my friends of whom I know. When I saw his photo it was just a feeling of friendship but the moment I met him I just lost myself in him. It took 6 months for me to confirm that I’m in love with him. I told him about my love but he neither said yes or no but I know deep inside his heart he also loves me but might not be ready to accept it. I can't imagine a life without him please help. -Nisha
For a relationship to work it does take two; if not, it cannot be called a relationship. I do feel in my heart that he does have a love for you but not the romantic type you desire. You caught this man by surprise; he knows you are getting close to him as he is to you however, he had no idea about the romantic feelings. Whenever an individual voices their opinion on the future and that image involves another, the automatic response is one of shock. You simply left this man with no time to develop a response. If the question continues he will become distant. You have confirmed your feelings towards him now let him think. Your friendship has a lot to go before it can become defined and mutual, as in a romantic relationship. My advice to you is to continue the friendship (if possible) but slow down a little now; he already knows how you feel. Try not to give this man an ultimatum.

It's been a couple of months since my ex broke up with me. We ended things because we both couldn't handle the stress of school and it led to a lot of petty arguments. We are each others first loves. Can you please give me a better understanding of how he is feeling and if we are going to get back together in the future? -Denisse
Essentially he is wondering the same thing. If the response is anger or jealousy it can be a deal breaker (some times people get turned off by the expression of insecurity). I feel strongly that you and he should wish each other the best and encourage each other; if you and he make this a comfortable transition it can make things stronger between you and he and allow the relationship evolve with your chosen subject. If the relationship becomes a distraction to study it will end. If the relationship offers security and trust it will continue and become very strong. You and he are both going through the symptoms of separation anxiety; because of the prospect you already miss each other. You and he love each other in a way that shows me you will succeed. It will not be very easy for either of you, however, true love is the strongest force in the universe.

I dated this guy for about a year and then we broke up. After the breakup many things did not change but I could tell that there was somebody else. A couple of weeks ago I found out that he is in a new relationship. I cannot keep this guy off my mind and I feel like me and him will have another chance to be together even though he is in a relationship now. Can you tell me if we will end up back together or if I should just move on? I need some peace of mind! -Gabby
I do not feel this man sees the future as you do. He right now is dating and does not want to be committed to any one relationship. If you and he can maintain a friendship it will give you and he the opportunity to get to know each other better. I feel very strongly that this man has a career in mind before committing to anyone. Within five months you will see a big change in him and he will begin to take the future in serious way. You will find that this man seeks you out; however, right now he does not feel he has anything to offer a relationship (the jumping from one relationship to another is only an expression of immaturity). The next few months will also be a time of growth for you, what you desire will not be hard to obtain.

Love Questions: Posted May 19th, 2014

My ex and I broke up two months ago, I have been annoying him because I can't handle it. He has told me we are done for good and he does not want a relationship but in my gut I feel it can't really be over. We were together 3 years and broke up due to fighting. Will he come back? -Morgan
It would be wise for you to take him at his word; in an evolving relationship it does take two. As I have mentioned in previous questions, it is extremely important to allow another person to walk away if they feel the need. It is very wrong and not fair to assume another persons desires. I feel strongly that he does not want the fighting to continue for a lot of reasons (the legal consequences of domestic violence, being primary on his mind). This man also cares for you, as you do for him and he realizes this. There is one specific issue that refuses to be ignored, if this issue is not dealt with it is most likely over for you and he; the issue was not important to your relationship in the beginning however, now it is primary. After a time out for both of you, you and he will find each other and be able to talk to each other. Your relationship will have one more chance and this time if not pursued in an adult way, it will fade away as you and he remember (if there are no barriers) you and he will succeed, if so or not dealt with you and he are looking at problems, and I am sure neither one of you want that. The key is learning to enjoy each other and to listen to each other.

Bob and I have been together for 13 years but for the past 2 years have been very far apart. He says he still loves me and always will. Do you ever see us back together? He says that the times with me were the best he ever had. He is married but not in love with her, I think it’s because of the money and he is afraid she will take it all and leave him with nothing; she’s even told him as much. Please tell me if there’s a chance for us. Thank you. -Bettie
Love is beautiful and to be in love feels great however, love does not pay the bills. I have no doubt that you and this man love each other (you and he have been in romance for a long time) but you have not progressed in to reality; you have had no need. The reality of the situation is that he has a wife who is no fool and she will remove him from his children and his financial stability which he does know this and he always has. You have been accepting of his situation and he will expect this to continue. He will not leave his wife (and he is the one holding on). This is very unfair to you and will lead to heartbreak. Whether he wants to or not, he will have to pay for the consequences of his actions and this will happen very soon. Be sure he does not blame you for every thing; he will blame you for every thing. If you stick to each other you will find yourself together however, the party is over. It is best to let him take care of his own problems. One thing that is for sure people separate and divorce all the time but if there is another woman or man involved people will get very upset and mad, as she is with him. The hurt she is going through is becoming anger; It would be best for you to not get involved more then you already are.

I have been in love with this guy for three years now and I can't stop thinking about him. It’s starting to drive crazy. He says he loves me too. Will we ever be together even though we are miles and miles apart? Will be happy together? -Diona
One thing about a long distance situation is that they are very romantic and tend to reflect the ideal (only the best information). I do feel this man does love you in his way and his affection is growing day by day. It is easy to create romantic fantasy and excitement when you are at a distance. I feel strongly that you and he will meet up in the next few weeks; you will find he is genuine in his affection for you is very real. You and this man can enter realistic love very quickly. This love can cause great heartache or it can be an opportunity for you and he to be happy. To prepare for the future you need to be sure there are no barriers and that he is thinking as you are about the relationship. A lot of people stay in long distance relationships until they meet up with each other then feelings change (reality can be intimidating or give you substance to work with). I feel strongly that you and he will like each other very much and I do not perceive deception. Only remember long distance relationships can be very frustrating and expensive. Have fun and enjoy your developing relationship. Genuine love has a way of bringing people together and solving problematic issues; If it is real, and in your case I feel very strongly it is.

Love Questions: Posted May 12th, 2014

Will I ever fall in love one day? I had a dream a few nights ago of being in a relationship with this really great guy and he was so protective of me in the dream, I want to know if that dream is an indication of the future. I have had this dream 3 or 4 times now in the past year. -Sarah
The dream is dealing with a tendency to see protectiveness as an indication of love. The only thing about protectiveness is that it has a way of getting out of hand or exaggerated and there is a fine line in between concern and suspicion. You being a modern woman, it is important that you find yourself and do not let another define your moves or way of thinking. I feel strongly that your father was loving yet an authoritarian. There is nothing wrong with remembering lessons from the past, however, apply them to your personal self; get to know yourself a bit better. Within the next month you will know who the person in your future is, you will also feel things are moving very quickly.

I’ve known this guy for 7 years and we expressed our feelings for each other in 2009. We have had our share of problems and misunderstandings. I now realize that I subconsciously loved him deeply and so did he probably, but I never realized it for a long time. We did not decide to get married because of our different career goals and future plans. Six months back I got to know that he has been communicating with another girl who was introduced to him by his family for over a year ago. He said he can't do much because he has committed to her parents and his family regarding marrying her. In essence, he cheated on me by not mentioning this earlier. In retrospect I feel that if he had confessed this earlier, I would have realized my own feelings and might have been able to convince him to be together. I still love him very very deeply, and I am ready to sacrifice whatever I need to in order to be with him and also forgive him. But the current situation suggests that he may go ahead and marry her. Do you see any chance of us being together? What advice do you have for me? -Lakshimi
You and this man do love each other, however you have developed your friendship to an extremely high and very personal level. I do not feel that he is intentionally doing anything to hurt you; he is trying to be very honest with you I advise you to not interfere with his life or marriage plans. Within four months he will attempt to get close to you again. In the beginning it was very easy to open up to each other, now because of developed feelings it is not so easy. He does understand your feeling and has no desire to cause you confusion. The best thing is to wait and let nature take its course. You will talk and clarify things, however it will take a few months.

I have been in an up and down relationship for three years come October. I love this man with all my heart but I am scared he is being unfaithful and hiding things from me. He doesn't love me the way he used to and I love him more than I have ever loved anyone. I don’t get why he is so cold and what I can do to change it. He gets really, really mean and hateful with me a lot and then the next day or hour or week he can be the sweetest thing on earth. I really need insight on what's going on and what I can do to make him love me again and treat me the way he used to. -Emily
He is very scared that you will leave him however, while you are trying to figure out his back and forth behavior he knows you will not do anything until you understand why he acts the way he does. Suspicion and insecurity is being unsure about the next move. I do not feel he is cheating on you but he may want you to think that or be grasping or see if you will be. This is a very immature relationship and will end up hurting you deeply if things do not change quickly. You and he should always wish each other the best, but do not take to much on yourself, it takes two to tango.

Love Questions: Posted May 5th, 2014

I have been married to "M" for 21 years and together we have 2 children. We have not had the happiest marriage. In the last 5 years, he has told me 3 times that he does not love me and wants a divorce only to "take it back" a few weeks later; I've lost trust in him as a result. We have been to counseling several times and never seem to be able to resolve things. He is very self-centered and seems to think that everything should focus around him and his needs, even over the kids. I recently met someone at my work and am so confused by the feelings I've experienced from the moment I met him. He is not overly flirtatious, but he makes my ears ring and my heart pound whenever he is near, which I notice is far more often than necessary. He passes through my work area for no apparent reason several times a day but is so shy that he won't speak to me unless I speak to him first. This guy, "C" is everything my husband is not. I could talk to "C" for hours and my husband acts like having to listen to me talk is a torturous burden. I haven't ventured for divorce because I worry about how I will raise 2 kids on my own, but I don't know how much longer I can live like this. Is my marriage headed for divorce and will I soon get to finally realize what it is like to be really cared for, hopefully by "C"? -Tishida 
What you are saying is extremely unfair to all concerned. I feel that this man likes you, as do a lot of people. But please try not to project your feelings and marital situation on this man. He is a very nice individual and you have been aware of this for a long time; however, you can not depend on this man to escape your current situation, this would be unfair to him, you, and your husband. To avoid problems I advise you to work on your marriage, it is entirely possible. But as far as a relationship or affair; it is out of the scenario.

A guy that was in my Reserves unit with me for 2 years and I begun dating last fall. In the beginning of this dating period, our chemistry took my breath away, literally. I felt a spark with him I never felt with other men. There were times where I thought he could be reading my mind, especially those mornings when I would think to myself, "I should call him" and later that day, an email would pop up from him. Unfortunately, a vacation seemed to break what we had going, as well as work stress and holiday stress and he broke up with me. I was devastated. The fact that he didn't want to see me anymore and didn't see a future with me made me feel disenchanted by love and romance because I did see a future with him. I didn't want to talk to him after that, but I ended up connecting with him as friends through email. When I realized I was initiating most of the correspondence, and that my motives were really for a second chance at things, I stopped emailing. I wonder if I will feel this kind of bond with a guy again, or if I missed out on a chance at real love. I'm still mourning the loss of our short-lived companionship. -Cindy
You and this man have a lot in common; it is a natural occurrence to feel a strong connection. You and he have made important choices in your lives and essentially can identify with each others feelings with in your current situation. On a long term basis or possibly your and his roots in life, I feel are very different. The deep friendship has been thrust into the future, and this is why he is so spontaneous in his communication. Things have developed very quickly, and he does feel very strongly toward you. You and also he will reenter this deep friendship, however take things slowly and allow things to mature naturally. Take the time to listen to each other. I do not feel it is about another woman or some sort of barrier, it is only the timing. Try to not take a relationship so seriously, concentrate on establishing happy memories. Once you and he take time to really talk you will see it is not about you or your deep feelings; you will hear from him, his definition of your situation once you allow it.

I dated one of my exes for three years and after we broke up he got married within three months. I started to date for few months until I met this new guy and he helped completely erased my ex of my life, however we have been going back and forth. He recently is recovering and is not in a right state of mind (at least I would like to think that myself), I was there when everyone else walked out of his life. Once he regained control of his life and friends, I became his last priority. He started to undermined me, ignore me, and completely stopped talking to me, at times it felt like the world could fall apart but as long as we had each other we knew it was going to be ok. He told me he will always be my friend and thanked me for everything I did for him. It’s been a year and I continue to go back and forth with him. I don’t understand how he can have that much grip on me, if he release me from a painful situation for someone I dated for 3 years why cant I l let go of him? I know I love him and something tells me he loves me too. He is stubborn and selfish but he has my heart. Will we get ever back together? -Maria
You and he have realized that you are friends, very good friends, and even though the romantic relationship did not work; it does not mean the spiritual bond is broken (you and he are highly aware of each others situation in life). You know each other better then most people do. A lot of people misunderstand spiritual bonding. We have several bondings not only one. It is only that when you are close to another as a wife, husband, or a child, a person can put a human condition to the bonding (most people do not even realize it; until they are away or gone). You and this man will always be good friends and I know you are both disappointed about your relationship with each other, but such is life. Even though you and he should depend on your spouses to fulfill the relationship; in other words enjoy the friendship with your spouses, because I assure you they will. As far as your ex, trying to develop a romantic relationship again would be a big mistake; if you and he can handle like adults, a friendship, more power to you, however it may cause problems with your spouses. I would advise not to start something that must remain a secret; may be in high school but not in a marriage; marriages are sacred and should not be played with. In other words do not break your promise to higher power, or God; it is not a good thing.

 

Love Questions: Posted April 28th, 2014

I have deep feelings for a woman I work with named Brenda. Ii’ve felt this way for a long time but we are both married. I am frustrated with my marriage; not because of Brenda though. I do not see this as wanting an affair, but feel something more for her than I have ever felt. I look into her eyes and feel something. We enjoy each other's company when we have gone to lunch or have a drink. I have no idea how she feels for me, or if there is an interest with an old fool. I have tried to hide my feelings but it is very hard to do. -Tom
Everybody likes a compliment; there is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone. We as human beings have an abundance of strong and intense feelings, we are supposed to. However, we have an attraction to fire, water, tornadoes and the snow, but we do not run into fire. We will not go into deep water for very long. Tornadoes are very interesting, but you don’t want one in your back yard. What I mean is, we are attracted to a lot of things. Curiosity and interest are what created modern man. People have also developed control; avoiding things that will eventually bring harm to us or harm to our families. I do feel the attraction is genuine and mutual, however, so is the chance that you may hurt a person or people you care about and love. Now, I know you do not want that. Individuals who desire an affair will find a way to do it if they want. If you entertain this thought it will be something that will grow to the point of causing great hurt and a lot of problems. People can work around others and create a happy work environment, or flirt and be distracting. It is a bad idea all around that will reflect on your career and destroy your personal life (this applies to her also). You are bringing your personal issues to the work place (very bad idea). My advise is to leave it alone and work on your marriage; you will receive a great reward.

Recently I've been feeling like I've had 7 years bad luck, especially in regards to men and relationships. I feel like I'm a great catch but I deserve what I want and I don't want to settle. I was married for 2 years and it didn't work at all. I've been single since he and I split up 4 years ago. Recently I was involved with someone who I had good chemistry with. Unfortunately, he ended things but I still want to be with him. Will he and I ever reconnect and will I ever meet someone I may eventually marry? -Chae
In your case you are a very defined woman and you will only see growth and progress by commitment. It is okay to want this in your life but it does take time. Try not to project your feelings about your ex on another person. Within the next four months you will be in a deep friendship that can become a lot more. Whether this will last or not depends on your ability to deal with the past. You are a very nice person and will never be without friends, but you will find that most men will not enter a relationship unless it is new and open. It is really up to you. The chance you are looking for will arrive very soon.

I have very deep feelings for a man that I met while I was working in Manhattan. His name is Jon and he was the head of the security at the hotel I stayed at. I’m not sure why this man as touched me so deeply. He is married and a Jehovah Witness. You can look at him and see that he is not a happy man and there is so much in there to give. We had a very strange connection, Jon doesn't smile not often and not a real smile. But I got the real smile! There was so much I felt he wanted to say but something would always happen to interview with the conversation. I guess I can't say we don't communicate we do it's just different, for a while I thought I was going crazy because it's like he is right next to me or I can hear him call my name. We are friends on Facebook and we watch each other that way; I guess I should say I watch him but I know he watches me too. He is on vacation in FL now and I’m not sure if he is with his wife or why he is there. Does this man really care for me or is this my imagination? Do we have a chance together if I moved to NY? -Kat
I would not make any major moves yet, some people do not like surprises. He will let you know through conversation what is causing him to be unhappy. Right now he enjoying the friendship and in the process developing a loving and good relationship. It is very important to not rush into your conclusions about him. Understand that you and he are seeing the best of each other. I do feel that there is a barrier to a relationship on his side. Please pace your friendship; it is becoming something more. If you are developing romantic feelings for him, I would advise you to let him know; friendships and romantic relationships are very different. I do not feel there is any reason that you should not be truthful about your feelings (he pretty much knows already). The question is will you and he have a working chance; yes.

Love Questions: Posted April 21st, 2014

I was wondering if you could tell me if I would be in a relationship soon. What does my love life have in store for me? -Thuyoanh
My inner voice is indicating that you are already in the beginning phase of gathering energy through prayer or meditation and deep reflection of your place in this world; I feel strongly it is a bit of everything. You are starting to feel the process of yin and yang or positive and negative energy and realizing that one can not exist without the other. For you this is a time of reflection and deep thought. This process is telling you to prepare for activity and gather energy because you are going to need it. The activity phase can be hectic and stressful or it can be a time of feeling good, possessing high energy, and a feeling of being connected to the world. I feel a lot of positive things are entering your life. Financial opportunities and also I feel relationships will be energized and natural; however, whether it is positive or negative is entirely up to you. I do see a lot of happiness around you. Congratulations, your simple question is more telling then anything I have heard for a long time.

I met this man back in 2010 and I fell for him very hard. We're not together anymore but he keeps coming back into my life saying he wants me back and that he loves me. But now there is a problem; he got married in December. He tells me he is coming to be with me. Is it true? Will we be together? I'm so confused. He has let me down more then I can bear. The sad thing is, I want him. I can't get him out of my mind. I thought I was able to move on. I guess not. -Carmela
There is no doubt that he will continue to pursue you, however, is this what you really want? His desire to come in and out of your life is an indication that he is not serious about what is happening with you. Even though the marriage is on the way to failure (it was never taken seriously from the start), you need to realize what is going on with you and he is a fantasy. You really do not know him as well as you think. He will continue to pursue you but he will be going through the process of denial and bargaining. When it all comes falling down for him do you really want to be there to catch him? I think not.

Does my ex still have feelings for me? He got in contact with me recently after 7 months but he has stopped replying again. I just want to know why? -Jane
This situation is caused not by anything you are doing, or not doing; I feel this man loves you a lot and that you and he feel the love for each other. This man wants to be impressing to you, he wants something to offer you. The reason for his appearing and disappearing from your life is simply to hold on to your attention and thoughts. He is only feeling a bit insecure. Within the next four months he will get some wonderful news; something that will give him a view into the future in a very positive way (this is most likely to involve his finances). His first inclination will be to share this good news with you. You will see a more reliable and happy individual, as a result of this I feel you relationship can evolve; I do see that you and he are very good for each other.

Love Questions: Posted April 14th, 2014

I had held out hope for my ex and me, I thought we ALWAYS had something special and that time could stand the test of many things! I’m trying to let go. Right now I think he is with someone who he has been back and forth with for a few years. In those few years he was back and forth with me until recently. We were intimate several times before him saying he enjoyed the sex but there was no love behind it. He didn't say he was in love with the other woman but he is intimate with her! His feelings for her go back and forth and as early as July and he was with few other women! He is also bipolar and medicated but not sure if he is having some break through manic episodes. A few coincidences from before have come out. I guess my question is are we soul mates? He met he fell in live once and gave his heart away along time ago. Are these feelings still there? Is there any chance down the road? Is this woman his soulmate? I'm still walking away as hard as it is so that I can have a chance to live and love myself. I guess I just want to know these answers. -Michelle
It would be very wise to take him at his word. He certainly has feelings for you, but as he has told you there is no love, only physical gratification. You cannot expect this man to feel as you do for several reasons; first and primary is his attempt to deal with his disorder (I feel this is what must be understood). People going through a bipolar disorder (there are a lot of different levels) first must follow doctors orders; prescription, social conditions, and emotional stress. All relationships are stressful, and I feel strongly that the stress and emotional ups and downs are what he is trying to avoid. Remember that it is impossible for a man to fake physical interest. As adults it is very important to define your relationship; what you want and what he wants, either it works or not. If your friendship is only based on sex it will get very boring after a while. I would suggest seeing if you can become friends and find things in common. Be supportive, but if you feel it is only about sex, only you can end it. I also advise you to read up on bipolar disorder so you can better understand his moods and personality better.

I am seeing this guy named Tony. I would like to know if he really likes me and what does the future have in store for us? Do you think he maybe playing with my feelings? Should find someone else or I should be patiently waiting for him? Thanks so much for your advice and may God bless you and me. -Aidinha
I feel that his feeling are real he is falling in love with you. I do also feel strongly that the playing with feelings should not be an issue. At this mans age he is not playing games he really does like you. The time for games is over, there is no motivation or desire to be deceptive with you. At this point in your lives, you are both very defined in your ways and actions and I advise you and he to have fun and establish happy memories with each other and you most certainly will. You will be sure about him in a very short time. If there are no barriers to the time you spend with each other (no other relationships) you will evolve with each other, however do not look into the future too far, not now, you will scare each other away.

I've been involved with a man for almost 3 years. For the past year he's been talking marriage. Can I expect a ring anytime soon or is it just talk? -Melissa
This is a man who likes surprises and he very much enjoys seeing you smile and laugh. He also knows you are contemplating this question. To him you have made him very happy and this has lasted and continues. He only wants you to be happy and he does see you as a happy individual; in other words he feels the time is right and will formally propose around spring. You and he have found love with each other and I feel very strongly that it will last and evolve. The process of being with each other is very enjoyable to each of you and I do see a happy future with each other.

 

Love Questions: Posted April 7th, 2014

I am 26 and never been in a real relationship. My parents are currently going through a divorce and I feel like this makes it even harder for me to open up and trust other people. When will I meet the guy that is meant for me? Have I already met him? -NH
You have been in a position to observe and feel the changes through a timeline; being directly involved (as a part of the family) in a divorce effects all, as you know. This is really not fair to you. Relationships are serious, they effect all parts of life. I feel strongly that you have been very aware and very conscious about the dynamics of a relationship. I also feel strongly that the study, if not already, will become a part of your professional life. Before a true relationship can begin, people must first become friends and the compatibility either works or it does not. By this time next year you will be involved with an individual who feels the same as you; if you and he take pleasure in everyday and being with each other you can evolve with each other. You must be sure there are no barriers to avoid uncomfortable issues. I do see your destiny as being in a committed and happy relationship, however allow things to evolve naturally.

I have a long distance relationship going on with a US Marine deployed to Afghanistan. I would like to know if he is 100% for real or just been playing me. If he is for real, where will our relationship go? If not, is he planning on breaking it off with me tomorrow or when? I want a real true love instead of being alone. He says we're soul mates; but I wonder. I am so confused and don't know what to do. I would give anything to be prepared for the worst, so if and when it happens I will know how to handle it and know exactly what to say so that I will be the one walking away with my head up with pride and him regretting it. -Nanette
In your position and his also you both have a lot of time to think about each other and your personal situation in life. It would be advisable for you to see the situation as a mirror; what I mean is that you and also he are working with the same memories, conversations and plans. Remember that you need to meet up with each other to get to know each other better. My feeling is that you will find even more compatibilities with each other and like each other very much however, do not make the mistake of looking into the future to far or quickly.

Is my boyfriend of 6 years talking or seeing another woman? -Angela
I do not feel he is actually cheating on you, however, I do feel that he wants you to think that or see if jealousy is still there. I sense that your relationship has progressed to point of reality. What I mean is that you have both reached a point where you are going to continue as a couple or fade away from each other. Maintaining a suspicion or jealousy will keep a relationship from entering reality and some people like things that way. If this has been a part of a long term relationship something is very wrong. If a new relationship is the issue it simply means he has no idea what to say. Just remember jealousy or creation of jealousy is an action of a very insecure individual. If the jealousy is not resolved it could get some one in a lot of trouble. If it can not be resolved it is time to say goodbye.

 

Love Questions: Posted March 31st, 2014

My ex and I have been divorced for nearly 2 years but we communicate a few times a week. He remarried an old high school girlfriend who never was and still is not a good match. She believes in alcohol and party time. This is the third marriage she has broken up. Do you see them staying together for eternity? Do you see him "waking up" and seeing that she was all about the party and the money she could coerce him to get? He cashed in his IRA and Roth to have a good time. He could never look me in the eye and talk to me and just left. He carries much guilt and I do believe remorse. How long do you think this relationship between them can last? Is there any hope for us to get back together and work this out? We were happily married, or so I thought, for 32 years. I hope you can answer this for me as I can't seem to get this out of my mind. -Deb
You are very much in love with this man and you do not see the actual situation; it is not her fault that he has wondered. He understands this woman and has very much in common with her. I do not see a committed situation in their future but they both are satisfied with each other. From the way he communicates with you and his assurance of your feelings for him, he will definitely make an attempt to reunite with you. The only way it will work is if you and he get back to the point of wanting to retake your vows, but you will find the same issues, these issues must be dealt with and put into the past or they will return. I really do not feel that he desires a marriage at this time and right now he does not have a desire to part with this other woman. He does love you and you and he will always be connected and he is very much holding on to you. If you think about it, he would not tell you about this other woman and their situation if he did not want you to hold on to him also.

I have been single for 7+ years and devoting my life to my children. I am tired of being alone. When will I find someone to spend the rest of my life with that will be a wonderful male role model for my children? -J.
Within the next four months you will find that you do not feel exactly the way you do now. However, I suggest that you look back into a subject that you had great interest in and aspirations about being a success at; you can reestablish your incentive in this interest and this time take your time to accomplish what you want. You are going to find that you make a lot of friends that share your interest, men and woman. Through a female friend you are going to meet an individual who shares your interest and your situation in life. I feel this man is single and available but not really used to the dating scene. He has spent the last few years as you, raising children (a single father). You and this man will have a lot in common, age, children, and your common interest, this friendship I feel has great potential for success; just remember to take things slowly. Around the same time you reestablish you interest and become actively involved you will also meet an individual through one of your children, he will also be a single father with grown children who are out of the home. You will know this man by his voice and his love of baseball. I feel strongly that you will be very happy by how the year progresses.

I had a relationship with a guy and we have been together for 6 years. It has never been a good solid relationship and we both know that we are wanting to move on, so for the last year we have been more off then on. We live in our own homes, but we live right beside each other. We both own our homes and this makes it very difficult to move on. I left the relationship emotionally a long time ago and I am wondering if you see us going our own way in the near future because I am really ready to find a new love and was wondering if you see a new love in my near future and if so will this be the right guy for me? -Kelly
The location of your friends home and your home will not be an issue as long as you are blunt about your feelings or lack of romantic feelings, once this matter is taken care of you will feel a lot better in your outlook towards the future. I can feel that you are a very nice and magnetic woman, you will never have a problem in this area. You will meet another person who will be a good friend to you and he will want to develop a closer relationship. However, if your ex boyfriend is still under the impression that there is something going on with you and he, the new friend will vanish. Three months will be enough time to get back on track.

Love Questions: Posted March 24th, 2014

I have been single for close to 7 years. Do you see this changing anytime soon? My son is growing up and I feel he needs a man in his life, as does my daughter. I am ready for a relationship and have been in contact with an old crush for over a year and there are feelings there, but he lives over 2 hours away. Is this guy just wishful thinking? – Jennifer
Two hours in distance is not much, as to be an issue since your feelings are there. This man feels the same way you do however, he feels he can not express emotions as well as you can. You and he very much enjoy the time you spend with each other and are building up positive memories of each other. The issue of long term plans or marriage will only scare each other away right now. Once a common image of the future is established with each other (naturally) the relationship will evolve to the point where you and he can not see the future with out each other being there. I suggest activity that you share and enjoy, it is activity that will create the relationship you want, the expressive and quit time with each will come naturally; according to the laws of nature. Within a year you and he will be in a structured relationship that will continue to grow (if nurtured). It's OK to feel good and be happy.

The man I love and know to be my soul mate ended our relationship of two years 3 months ago. Some have told me to let go and focus on new love, but I feel in my spirit this is the man destined for me. I believe there is new love interest. I still have faith and believe this is a test of our love. Will this man come back to me and is he serious with another woman? -Stephanie
This is not necessarily your issue, there is a strong attachment you feel and this is very real. It usually takes about thee months to establish any routine, or break a routine. What I mean is that you are certain you and he started or the subject of where or we going, what is in the future plan for us? Is there a plan? It is important to pace ones self in relationships and not look into the future too far; even though the other my feel love also. Looking too far into the future tends to overwhelm most in relationships (a common image should not be rushed, things need time to establish in a common way, naturally). There will be another chance for you two within the next two months (another relationship for him, is not happening but I am sure the implication is intentional; he is holding on to you, not in a malious way but in a way of buying time and holding on to your thoughts). He is only trying to figure out his next move, where your relationship is concerned. You need to get to know each other a lot better and this takes time.

I broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years, six weeks ago because he had become distant and I found out that he had been spending time with his ex-girlfriend. I knew they still talked. Now six weeks later I still hurt over this and am upset and depressed all the time. I know that if it wasn't for her, he and I would still be together. Will he ever get over her and if he does will we end up back together? -Jessica
Certain men have a very difficult time handling rejection; if he was at fault for their break up, he will try to change that or the situation that initiated the break up. It is not her fault, he is the one who is doing the pursuing, so try not to blame her or her influence on him. He also likes you very much and has had a lot of fun as you have however, this is close friendship. He is and has for a long time been involved in a serious and realistic relationship. He has not been entirely open to you; this man will continue to communicate with you within the next couple of weeks. He does not know exactly what to say, or where things in his own life are going so it may be difficult to plan ahead. In a few weeks you will be more aware of the situation, more informed and will began to see things differently and more clearly.

Love Questions: Posted March 17th, 2014

My friend and I have been talking for about two years now and I have really developed strong feelings for him. I love him and I am in love with him. I'm not exactly sure how or when to communicate my love and feelings to him because I'm scared of rejection and I'm not sure how he feels but I would love to pursue a relationship with him. Will he and I ever pursue the opportunity to be together in a relationship more than what we have going on now? –Nateasha
He does not want to end the friendship. When a man can express his inner feelings and open up to someone it is a rare thing and feels very good and honest. I feel he does want to establish something more with you but does not want to lose his friend; a lot of times friends can open up with each other more effectively then in a girlfriend/boyfriend situation. He is thinking in the same way that you are. If you create the correct situations to share with each other (movies, concerts, restaurants etc) the book of a relationships will be started. Put shared activities, happy activities in this book, it will grow. The opening up and talking will happen naturally and really does not have to be planned. This man cares about you more then you realize.

I feel I have met my soul mate, but, with that I am in turmoil. We connected on 6/8/13. I approached him. We are both going through a divorce. He is burning hot and cold and driving me nuts. His name is Oscar. Am I wasting my time? –P.
If you are depending on this man to change your life and be the knight in shining armor then you will be disappointed. He is really not in that position. I would advise you and he stop the affair before you get caught because it will complicate both divorces greatly. You can be a support system to each other but that is all. You and he are not in the position to get involved in each others problems at home; when his marriage is ended he will pay a heavy price and he will not be to happy about that and you do not want him to blame you. I do feel you will end up with each other eventually; but as I mentioned you must take care of your own situations as they are very different.

I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. I now truly know that it is over as we had been on and off the past few years and we also have a seven year old daughter together. I have a few questions: the pharmacist I had (or still have) a crush on, what kind of feelings he had for me and will I see him again (when, where?) Also, I just barely met someone I am interested in but it is only the very beginning. Will we become an item and if so when? Are these two people out of the question for a relationship, or is there someone out there I have not met yet? I would like to get married again, have a second child and live a "normal" life. Will this happen? –Marissa
As far as normal life, that is a matter of personal circumstance. Essentially you and your boyfriend of eight years being on and off as you say only means that you and he are in a romantic situation that has lasted for eight years. The child is real and also the love you and he have for the child. I feel you and he are going through the stress of being married without the benefits (legally, mentally, and of course the spiritually). It would be different if you both wanted this; however I feel you don’t. You are a very intelligent and magnetic woman, you will never have a problem with making friends. Committed relationships that work must be taken seriously or they will fail.

Love Questions: Posted March 10th, 2014

I have been happily married now for 5 years. This passed year my husband has been in another state. During this time he's been away I started talking to my ex with whom I was with for 5 years and I'm so confused now. Me and my ex were getting along well and it excited me and we even went as far as almost had sex. The worst is that the night I was with my ex was so powerful the connection when our lips touched was like no other and the strength I wasn't feeling those feelings alone I think. Now I'm confused because I can't stop thinking about him. I want to know why after all this time do I feel this way. I was satisfied until he kissed me and touched me. We haven't spoken since a little after that night. I want to know if he felt what I felt. Does he love me still? What's wrong with me for wanting to feel that passion again and finish what was started and will we get to? I want to feel that feeling again. It was heaven. -Melissa
A loving relationship is rare and when such a relationship fails it promotes disappointment. It is very difficult to except the reality that something that you were so sure about did not work. Most people will learn and become more defined as to what they want and how to get it. Once we as human beings retain our spiritual bondings in life; even if we are away for what ever reason. As adults we evolve to the point of restraining our selves (avoiding things that will harm us or someone we love) it is a part of maturity (for most people). You and this man will always have strong feelings for each other, but it is up to you which path you want to take. Right now you would be thinking of why you married; and the answer is to be unique to each other; and this has several benefits: mentally, spiritually and of course physically. I advise you to think even more. Would you like to be at blame for interrupting an acquired situation? Would you or people you care about be hurt in any way? You are not likely to do something for the moment that will effect your entire future. In your actions I feel you will restrain yourself. I feel strongly that you will realize this; and also the this other man will continue to pursue you (if you don’t do something about it) this does have the potential of harming the wrong people. In your contemplation you will realize that working on the marriage is what is needed.

I have been involved with a man for about a year now. Though at first we both looked at the relationship as something fun and casual, we fell on love with each other. Recently, he's been dealing with a lot of personal issues and I, although as supportive as can be, have been put on hold. Even more recently, an ex of his has reappeared and they have slept together. Though this pains me to my core, I cannot help but feel like him and I are meant to be together. Since he told me of the ex, I haven't contacted him, but I miss him dearly. Have I deluded myself into thinking he is the one for me or is this something that can grow? -Kiki
Relationships are supposed to be fun and enjoyable; however this leads to reality (do we have a chance, could it work, does he feel the same way?). I feel you and he are very compatible on a romantic level, but it is the future together that you and he may see differently. He is attempting to repair something from the past; and is caught up in the past, where you and he are concerned, it would be advisable to know each other better. He has not communicated with you because he does not know what to say. Not communicating with you is essentially holding on to you, and your interest. This man will make an attempt to get close to you, however if this attempt is not soon you will began to think differently.

I'm so unsure about what to do in my relationship right now. Should I move on or should I try to fix it with my ex? I keep talking to the wrong guys and I'm not sure if I will ever that 'one person' that will also be the last. Im not made for 'keep dating til you find the one' because I go in too deep. What should I do? -Jotishna
Your Destiny is to be in a committed long term relationship; when the time is right. I understand that you have a love for your ex, and he does for you, this will be the case for the foreseeable future. However, there must be a commonly established image of the future together, sometimes it happens quickly some times not at all; at times it will take a long time to be established. One thing that will disrupt this process is looking too far into the future too quickly or only from one side. I feel that you and your ex will have another chance, however, issues must dealt with or they will reemerge stronger then before. You will be increasingly interested in a subject that was not perused before; the man in your destiny will be a part of this interest and your enjoyment and knowledge will grow, as the common image of the future, which will be a natural process.

Love Questions: Posted March 3rd, 2014

I'm writing to ask when will me and my ex Jeffery get back together? Will it be soon? I need to know. When will he leave his new girlfriend? Thanks. -Ashley
He coincides himself to be in a relationship with her; you are his girlfriend (believe it or not some men like things that way). His relationship issues are occurring because of uncertainty about his own direction; he is becoming very aware that it is fairly impossible to maintain two different relationships. His hesitance to be defined in a relationship is why his intentions where you and he are concerned are extremely vague, he really does not know where things are going. This man will attempt to continue seeing you, however, at this time, he is into the hear and now and you will see more and more each day how unfair this is to you.

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year. I cannot even get him to speak to me. Will he ever speak to me and will we ever get back together? -Aleah
Most people when they are in love develop a sense of surrender towards the object of their affection as he has. A sense of trust must be established if your relationship is going to evolve. I feel very strongly that you and he are in the process of going from romantic love to realistic love (realistic love does not mean the romance is gone; it only means that a person gets to the point of not seeing the future, with out the other being there). In this phase feelings get hurt very easily and a small things seem gigantic. I feel he does miss you and sharing time together. If this issue has to do with jealousy, I do not feel it will work. He is holding on to you for a reason (this is what the non-communication is all about) he cannot say that he does not like you anymore, because he does; he only feels hurt and desires solitude. I also feel that you and he will communicate within two months and this conversation will be the key. One thing to remember is that this break up has taken your relationship to a higher level. He will attempt to contact you but not in a personal way; it will be regarding a project that you share interest in. You and he will have one more chance. He does miss you as much as you mis him; even though he is not communicating with you he does miss your voice.

I recently started thinking about an ex. We haven't spoken in over 6 months. I am trying to figure out why all of a sudden he's constantly on my mind. Clearly if he were thinking of me he would have called. Is there something I should know or are these thoughts signs to contact him? -Trice
Just like you he is disappointed that the relationship did not work. It is a very natural thing to think about the past (resent and distant) and see solutions instead of pure emotion. I feel he would see an attempt to contact him as path to friendship; on his mind you and he entered a romantic relationship not a friendship. I do also feel that he would take the desire to be only friends not too well. He feels the break up was the end of the world for you. Right now he would take this as an insult. I feel that contact would go a long way towards repairing your situation with each other, but not now, it is still too early. Allow the thoughts to remain. I guarantee he is thinking about you also; and I also suggest you allow him to make the attempt, and he will.

Should I save my relationship with my husband? We live together but we fight so much we have two beautyful daughters. But lately he's been very cold. Not that he's always out but he doesn't show me to much love. -Vivian 07//86

 I started dating this guy back in November of 2013. We had about 11 great dates, and then suddenly he said a few things that I found rude so I addressed the matter. He was angry because I kept the issue from him for three days, which happened to be over the Christmas holiday. He decided that we needed to take a 6-day break of no contact. He contacted me again on new years day, however, after that we were both a little on edge with one another, more so on my part. Two weeks later we had plans to see each other, but he canceled saying he had something to do for work. I found this strange considering the last two dates we had, either he was angry with me, or he was just off. I asked him if I would get in his way of work and if he wanted to continue our relationship and he said he did not. The next day I implored that we try once more to see if he would regain the spark. We both agreed, however, over the next two weeks it was somewhat of an emotional roller coaster and he finally broke it off saying he did not feel comfortable being friends knowing that I wanted more than he did, which was on January 28th 2014. Two weeks later I wished him a Happy Valentines Day to which he responded to positively. The following two days I attempted to either make small talk or to see if he would at least tell me why he wanted to break it off. He responded to the small talk, but with short answers, then he asked me to please stop when I asked about why he ended it. I did the 30 days of no contact, then tried texting him to make small talk once more, but he did not reply. This was one week ago. Will he ever return? –Lisnel 09//89
I feel that he will contact you by phone, when he dose ( I would say 2 months, or within that time ). You and he have been playing house, and expect the same kind of relationship as married couples have, husbands can not just walk away when things don’t go there way, the act carries more consequences. This can be a loss to everyone involved. You are going through all of the stress of being married, with non of the benefits. I am certain you will think differently.
 

I have been with my boyfriend since I was 18 until 22; I admit i treated him wrong sometimes by calling him names and hurting him verbally. He started a new relationship while we were still together, he tells me that I made him feel unloved & unwanted so I guess he went searching for someone to fill in the spot I was making him feel empty in. I have expressed to the best I canthat i apologize forever hurting him from the bottom of my heart & I love him & want us back together. Do you think we will ever be back together, we been through so much together, he is my 1st & I am his 1st? I can't seem to continue my life without crying every day missing him & him giving another girl my love. –Ebony 01//92
A person just out of a long term relationship, will not fall in love again so soon, but a person that needs a place to stay will. He does not have you reinforcing love for him, he has no doubt you love him and are going through hurt in a lot of ways, you most likely let him know. I do not feelhe is going to change, and you will always never be able to trust him again, the way things look he did you a favor.   

I have been friends with Jono  DOB April  1986 for over 6 yrs. In the past couple months we took our friendship to the level of having sex with each other but no relationship beyond friends. I have developed very strong feelings for him and would like to get into a committed relationship with him but not sure if he feels the same. For a few weeks I felt he had feelings for me as well but recently he's been pulling away some. Could you please tell me if he has feelings for me and if there is any chance we will become more then just friends and if so how soon will this happen? –Gwendolyn 07//70

 This type of situation happens a lot, you had a relationship when he was getting sex and you classified your relationship as friend. Friends do not have an obligation and a responsibility

to a relationship.  He feels he tried and is not happy, as you do at this time. If he makes an effort to rectify the relationship may start again. A relationship takes two to happen. It is impossible to not develop feelings when you are so close, but what you do with those feelings is another story. The relationship has lasted a while, it will take time to heal..

About 6 months ago my boyfriend of 3 year broke up with me for another girl. I was extremely depressed but then a few weeks ago i met this new guy, we are dating and I really have strong feelings for him and he says he does for me as well, but he also got out of a 3 year relationship and his ex has also moved on like my ex did. I’m just scared of being hurt again. I really like this new guy I’m with and so I want to know how long him and I will last? –Sam 10//95

Since you are aware of what the dynamics of you relation are, you do have the capacity to make a new relationship last. He is also aware of the rebound effect. I feel you and he can work out and do not let a past relationships that you were both in effect the present. As long as it is a growing and nurturing one, I see you and he smiling having fun together. How long it will last is up to you and he, but I do see you and he together for a very long time…

Hello, My boyfriend of three years broke off with me in December. I love him and find it difficult to move on as i still hope things will change. i tried everything possible to get back but he says he doesn't love me anymore. I don't know if he like someone else? We had decided to get married once we had settled down. I am torn apart and find it very difficult to even concentrate on anything and break down more than often. Should I wait for him? I tried talking to others but my instinct says that my ex is the only person I can spend the rest of my life with. –Rizzy 06//88

I feel strongly that you and he tried but, something went wrong. Sometimes relationships do not work or, people find they have lives that do not correspond. I do feel he is trying to be honest. You do not see the situation as it  is. There is information that he will not share with you, because it would change your opinion. 

When will my boyfriend be allowed to come home? –Kelly
03//86                                                                                                                                                  
I can see that he will be home within a year, I feel you and he should start to find your relationship again. As you will define the relationship by its activity and common interest. I see you  accomplishing a lot, within a year leading to a financial wind fall  and possibly a life time of security leading you to happy life. 


I started dating this guy back in November of 2013. We had about 11 great dates, and then suddenly he said a few things that I found rude so I addressed the matter. He was angry because I kept the issue from him for three days, which happened to be over the Christmas holiday. He decided that we needed to take a 6-day break of no contact. He contacted me again on new years day, however, after that we were both a little on edge with one another, more so on my part. Two weeks later we had plans to see each other, but he canceled saying he had something to do for work. I found this strange considering the last two dates we had, either he was angry with me, or he was just off. I asked him if I would get in his way of work and if he wanted to continue our relationship and he said he did not. The next day I implored that we try once more to see if he would regain the spark. We both agreed, however, over the next two weeks it was somewhat of an emotional roller coaster and he finally broke it off saying he did not feel comfortable being friends knowing that I wanted more than he did, which was on January 28th 2014. Two weeks later I wished him a Happy Valentines Day to which he responded to positively. The following two days I attempted to either make small talk or to see if he would at least tell me why he wanted to break it off. He responded to the small talk, but with short answers, then he asked me to please stop when I asked about why he ended it. I did the 30 days of no contact, then tried texting him to make small talk once more, but he did not reply. This was one week ago. Will he ever return? –Lisnel 09//89
I feel that he will contact you by phone, when he dose ( I would say 2 months, or within that time ). You and he have been playing house, and expect the same kind of relationship as married couples have, husbands can’t just walk away when things don’t go there way, the act carries more consequences. This can be a loss to everyone involved. You are going through all of the stress of being married, with none of the benefits. I am certain you will think differently. 

I have been with my boyfriend since I was 18 until 22; I admit i treated him wrong sometimes by calling him names and hurting him verbally. He started a new relationship while we were still together, he tells me that I made him feel unloved & unwanted so I guess he went searching for someone to fill in the spot I was making him feel empty in. I have expressed to the best I can that i apologize forever hurting him from the bottom of my heart & I love him & want us back together. Do you think we will ever be back together, we been through so much together, he is my 1st & I am his 1st? I can't seem to continue my life without crying every day missing him & him giving another girl my love. –Ebony 01//92

A person just out of a long term relationship, will not fall in love again so soon, but a person that needs a place to stay will. He does not have you reinforcing love for him, he has no dough you love him and are going through hurt in a lot of ways, you most likely let him know. I do not feel he is going to change, and you will always never be able to trust him again, the way things look he did you a favor. 

I have been friends with J.  DOB April  1986 for over 6 yrs. In the past couple months we took our friendship to the level of having sex with each other but no relationship beyond friends. I have developed very strong feelings for him and would like to get into a committed relationship with him but not sure if he feels the same. For a few weeks I felt he had feelings for me as well but recently he's been pulling away some. Could you please tell me if he has feelings for me and if there is any chance we will become more then just friends and if so how soon will this happen? –Gwendolyn 07//70

This type of situation happens a lot, you had a relationship when he was getting sex and you classified your relationship as friend. Friends do not have an obligation and a responsibility

to a relationship.  He feels he tried and is not happy, as you do at this time. If he makes an effort to rectify the relationship may start again. A relationship takes two to happen. It is impossible to not develop feelings when you are so close, but what you do with those feelings is another story. The relationship has lasted a while, it will take time to heal..


Will me and my boyfriend J. make amends or get back together? –Mika 08/18/77
I feel that yes, it is possible but, I don’t know if you or he wants to enough or are certain about it. As far as making a mends, you will get the chance. It appears that you and he have started to be super conscious of each other and your feelings toward each other, you were starting to look at each other, or read each other for the next move. After a confrontation you parted. I still feel love between you and he but, neither one of you have an explanation. It seems as if your personalities were depending on the other actions to confirm the way you and he, feels about each other. He will attempt to ignore you, if you do not contact him at all; e-mail, phone, letters, he will contact you; as he feels the same and cars for you. Give the no contact a chance to work but do not even talk about marriage, you and he must get along first, and above all else trust each other.  
   

Hello. I would like to know if D. will be coming back into my life? I also want to know if he will be moving into my home to live with me? Please let me know. I really am hurting over this. Thank you. –Toni 08/29/74

I feel he wanted to see what being apart would do to all concerned. He knows there are lot of feelings involved and and a commitment, he is not made a determination yet, he will call you when he misses home. He figures you are hurt and angry about what he has done or did not do, simply upset and feeling alone. He will contact you in about three days. And that is the time to talk and see how the other feels. I do feel he loves you, as you do he.

I had a short relationship with a younger Virgo last year. It was mostly sexual. For some reason I cannot stop thinking about him. I really fell hard for him. We stopped seeing each other due to a misunderstanding. Do you see him coming back at all? –Betty 05/02/71
I do see you running into him. He will be glad to see you, but he won’t put it into words he will show you by action; Virgos have a way of showing a person how they feel but, rarely put it into words. He does not realize how you feel, first you must let him know your feelings about being apart; you will know then. Some encounters can be intense, even a brief one. People often don't talk enough or let the other know. You will run into him soon...

 

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